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Why Do Men Cheat by bmdmix1: 2:51pm On Mar 16, 2021

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat by budaatum: 5:11pm On Mar 16, 2021
People cheat because they are immature!
Re: Why Do Men Cheat by kkins25(m): 5:40pm On Mar 16, 2021
budaatum:
People cheat because they are immature!
how can they be immature when its encoded in the Gene.

Let's not forget that monogamy is novel to the primate homo sp. More so, not only are we learning to take nto account the emotions, and will of the participants of courtship, we are also learning not to value one gender above the order.

Also, men and women meet more people than previously when we lived in small tribes, hence increasing the probability of having lust, and emotions for someone esle other than the spouse. If monogamy was the will of creation, creation would have provided the code to shut down the possibility of having feelings or lust towards another woman or man other than ones spouse.
After all, creation put this codes in place for doves and some few animals.

For example the schistosoma spp. (a parasite of the helminths(flat worms) binds permanently with one female its whole life span. Penguins often do the same.

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat by budaatum: 6:17pm On Mar 16, 2021
kkins25:
how can they be immature when its encoded in the Gene.

That's like saying hatred or killing each other is encoded in the gene. Or do you not know that love your neighbour and your enemy moreso is novel to humans?

When you mature you will master your genes and not be mastered by your genes!

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat by bmdmix1: 6:29pm On Mar 16, 2021
budaatum:
People cheat because they are immature!
says who
Re: Why Do Men Cheat by AFvckingAlpha(m): 6:34pm On Mar 16, 2021
The fvck


Niggarr!!


Cos man has been wired by nature to procreate, and that equals to multiple partners niggarr.

If you understand what I mean.

90% of men cheat, the fvck I can't be with one bitch.

I said what I said

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat by budaatum: 6:43pm On Mar 16, 2021
bmdmix1:
says who

Says the person you quoted. Or did you not see a name when you quoted?

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat by kkins25(m): 6:43pm On Mar 16, 2021
budaatum:


That's like saying hatred or killing each other is encoded in the gene. Or do you not know that love your neighbour and your enemy moreso is novel to humans?

When your mature you will master your genes and not be mastered by your genes!

Hatred too is encoded in the Genes. When a certain chimpanzee observer and scientist discovered that chimpanzees mobilize themselves to fight wars with other tribes she was dumbfounded and even scared to publish her research. Because, she finally discovered that the reasons humans fight wars was indeed rooted in our biology as in contrast to what we thought - the devil or bad people.

I can't recall her name, oh Diane fossey(quick Google search) I saw her on an add on YouTube. She offers classes in a platform called master class. Witnessing such battles even traumatized her for a while. Because it was vicious and similar to the bloodshed men spilled in the name of resources.

The spirit is willing, but the flesh is indeed weak. We pray to conquer our Genes. While some of us can control our Genes, many others cannot. "All fingers are truly not equal" in every ramifications and iota of the adage.

I believe this is what Jesus tried to teach the pharisees and what Paul meant when he said to not forsake the brotherhood(fellowship of Christian). Unfortunately, scums use it to steal money from people in the name of gathering in public places and yelling their prayers to the sky which Jesus also warned against.

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat by kkins25(m): 6:46pm On Mar 16, 2021
AFvckingAlpha:
The fvck


Niggarr!!


Cos man has been wired by nature to procreate, and that equals to multiple partners niggarr.

If you understand what I mean.

90% of men cheat, the fvck I can't be with one bitch.

I said what I said
overcome your animal instincts.

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat by budaatum: 6:48pm On Mar 16, 2021
kkins25:

The spirit is willing, but the flesh is indeed weak.
And you can indeed use that as your excuse for failing or you can chose to strenghten your weak flesh with the will of your spirit!

Or do you not have the freedom of your own will?

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat by Nobody: 7:08pm On Mar 16, 2021
A man was not created to be with just one woman. Even God's men in the bible had many wives so we are not cheating, we are simply living our lives. Actually, cheating should not be associated with men because it doesn't apply to us. David was a man after God's heart, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob and Solomon all had many wives and concubines, did you ever hear of them being accused of cheating? Even when Jesus went to visit one man I can't remember his name in the bible, he dined with the man and ate the food served by his wives and concubines. Why didnt he rebuke him or reject the food if the man was sinning by having many women? Modern religion started caging men with one wife marriage and all of a sudden, the word cheating began following men up and down. Stop it. sad
Re: Why Do Men Cheat by AFvckingAlpha(m): 7:55pm On Mar 16, 2021
kkins25:
overcome your animal instincts.


The fvck

Niggarr!!


We are animals niggarr, just higher.

We not so different
Re: Why Do Men Cheat by budaatum: 8:08pm On Mar 16, 2021
kkins25:
overcome your animal instincts.

I doubt he will bother trying.

Thankfully, most of us will speak for ourselves instead of being spoken for by animals.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat by Nazgul: 8:49pm On Mar 16, 2021
Curiosity

Lack of self control

Immaturity

Peer pressure

Problems from their nagging wives of girlfriends

Spiritual problem

Hereditary

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Re: Why Do Men Cheat by Truthabulabula(m): 9:36pm On Mar 16, 2021
I can never do that.
Re: Why Do Men Cheat by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 9:49pm On Mar 16, 2021
bmdmix1:
hear wat she got to say


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=irI-D1B66fA

Thanks Handsome for the repost and God bless you
Re: Why Do Men Cheat by bmdmix1: 10:14pm On Mar 16, 2021
Wordsfrombimpe:


Thanks Handsome for the repost and God bless you
u welcome
Re: Why Do Men Cheat by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 12:47am On Mar 17, 2021
bmdmix1:
hear wat she got to say


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=irI-D1B66fA

Aaw thanks �‍♂️�‍♂️�‍♂️

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