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Family / Re: Divorced Women In Nigeria by PureOhio(f): 1:49am On Jan 09, 2014
coogar:
because she's peace-loving.
loretta is the victim here - she shouldn't be blamed. when the cabal were after your life, did you ignore them?

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Family / Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by PureOhio(f): 7:32pm On Jan 08, 2014
coogar:

hahahaha - step your chase game up. if you want something, go for it. that's better than mind-förnicating with a guy that is completely oblivious of your feelings towards him. grin

Nah. I got chased. Though the knuckle head claims I did the chasing. Wishful thinking. cheesy

I know it makes you glad to see a woman chasing you, so I don't really fault you.

The only people we should be mind-fornicating with are celebrities. grin If a guy doesn't like you, you'll know. No need to patch-patch and force . Let it flow, ladies. It's good for the heart in the long run.
Family / Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by PureOhio(f): 7:05pm On Jan 08, 2014
coogar:

didn't i say from my experience?

Your experience is insignificant in the grande scheme of things. I'm right, you're wrong, in the bigger picture.
Family / Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by PureOhio(f): 6:59pm On Jan 08, 2014
coogar:

from my experience, the fantasists are the ones difficult to bed. just like you said, she's planned honeymoon in her head - majority of these fantasists are anti-premarital sex. she only wants a husband, not sex. grin

A girl that asks you out isn't a traditionalist, so odds are she's for pre-marital sêx.
What i meant by Planning honeymoon in her head is, she's already in love with you in her head. She's yearning for you. Just a "hi" from you makes her wet.
So yes, she's all for pre-marital sêx.
Family / Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by PureOhio(f): 6:47pm On Jan 08, 2014
coogar:
no way....
getting sex from a girl that approached me might not even pan out. what if i don't like the chic, what if she's not my type?
getting sex from a girl i approached is even surer. i must have found her attractive before approaching her so it's a surer bet.

Who's willing to give up sëx between the two. The one that's already planned your honeymoon in her head or the one that's still fronting. Assuming you find them both attractive, who is easier to bed?
Family / Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by PureOhio(f): 6:31pm On Jan 08, 2014
coogar:

and what makes you think a guy will readily bed every woman that approaches him? you think men don't put women through their own selection process? read my lips clearly - we do. it's just that women are very smart these days they use makeup & accessories to cover up a lot of things & we get smitten by the props.

Seems you just want to type for the sakes of typing. When did selection come into the topic? I don't care if you select or not. Before you select, don't you have to have options? And which is easier? Your options coming to you or you going to your options?

My point is, getting sëx from a girl that approach you is easier than getting sëx from a girl you're approaching.. less work.
Deciding to bed her is another story . But if he wants to, it's easy-er.
Family / Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by PureOhio(f): 6:18pm On Jan 08, 2014
coogar:

i am curious....
what's the meaning of free sex for guys? should sëx be sold? besides, when this guy is having the sex, you mean the woman's senses die altogether & she cannot enjoy it?

Didn't even notice I said. Don't capitalize on that abeg. I hate when women say a guy used them for sëx too.

What I meant by free sëx is the process leading to the sêx, he wouldn't have to do much to get the sëx because the babe would do practically do anything he wants.

Back the argument pls..
Family / Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by PureOhio(f): 6:09pm On Jan 08, 2014
coogar:

i am arguing for sex equality grin
of course - when there's a risk involved, adrenaline kicks in. the best place to have sëx is on an aircraft while making sure you don't get caught.
women should do a bit more than subtle hints. my eyes might be on someone else while she's waiting for me to make a move. those coded old-school ways of getting a man's attention are no longer effective....
i am not going to notice your new hairstyle or those acrylic nails. i might not even notice the effect your new wonderbra is having on the cleavage. i want clear communication that tacitly tells me you are interested. grin cool

Sëx equality? Good luck in your fight.
You want clear communication because it makes you happy that a lady wants you not necessarily because you care. And ladies hinting they like you is usually free sëx for guys or even free gold digging grin
There's always someone out there you like, as a guy, and that's where the focus should be. Let's leave things the way they were mean to be.

Isn't it funny that fighters for sëx equality are very selective, or rather they talk from both sides of their mouth.

A man fighting for sëx equality wants to split money and resources 50/50, but want women to do the chasing.

A woman fighting for sëx equality doesn't want a man to hit her when she hits him first.

Attempting to eat your cake and having it, is why divorce rate is so high.
Family / Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by PureOhio(f): 5:50pm On Jan 08, 2014
coogar:

that is no trouble!
the ones men ask out & dump actually do worse things than this one. it's all part of the fun.
rejection is what makes them mad? hahaha
you don't think women would still be mad even if they are not rejected? come on - this is a stretch!
good point!
however, when the issue is about splitting money or resources. it becomes man = woman, isn't it?
there's a stark difference between availability & desirability. the ones who make themselves readily available command no respect. it's the elusive ones that are mostly desired. cool

Whoever said man= woman? And why are you putting words in my mouth?

You know what they say about the meat stolen from the pot of soup tasting sweeter that regular meat. It's not sweet when your yansh getting whipped though.

Same reason why girls are drawn to married men. Doesn't mean its ok. You already agreed that I have a good point. What now?
Family / Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by PureOhio(f): 5:34pm On Jan 08, 2014
bukatyne:
Yummy!
I like the s.e.Bleep on the beach drink.
Does it have any special effect in ? on the beach?
It's just a regular drink with a catchy name.

coogar:
spot on!
i will never understand men who starve their women. if my woman cannot floss then shame on me. i get high from my friends telling me they saw my woman somewhere & she killed it. cool



what are the odds that the woman i rejected would come after me with a machete? come on, we are not in the amazon forest. there are ways of rejecting someone subtly without her knowing.
i want women to start going after what they desire. waiting for him to come to you often brings heartbreak, regret, depression & whatnot. this is why we have so many angry females on the internet lately. grin there's no crime in hinting your target you like him.
nice!

Chasing after you with a cutlass= blowing up your phone 200 times a day = looking for subtle ways to ruin your current relationship = resenting you = looking for any means to get revenge
Not necessarily "cutlass".

Actually, there are a lot of angry females on the Internet because they got rejected. Females aren't angry when they're crushing on a guy. That's the best part for them. Every little thing he does makes them giggle.

It sounds good on textbook for womem to go after men, sound exciting. But in the long run, it's a mess. Men are men and women are women for a reason. We keep forgetting that.

Waiting for him to love you causes heartbreak and depression because she's not paying attention to those that can already die for her.
Family / Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by PureOhio(f): 5:18pm On Jan 08, 2014
coogar:

feminists should hate you for this.

men don't take rejection well too - we have only managed to cope with the situation over the years.
oh please, quit the sentiment.....
if a woman goes out of her way to ask her guy out, it means she wants him. i would be disappointed if i find out a girl admires me from a distance & she cannot at least gimme hints or go all the way to tell me how she feels. it tells me she has confidence issues and she's indecisive.
i never knew this has become the hunter & the hunted ish. are you your partner's meat?
i disagree....
crushes are normal across both genders. if you want something go for it. suffering in silence or fasting & praying will not cut it.

Men don't take rejection well? Well, there's a reason 99% of Presidents in the world are male. There's a reason you guys are programmed to do the toasting. The odds that you'll go after the woman that rejected you with a cutlass is lower. It becomes a shïtty situation when we start swapping the gender roles.

You want the woman to chase you because it's a new and exciting experience for most men. If I've been eating rice for weeks, at some point I'll like beans for a change. It's normal for you to feel that way.
But in reality and in the long run, what I illustrated comes close to the truth.

Hunter-hunted is an analogy.

Fasting and praying? I don't even believe in those two things.

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Family / Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by PureOhio(f): 5:02pm On Jan 08, 2014
charles316:

baby mama and jennykandry are drama queens jor. All those women talk about is f0rking,forking and f0rking. Im sure they arent even getting the action like they are making u girls believe. Fantasies!

Lol
Family / Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by PureOhio(f): 4:43pm On Jan 08, 2014
The same reason why men are the head and women are the neck bla bla bla. This is the reason why marriages are so screwed up nowadays. We want to change everything!
There are some things that should be left the way they are. Let the men toast

--Women are emotional beings. No matter how much we want to feign the "tough persona", women don't take rejection very well. They may not show it, but it hurts like a bïtch. I've heard plenty stories of girls going after the guy that rejected them.

-- For a woman to go out of her way to toast a guy directly or indirectly, it means she's way toooo in love.
When a woman.loves her man more than he loves her, it's a danger zone.
Think of a normal woman, then amplify her emotional hormones grin She's gonna be jealous (amplified), territorial (amplified), needy (amplified), CIA (amplified). These are the kind of women that end up on an episode of "I killed my husband".

I mean, the guy is her meat, she haunted him down and caught him.

-- When girls have crushes on guys, every mundane thing he does is misread as flirting. And every subsequent choices and decisions made on both sides will be made on that false foundation.

Nuff said.

The guys here will advise you to "go for it", because they love it when girls chase after them. It feels different from the norm. Different isn't always good.

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Family / Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by PureOhio(f): 4:02pm On Jan 08, 2014
Ronnie65:

Am not forming for him Cougar. he comes all flirty a times and that goes on for like two days and next five days he becomes official.
Just don't want to be made a laughing stock.
I however am not worried of rejection, life goes on.

If he's interested in you relationship-wise, he would have made a move, especially if he's not the shy type.

The subtle signs are obvious enough. Don't push it. Being wanted and being loved is better than putting yourself out there to be wanted (in the long run). Let the men toast.
Family / Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by PureOhio(f): 12:32am On Jan 08, 2014
I get the ladies are more hörny. embarassed or I was just reading fantasies of the Girls' thread lipsrsealed
Family / Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 6:49pm On Jan 02, 2014
steph7: guilty what?!! lol mehn!! I have better thing to do with my time.
so let me get this straight you lot want to call seun and cry that someone is creating multiple IDs and liking another person's posts or his/her own posts. You do realise how childish that sounds right?

Yes! We'll call Seun. Yes it sounds childish, we'll be okay.

Steph7 will be the first person here spreading mat and chewing pop-corn when the ghost is revealed cheesy

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Family / Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 6:22pm On Jan 02, 2014
steph7:
you must be crazy!! if you think I have the time to create multiple monikers and like posts. all of a sudden j'adore was ileoba , now its me. lmao!! there is officially nothing I haven't read on NL today.

What's with the guilty conscience? I only asked if you were scared? You being scared might be because "the jadore" is someone you know or like . cheesy


If you're the one, please don't waste seun's time. He'll need resources to fish out the ghosts.

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Family / Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 6:08pm On Jan 02, 2014
steph7: Honestly, I don't see how the number of likes a comment on NL has, is an issue, whether they are made by humans or ghosts it still doesn't change the substance of the comment. I feel this whole polymonikering and IP address tracing, is unnecessary and uncalled for.

Are you scared?
Seun has been alerted and will be here later in the day to reveal who jadore is. grin
Family / Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 5:40pm On Jan 02, 2014
What's up with these flimsy accusations ?
If you're going to accuse someone of being someone else, have tangible evidence.
Family / Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 5:08pm On Jan 02, 2014
ileobatojo:

Nothing? I apologize for my error and move on. I have no qualms admitting when I'm wrong as long as it's demonstrable.

Sweet. We'll wait for Seun to bring back the button.
Family / Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 5:03pm On Jan 02, 2014
@ ileobatojo,
I've created the username and liked some posts on this page, but the deactivate button is currently not available. When it becomes available, we'll squash this.


Reminder ; your argument is that Coogar photo-shooed those names on the screenshot because you can no longer find any evidence that they ever existed on NL.

If I'm able to prove that usernames with only likes disappear after deactivation, what happens?
Family / Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 4:37pm On Jan 02, 2014
The only Jadore crew that posted was Jadoremoid and that's why he still exists.
The other Jadores only created the accounts to like posts. If you create an account to like posts and you deactivate it, there should be no evidence that you ever existed on NL, obviously.

I'm actually going to experiment. I'll create a username, like a bunch of posts, deactivate and see what happens

Brb.

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Family / Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 4:16pm On Jan 02, 2014
coogar:

plenty of others must have done - but they were not as quick thinking as i am. not too many people can do screenshots, i can.

you have been caught!

I saw it.. didn't bother screenshoting coz it was already out in the open.
Family / Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 4:15pm On Jan 02, 2014
But Nawa for some women sha. One was here crying that the OP replied a male before her. Another one created 6 monikers to like her own posts and others on her side of argument . grin

The thirst is real.

Why would Coogar (that was already getting likes normally alongside others on the OP's side of argument) create monikers to like his "opponents"' posts ??
Family / Re: My Ex Would Rather Remain Single, Than Make Up With Me. Am I So Bad?? by PureOhio(f): 11:40pm On Jan 01, 2014
Being a 30+ year old single woman in Nigeria is apparently a serious problem.

Suitor A is acting like she's doing the woman a favor. Captain-save-an-overripe-spinster.

Suitor B is scared that she might be barren.
If he discovers her chances of giving birth are slim ....

Eligible men are scarce for real.

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Family / Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by PureOhio(f): 8:39pm On Dec 31, 2013
@ Coogar
you have the £100-dry-cleaner because you spent money on the item.

What's a $10 F21 top doing at the dry-cleaner's? The money to dry-clean is even more than the price you got it for. grin
Family / Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by PureOhio(f): 8:22pm On Dec 31, 2013
Baby mama:
Quality at a bargain is the key
I have bought Calvin Klein and guess jeans at sam's club for $14.99
They have those deals once in a while

When it comes to Ross, Marshals, TJ/TK maxx(those hand-me-downs-from designer stores), they do have good deals. However, finding your size becomes the problem. They hardly have variety of sizes.
I'm sure you know why.

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Family / Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by PureOhio(f): 8:16pm On Dec 31, 2013
Baby mama:

Cheap sucks
Quality at a bargain is the key

Cheap does suck. I'm learning the hard way.
I got a pair of jeans for $15 at asos-online months ago. It was literally falling apart the first day I wore it ; zipper came off, button came off; On top say I won save money.

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Family / Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by PureOhio(f): 8:06pm On Dec 31, 2013
coogar:

lower-tier guys, abeg! how many professionals would go to a thrift store & buy stuff there. you know women can share such info & have fun with it. colleagues diss each other if they find out you are dumbing down.
£400 pair of jeans will buy about 40 pieces for the average woman. women already have the assets that get guys excited, the cloth is just an icing on the cake.
pedis & manis? what are you? angelina jolie? i cut my nails myself & if i am in lagos, my meiguard does it free of charge. grin
in the UK, it's for 5 months sef.
stuff like that are super expensive. the women just rock their braids or cut their hair low.
men are the ones footing these bills.....it's part of our expenses. we buy for ourselves & we still buy for our partners. how many women can really take their own money to buy $1,000 hair attachments?

40 pairs of jeans for £400? Na bend-down-select? And that's my point. After buying the pair of jeans for £10, the jeans will get ripped in the dryer after one wash. Now she has to get another pair.

A $100 skirt at zara = 5 trips to F21 to buy $20 skirts.

One good pair of jeans that would last you three years = numerous pairs for her over the same period of time.

All these bargains for females na lie. All those clothes on the clearance rack are nothing to write about compared to the real deal.
You still have to come back to buy more cheap shirts because the ones you bought have started to fade.


Meigaurd clipping your nails? Ew. You need Asians in your life.

It doesn't matter who is footing the bills, the point is women are more expensive.
Family / Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by PureOhio(f): 7:30pm On Dec 31, 2013
coogar:

well - you have a point!
but on the average, you have most men ready to peel to get ralphlauren products than step foot in primark. men even carry messenger bags these days - i think it's the british thing. men here dress to kill!
haaaaaaaaa - go to canary wharf on a friday evening. men with no cars bit £20,000 watches. are you kidding me? half of the stuff women are buying sef are gifts from their men. so no matter how you look at it. men are the ones bearing the brunt!
that's the issue....men buy like once/twice year but the value can pay for a wedding. grin cheesy wetin women dey buy? it's just quantity mostly.
i disagree with this.....

Uhn? Guys don't rock atmosphere ?
I had to volunteer at thrift store some weeks back and during the process it was mostly guys that came thrift-ing.

You're comparing yourself to most men. Majority of men don't rock £400 jeans.
Most of these blokes at canary wharf are trust fund babies. They are not the majority.

Remember I still have my pedis and manis, and MAC. 2 MAC foundations can buy you 2 shirts at Ralph.

You can't overlook the frequency at which women shop, and the things they have to buy.

You mentioned spending £120 for three months on your hair-cuts. Well-done braids would cost $200. Women hardly even keep them for 3 months nowadays.

Btw, braids are even cheap. Weaves have become a lucrative business; even guys sell weaves. There's a reason for that.
Family / Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by PureOhio(f): 6:59pm On Dec 31, 2013
coogar:

women shop more but their stuff are ridiculously cheap. your most expensive shoe would buy her entire wardrobe. they just have them in huge quantity, the value is nothing to fret about.

i do my hair £10 a week. that's £40/month. most women just wear braids in the UK & rock it for 3 months. grin they are better managers of money than men & their stuff are very very affordable.

That is a myth.
You'd buy her entire closet if you shop at ralphlauren etc. If you shop at forever21's men or any regular guys store, and she shops at F21, you and the female are on the same level.
If you both shop at ralphlauren, there's no difference.



Now, how many men actually shop at Ralph, buy movado watches ? Not the majority.

Plus, women's fashion evolve. Men's fashion is very stagnant (shirt and trouser). Women will keep buying to stay on trend. Men don't have to. Abi when last did you change your wrist watch?

Women are more expensive (the fashion conscious ones)

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Family / Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 6:01pm On Dec 31, 2013
Efemenaxy after reading OP's response to Coogar.

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