Thanks to everyone that contributed here,myself,Thierry mum and grandmum all lv in one state,they children and all students,whenever they are on holiday they come down to my place,they only foto see their mum if needs be,but now that there is no peace in the house and their school in on strike they all left my place to their grandmum's.ibtried to bring peace in the house but it's failed,so what I will just do is to watch all of them and see how it's goes,I think it's time to let everyone be on his/her own since all my effort is not enough.thanks once again.

I understand what you saying,I don't mind if they come or not,the thing is they have really spoilt my name and the family are now seeing me as a bad person,mother will always tell me to keep on doing the good I am doing for the step kids but what surprised me is her sudden change after hearing what they told her without asking me,saying I shldnt make her grandchildren my maids.they don't cook for me,wash my cloths or my children's,I have someone that do all that but that doesn't mean I shldnt have them do some chores in the house,I personally take care of their bills even though it's hubby's money but I make sure their weekly allowance are paid,school fees and all that,don't just know what the problem.myself and hubby have decided we will relocate to another state may be staying far from the family will bring peace but I don't know if it's a good decision.

Hello pls I need an advice on how to handle my home,nobody is prefect but I know I am really trying my best when it comes to step kids and mother inlaw,my husband have 3kids with his ex wife and I have 2kuds for him,I have tried my best in the way u can to make our home a lovely place but it's so unfortunately that mother inlaw keep pushing step kid to me,I don't have issues with them coming over to my place beside it's their fathers house,whenever I notice those children need something I make sure there dad provides it for them little did I know that I have been a fool for a very long time,something happened and they went to their galrandmom/mother inlaw,I told her all sort of things the latest weren't really true but she took it and slander she started fighting me about that,she insulted me and hubby the day we went to clarify ourselves of what the children told her but she never listened she kept ranting,I wasn't surprise at her behaviour because I know she ha3 never liked me but just been retelling to,I love that woman from the depth of my heart I shower her with gift even without telling hubby sane applies to his siblings,I gave I respected and loved his family but thy all turn against me for God knows what the step kids told them,now non of them call or visit my home,both brother in law and step kids have stop visiting just to name me a bad person that I am not.i know a lot of homes that the step mum makes the house he'll for her step kids but mind is the oda way round.pls what shld I do?doh hubby is confuse for he doesn't know who to stay with

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Masha Allah. Jazakallahu kharian. May Allah bless all our marriages.

That's the first change he just received after electing Gmb. Change all the way.congrates to them.