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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Southampton Vs Chelsea (0 - 3) On 7th October 2018 by PunditAfrica(m): 4:30pm On Oct 07, 2018
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Romance / Re: Britain Celebrates World Nudity Day.(photos) by PunditAfrica(m): 4:24pm On Oct 07, 2018
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Celebrities / Re: Maheeda Exposes Man Who Masturbated With Her Nude Photos. Fans React by PunditAfrica(m): 4:16pm On Oct 07, 2018
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Romance / Re: What Women Really Want... Surprise! by PunditAfrica(m): 2:36pm On Oct 06, 2018
marshalldgreat:
Okay

Lolx,

Space booker spotted!

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Romance / Re: Attract Any Woman With These 4 Things by PunditAfrica(m): 2:34pm On Oct 06, 2018
Redeakaa:
Wow u actually expected me to read all that.....really.....haba bros....... E too much na

Lolx,

It is meant for people who will read and learn some drills from it bruv!
Romance / What Women Really Want... Surprise! by PunditAfrica(m): 2:29pm On Oct 06, 2018
You will often hear a woman say something like: "I want a strong guy who is also sensitive..." ...or... "He needs to have his own life, his own interests, and his own friends, but also be totally focused on me..."

I hear stuffs like this alot from women. I'm sure you've hear things like this yourself. Women often talk about wanting a combination of things in a man that just don't seem to fit... So what's going on here?

Are women crazy? Yes. But seriously, what are they talking about?

How is it that women seem to always talk about wanting men who have these qualities that don't fit together?

Meanwhile, I know that I personally used to hear this stuff and then say to myself "Ok, well I've got the sensitive part covered so I guess I need to start acting a little bit stronger." I thought that maybe this came down to getting my lazy ass to the gym and working out. You know, to become "stronger."
Well, here's the big realization that I had...

I Realized That I Had Everything All Wrong!
Instead of thinking to myself that I was a nice, sensitive guy that needed to become a little stronger, what I really needed was to become a strong guy who could also act sensitive on occasion.

The difference seems almost like word-play, but it's not. Not at all! You see, when a woman says that she wants a "strong guy who's also sensitive," that's what she means. She wants a guy who's strong. The sensitive part is far more optional than the strong part.

This is why women often date jerks [playboy] and guys who are emotionally unavailable, and don't date us "nice guys" who would do anything for them.

There are certain attitude that communicates strength to a woman but...

A lot of times, guys do things in an ideal way. I don’t blame us, most of us think that being nice, sane and cautious with women will earn us trust and by extension make her want us – So wrong!

Get it today, when it comes to men, women are not looking out for ideals, they are rather looking out for a guy whose character can spark that deep subconscious energy within them. Deep subconscious energy called Emotions!

Most times, women think they want an ideal way guy, but when they are with such men, they wouldn’t feel exactly as they want but when around a Jerk that does opposite of what they think they want, they can see themselves feel a gut level emotions for him.

It’s crazy but that is the way it is.

Ideal guys do this four “attraction killer” stuffs and miss it with Women

1. They give pretty much control to the woman
2. They act needy around a woman
3. They are too serious about life
4. They care too much

Care too much? Well, these stuffs should get a girl fall head over heal for a guy but no she feels the opposite!

Now, Jerk does these Four “attraction magnet” stuffs and get away with most women

1. They lean back
2. They act cocky and atleast a bit sarcastic
3. They bust on women and give them a hard time
4. They lead the way, they don't follow

These kind of attitude communicates power and it leaves women with uncontrollable emotions for jerks... Try them!

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Celebrities / Re: Policeman Taking Photos Of Woman’s Butt At Drake Concert by PunditAfrica(m): 10:35pm On Oct 05, 2018
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Celebrities / Re: Lady Twerking To Yemi Alade's 'Bum Bum' That Got People Talking (photos) by PunditAfrica(m): 10:26pm On Oct 05, 2018
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Romance / Re: Attract Any Woman With These 4 Things by PunditAfrica(m): 9:59pm On Oct 05, 2018
MJBOLT:
not having '30 billion in the account' grin

Loolx...

That is the common saying though: money, height, look, pink lips, abs etc but all those things are not what makes woman to be deeply attracted to a man.

I have seen rich guys [men] that beg for love. I am sure you probably have seen a guy with abs, height and all that beg for attraction too.

Looks and physicality can only help a little, the ultimate attraction trigger is an attitude... A certain kind of learn-able attitude and triggers precisely!

Have you ask why Jerks [Playboys] dates pretty classy fine babes much more easily than regular guys?

Well,

Attraction Isn't A Choice!!!

Attraction is an emotional and physical response... and you can't "convince" a woman to feel it with logic, gifts, and NICENESS or Money.

Attraction is the result of a woman meeting a man who understands how attraction works... and who knows what to do in each specific situation to progress to the next level.

The problem with attraction and with success with women in general is that the things you need to do to be successful are NOT OBVIOUS. They're counter intuitive, in many cases. In other words, they're the OPPOSITE of what you'd THINK would make sense.

You have to do things like create tension... stop doing something that she likes... give her time to miss you... etc. And if you don't understand attraction, a woman is going to KNOW IT and she will just dump you where women dump 80% of common men.​
Romance / Attract Any Woman With These 4 Things by PunditAfrica(m): 9:35pm On Oct 05, 2018
Good Evening Nairaland,

It took me so many years of loneliness and research to realize the information I will be sharing with you now and in the coming days.

Before I go further, keep this in mind: Women are looking out to meet guys just as guys are looking to meet them but because they are the ones being seek, they wait for the best choice.

Are you her best choice?

See, in my lonely years, I did things the same way 80% of men do it and guess what I got same result – boring relationships and sometimes bitter rejection. Maybe you have heard same experience or you are currently having it but going forward I hope to help you achieve more success with women.

To start, I have listed four things most men do that is so unattractive to women...

Like most guys, I was guilty of the "Common Man Thinktitude" for many years. When am asking girls out, I put myself at their mercy. I would try so hard to impress them. I would pass all the power to her. I would approach in a way that puts her in a higher pedestal than me and I would be bitter when I get rejections!

Even in dating, like most guys, I wouldn't take the lead because I think by letting her decide, I would please her. I was wrong, women actually are attracted to guys that does opposite of what most guys do [during approach or in dating].

Most Men do these, do you?

1. Giving Up Your Status In Exchange For Her Attention And Approval

If I had to describe the one single thing that both annoys women and destroys a guy's chances, it would be this. It has taken me a long time to see this particular pattern, but it's everywhere.

Men, in effect, say "Hi, I want your approval and attention. I'm willing to let YOU be the one who's in control... and let YOU call the shots... and do anything to please YOU... if you'll give me your attention and approval."

But the problem is that women don't want you to give up your status and "manliness." Women aren't attracted to men who act weak and tentative. Women secretly HATE IT when a guy does something to demonstrate that he'll give away his power in return for approval. THEY HATE IT!

Take a few minutes to think this one over, and maybe write down the ways that you make this mistake with women.
More importantly, think about how you're going to STOP DOING IT IMMEDIATELY.

2. Being Needy, Clingy, And Insecure

When one person clings to another person psychologically, the person who is being clinged to resent and REJECTS the needy, clingy emotional parasite...This is weak behavior at its worst.

If a guy is on the phone with a girl he just met, and she says "Hey, I have to go," he might say "Aw, well... um... OK. Um, will you call me when you get home?"

Or let's say a guy and a girl are out on their first date, and they're walking around in a large department store. Most guys will follow the woman everywhere, and not leave her side for a minute. If she wanders away, he'll come find her immediately.

He'll stay physically close to her, as if he's afraid she'll leave without him.

And an even worse example is a guy who is so emotionally insecure that he actually asks a woman to tell him that he's nice, fun, interesting, etc.
Women HATE this stuff. It makes them shiver with the heebie-jeebies. And it kill your chances!

3. Not Leading (Or Even Worse... Trying To Get HER To Lead)

Guess what... all women have WUSS-DAR. And one of the things that trigger a woman's wuss-dar is a man who "follows."

The real problem is that most women won't try to lead naturally. So you've got a situation where a man is trying to follow a woman who isn't leading. He's looking for little cues so he knows where to go and what to do... but he isn't getting them.

So what does he do? He asks for them! He says "So, I was thinking of maybe taking you to Olive Garden for dinner... how does that sound?"

Everything about the way he asks says to the woman "I'm trying to figure out what you want me to do... please help me know how you want me to act, where you want me to take you, and what you want me to say."

This is ATTRACTION DEATH! Men who don't lead, and even worse, try to get a woman to lead, annoy the living daylights out of women. They HATE IT.

4. Not Being Interesting To Be Around

Underneath most behavior that I see most guys acting out is a core belief that goes like this: "I don't believe that an attractive woman would want to be around me just because she enjoys my presence... so I make up for it by saying and doing certain things that I hope she'll enjoy... and if she enjoys those other things enough, then maybe she'll want to spend more time with me."

Hey, man.

Well guess what? Most attractive women know that if a guy isn't interesting to be around, she's eventually going to go CRAZY being around him. In other words, no amount of material gifts, compliments, dinners, and other displays will ever compensate for a lack of BEING INTERESTING.

Here's a profound thought: I and several other guys I know have many women who call us often... just because they enjoy being around us.

These women would be happy just to be in the same room with us... and enjoy our company. And yes, these women CALL US often.

Material gifts, food, flowers, and other displays have ZERO lasting value to a woman when it comes to how she FEELS about you.

An attractive woman wants a guy who lights her up. She wants to feel good. She wants mystery... she wants to laugh... she wants a challenge... she wants sexual tension. If you're using compliments, gifts, food, and other displays to get a woman's attention... you need to ask yourself a tough question: Is it because you don't believe that a woman would want to be around you just to be around you?

…Because if you don't know how to be interesting to a woman, then no amount of compensation is going to fix the problem. If you're boring, predictable, and uninteresting, then you're never going to have women calling YOU to hang out.

Oh, and women HATE IT.

You can learn to be interesting around women just like any other subject. But I seriously think it will be better to learn all that it takes to attract a woman and make her fall so in love with you…

I was freaky single and lonely for so many years until I discovered "the triggers and attitude of attraction", I will reveal more stuff to you soon.
You can check exactly "How I Went From Being Lonely and Single To Becoming Centre of Attraction For Women" here: https://www.adultng.com

Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage: Seeing Bill Gates At One Of My Concerts Is What I Want (video) by PunditAfrica(m): 4:58pm On Aug 29, 2018
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Crime / Re: Ayodeji Bejide, GTBank MD Arrested For Throwing Calculator At Staff In Liberia by PunditAfrica(m): 9:01am On Aug 29, 2018
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(Story of how Tobi Grey, a Gbagada grown guy transform from being a lonely guy to someone who knows how to get any woman he desire. In a twinkle, Tobi no longer chase women to date but women fight to have him. He changed ABC about himself and voom, he became the centre of attraction for women… Please Don’t Read If You Don’t Want To Know How To Get Women At Will)... Read Here: https://adultng.com/

Literature / Re: Ikeogu Oke's Dressing To Collect His N36m NLNG Prize For Literature In Lagos by PunditAfrica(m): 1:33pm On Feb 10, 2018
BeardedMeat:
What's this one saying abeg? sad

You need depth to understand his point..
Africa needs to grow up from pretentious independence and follow follow syndrome..
We r a consumer continent yet we want to b proud of ourselves!
What exactly is our offering to d world that we can beat our chest about?
Romance / Re: Dedicate A Song To Your Lover by PunditAfrica(m): 10:15pm On Jan 27, 2018
hefelove:
Ed Sheeran- Lego House
Kiss
Perfect
How would you feel
Photograph

Timi Dakolo- The Vow and Iyawo Mi

Adekunle Gold- Beautiful Night

Tray Song- Slow Motion ( i sing this to her wen i wanna get nawti smiley )


Tjan- Aduke and Your Smile

Simi- Smile

Psquare- I Love You

Beyonce- Irreplacable

Dija- Awwwww

Banky W- Dont break my heart, Made for U

Sean Tizzle- Jalolo

2baba- Officially blind
African Queen
Be There
Outside

Olamide- Melo Melo
Na man u be.. Outside by 2baba got me fresh p u s s y

We were taking a stroll, talking nut and I sang d song to her ear,, d rest na kiss kiss and ...
Phones / Re: Iland Genesys: 5-inch Hd Display, Android 5.1, 1gb Ram, N15,000 by PunditAfrica(m): 2:47am On Jan 09, 2018
henry007:


I don't know how much you got the s6 edge plus I don't think it's all that expensive when compared with Gionee older flagships shocked, could be a mix up. However, Samsung S6, s6 edge and s6 edge plus were the least feature rich flagships that year even though the display was exceptional. The speed of the phone was throttled a long time ago way way before the expiry date of the phone. I was so irritated by iOS 11 on the iPhone 6 plus when they throttled the speed but nothing compared to the Samsung S6 speed when i tried to do ordinary Xender with it. I wanted to curse out the phone in front of the owner that "what kind of rubbish is this". So my advice(now that you've already taken the plunge) would be whatever you do, don't upgrade the OS. I wish samsung would even come out to own up to it, no need for secrecy.
No Samsung galaxy series cost is comparative wt gionee... Gionee priced lyk dem infinix, tecno BT kinda more quality than they r..

Bought d s6 edge plus for 100k (American used)

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