KingOfAmebo:


Liked by 400 idiots...

according to seun, they now have like bots on nairaland... the likes might be from a whatsapp group.

Moh247:




Foolish kids think mocking their elders make them woke

Last last, Morr0n like Rinu and Odeyan would see they just played themselves

Politics isn't white or black, and no saints, it's what favours your intrest you go for

If you think a 62 year old supreme court Governor impeached twiced in 8years, who used state funds for his own private investment, 2.2 Philosophy graduate of Nsuka, same man culpable in Panama papers tax Haven corruption published worldwide and aired on CNN, Culpable in Azuka SARS murder of Massob, or the number one Importer of junks like alcohol and tomato, paying graduate 22k in his mall means well for you then you are foolish




.

Your 400+ liked post does not mean jack... my own joy is that you guys have been restricted to nairaland...

Adebaba1:
Bro I will try your method today

Just look for something around to compliment. Let say you see she made a hair... or looks good in her dress, tell her you like the hair or dress as it looks good on her. Ask for her name and ask whether you guys can be friends... that is all. no long story.

To get a lady, just look for something around her to start the conversation... it could be anything like her phone, her dress, her hair, her nails, anything at all.

there was even a girl I used her glasses to start conversation with... all i said was "is that a recommended glass"? and we exchange words and conversed briefly but I didn't want to proceed beyond that...

You can even use tribal marks on their faces if they have one. I have done this too by asking whether a lady is from Edo state...

The problem I had was starting conversation and this has helped me.

Adebaba1:
mehn bruv its hard i no go lie
everyday on my way home, i see a lot of fine girls in the bus or at the bus stop
its so hard to approach to them....make they no wash me
online dating sucks more sef

It is not hard bro. Women want you to approach them, they want you to talk to them and if you do it in a crowd of people, it will even boost your credential in her eyes.

Watch these videos on this channel for like 1 week and your mindset will change: https://www.youtube.com/@socialanimal

Medianna:
Smiles.
So all the epistle is to how to toast a lady..
It is not all men that toast ladies na especially matured men. So maybe you belong to that group.
As little as 'can you be my friend' will do. You don't have to be a Romeo or recite songs of solomon in the first days
Ladies at not stupid they understand when a man is interested in them even without been told.

I had to come back to this thread because of this statement. The emboldened is very true as I used it to eventually get a lady in church. I complimented her outfit and asked if we can be friends, asking for her name and number. She gave it and even buzzed me by herself as soon as I got home.

Thank you Medianna and everyone who commented on this thread. And yeah, ya boy has over 5 girls on his contact now...

Obavoh:
God just blessed me and my wife with a bouncing baby girl at 6:15am early this morning. My home has 3 soldiers and 1 princess . I am happy.

Join me to celebrate. For the women looking for fruit of the womb, your prayers will be answered.

P.S: I might not be a millionaire but I do not beg to feed, clothe or house my wife and kids.

My eldest child is 4 and will begin school next January by the special grace of God. I will see all my kids to university level.

I will give birth to as many children as God blesses me with. As long as I keep on performing my responsibilities, I will not lack to provide for my family.

I rather spend on my wife and kids than carry multiple women and live a reckless life.

Stay blessed

Congratulations. Did I read you will give birth to as many kids? just make sure those kids will not be disturbing any relatives or neighbours or friends later... cos you cant be giving birth to kids carelessly and expect someone else to add your wahala to their own like I was experiencing with my relative until I asked them to stop!

Isokiscool:
Nobody was expecting them to show up..... makinde is a bigot who is working for his brother Tinubu. Wike is a very terrible looser while ortom dey pity Wike but we all know he is already with Atiku

Makinde is not your typical Nigerian politican... the man understand the times that we are in and will stand to do the right thing.

sarkinbauchi:
While Peter Obi should be visiting the Northern parts of Nigeria and establishing a strong presence there with his Vice President, commissioning Labour Party offices, he is busy travelling from country to country visiting international organisations thinking all the youths in Nigeria are on lockdown for him.

I'm beginning to see he is not serious at all about his camapaign efforts.
Nigerian youths should think of voting Atiku if the unseriousnesss of Peter Obi continues to persist. We cannot afford to allow APC come back.

Peter Obi has done a lot of Northerner movements but I like the fact that you feel this way, which is how his opponents think as well. He will shock you all.

ObituaryYebo:
Makinde will do them shege.

He will work for Tinubu internally.

Good move. Sheyi

Mankinde does not do ugly politics like your agbado master. he does not do ethnic politics cos it was not ethnic politics that brought him to power

Quintopia:
I KNEW BUHARI WOULD DELIVER ON ELECTRICITY BEFORE THE END OF HIS TENURE, LIKE HE PROMISED.

WELL DONE MR PRESIDENT.

WHAT WE AWAIT NOW IS TO HIT 6,000 TO 7,000 MEGAWATTS BEFORE THE END OF THIS ADMINISTRATION.

you and those that liked your post are mad...

NigeriaIsDoomed:
Constructed by an indigenous company, Hensek. Akwa Ibom is more progressive than the entire country.
From a village in 1987 to a destination state.
Nigerians if you like continue to elect sick and partly dead ancestors to preside over the affair of over 200 million people, you are doing yourselves.

I love the way they take road construction very seriously.

They should move to industrialization asap... people will move massively there.

Antimarraige:
Just have money and clean ride, na dem go dey approach you. Everywhere you go like MTN

lol bros, I am not broke but sincerely, I wouldn't want to attract a woman with material stuff. I want to learn how to do it without those cos there are guys doing that.

Patrioticbreed9:

I was determined to!

I felt it was enough!.

So..

I took what ever am learning serious and started manifesting them asap.

Get a body size mirror if you can, for pratice.

Learn how to smile with confident and not sheepish smile, 80% of your problem will be solved.

Secondly just as rema said: oga calm down, calm down.

If you perfect this two point you are 90% ready!

You can freestyle the remain 10% inbuitly dont try to copy someone else or fake it, that 10% is you.

Every lover must not be like spiderman, blackpanther is also a good lover.

Your personality is what will make her talk to lenubari and still talk to you.

Thanks man. I appreciate this a lot. Hopefully, I will get over it soon. I will work towards improving it

bmddmix:
who is this one, u no sabi book?

lol bro, I mean I should do the calling. I don't want you to spend your airtime cos I am the one that needs help and should also be the one to spend the airtime. It is just courtesy but you feel offended. I didn't intend to offend you.

chikasnight:
It's just practice man
I was like this in secondary School until around when I wrote ssce then I started meeting guys older than me and we were placing bets on meeting girls, I don't want to fall hands so I joined that's what we did everyday after waec lessons. We did it for fun back then but it really helped my confidence. By the time I entered uni I was approaching every pretty girl like a mad man � without really having any intention or what to do with them.
So
Approach every lady you find attractive, make mistakes learn and keep repeating it it's fun

Thank you. I will do that.

Medianna:
Smiles.
So all the epistle is to how to toast a lady..
It is not all men that toast ladies na especially matured men. So maybe you belong to that group.
As little as 'can you be my friend' will do. You don't have to be a Romeo or recite songs of solomon in the first days
Ladies at not stupid they understand when a man is interested in them even without been told.

Thanks.

The epistle was just to give a background of my experience. It got so bad at a point that I started thinking something is wrong with me... but then, male friends that I have had feel I am a great guy, but why are these girls making a mess of my effort as if I am so terrible? I asked myself multiple times. I mean, the same way I give to my male friends is the same way I tried to extend it to ladies I met. While one gender appreciates my caring nature, the other ones see me as moro.n and still brag about it to my face. Do I blame them? NO! I caused it. In an attempt to hide my weakness in approaching ladies simply because technology made it easy, I brought disrespect to myself.

The last one just used me to while away time...blocked me twice and threatened to block me for the 3rd time. WHY? because she got another guy. I looked at myself and said I can't allow this to continue, I just can't.

Sorry about the epistle... I just wanted people to know why I really need to get help so that they can take out time out of their busy schedules and help me out.

Thanks for your tip. I will put them to actions.

Patrioticbreed9:

You are welcome.

I was just like you in my uni days.

how did you overcome it?

Patrioticbreed9:
Teachingmenfashion channel on youtube will help you alot trust me.

wow. Thanks.i have come a YouTube addict of recent o.

plantainbender:
This used to be me way back.

*Learn to love yourself more

*Don't be a "woman-pleaser" - some prefer a hard guy.


Read up on self-discovery, temperament etc, it helps.

Yeah, I am doing that and loving it so far

Hi Guys,

I need your help on how to approach girls in public and meet new ones.

I was a chronic introvert for the most part of my life, though I have evolved a bit and I can talk to people, however, I noticed that if it is a girl I find attractive and would want to have something with, walking up to her to strike a conversation and possibly get her contact seems tough for me. I can handle anything after that phase or stage but walking up to her and talking is where I seem to have challenges.

I will appreciate any tip that can help me overcome this phase because I do understand that a man can't do without it.

In the past, I tried meeting some females online and trying to date but there are too many problems that come with that:

1. They are rarely at my location, which means it is a distant thing.

2. Because of my personality (I am too kind), they assume I am a slowpoke for being myself. Because of this, one said and I quote "if I want to bill you, I will bill you but to what end" In her mind, she thought that the little I did was because she is a girl and I don't have a mind of my own that she can just press any button and I will do her bidding all because she saw I took interest in her and making effort.

I didn't blame her but myself because nobody can insult you without your permission.

Sadly, this is who I am. I met someone on Nairaland in the past, we got talking on the phone and I asked him what he was doing. He told me he finished his exam but was stranded as there is no money to go back home. I asked him how much does he need to go back home and he told me. I sent him the money instantly. We are still friends today. I never met him before I did that and it was 2 years later that we met and he stayed at my house for a few days. If I had done that for a girl, she would be thinking something else.

A friend needed a laptop, again, I have never met him but we have been communicating and doing some stuff together . I promised to help him and despite the challenges I had last year, I saved up the money and sent it to him bit by bit until it was complete.

After the experience with the girl above, I started having anxiety about giving girls money or caring much, even though I have had the urge to help a few times, except the women are older like 2 days ago when 2 women were begging keke driver to carry them. I stood there and told the keke driver to carry them and paid for it. But if it were younger girls, I wouldn't do that.

3. Doing this online stuff is hard because the girl involved can be dealing with 10 guys and most times, you could be messed up, no matter how genuine your intentions might be. I even had one experience with a Nairalander and it didn't end well either. They see my effort as desperation so, I am ruling out anything online.

4. You can't gauge the other person's commitment and it is easy to be played by the other person. They can easily go back on their words like they never had anything with you. Had a girl do that and she just acted like she didn't have any prior discussions with me.

It was some Hitech emotional siege or ambush. You can't confront her because you don't even have evidence, or you will be seen as nagging.

Apparently, I was just used to while away time pending when another guy came and she jumped ship lol. She blocked twice me because I reacted. By the time she unblocked me, I stopped responding to her and she has tried all manner of tactics to get me to respond for more than 4 months. I have had the urge to tell her to furk off but that will be a reaction from me which she is desperately seeking. My silence is enough.

It may have worked for others and I wish them well but certainly, I wouldn't try it again.

I would appreciate the help in overcoming this challenge and please, men only should respond. I don't want to do anything online again or use the money to attract any woman into my life. Please help!