Thanks for the advice , the problem is i have to pay for the divorce and have a job so i cant just up and fly to nigeria to go to a court or to post notice on door. is it possible some one can stand in my place that is there?

that was why i asked for a website and got no response im pretty sure in a few days one will have been made and they will respond

lol thanks jenny, ohhh dont worry i know all the 419 tricks trust me my soon to be x taught me alot

@ adonisgold i am do you have a website

umm i am not stupid and far from it, I did not answer the question my self, me trying to find out how to do it legally from the united states with no issues, and no 419 and no one saying it was not done correctly, and i said to serve him papers legally i mean if you like you can give me 2000 dollars for a ticket and pay for my upkeep and hell i will serve him my self

lol roflmao

I am american my husband is nigerian I married him in 2003 and he went home and could not come back. I stayed in nigeria for a year with him until the us embassy told me i had to go home. because of financial issues between him and i , i could not visit him, sooooooo finally when i decided to visit him or should i say he decided for me to visit him , i noticed on face book the nigga then up and married the chick he said he got pregnant. so then i threatened his ass to tell his parents to pay for the divorce since im pretty sure they paid for the wedding and since then i have not heard from him he does not answer any more bla bla bla and all that good stuff . I need to serve him the divorce papers legally

I was married in 2003 in the united states (i am american my husband is nigerian), he was not able to return back to the states when he left to go home due to his papers. last year (2011) he remarried how do i go about getting a divorce from him legally with out im around because since i threatened him last october to tell his parents to pay for the divorce i can not get in contact with him. I want it done as soon as possible.