Muurian:


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Relationships are hectic affairs and quite consuming. It could drive and keep your positive energy at it's peak constantly if you meet someone of like drives. It could also sap you of all your happiness, leave you drained and struggling to breath.

Whichever way, relationships are usually what the individuals makes of it. It's advisable to get to know someone first before proposing relationship to them. This is mostly due to the fact that you don't know their past relationship lives, and most people won't tell you because no one wants to be the bad guy of the relationship that didn't work. Like it or not, past relationships are exactly what will be used to judge your relationship with them.

Here are five reasons why a lot of decent people prefer to stay single this days.

1) Choice:

Obviously, the decision to be in a relationship ultimately lies with the individual. The individual can decide that relationships are not for them at any given point in time.

What this entails is that, the individual can choose to date or remain single, even if there are one billion admirers seeking for entrance into their life.

2) Self Awareness:

Some people know their worth and take it serious. Because this individuals actually recognize their value and worth, dating becomes restricted to people of like minds.

This doesn't necessarily mean that the individual in question is extravagantly rich or a billionaire. Realising your self worth here means the ability to decide that you are not going to jump into any relationship just because the other person told you they admire you and will like to be your friend.

Being aware of yourself will help your dating decisions. This is one of the reasons why many decent people are single nowadays. Here, the person can tell if the relationship will serve them or not. It is not being selfish.

3) Self Improvement:

The person may have realised his flaws and character fails, and is trying to improve on them. This is mostly because the individual can empathize the reactions their negative side has created in the past, and wouldn't want to subjugate another person to it again.

4) Freedom

Some people just love their personal freedom and don't like people bugging them down with relationship related issues.
This type of people may have had soured relationships in the past or not.

Whichever category, this persons just want to live their life, free as a bird in the moment. Whether or not they will try out dating in the future will totally depend on if it's going to curtail their freedom in any way.

This doesn't mean that they can't compromise a little to accommodate their partner. But, if such accommodation is going to curtail their freedom to live their lives, they will definitely stay away.

5) Not Settling For Less

People who know exactly what they want in a relationship will find it hard to settle for less.

https://uptownerd.com/2021/03/06/5-reasons-why-there-are-so-many-decent-people-who-are-single-nowadays/

What do you think? Are the reasons good enough?

Drop your comments.

talk2hb1:
Someone to care
Someone to share
Lonely hours
And moments of despair
To be loved to be loved
Oh what a feeling
To be loved
Someone to kiss
Someone to miss
When you're away
To hear from each day
To be loved to be loved (to be loved)
Oh what a feeling
To be loved
Some wish to be a king or a queen
Some wish for fortune and fame
But to be truly truly truly loved
Is more than all of these things
Someone to kiss
Someone to miss
When you're away
To hear from each day
To be loved (to be loved)
To be loved (to be loved)
Oh what a feeling
To be loved
To be loved (to be loved)
To be loved (to be loved)
Oh what a feeling
To be loved

Muurian:


•••

Relationships are hectic affairs and quite consuming. It could drive and keep your positive energy at it's peak constantly if you meet someone of like drives. It could also sap you of all your happiness, leave you drained and struggling to breath.

Whichever way, relationships are usually what the individuals makes of it. It's advisable to get to know someone first before proposing relationship to them. This is mostly due to the fact that you don't know their past relationship lives, and most people won't tell you because no one wants to be the bad guy of the relationship that didn't work. Like it or not, past relationships are exactly what will be used to judge your relationship with them.

Here are five reasons why a lot of decent people prefer to stay single this days.

1) Choice:

Obviously, the decision to be in a relationship ultimately lies with the individual. The individual can decide that relationships are not for them at any given point in time.

What this entails is that, the individual can choose to date or remain single, even if there are one billion admirers seeking for entrance into their life.

2) Self Awareness:

Some people know their worth and take it serious. Because this individuals actually recognize their value and worth, dating becomes restricted to people of like minds.

This doesn't necessarily mean that the individual in question is extravagantly rich or a billionaire. Realising your self worth here means the ability to decide that you are not going to jump into any relationship just because the other person told you they admire you and will like to be your friend.

Being aware of yourself will help your dating decisions. This is one of the reasons why many decent people are single nowadays. Here, the person can tell if the relationship will serve them or not. It is not being selfish.

3) Self Improvement:

The person may have realised his flaws and character fails, and is trying to improve on them. This is mostly because the individual can empathize the reactions their negative side has created in the past, and wouldn't want to subjugate another person to it again.

4) Freedom

Some people just love their personal freedom and don't like people bugging them down with relationship related issues.
This type of people may have had soured relationships in the past or not.

Whichever category, this persons just want to live their life, free as a bird in the moment. Whether or not they will try out dating in the future will totally depend on if it's going to curtail their freedom in any way.

This doesn't mean that they can't compromise a little to accommodate their partner. But, if such accommodation is going to curtail their freedom to live their lives, they will definitely stay away.

5) Not Settling For Less

People who know exactly what they want in a relationship will find it hard to settle for less.

https://uptownerd.com/2021/03/06/5-reasons-why-there-are-so-many-decent-people-who-are-single-nowadays/

What do you think? Are the reasons good enough?

Drop your comments.

Lucrativress:

Another is interest and wants
Getting to see someone with similar wants and interests..
And at times decent people are just not in contact with other "decent people" so it's like similar minds don't exist....

tonyson010:


No. 2 and 5 are saying same thing.

"People Sharing same Interest"

One must have realised what he/she wants, before concluding that that is what they want from another person in relationship or anything else they want from another person. It entails knowing urself first. Then knowing how to express urself with others. It is only when u have realised what u want from others, can u say categorically say, it is blue or nothing. When u look closely at someone, he/she doesn't have the attributes, close up.

Muurian:


•••

Relationships are hectic affairs and quite consuming. It could drive and keep your positive energy at it's peak constantly if you meet someone of like drives. It could also sap you of all your happiness, leave you drained and struggling to breath.

Whichever way, relationships are usually what the individuals makes of it. It's advisable to get to know someone first before proposing relationship to them. This is mostly due to the fact that you don't know their past relationship lives, and most people won't tell you because no one wants to be the bad guy of the relationship that didn't work. Like it or not, past relationships are exactly what will be used to judge your relationship with them.

Here are five reasons why a lot of decent people prefer to stay single this days.

Jeon:


1 choice
2 sex
3 fakers
4 lack of trust
5 self improvement

GeneralPula:
Decent man like us..

Nah to go pick one Latina make Baby mama is time don reach..

Parol go don set wella before then!!

GeneralPula:
Decent man like us..

Nah to go pick one Latina make Baby mama is time don reach..

Parol go don set wella before then!!

talk2hb1:
Someone to care Someone to share Lonely hours And moments of despair To be loved to be loved Oh what a feeling To be loved Someone to kiss Someone to miss When you're away To hear from each day To be loved to be loved (to be loved) Oh what a feeling To be loved Some wish to be a king or a queen Some wish for fortune and fame But to be truly truly truly loved Is more than all of these things Someone to kiss Someone to miss When you're away To hear from each day To be loved (to be loved) To be loved (to be loved) Oh what a feeling To be loved To be loved (to be loved) To be loved (to be loved) Oh what a feeling To be loved

GeneralPula:
Decent man like us..
Nah to go pick one Latina make Baby mama is time don reach..
Parol go don set wella before then!!

Angelacruz:
men not man

Michelle55:
Relationship itself is hard work, I doubt if I want to give it a try again. Getting used to my company every passing day.

But truth be told, it's a beautiful thing when you have someone to share your dreams and ideas with and both of you willing to work towards achieving them together.

These days urgent 2k and guys wanting sex in exchange for the monetary help has turned everything upside down.
No one is willing to help each other without ulterior motives.

Some guys and ladies are in the so called relationships just for the benefits or what they might likely gain from each other and once that's achieved, every other thing will crumble.

In summary, the guys goes into one for free and unlimited browsing of her website while the lady does the same for financial purpose(at least she's sure of her rents been paid, gifts been given and lots more)all she needs do is submit toto for browsing at any given time.

GeneralPula:
Decent man like us..

Nah to go pick one Latina make Baby mama is time don reach..

Parol go don set wella before then!!

chronian:
I'm not in a hurry.

pryme:


In other words no commitment, just trying to get by.

Michelle55:

pryme:


You disagree.