You're making reference to a 2010 BBC article. Why?

Hello Francababy, could you check your message portal and get back to me soon? Thank you.

God bless you jare. You just summed it up.

mbulela:


Don't waste your time and energy on the OP. He is incapable of comprehending such matters. He needs to stick to his Lai Mohammed/Olisa Metuh dramas.
On your last point, I doubt the girl has found closure. Last I know she has been suffering from manic depression and has had recorded cases of suicide attempts.
Above all else, this girl has been failed by her parents. How a kid can be in such a dark spots for decades without parental intervention is a proof of failed parenting. Even as a grown man, my parents can't be oblivious of happenings if my mental health detoriates one-tenth of what this girl has sufferred.
All these men who just provide semen and abandon their offsprings, when I read some of her feelings for this audu guy years back, I cringed. The girl was never loves at home, else she would not have been this needy.
Parents, patenting is not just about the most expensive schools, holidays abroad and latest PS.

Tonyebarcanista

You claim to be a guy who craves justice but you're blind to the little details here.

He was 25 and she was 17, a minor. Did you miss that? How could you? I know how; because you had already concluded about the whole case from the start.

You're like every other Nigerian that assumes, in a rape case, that the lady is a LovePeddler and the successful Nigerian man, or man in whatever status, is the righteous victim. You say stuff like "she provoked him jo... Why did she carry her two legs to his house... She enjoyed it jo"... She was 17, in a relationship and supposedly in love or rather, obsessed with her abuser!

Secondly, the two stories from corroborate the fact that they indeed where in a consensual relationship from the beginning. It was a "normal" relationship but Sugabelly would later find out that the guy she was in love with had(has) more shades that makes Christian Grey in 50 shades of grey look like a toddler rocking a pacifier.

There are pictures of Mr Audu and the named "alleged co-rapists" shared by Sugabelly and its safe to assume that they were friends.

I suppose what you're finding it hard to understand is why she still stalked and kept in touch with him, even begging for audience, after the very sad incident. Well, I'll tell you. At the age that she was, she definitely had an emotional attachment to her abuser. In her head, at the time, the other guys raping her were just her perceived punishment for not being "woman" enough for Mr Audu. Its sad. It's psychological. It must have been hell being Sugabelly all these years. I do not wish the same for anybody.

I'm 27 and I know how vulnerable I was when I was 17. I understand Sugabelly and I stand with her.

I had heard about her on twitter and thought she had a pretty high opinion about herself. Thought she was a really proud person and never liked her until now; its true what they say..."You never know the battles others are fighting..."

For all the ppl going on and on talking about how "rotten" or spoilt she WAS for having sex and sending nudes and doing all sorts of sexual acts with this Mr. Audu. First and foremost, see how I emphasises "was"? Yes? Past tense, ppl. It's in the past. She was 17, vulnerable and inexperienced (ref: to where she said she hadn't seen a man's unclothedness in full detail until she saw his). Condemn the act and not the person. She made her mistakes, let nobody bury her for that. The only evil going on right now is the truth that everybody is refusing to see, choosing rather to kill and mutate into something they expect the society to overlook.

Its sad Sugabelly had to go through all these and I pray she finds true clossure. Hopefully she already has.

Oh definitely, Chinese!

You really should learn to read and re-read before making comments. The writer is, in fact, praising the women in his field who have conquered the "norm" and are swimming in areas where many see as "masculine zones".

Karmanaut:
The author of thus letter is an idïotic insecure beta looking for a lay.

Your "fear" is Either gono or clams? You don't even sound remorseful. Unprotected sex in 2015? First, you should go on your knees and ask your creator to help you learn how to make right choices in the future and then go to the clinic for a proper test.

You're worried about little things; unprotected sex,especially over that long period, can lead to a whole world of upsets.

Go for a test, whatever it is, get treated and make lifestyle changes. God loves you.

Nor surprised

A very quiet wedding.

How true is this?

In 2015?

Buhari takes pictures, these days, posing like Olamide and IcePrince... Not like GEJ; that always stands like a prostitute taking a mugshot.

Lmao... Is it just me or is this post really funny? Lmao......

Looks to me like he has had a lot of experience in this department. If I were you, I would keep a close eye on him...








Lol J/k, he might just be a genius!

Lol... why declare your support publicly after all these while and immediately beg for leniency? If your hands are clean, you shouldn't be worried. It's as simple as that.

Bro, please, how do i go about this? I want to enroll too, For Software Engineering! - How do i go about it?!!