Hideaki:
I want to live.

Don't be sick about religious discussion.... keep it be Private... As you grow you would you would see things from other side.

As for your post, you won't be surprise that majority of guys in your age bracket are in same shoe....

Few you see enjoying what you desire now might have passed what you are experiencing...

Many Children born will be in same situation few years to come. That is the reality, so wake up everyday with a positive mindset and do everything possible within your means to create something better...

I know your issues and major Nigeria youths is about overcoming brokeness so you can have and hope for a happy life...

You might make millions this year, and things get softer, every soft life desire you have carved for would manifest... While tomorrow table turns and someone else take over and enjoy the good life.

So chill for everything on earth passes through time and chance. Life is a long marathon everyone is running their race. Overtaking might happens but you might still catch up and pass...

So if you are fits and healthy, not in prison, then be greatful because your existence alone would give you enough experience, an upper edge as you become more mature....

So when your time and chance align, you wouldn't stress before things set but by then you would realize, life is full of cycles of problems. As one get solved, you successfully created two. By then you might have more young girls, easy sex, fairly Gucci, gold chain but you will have more agenda which will keep bothering you...

So start living with intentions and not wait till when life is perfect before you become happy.. .

CloudTrees:


The branch that breaks off the tree find it hard to survive

So all the new churches and new generation churches everywhere is from where?

mannobi:
This new generation and obsession to quickly make it is the bane of their generation. At twenty five they want to be able to buy a phone of three million so they can display it online without something tangible as work. What a terrible generation

U guys should stop referencing new generation... Nothing new... There have always been crime, Prostitute, corrupt judges, criminal, people has always wanted to buy, cart, horse, long long before men, there have always been men. In this world everyone is an hustler, na person wey dem catch be thief...

So please is just his hustle, he took the risk, you too can if you want.

Brokeness:


Ok. Let's start from somewhere..

As a young guy that's struggling to survive or stay afloat in this hard economy, what can you benefit in a relationship with the opposite sex? (Aside sex)

Even sex isn't for free... Because no sex for a broke nigga.

Until a guy start to dey do transfer, nobody send him papa. Peace

Kobojunkie:
Yes, according to the Nigerian woman, their men are ret-ards.

I wonder if you ever have friends and family circles offline because, you would be ouyof place.

Maybe you are neither male nor female self. Go back and read the post from the perspective of the woman maybe sense would fall on you.

A woman that knows what it means to have a high value successful man with three children would never allow a strange woman to compete with her.

A good woman player wey dey game should know better.

CuriousStudent:

Started on a neutral stance then tilted towards painting women in the bad light.


Anyway,in a country in "survival mode",people date for the wrong reasons. A middle class earning man/woman in a developed country will most likely date for attraction

For those that are not interested in dating for the wrong reasons,they rather remain single.

As a man you can't afford relationship,so you stay single.
As a woman,you can't be giving your vagina to struggling guys who can't even marry you in the next 3 years due to hardship in the land. You are left between sleeping with a guy for money(married men,sugar daddy) or remaining single. The virtuous chose the later

That is just it.

Who love help when fuel is 800 naira?

Cc: caveadullam

Nigeria is practically an experiment. Even if you as a man, you have a babe, this is the best time to test her outlook and reaction to hardship.

Any babe wey stay with you regardless of how hard things are. Keep her closers. Real relationship relationship isn't built on sex and money only but deep commitment.

As you dey practice your redpill ideas on I never chop girls and girls wey dey carry charger waker" try dey form level up at least make use self see better rich girls wey never too get sense... Scope her make she fund your sporty bet account weekly while you bang the hell of her.

Weather na amotekun/rich or broke girls.... Have sweet mouth, learn to lies and be deceptive.

You aren't marrying a virgin so why not Fuxk the ones you can when you still have energy and move on quick... At the end even the fu*k and sex and women are just some overrated sh!t... There's more problems in this world that to be overthinking and hard on yourself.

Na only bad news about man/woman relationship you na dey promote. Worse na broke boy come full here.

Letter to 20s.
Because you see your female age mate having that "fantastic" life you can't afford for yourself doesn't mean you should hold hatefulness in your heart. You won't realize how toxic you have become over the years.

If in anyway you haven't been in a situationship/relationship with a lady, you don't have biz here. You might get damaged.

Let me set the record straight... Relationship isn't about Diego and Paloma or Disney world, it is exchange of economical gains.

If a lady can get for herself what she's expecting from you, I don't think there will be relationship in the first place.

Relationship is where two adults come together to fornicate and call it cheating while there's is exchange of ....

Peace

Entanglement:
abeg help me tell the guy ohh, and I pity people were dey follow that poverty guy dey reason!

Make he go blame his father and grandfather for dropping nothing to am!

Son, calm down, his narratives doesn't reflect with you doesn't mean he's wrong. Infact he's very right.

Learn to see the emphaty in people's post post before commenting... You might have a rich grandfather, a rich father, but you might be okay but your future generations might not find it funny....

@ Ezendimmuo just sit at home and sleep.

Mumu post

Paystack:

All these list and list and list
I need one on one mentor

My brother, raw truth, know nobody is gonna Sit you down and teach you like a baby until you are incline enough to discuss with them which means you have acquire knowledge and value, so they see the value in you...

Pick any training you find worth and stick to it.... Start now with the information you gather here and online.. When the results is becoming visible, you can attract so called "mentor " and likes mind.

Everyone is after what can I benefit from you. Simple.

I have given you in 30 second what a mentor would tell you in 30 min.

Paystack:
I'll pay you N100,000 if you can show me how to earn at least $10 online from what you do


I'm willing to invest the next 3-6 months to learn this.


I'm interested in either Foreign affiliate marketing, Crypto Or Amazon KDP


PLEASE I'll love it to be what you do


The N100,000 is all the money I saved from NYSC

I want to risk it and learn something I can scale

If you can teach me please quote me and I'll send you my contact.



I'm not buying any course or paying for you to point me somewhere and leave me.


Our deal is that you teach me how to earn at least $10


I'll use my own knowledge after you teach me to scale

I don't mean to sound rude or anything.

I truly need this.

Lol, you want to give 100k, for someone to show you their secrets...

Na scammer jam scammer e go end. If no be scam, how you take get saving 100k from nysc... Just kidding.

1. Use your money to learn and market your Kdp books.
2. Search for How to sell expire domain thread here...
3. If u're football entrustistic, do betting.
4. Learn digital art (nfts) if you are passionate about artists hand drawing painting, sells in 4 fig dollar .... Na to follow u no road (Instagram search would do better)
5. Bring Id .me for boys (this go carry you enter street) no be one man job.
6. Go out and meet real pallet how to catch maga (u fit follow do dating and celeb if you get parents wey dey feed u) else OYO.

Note if you are indoor guy, 1-3 is good to start with...

Once you start with 4-6 be ready to switch...
By the time, you manage learn all of these, you have officially graduated from school of street.
Opportunity come for those who are prepared with the right info and ot.

It is competition out there and nothing is guaranteed but no one can take away your experience. Thanks.

cocoined:


Yes. My mum gives her 1k to 2k on every exam day, depending on the paper she has. Even to register her for the exam (waec & neco) wasn't easy at all.

So sorry about your predicament...

Hardship is a respecter of nobody I must say...
So when life show you a rose and a gun, you pick the gun literally...

By now, you should have seen your life reality in 3D. No one is coming to save you, so from today henceforth,

It's you against the world, so listen and pay attention every preaching in mosque/church, be d villain act the opposite they say/criticize. This may be wrong advice but, I tell you, you would understand what I wrote there as you get older. That is the only hint for surving in Nigeria.

Kobojunkie:
Is there a reason why it should stretch beyond Nairaland for me?

Why not, everyone knows that when you deactivate your account, you become a "nobody"

Kobojunkie:
1. I disagree! If you are sitting comfortably inside your pit, no one can save you. It is only when you reach out in anger against the pit that you create that chance to not only be saved from the pit but also ensure the pit will never be for you from then on.

2. Well, he needs to decide for himself whether he will choose that path of rebellion in order to break his mind and mental and hopefully his own life free from that hell or if he will continue to bow to the status quo like others do. It is his choice to make.

3. So when a person has scaled through and then speaks out it isn't rebellion but till then it is rebellion? This problem is indeed societal and cultural!

4. Well, as I said, I would rather incense these kids in order to have their eyes opened right where they are now so they realize the truth and genesis of the problems — their parents. My hope is that by doing that these children can in turn make better decisions so they never end up like their parents — an end to the cycle. That is my goal and intent.

I see you should be an elderly woman judging from your reg. date, reason why I'm been courtesy...

I hope you have meaning impact on people outside NL.

regards

Powerbando:


You are 19, and you never enter higher institution, you are still talking about independency, and you are depressed at your age
The way devil dey play with some people mind eh,
A teenager for that matter
You better go and eat your mummy food with joy

If him get mama wey dey give am food shebi e for better, try to comprehend stories beyond text and picture his reality......

You should count yourself lucky you manage to have a good guidances/supported..

He doesn't have any hence his fear....

Kobojunkie:
.

I hear you, whichever way, this world is at angle 360. karma or no karma, if there is something wrong within the society... I believe it is more within the responsible of those capable to stand up against it and speak out... a man inside a pit can only be helped by someone outside...

The teenage boy has nothing to speak up for, it doesn't change anything, infact it will be tagged rebellion.

When he scale through it, them he can have a Clause to speak against something abnormal.

As we all know many would never scale through it, while some perish in their misery, many bread more offspring into it, the cycle continues...

Kobojunkie:
I think it is more the case that you didn't take time to understand what I said at all.

Parents are meant to be responsible for their kids until they are able to fend for themselves. This young man, at his age, is not meant to be worrying about this himself, is what I am simply telling him. His parents are instead the ones to be carrying that weight on their shoulders, and no one, not even society, should put him through that stress at his young age.

NO! KOBOJUNKIE most of your contribution doesn't address the real situation

You are meant to address his pain and struggles...

The fella has a parent that can't provide him the basics things of life. Food, shelter, education...

I'm not attacking you but at times, the best comment is not to comment...

Nigeria is already though for most common adult, even with real education, good certificate, experience and skills.

I don't want to reply the guy because I don't have the resources to help. But you choose to ignore the situation behind the story and give your own view for God sake, you need to chill sometimes and read people's stories like you're the one passing through it.
____________

Now imagine the reality of a 19 year old KOBOJUNKIE whose parents are about to be evicted from their accomodations, her father can't pay rent obviously he's a jobless poor and miserable man, her mother is frustrated obviously, little Kobojunks would feel the heat and anger from her parents because a parent who aren't happy can't share happiness with kids.

Basic needs like eating good food, good clothes and accomodations, becomes luxury.......

Don't expect little Kobojunks to have iphone, laptop, Nike shoe, or rich kids as friends because nobody associates with poverty or poor people...

This is the situation of many Young teenager, if little Kobojunks doesn't find help from someone that can atleast sort out her basic needs... she would perish and die for nothing or talk the bull by the horns and enter street, for guys, you rob stores, for ladies you prostitute. Very Simple.

Kobojunkie:
1. I don't follow at all.
Why would any rational individual call you, a child who is yet barely an adult, a liability in his own parent's home? More importantly, why do you seem to care so much about what others have to say of you?

If you no begin to use your head for yourself at this age, people dey out there plenty wey go use am against you. Stop listening to foolish nonsense and sit your arse down to study and grow up right where you are. Even people wey dey for America, for south korea, etc. dey siddon for home until almost 30-years of age. Na you wey dey Nigeria — poverty capital of the world — go come be a liability for him own parent house? What nonsense is that?

Madam pls try to understand the situation before making input ma. The circumstances of the young man is beyond what he can handle...

He's just unfortunate to found himself with poor miserable parents that can't help themselves not to talk of helping him..

A young adults feel the effects of his Miserable parents.... Reasons for his fears...

if his parents have mansion, porch and well to do, he won't be on NL...

Sadly, many young male and female are in this circumstances... hoping they survive their young adults life but for how long would they continue surviving if help doesn't comes from no where

@xavuv So sorry about your predicament...

Sadly, your tales doesn't add up....

What if you start hearing the sound few weeks from now? That means that CCC...

Oga, ever jumia.com order quad drone with camera Bluetooth controller..... ...

You would see how infected your roof has become.....

Once you hear the sound active your drone and watch python dance live in 3D 😂

Grandmeister:

He can never be doomed if his story is true. Even the Bible advised parents never to push their children to anger! It is parents like this that has pushed many young boys and girls into committing suicide. And when they do it we come on nairaland and type RIP meanwhile the supposed halo and untouchable parents will still be breathing and living out their lives. Thank goodness I never had such parents. It will be hell on earth to have a parent that will contribute to your mental breakdown rather than being your backbone. Living as a Nigerian in Nigeria is hell already.

Be greatful of having this kind parents and I hope you return the favor back to your offspring...

Having a helish parents who brought kids to this world to console their miserable life, worse still doesn't have a extended family members support could be helish for such child.

When I see children born into such circumstances, I looked them and hope they would survive the hell awaiting them in few years.... Many are helpless and and long silent and dead.

The scenerio of a group picture come to my mind.... Anyone that look into a group pix and says it isn't fine, actually, not that the picture isn't, but he's not satisfy with the way he come out.....

I have seen a situation here of an underaged helpless boy homeless and couldn't be accommodated by his step-father/ mother (wife of new husband) , nor any extended family members... Such comments that follow are simply gender biased.... Broken homes... I don't expect a primary school boy to start hustling like someone that fell from heaven....

Realistically, that boy was the victim of circumstances but no one view and put their self in the boys shoe, just another reason to verge out their faustrations and let the world know how toxic they are.

Another instant is saying know one (families) own you nothing.. meaning you don't need any sort of help/assistance....

As much as knowing the right context say this... It has been abused in lots of way.... When you were born, someone helped you bath, likewise when you die, someone who helped dig your grave.... So if you ever grow up in hatred and without care pls... Let that end with you... You are breading the next generation and if you don't stop this thinking process, I'm so sorry your blood might suffer the same fate you have been avoiding all your life and believe me, they might not be so lucky to survive it. Be the change you want

Trabslism is a tools to break people with nothing and is a great asset for those that have a lot to loose.... People that have things going well for them in the real world doesn't dwell on trabslism... It could cost them everything they have worked for all their life...

So for Young generation... Filty every info you see on this site and remember life isn't black and white... In-between the grey colours is where majority and opinions stands. Thanks

I have discovered this site for almost a decade now and I have come to the conclusion that this site if full of damaged people which has made their view about this world screwed.

What I'm about to say will touch nerves but in all sincerity, it is what is it only if you come to realize and try make peace with yourself and heal from all trama of the past...

First, if you are looking for a serious advice, my advice to you is never to bring it here. Take it offline or with people of your inner inner circle.

Obviously, this is how this site get traffics and make their earnings but, for the young one who would be surfing this site, have it at the back of your mind that, not everything you read you believe.

So back to the matter on ground... Someone table their predicaments, and people rush to the comments section for commenting sake... In few minutes, they move on to the next thread forgetting the previous ones in few days. The cycle continues...

It would have be ideal if such comments are very palatable but NO! They are usually veey sentimental and in such cases only just about 2 % are very realistic and truthful but such comments are in-between lines and with few likes....

In all honesty, categories of comments here are biased to trabslism, alpha & feminist, broken homes archers... So for Young One here seeing comments in relation to topic or advice relating to any of the above categories.... Beware of what you consume because majority are here to voice out their faustrations in advice. On a normal day they are voiceless once they logout... Life is not a Black and white screen but sadly, this site has made it so.

Emceecee:


How do you do about grammar and proofreading? Customers usually company about that, but as I'm thinking about it, I think it was when I use that Kindle create software to make a book that they complained about errors.

If you found a book, you want to mimics, find content on Google or (you can download a full Amazon books / research papers for free... There are many Russians hack sites, serious final year / uni undergraduate should know. Don't ask me pls.)

Rewrite it using quillbot Standard English (cracked version can rewrite (6,000 words at a go. Download crack extension) there are other rewriter, pls don't ask me where... Google search.

You don't need gramaly or any plagiarism except you are teaching English as quillbot and Microsoft word are too smart and advance.

To be sure or plags.. visit/search smallSEOtools website, and check plagiarism menu to run test 💯 unique.

Your research should be generally world view,

What solve people's problem eg, (health and fitness and food recipes) books

What give people fantasy/hope.... Romance and Religion books falls in this categories.

Learning whosoever new Craft eg. Craft and Hobbies categories (avoid books with copyright images)

Write on trendy events Tech and politics and journalism categories

If you're serious to research and write across different sub categories, a day would come you would make a hit book in a sub categories people would pay their last $ to buy... That becomes your secret for on that aspect and build. No mentor would tell you their secrets niches.

I have given you 100k worth of info... If I give you 50% info, it is your responsibility to make it 100% by researching. Thanks

I did not bother reading... Person wey go give you job, no go stress you.

SuperOnyi:






Sir, do I really need publisher rocket? It's almost 50k and currently unable to afford it, the free keywords sites seems not to be accurate.

In my experience, Sales of books has little to do with backend keyword... Another hack is look for similar books Asin doin well, and check their keywords with website www. Amazon - ASIN . Com (no spacing)... What matters is choosing that right categories, and give your book free 5 days promotion immediately after publishing, if you are lucky someone drop a 5 ⭐ good reviews, you secure a good position rankings as long as the sales momentum keep increasing which is giving your reader value by writing a good book. Not pamphlet as many does. You can run ads too. Thanks

jolak5:
Can someone respond please?

It's general issues, check your dashboard, and click on community menu... You can read up post about payment. Amz hasn't responded yet...

OmidheBlessing:



I mean would you give the same advice you just gave to your kids and relatives... I get you, you are just cruising

Bruv the advice isn't for kids. And yes why not! I like folks that says things thr blunt way... If you find the advice bad, then reconfigure your mind because everything I listed there has no wrong justification. Thanks

OmidheBlessing:



Can you tell your kids this ?

Why did you ignore 8 and 7.

Besides this forums isn't for kids So I don't expect one reading it. Truth is harsh. Reality reveals truth. No offence. Thanks

1. Have a rich parents/families
2. Be a fine girl (post your face on snaps and porn pix regularity or open only fans to catch page)
3. For guys enter street and keep your ten toes on guard.
4. For girls, learn how to bill with charisma.
5. For guys, learn football betting and learn how to roll double.
6. For girls, be godly and wait for that well to do man.
7. Both genders, do any job as long as money can pay Your bills.

8. Add yours

I will still say it again for few that will take note.
No emotions and no capping. As long as you are a walking thinking breathing guy, the game is already lopsided and the rules are against you. So no point playing right and still lose at the end.

Keep your emotions aside, read to the end and get some dose of blackpill now or wait to find out later.

I am not again your idea, but no point picking the wrong battle (bashing ladies). The matrix itself is your enemy.

A guy who practice Redpill online but didn't follow up in reality, is like a clown 🤡 without mask. You have broken the rules of the game.

You practice Redpill, but you still desire to get pusi. Why on earth do you still need a fu* king pusi when your fellow guy can burst your Yash for free. I need to pierce your nerves really hard no offence.

You should be aware now that the virgin 18 year old lady you are watching after is also been eyed by both guys and men old enough with enough resources to throw away.

I see nothing wrong as a young fresh fella driving softly in your Metallic wipe, sipping your drink lightly as you cruise the road seeing men, women and children admiring you from afar, of course not without few traffic warders stopping you just for tips sake. No harm giving few naira notes. Accelerate as you view random unknown ladies on bike shining their 36 waving at you as you zoom away from you rear.

It takes a guy lot of works before he becomes a nigga. So instead of wailing and consoling yourself with screenshot of unknown ladies' tweet , logout of this platform, take a walk around your street, look for a nice joint with fella of your age, greet nicely pick a corner and sit down, calm down bring out your phone play game, observe then go home. You don't need a dime to do this. Do this for a week and get real OT.

At the end of the day, what is life without enjoyment, what's the purpose of money without spending? Why are there bivhes if you can't get to fvck some.

You don't sit in your room all day wailing about Biches that never know you existed.