omoelerin1:
You don't know the great thing God has done for you. The kind of thing wey be say many ladies are looking for. You no even thank God for positioning his dick towards you alone. Don't be an ingrate.
If you are not careful, those your friends will start envying you. Before you know, they will like to taste from what you dey chop.

On a serious note, It seems your man loves you at the same time he has a very high libido probably because he is not married. If he doesn't love you, he would have been finding a way of reducing his sexual pressure through another girl.
Hopefully, after you people might have got married, his sexual drive may reduce.
My concern is when he is playing it too rough to the extent of making it painful to you.

You need to discuss it very well now before you get married. Will he understand it when you're sick or when your body is just not feeling fine? How will he cope when you just give birth? Hope he will not go out? Talk to him. communication is very important.

he doesn't force or ever coerce me for sex.if I refuse him he will just hold his dic.k and be looking at me with this pleading eye that oftentimes makes me give in.but when we have sex after the pleading eye it is often disastrous to me cos he will literally finish me and I 'll have pains in my down region and my nip.ples cos he will man handle them terribly

soberdrunk:
I wonder how anyone can claim to be in a "relationship" with someone and be scared of telling them important issues, you guys trust each other enough to have access to each other's phone but you cannot tell him that you cannot keep up with his sexual appetite?

I said that I 've spoken to him about it yet there are still no changes he keeps saying that am his weakness.oftentimes when I go to his house within 3 minutes his d.ick is already up without touching him ooo.just hug ooo.can I ever keep up with him.all my friends are saying that am very lucky but none knows my plight.I only came here for advice cos it's like the only option I have.

Windflower:
Clearly no one on this thread understands ur point. I am not married but I know sexual compatibility is very important in marriage. I used to have an ex like that too, anytime he sees me, even without touching he is already alert. I always dreaded getting married to someone like him cos of his high libido. My opinion is since he is so good in other areas, it's very hard for you to get the full package this days, you can have a heart to heart conversation,look for ways to increase your libido if you don't want him to cheat.
Nothing comes perfect, we have to make compromise and if you think you can't deal with it, let him know.

thanks dear.U kinda understand my plight.am trying my best to keep up with him though

my fiance fvcks me like an animal.
He is a nice and cute guy with some cash for a young man of his age but he really is overboard with s,ex especially in the aspect of licking me down there.sometimes when I come to his house he will just remove my pant and start sucking me as if his life depends on it.whenever we have se.x he often leaves me sour.cos he will make sure my whole body remembers him even after 3 days. my nips too ain't spared.I barely gives him head cos I really don't like it but he doesn't mind giving me head a whole day without me responding back. I have spoken with him about this but he keeps on saying that he can't help it, that am his weakness. he gives me everything whether I ask or not, he treats me like a queen .he is a nice guy and disciplined but his s.ex way is really frightening me. am 26 this year but lost my virginity to him last year at 25 and since it has been him and only him.we are very open to each other our phones isn't private, any of us can access each other's phone but am really scared.he will come see my parents next month for marriage stuff but am really scared of everything.I do love him but the mere remembrance that am gonna be having sex with him for life and the sourness scares me.please fellow nairalanders help me with an advice.thank you