craziebone:


you deserve a gold medal for this. I actually felt reluctant to respond to that post when i saw it.

The truth is, this over emphasizing on marriage is hurting us already. For us, marriage should be the ultimate goal. We should not forget that the need to get married is not inherent in the human being. What is inherent in the human being, is the desire to find a companion/partner of the opposite sex. Marriage is just society's WISE way to control and manage itself.

While marriage is a good thing in itself and we should desire it, i believe people should try to enjoy themselves. And by "enjoy", i do not mean immorality (i just cannot understand why the word "enjoy" should bring to the mind of the moralist religious man, immorality).

Like i tell people, please take your time to look for a good relationship. If you've found it, then you can think of marriage, if you want. But if after you've struck that relationship and you just don't feel like signing some marriage certificate, then its ok to go on that way. You may choose to have children together and you may choose not to.

If you are single now and you are being worried about your biological clock, or you are a man and you don't want to be paying school fees in your sixties and seventies, you may want to have your child now through one of the many fair ways there are then, you can take the rest of your life to look for love.

It shouldn't matter when you find that love as people in their 80s still find love and at that time, they still get married. Who says we, who got married several decades before them, are more fulfiled?

Please try as much as possible to stay healthy in the mind, body and spirit as you go about your singlehood.

Bro, you deserve ɑn award for this post

tintingz:
Atleast 85% marraige proposal is succesful.

There are reasons someone should be careful when posting their boyfriend/girlfriend pic all over internet.

A girl is not yet engaged to her boyfriend she's already posting his pic on social media while their are still many suitors, what if she breakeup with her boyfriend how does she want her suitors to make a move?

Very true but, common, you can't tell people not †o express H☺w they feel in their relationship just because of the fear of being rejected by ɑ potential suitor who's observing from afar lolzz... Common

tintingz:
No one knows who Toto Dikeh is/was dating until she got engaged, you guys should chill.

I support her words, this is common among our ladies...you will see them posting their "boyfriend" pics all over social media.

I don't know why they do this but it is silly to start posting a pic of someone that hasn't propose marriage to you.

Is it all relationships that get †o the stage of proposal that ends in marriage, and for crying out loud, there are some mere relationships that are sweeter than marriages, I'm sorry †o say...

WHɑ† the phurq is that lady saying? For crying out loud, if its ɑ genuine relationship, then you should gain pride in showing off anywhere...

;DTechno wil ∂O something like this and make it cheaper... Lol

Tonylyte:

Bro u sabi music at all ? Though na ya own opinion. But, phyno+vector+olamide+2=m.i. M.i, naeto c, ice-prince(disputable), mode9, jagz(disputable)i knw, others are children.

bros! What are you saying?... You are not even communicating

onye guy: Abeg can someone tell me what this guy doing for living.

how you go know? when common good English you nor fit speak... Mtcheew
i pity you, nor go find better thin do with ya #HATRED#