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Vixkyydera:People deal with stress and depression differently.Some people lose weight while others gain weight, being an emotional eater as she claimed explains the weight gain. |
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@ Volvo as a clinical psychologist you are spot on. A lot of people are clueless when it comes to such things especially in africa. A lot would most likely conclude its a spiritual problem rather than a health issue. |
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If you cannot afford a washing machine now then just explain it to her. Have a heart to heart conversation with her that you will save up for one. In this day and age washing machines make life a lot easier so I do understand her point of view but she must also understand your finance situation. Marriage is all about compromise, mutual respect and understanding. If you can abide by these things you will have a peaceful marriage. If you use to walk to work everyday for the past 5 years does it mean you should never get a car? When you get money and can afford a car you would get one because it makes like easier same thing like a washing machine. I personally hate washing clothes so if I had to put myself in my wife's position for her to spend so much time washing clothes when it would be easier and less time consuming to buy a washing machine. However it all has to do with finances as a washing machine is not a necessity. If you can't afford it then I really believe communicate with your wife and perhaps both of you can come up with a plan where you save x amount of money towards the machine. Is your wife working? |
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Op I have been married for 10 years. While you have raised a lot of valid points I strongly believe no one should go into a marriage with such mentality. Those who still want to play the field and believe that they cannot be faithful because they have a 'penis' should not get married because there will be no point to it. Nobody should tolerate cheating. If you as a man would not be happy or tolerate your woman cheating on you then why should you expect a woman to do the same. That is being a hypocrite. I have been married for 10 years and been with my wife for 12 years and I have never cheated on her and I will never cheat on her(even though my wife is still sexy even after 2 kids) having a few min of pleasure is not worth losing my marriage imo. The problem today is that a lot of immature people are getting married not knowing that it takes two people to make marriage work. Women cheat these days perhaps even more than men so it's not just a one sided thing. It also depends on the type of woman in question, usually the women who are highly dependent on the man for their basic needs will most likely stay in such a marriage since they have no where else to go. However there are women like my wife(She is educated and financially independent) who don't need a man to survive will be less inclined to accept such behavior and if she had to divorce me because of infidelity than I would not blame her. We need to move away from women should do this and men should do that mentality. Personally I won't do anything that I would not like my wife to do to me. 4 Likes |
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tonychristopher:I am Edo as can be deduced by my username. Take your hatred for the youruba to the moon for all I care. If you think being light in complexion makes you white and better than your fellow African brothers then you are on a long thing. To be honest I don't care who you date or hate. Just try and get some sense please. 4 Likes |
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tonychristopher:You are such a fool. Whether light yellow or brown you are still a black man. I just don't understand the way some people think ![]() 6 Likes |
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MPSA:lol what does this have to do with me? I was referring to Ghanaian women(am married to 1) and not South African women. I don't give a Damn about those ugly women. Am not surprised at the bolded since that is just a common description of the average SA women. |
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naijainfogalery:Lol sharing is caring after all how many of their women have we 'stolen' ![]() |
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This is just sad. South Africa in general seems to be a very dangerous place. |
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jany:I am not lucky but blessed ![]() 1 Like |
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ifyalways:May God continue to bless your marriage ![]() |
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The Bible says that the body of every Christian is the temple of the Holy Spirit that lives in him (1 Corinthians 6:19). If the Holy Spirit lives in the body of a Christian, will a spirit husband or serpentine spirit ask the Holy Spirit to shift so that he can enter the body of the Christian? No, it is not possible. No one can be possessed with the Holy Spirit and an evil spirit at the same time. It is either a person is possessed with the Holy Spirit or he is possessed with an evil spirit. No one can have the two at the same time. 1 Like |
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Spirits don’t get married. But assuming they will start getting married in two weeks time, what has light got to do with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14) Please tell me what a demon spirit will be doing with a child of the Most High God? “What communion hath light with darkness?” the Bible asks (2 Corinthians 6:14). Beloved it is not possible that a demon spirit can get married to a child of God. Marriage makes the couple become one. How can an evil spirit become one with a child of the Most High God? Do you know that the Bible says he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit with Him? (1 Corinthians 6:17) If a child of God is one spirit with the Lord, how then can he or she become one with an evil spirit? How can someone that is joined with the Holy Spirit be joined with an evil spirit at the same time? Please don’t be deceived by the trick of spirit husband/wife. 4 Likes |
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Do Spirits Get Married? Then come unto him the Sadducees, which say there is no resurrection; and they asked him, saying, Master, Moses wrote unto us, if a man’s brother die, and leave his wife behind him, and leave no children, that his brother should take his wife, and raise up seed unto his brother. Now there were seven brethren: and the first took a wife, and dying left no seed. And the second took her, and died, neither left he any seed: and the third likewise. And the seven had her, and left no seed: last of all the woman died also. In the resurrection therefore, when they shall rise, whose wife shall she be of them? For the seven had her to wife. And Jesus answering said unto them, Do ye not therefore err, because ye know not the Scriptures, neither the power of God? For when they shall rise from the dead, they neither marry, nor are given in marriage; but are as the angels which are in heaven. – Mark 12:18-25 Jesus Christ speaking in the above passage confirms that angels don’t get married. Angels are spirits and they don’t get married. People who teach that spirit husbands/wives exist say that they are demon spirits. Demon spirits are angels as well. They are fallen angels and they don’t get married. In the Scripture, there are so many places where demon spirits are referred to as angels. For if God spared not the angels that sinned, but cast them down to hell, and delivered them into chains of darkness, to be reserved unto judgment. – 2 Peter 2:4 In the passage above, demon spirits are referred to as angels. Demon spirits are angels that sinned. They are angels; they are fallen angels. And Jesus Christ said that at the resurrection there would be no marriages because we would be like angels. That means angels don’t get married. And demon spirits are angels. If angels don’t get married and demon spirits are angels, who then are the spirit husbands/wives? |
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Does Spirit Husband Or Wife Exist? Please let it be known to you that there is nothing like spirit husband or spirit wife. It does not exist. If you read the Scripture from Genesis to Revelation, there is no place where the Bible tells us about spirit husband or wife. It is annoying the way the devil has made so many people teach spirit husband/wife as sermons. Spirit husband/wife does not exist. The people that teach the doctrine of spirit husband/wife wrongly use a passage in the Bible to back up their teaching. Before explaining the passage, l would like you to read it. And it came to pass, when men began to multiply on the face of the earth, and daughters were born unto them, That the sons of God saw the daughters of men that they were fair; and they took them wives of all which they chose, And the LORD said, My Spirit shall not always strive with man, for that he also is flesh: yet his days shall be an hundred and twenty years. There were giants in the earth in those days; and also after that, when the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them, the same became mighty men which were of old, men or renown. – Genesis 6:1-4 The passage above is what people misinterpret to believe there is spirit husband or wife. They wrongly teach that the sons of God referred to in the passage are fallen angels who had spiritual marriages with human beings. But that is wrong because verse four of the passage tells us that they gave birth to giants who became mighty and renowned men. If their children became renowned men on earth, it then means that the Bible is talking about physical marriages that took place in the physical realm. Yes, the Bible passage is talking of marriages that took place on earth and not in the spirit realm. Can marriages even take place in the spirit realm? Can spirits get married? |
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The devil deceives so many people with this trick by making them believe they have spirit husband or spirit wife. What Is Spirit Husband Or Wife? It is a doctrine that is taught mainly in some African countries. The doctrine states that demon spirits get married to human beings spiritually. And that anyone who has spirit husband or wife suffers so many afflictions, which includes disappointments, delayed marriage, barrenness, separation, and divorce. |
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You can’t cast out what does not exist! If for example you are trying to drive out a fly from a bottle that does not contain a fly, you will never succeed because there is no fly in the bottle. No matter how long you try, you will never succeed because no fly is in the bottle. Some people have been trying to cast out spirit husband/wife from their lives for over twenty years without success. The truth is that no matter how long a person attempts to cast out spirit husband/wife from his/her life, he/she cannot succeed because spirit husband/wife does not exist. The doctrine of spirit husband/wife is a trick of the devil. And praying to cast out spirit husband/wife is not the solution to the trick. The only solution to the trick is the realisation that you don’t have a spirit husband/wife. When you know you don’t have an evil spirit, you then become free. This explains why the Bible says when you know the truth; it shall make you free (John 8:32). Never you believe you have a spirit husband/wife or any other evil spirit. Any one that believes he or she has an evil spirit suffers accordingly. If a sister for example who desires to get married believes she has a spirit husband or serpentine spirit, then the devil has concluded his work in the sister’s life and she can never get married. No matter how hard she fasts or prays, she will still experience problems like someone that has an evil spirit. In fact the more she prays against the evil spirit, the more her problem increases because praying against the evil spirit is an indication that she believes she has the evil spirit. And because she believes she has an evil spirit, she suffers like people who have evil spirits, in spite of the fact that she prays against the evil spirit. What happens to a person is what he believes and not what he prays for. Apart from the fact that spirit husband/wife doesn’t exist; no Christian can have an evil spirit. If you are a Christian, do not be deceived. You cannot have you can read more here http://www.pastorchrisblog.com/2014/12/the-trick-of-spirit-husbandwife-part.html?m=1 |
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The devil uses the trick of spirit husband/wife to make people believe they have spirit husband/wife or any other evil spirit. And when a person believes he/she has spirit husband/wife, he/she suffers according to the teaching of spirit husband/wife because whatever a person believes happens in his/her life. The Solution To The Trick Of Spirit Husband/Wife The solution to the trick of spirit husband/wife is the realisation that you don’t have a spirit husband/wife. Don’t engage in divorcing spirit husband/wife. Praying against spirit husband/wife is not the solution. In fact, a person divorcing a spirit husband/wife is an indication the person believes he has it. Only married people can divorce. So, such prayer makes people go deeper into the bondage because whatever a person believes happens in his life. What can make you free from the trick of spirit husband/wife is to know you are not married to any spirit. How can you be married and you don’t know your spouse? Rather, someone else is telling you that you are married. In marriage the couple becomes one. It is not possible that you have a spouse and don’t know your spouse. Please understand that the reason people experience problems of spirit husband/wife is because they believe they have spirit husband/wife and not because they actually have it. If a sister truly has an evil spirit, it will not take more than one minute to cast out the evil spirit. Evil spirits don’t argue. Once you command them to get out, they obey without any form of resistance because of who we are in Christ Jesus. So, when a person is praying and fasting, attending deliverance sessions and doing all manner of things because he/she wants to cast out an evil spirit from his/her life, it then means there is no evil spirit in him/her. 3 Likes |
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Some people’s problems actually started after hearing a teaching on spirit husband/wife. For instance, a young unmarried lady was enjoying her life until she heard a teaching about spirit husband. She was taught that anyone who dreams of sex has a spirit husband/wife. And she was also taught that a spirit husband/wife causes disappointment, delay and crisis in marriage. She accepted the teaching and it corrupted her mind. That same night, when she was sleeping, she dreamt of sex. After having had sex in the dream, the young lady believed she had spirit husband because she was taught that anyone who dreams of sex has a spirit husband/wife. Because she believed the teaching that anyone who has spirit husband/wife would experience disappointment, delay or crisis in marriage, she started experiencing disappointments and delayed marriage. This prompted the young lady to start attending prayer and deliverance sessions in order to cast out the spirit husband. But unknown to her, her prayer against the spirit husband indicated she believed she had a spirit husband. And because whatever a person believes happens to him or her, she began to experience more disappointments. So the more she went for prayer and deliverance sessions, the more she suffered the plight. Whereas some people who have not heard such teaching get married easily without fasting because they don’t believe they have spirit husband/wife or any other evil spirit. 4 Likes |
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The Trick Of Spirit Husband/Wife Exposed The devil uses this trick to make Christians believe they have spirit husband/ wife, marine spirit, serpentine spirit or any other evil spirit. He also uses this trick to make people believe that disappointment, delay or crisis in marriage happen to a person that has an evil spirit. And if anyone believes he or she has an evil spirit, he or she will unfailingly suffer disappointment, delay or crisis in marriage because whatever a person believes is what happens in his life. |
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Why Do Some People Have Sex In The Dream? There are various reasons why a person can have sex in the dream. I will tell you four reasons that can make a person dream of sex. (1) The first one is abstinence from sex. When a person abstains from sex for a long time, it can make him or her think of sex and the end result is sex in the dream. Don’t forget that a dream is a series of mental images or emotions that occur during sleep. Once a person’s thoughts dwell on sex, he or she may dream of having sex. (2) Another reason that can make a person dream of sex is when he/she meets someone he/she is attracted to and his/her thoughts dwell on the person. Because he/she is thinking of the person, he/she may dream of sex. (3) When a person watching television or other media sees two people touch themselves in a manner that affects his or her emotions, he or she may dream of sex. (4) Another reason is when a person unknowingly corrupts his/her own mind. This self-corruption of the mind usually happens during a prayer session against spirit husband/wife. When a person prays against spirit husband/wife, it is an indication that the person believes he/she has spirit husband/wife. Such prayer corrupts the mind of the person praying. And he/she would unknowingly begin to think of spirit husband/wife and when the person goes to sleep, he/she would dream of spirit husband/wife. So when a person prays against a spirit husband/wife, he thinks about it and subsequently dreams about it.This is the reason most people dream of spirit husband/wife on the day they pray against it. But the day they don’t pray against it, they don’t dream about it because they were not thinking of it. This happens to virtually everyone that prays against spirit husband/wife. 4 Likes |
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Does Sex In The Dream Signify Spiritual Attack? There is no place where the Scripture tells us that sex in the dream means spiritual attack. Some people teach their personal doctrines instead of teaching Scriptural doctrines. In Christianity, we ought to teach only Scriptural doctrines even when they contradict our own views. Sex in the dream does not mean spiritual attack and it does not mean the person has spirit husband or wife.Spirits don’t have physical bodies; that means they don’t have sexual organs. Because they don’t have sexual organs, they cannot have sex – how much more having sex with a Christian. If sex in the dream does not mean spiritual attack, why then do some people have sex in the dream? |
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