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Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by Africanwardrobe(m): 12:39am On Mar 09, 2021
Truvel:
Op, As 4 Ur Phone. To Get It Back, U Av To Use A Trick. U Will Av To Form A C0ck & Bull Story. Hide D Present Phone U Are Using. Tell Are U Av Lost Ur Phone In A Bus Or At Ur Place Of Work. Presently, U Will Need D Phone She Is Using 4 Ur Business Or Job Runs. Tell Her U Are Sorry 4 D Inconvinience.

Na street babe b dz...dz format no go work for am....but ur nickname na 'Mr Smart'

I hail oo!
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by drmikeadams(m): 12:42am On Mar 09, 2021
Daytonbale:
Please sorry for my grammar and long write-up

Good day there is something that is disturbing me and I want to seek for advice here.

There is a girl that am dating we started dating 3 months ago , we love each other she is so amazing I love everything about her, she care about me, and love me too.

she do come to my house but I didn't want to rush her about sex , I only cuddle her, romance her ,kiss her.
Three weeks ago she lost her phone and there was no way I can communicate with her , it's was so disturbing that I have to communicate with her through her sister phone.
So I decided to get her a new phone since she is not working , I bought her the phone and I gave her my spare sim to use for the mean time since she cannot retrieve her Sim due to NCC directive.
But ever since I gave her the phone she change , she like coming to my house with her sister Everytime it's piss me off I told her I don't like it,

Although she came with her sister just once before she lost her phone ,
Now sometimes when I call her with the phone I bought for her she will busy my calls without telling me any reason.
The most Annoying one is that when I ask her to come to my house she will promise to come but she will later fail to come.

She do show my love now but not like before again

Now what should I do , should I collect my phone back or I should I leave the phone for her and cut off the relationship .

please advise me

Note below
Am Christian she is a Muslim I livre in the North


Wimp
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by giancarlo66: 1:18am On Mar 09, 2021
Daytonbale:
Please sorry for my grammar and long write-up

Good day there is something that is disturbing me and I want to seek for advice here.

There is a girl that am dating we started dating 3 months ago , we love each other she is so amazing I love everything about her, she care about me, and love me too.

she do come to my house but I didn't want to rush her about sex , I only cuddle her, romance her ,kiss her.
Three weeks ago she lost her phone and there was no way I can communicate with her , it's was so disturbing that I have to communicate with her through her sister phone.
So I decided to get her a new phone since she is not working , I bought her the phone and I gave her my spare sim to use for the mean time since she cannot retrieve her Sim due to NCC directive.
But ever since I gave her the phone she change , she like coming to my house with her sister Everytime it's piss me off I told her I don't like it,

Although she came with her sister just once before she lost her phone ,
Now sometimes when I call her with the phone I bought for her she will busy my calls without telling me any reason.
The most Annoying one is that when I ask her to come to my house she will promise to come but she will later fail to come.

She do show my love now but not like before again

Now what should I do , should I collect my phone back or I should I leave the phone for her and cut off the relationship .

please advise me

Note below
Am Christian she is a Muslim I live in the North
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by lukui: 2:10am On Mar 09, 2021
lol

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Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by DesChyko: 6:24am On Mar 09, 2021
Daytonbale:
she is so amazing I love everything about her

Three weeks ago she lost her phone and there was no way I can communicate with her

I have to communicate with her through her sister phone.

I bought her the phone and I gave her my spare sim to use for the mean time

she change

she will busy my calls without telling me any reason.

I ask her to come to my house she will promise to come but she will later fail to come.

The intro to Davido's Fem track never sounded more apt grin
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by Nobody: 7:21am On Mar 09, 2021
Africanwardrobe:


Na street babe b dz...dz format no go work for am....but ur nickname na 'Mr Smart'

I hail oo!
E Go Work If Him Play Him Card Well. Let Him Continue Acting He Is Still Madly In Luv With Her.
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by fuckaholic25(f): 7:40am On Mar 09, 2021
the phone wasn't lost in the first place!

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Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by femi4: 8:23am On Mar 09, 2021
Daytonbale:
Please sorry for my grammar and long write-up

Good day there is something that is disturbing me and I want to seek for advice here.

There is a girl that am dating we started dating 3 months ago , we love each other she is so amazing I love everything about her, she care about me, and love me too.

she do come to my house but I didn't want to rush her about sex , I only cuddle her, romance her ,kiss her.
Three weeks ago she lost her phone and there was no way I can communicate with her , it's was so disturbing that I have to communicate with her through her sister phone.
So I decided to get her a new phone since she is not working , I bought her the phone and I gave her my spare sim to use for the mean time since she cannot retrieve her Sim due to NCC directive.
But ever since I gave her the phone she change , she like coming to my house with her sister Everytime it's piss me off I told her I don't like it,

Although she came with her sister just once before she lost her phone ,
Now sometimes when I call her with the phone I bought for her she will busy my calls without telling me any reason.
The most Annoying one is that when I ask her to come to my house she will promise to come but she will later fail to come.

She do show my love now but not like before again

Now what should I do , should I collect my phone back or I should I leave the phone for her and cut off the relationship .

please advise me

Note below
Am Christian she is a Muslim I live in the North
Maga....she's just not into you
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by Tonymegabush1(m): 11:22am On Mar 09, 2021
Not gonna say collect the phone or not it's your money that bought so I will only say do as you wish, but you see the SIM card make sure you collect it since it's already registered by you.

Collect the sim and you will receive shock pass buhari the first 10 ppl that will call it na guys all tru....

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Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by 99thEnemy(m): 1:19pm On Mar 09, 2021
Daytonbale:

Am Christian she is a Muslim I live in the North

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin


You are an infidel in her eyes grin grin grin grin grin

The Spoils of the exploitation of an infidel in a relationship is for Allah and the Exploiter grin grin grin grin
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by heniford2: 3:45pm On Mar 09, 2021
Daytonbale:
Please sorry for my grammar and long write-up

Good day there is something that is disturbing me and I want to seek for advice here.

There is a girl that am dating we started dating 3 months ago , we love each other she is so amazing I love everything about her, she care about me, and love me too.

she do come to my house but I didn't want to rush her about sex , I only cuddle her, romance her ,kiss her.
Three weeks ago she lost her phone and there was no way I can communicate with her , it's was so disturbing that I have to communicate with her through her sister phone.
So I decided to get her a new phone since she is not working , I bought her the phone and I gave her my spare sim to use for the mean time since she cannot retrieve her Sim due to NCC directive.
But ever since I gave her the phone she change , she like coming to my house with her sister Everytime it's piss me off I told her I don't like it,

Although she came with her sister just once before she lost her phone ,
Now sometimes when I call her with the phone I bought for her she will busy my calls without telling me any reason.
The most Annoying one is that when I ask her to come to my house she will promise to come but she will later fail to come.

She do show my love now but not like before again

Now what should I do , should I collect my phone back or I should I leave the phone for her and cut off the relationship .

please advise me

Note below
Am Christian she is a Muslim I live in the North
baba call her one day or block her and collect your phone make sure u give her back her sim card don't go alone attach a female girl too with some guys after that tell her is over move on be smart oh
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by omoseth(m): 4:14pm On Mar 09, 2021
This story reminds me of a guy i know who was in the same situation as that of the OP. The difference is that the guy didn't buy her any yeye phone,he simply refurbished the old phone that was given to him as dash to the babe,she begin happy come begin form busy later not knowing the koko cz according to him,he just told her it's one of his old phones he bought. Guy man that will never in his dreams buy anybody phone..Hope OP has learnt his lessons!
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by Numerouno94(m): 4:15pm On Mar 09, 2021
sad Some guys b like "we love eachoda, I luv her nd she luvs me too" Abeg how u take knw say she luv u too? u dey read mind?

I neva fit vouch for myself finish b4 i go vouch for girl.

Pls u guys shuld stop this "i luv her nd she luvs me too". Its annoying.

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Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by Daytonbale: 4:27pm On Mar 09, 2021
99thEnemy:


grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin


You are an infidel in her eyes grin grin grin grin grin

The Spoils of the exploitation of an infidel in a relationship is for Allah and the Exploiter grin grin grin grin
Infidel?
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by 99thEnemy(m): 4:42pm On Mar 09, 2021
Daytonbale:
Infidel?

Yes..

If you didn't know, now you know grin grin grin
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by bigcee(m): 4:56pm On Mar 09, 2021
Bros, collect your simcard and move on with your life.

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Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by bigcee(m): 4:57pm On Mar 09, 2021
Numerouno94:
sad Some guys b like "we love eachoda, I luv her nd she luvs me too" Abeg how u take knw say she luv u too? u dey read mind?

I neva fit vouch for myself finish b4 i go vouch for girl.

Pls u guys shuld stop this "i luv her nd she luvs me too". Its annoying.

Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by Daytonbale: 5:10pm On Mar 09, 2021
99thEnemy:


Yes..

If you didn't know, now you know grin grin grin
What make her to see me as Infidel?
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by luminouz(m): 5:22pm On Mar 09, 2021
paulolee:
jus ugnore her n save urself from her endless frustration...it seems she av gotten d fone dt she needs n no longer interested in you..
no need to take d fone back bcox its childish, jus count ur loses n move on..
no wori when d charger spoil or when she need another financial help she go call u n na then u go show her how streets dey treat ungrateful broke leaches...

I agreed with everything but the childish part.

She is no longer his GF again, why let his investment go just like that cheesy
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by kense88: 5:29pm On Mar 09, 2021
Daytonbale:
Please sorry for my grammar and long write-up

Good day there is something that is disturbing me and I want to seek for advice here.

There is a girl that am dating we started dating 3 months ago , we love each other she is so amazing I love everything about her, she care about me, and love me too.

she do come to my house but I didn't want to rush her about sex , I only cuddle her, romance her ,kiss her.
Three weeks ago she lost her phone and there was no way I can communicate with her , it's was so disturbing that I have to communicate with her through her sister phone.
So I decided to get her a new phone since she is not working , I bought her the phone and I gave her my spare sim to use for the mean time since she cannot retrieve her Sim due to NCC directive.
But ever since I gave her the phone she change , she like coming to my house with her sister Everytime it's piss me off I told her I don't like it,

Although she came with her sister just once before she lost her phone ,
Now sometimes when I call her with the phone I bought for her she will busy my calls without telling me any reason.
The most Annoying one is that when I ask her to come to my house she will promise to come but she will later fail to come.

She do show my love now but not like before again

Now what should I do , should I collect my phone back or I should I leave the phone for her and cut off the relationship .

please advise me

Note below
Am Christian she is a Muslim I live in the North
Is obvious she is a scam. Don't ever ask her to return your phone, that will be the end of your friendship. Just be patient and keep inviting her to your house, till she shows up one day. She will drop the phone on your table or somewhere around the house. Just pick your phone and ask her to leave your house. You will never benefit anything from such person. So long as you have the receipt, she can't lay claim on it.

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Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by kense88: 5:32pm On Mar 09, 2021
paulolee:
jus ugnore her n save urself from her endless frustration...it seems she av gotten d fone dt she needs n no longer interested in you..
no need to take d fone back bcox its childish, jus count ur loses n move on..
no wori when d charger spoil or when she need another financial help she go call u n na then u go show her how streets dey treat ungrateful broke leaches...
childish ke, that's how you allow them to get away with scam. Tomorrow she will repeat that rubbish with another guy
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by Quality20(m): 5:35pm On Mar 09, 2021
so u dating an unbeliever n even plan on fornicating her? my man cut it off. Do not be yoked with unbelievers ,thats what d bible said
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by ruffkenny: 5:53pm On Mar 09, 2021
For the records, girls like to exploit guys,manipulate guys and make them act stupid or childish all in the name of stupid love!!how in Gods name did u end up giving her your sim?is she your wife?even if she was!!its so stupid to do,the earlier guys understand that there is nothing like love from these bitches the better,she just used u cos even the lost phone may not be actually lost,girls are in for only what they could gain or benefit from weak and stupid guys,she has gotten what she wanted and moved on sharperly with no feelings at all for u,all she was doing before was acting a role in a movie with u,now the movie is ended or to be continued provided her current ATM messes up,she might be forced to come back to u a "sure maga abi mugu" hehehe..Grow up and stop thinking every feeling u have is love,act with your sense and brains when it comes to women and stop letting them use u or exploit u anymore cos it is their nature!!please join the stingy men association,save yourself from hurts cos women do not need soft and caring hands but the opposite, if u soft for her,she will make u cry and if u are hard for her,u will make her cry and be the one coming after u..

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Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by Daytonbale: 6:00pm On Mar 09, 2021
kense88:
Is obvious she is a scam. Don't ever ask her to return your phone, that will be the end of your friendship. Just be patient and keep inviting her to your house, till she shows up one day. She will drop the phone on your table or somewhere around the house. Just pick your phone and ask her to leave your house. You will never benefit anything from such person. So long as you have the receipt, she can't lay claim on it.
Thanks bro
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by Daytonbale: 6:06pm On Mar 09, 2021
ruffkenny:
For the records, girls like to exploit guys,manipulate guys and make them act stupid or childish all in the name of stupid love!!how in Gods name did u end up giving her your sim?is she your wife?even if she was!!its so stupid to do,the earlier guys understand that there is nothing like love from these bitches the better,she just used u cos even the lost phone may not be actually lost,girls are in for only what they could gain or benefit from weak and stupid guys,she has gotten what she wanted and moved on sharperly with no feelings at all for u,all she was doing before was acting a role in a movie with u,now the movie is ended or to be continued provided her current ATM messes up,she might be forced to come back to u a "sure maga abi mugu" hehehe..Grow up and stop thinking every feeling u have is love,act with your sense and brains when it comes to women and stop letting them use u or exploit u anymore cos it is their nature!!please join the stingy men association,save yourself from hurts cos women do not need soft and caring hands but the opposite, if u soft for her,she will make u cry and if u are hard for her,u will make her cry and be the one coming after u..
Brother not am soft, I was thinking she a girl with better upbringing
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by Daytonbale: 6:07pm On Mar 09, 2021
Quality20:
so u dating an unbeliever n even plan on fornicating her? my man cut it off. Do not be yoked with unbelievers ,thats what d bible said
brother Unbeliever how?
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by TheVictim01(m): 6:23pm On Mar 09, 2021
Abokina, ba budurwarka bace yanzu. Move on.
I'm a Muslim and was in such exact state of relationship, your religion also plays a part.
Daytonbale:
Please sorry for my grammar and long write-up

Good day there is something that is disturbing me and I want to seek for advice here.

There is a girl that am dating we started dating 3 months ago , we love each other she is so amazing I love everything about her, she care about me, and love me too.

she do come to my house but I didn't want to rush her about sex , I only cuddle her, romance her ,kiss her.
Three weeks ago she lost her phone and there was no way I can communicate with her , it's was so disturbing that I have to communicate with her through her sister phone.
So I decided to get her a new phone since she is not working , I bought her the phone and I gave her my spare sim to use for the mean time since she cannot retrieve her Sim due to NCC directive.
But ever since I gave her the phone she change , she like coming to my house with her sister Everytime it's piss me off I told her I don't like it,

Although she came with her sister just once before she lost her phone ,
Now sometimes when I call her with the phone I bought for her she will busy my calls without telling me any reason.
The most Annoying one is that when I ask her to come to my house she will promise to come but she will later fail to come.

She do show my love now but not like before again

Now what should I do , should I collect my phone back or I should I leave the phone for her and cut off the relationship .

please advise me

Note below
Am Christian she is a Muslim I live in the North
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by ruffkenny: 6:24pm On Mar 09, 2021
Just let her have the phone but try and get back your sim,besides a Christian and a Muslim has a comma in it for light and darkness has nothing in common,u will have to deal with morals here,values and standards which are totally different from yours,that sacrifice is not worth it and the girl in question is not worth it as well,u have wasted three months already with her,plus money u spent on the phone,so count ur loss like money spent on alcohol or pleasures and let it go,is one of those things to learn from in life..
Daytonbale:
Brother not am soft, I was thinking she a girl with better upbringing
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by adajoe555: 7:45pm On Mar 09, 2021
The way you guys bash Nigerian girls in this forum is just so alarming gosh ... are all girls the same... to all those saying Nigerian girls are useless and worthless, hope you know you have sisters too, and they are also Nigerian girls.
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by MikeofKd(m): 7:52pm On Mar 09, 2021
Nonsense and relationship, awon werey ,e jo e ko shi danu ke gerrout jor. Shey Una no dey tire ni.
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by Reex12(m): 8:13pm On Mar 09, 2021
Numerouno94:
sad Some guys b like "we love eachoda, I luv her nd she luvs me too" Abeg how u take knw say she luv u too? u dey read mind?

I neva fit vouch for myself finish b4 i go vouch for girl.

Pls u guys shuld stop this "i luv her nd she luvs me too". Its annoying.
THATS WHEN YOU KNOW SIMPS ARE BEING MANIPULATED
Re: There Is A Girl That Am Dating We Started Dating 3 Months Ago(Help) by Reex12(m): 8:16pm On Mar 09, 2021
adajoe555:
The way you guys bash Nigerian girls in this forum is just so alarming gosh ... are all girls the same... to all those saying Nigerian girls are useless and worthless, hope you know you have sisters too, and they are also Nigerian girls.
ogbeni female hypergamy cuts across no one is exempted.

even the damn niggar guy who has sisters still bleeps and dumps ladies.

so ur point is fvckin useless

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