Faithntruth:
my quest to learn fashion design drove my thoughts far as to how to raise the needed amount of money to pursue my dream, due to my family background I knew the only way I could achieve it is to look for a small job and save from there. few months ago I was linked by a friend to a man who needed a secretary in his establishment, having attended an interview I was given the job and placed on 20k monthly pay, little did I know that was the beginning of a new chapter of problem. at first I was very comfortable with the environment not knowing the man I work for is a devil.

my boss abuses me at will and does have time correct me when I make mistakes, I tried talking to him that it is my first time of working as a secretary and I am open for corrections.my first month pay was 14k instead of 20k with an excuse that I waste paper and data which of a truth I only use them in line with the job.
he suddenly started being friendly(giving me transport and buying snacks) which was surprising but knowing who I was dealing with I was also cautious until he opened up one day that he likes me and want a secret romance which I turned him down(he is older than my late father) and the real devil came alive. I was sometimes pay 13k monthly and had to endure series of harrasment that I sometimes wakeup to cry at night knowing what I had to go through at work. while my search for another job yielded no result I had to endure the torture. on Friday while I was typing a document he gave me the previous day,he came in and started shouting at me and stretch his hands and touched my breast,I stood up and pushed him to the ground and went straight home and later returned with my resignation letter. Terrible experience I will never forget in my life. THANK GOD

If you are a graduate, below 30 years and you don't mind working in a bank's contact center, You can send me a DM

They are one of my favorite all-time artists. I grew up with their songs and still have a lot of them till date. Their songs are really golden.

Ishilove:
I am a fan of old music, because the cacophony of sounds that passes as music today has never, and will never appeal to me. One of my all time favourite bands is ABBA and till date I have their playlist in all my devices.

Swedish pop group ABBA is considered to be one of the most popular and successful musical groups of all time. They were one of the best-selling music acts in the history of popular music, topping the charts worldwide from 1974 to 1983, and in 2021. (Wikipedia). The group consists of Agnetha Fältskog, Björn Ulvaeus, Benny Andersson, and Anni-Frid Lyngstad. Anderson and Lyngstad were married, same as Agnetha and Bjorn, but both marriages suffered under the strain of their careers and massive popularity, and in the course of time crashed within a short time span of each other.

Eventually, the group unofficially split in 1982, and despite efforts from producers and other music heavyweights, the band refused to reform. Björn Ulvaeus said in 2008, "We will never appear on stage again. There is simply no motivation to re-group." (Wikipedia).

However, in 2017 it was made known that there were plans for a "virtual" concert using digital 'life like' avatars of the group members. This concert, nicknamed the 'Voyage Concert' held on May 27, 2022 in London and was attended by members of the Swedish royal family. The 90 minute performance received a standing ovation from the crowd after it ended.

And, for the first time in 40 years, the four members of ABBA showed up on stage and gave a curtain call.

This is what they look like now.

ceejayMAX
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Zombies

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But those zombies will be out to vote on election Day, while the rest of us will be articulating with popcorns in front of the television at home.

ct2:
those who you saw that came out to welcome the president yesterday are those to decide, not even us here on Nairaland that will not go out and vote rather we prefer to camp a girl on that day ,even some have started planning of a girlfriend to sleep with and booze, the voter u saw yesterday don't even know why atiku went to amelika ,the only armor they carry is their PVC and know that Americans will not come here to vote ,remember Buhari is not Jonathan ......

Atiku will only win on online polls

Help me tell them oo!!! instead of us as Nigerians to prepare for this painful reality, we are giving ourselves false hopes. It's online on social media I see Atiku winning because all the places I started this discussion, with people who will actually vote, shows Buhari is winning hands down

Aquariann:


Hope you realize that the biological dad's wife must have seen her as an inconvenience, hence the reason the dad suddenly rejected her after seven years? And no, as a single mom, you really do not have a choice on who you marry.

Hell no! She definitely had a choice. The world does not start and ends with having a husband. Its African mentality that your success depends on having a husband at play here. I don't care what the father does, he's a man after all with society given entitlements whether misplaced or not. I repeat she should have waited to het

Hedonini:
Oh come on.

1. You knew beforehand that she had a daughter and yet you proceeded to marry her regardless.

2. We assume she's a good, respectful, dutiful, submissive wife in every way you want.

2. She's begging in a humble and placatory manner.

If you have enough resources, you should admit the young girl. This shouldn't be a problem.

I really don't blame him. He is definitely not at fault. Who I blame is the wife the poor girl's mum. Maybe because she was so desperate to get married she did not get married to a man that who will love her daughter as much as her, to a man who does not see the girl like an inconvenience. She should have considered that this situation might come up before even saying yes to him.

I really don't blame you. You are definitely not at fault. Who I blame is your wife the poor girl's mum. Maybe because she was so desperate to get married she did not get married to a man that who will love her daughter as much as her, to a man who does not see the girl like an inconvenience. She should have considered that this situation might come up before even saying yes to you. Anyway "Almighty" man and head of the home, the decision is in your court. I just hope your wife does right by her daughter.

Obviously a bitter person. I would feel nothing but glad to be free of negative energy in life

Emekus92:
It's a Good idea.

The phone number u use in the registration is the phone number u will use in voting.
And once you send ur vote ur sim card will be deactivated from sending another message to INEC.

This option will work if they put mind to it.

Exactly!!!! "IF"being the operative word. Lets not forget that all innovations for election in Nigeria is overseen by humans, Nigerians most likely. Nothing cant be compromised when it comes to elections. I feel, scratch that, I know it will not work. We would not give it a chance. very sad

DonXavi:
If a woman takes care of a man the way men do to women, the whole world will hear about it.

Imagine if 50% of men in the world would want to get their haircut, buy perfume, deodorant, pay house rent, school fee, airtime e.t.c and they depend on their women for the provision. The noise from women worldwide would've been so deafening more than what we see today. But men do all these without complain.

This equality issue can never work.

Truth is, we women deceive ourselves sometimes. We want a man that would act like a man "protect and provide" but would fight out the logistics of him trying to do what he is supposed to do. What we fail to realize is the enormous power in femininity; note i said "femininity" not to be mistaken for feminists. Be a woman in every way your man will lay the world at your feet. i don't subscribe to this new 21st values at all. Give me an old fashioned man, and i'm contented. Like my man will say when i'm trying to prove i'm independent " I am an old fashioned guy. I pay. when i'm with a female, I pay. whether she's my sister, my mother or girlfriend, I pay. No dutch treat. No her picking the tab. If i don't have enough to pay with, we both stay in" The point is make him feel manly always and you get what you want. both parties are happy, shikena!

SBG04:

LMAO!
This is comedy!!!
Dino Melaye that beat up 2 of his ex wives?
Dino Melaye that flaunts his Ferrari and vintage cars on Instagram?
Dino Melaye that was mentioned as a supplier of weapons to thugs?
Dino Melaye that refused to go and defend himself at the police station when he was fingered as an arms supplier?
Dino Melaye that every serious minded politician in Nigeria has ignored because of his childish rants?
Bros Dino Melaye has not exposed anything!
He visited Hamid Ali, the comptroller general of customs, at the customs house in Abuja. He accused Ali of not receiving him downstairs because he felt he was a big man. Ali asked Melaye how many times he has received him at the entrance of the National Assembly. Melaye was on Ali's case because Ali refused to release the bullet proof vehicle that Melayes life patron (Saraki) smuggled into Nigeria without paying Customs duty.
I won't go down the gutter with you and start exchanging insults but you must be a very slow person if you believe Melaye is fighting for you or the masses. Very slow.....!

Tell them ooo
I wonder when we Nigerians will stop standing against ourselves to defend corrupt politicians. They have no allegiance or loyalty in the bone to the masses.

shegxi:
as articulate and impressive as u sound,it is easier said than done......when reality stares one in d face, u would understand dat hypothetical situation and real life are miles part.
The koko is that may our loyalty never be tested(in d words of fashola).

I agree, but what u sud know is loyalty gets tested if u are not satisfied, if u want more than necessary. Not everybody is that way. I am satisfied and im not asking for much. All i want is to be a partner in whatever he is doing. Like I said i'm not stupid. I wasn't lured by just professions of love and big dreams alone. I'm lured by the steps he is taking and has taken to actualize this dreams, I'm lured by the intelligence of his decisions and the fact he is making me a part of that decision making. Come on, what else do I need? At least I can sustain my self and I'm comfortable. He doesn't have much yet he is not an added baggage. It just a Lil patience.

The lure of money is easy for we ladies but despite that, I can date a broke man as a woman but it depends on the situation and if I'm convinced the man is worth it. I'm a working class young lady and the man I'm dating does not have a penny to his name. As much as I'm in love with him genuinely, I'm not stupid. I love the prospects he has, I love the future waiting for him and I want to be there when it comes to actualization because that's where the satisfaction is for me.

jordanriverz:
i know but, you know how it feels when u love someone deeply....its hard to let go

I understand that's, but it's time to make hard decisions to secure your own happiness unless u don't feel u deserve to be happy. He will continue to take u for granted if u don't. And if he loves u as much as u love him, he will sit u down and talk but if not, u may be better off being alone until someone who deserves u comes along.

Goldencollins:
This Abuja based sugar mummy that parades herself as our 1st lady,soon she will fake another travel and her gullible rice eaters will clap for her.

She does not parade herself...she IS the first lady weather u like it or not. Ur sentiments about the government she is associated with does not change facts.

girlfriendsnatc:
As a bad boy, whenever I do it, I make sure I break a Nigerian girl's heart so bad that she'll either turn into a lesbian or become so shattered and humbled that she would begin to hysterically chase after every single one of those nice guys in her friendzone that she has been treating like sh!t for the past 10 years. And it gets even sweeter when the nice guy also breaks whatever broken pieces of her heart that is left - so cool . So you nice boys should be grateful to us bad boys for continuously breaking these females and putting their over-pompous asses in place, because that's when they learn to give you nice boys a chance. And that's when you nice boys also learn that most of these Nigerian girls you're awe-struck about and toadying over are nothing but fake b!tches and slutty hoes with a rotten-fish stinking püssy like Linda Ikeji.

Haba!! o boy u no dey smile at all o . But honestly, i'll keep saying this, there are good gals out there not just the money drying and fake ass bitches like you call them. I hope you know how to pick them out so you don't hurt an innocent soul with your actions.. Godspeed

austinosita:


I'm not asking any one to feel sorry for me! I agreed I made a mistake and I've learnt a lot from it. We all make mistakes!!

Cry you a river!!!

You're just being harsh on me unnecessarily, as if you are perfect!

She's harsh, that true. But she is saying the truth, thank God you regonize that. Just try move on with your life.. A better woman who will make you realise why it never and will work with her will come your way sooner than you think.

coolkris:
just Tell us u have won already

Won what? GM

With thousands of profile on nairaland, how are you able to determine the hottest ones?? There has be someone running the polls......I want to be 'that person's' assisitant

Vengeance is not mine but of God's? He should obey his elders. As a Christian, we should have the fear of God? “Our Lord Jesus Christ said that one of his disciples would betray him. The disciples started looking round. Judas Iscariot, the traitor, has been around from time immemorial. It’s a shame. That is his (Agbaje’s) choice. I just pray that God would continue to direct this country. God has told us that it is only Him we can trust, not human beings.”? . Is this guy high on something? or forgot to take his meds? what rubbish. I also pray God helps us get raid of annoying, greedy and Power hungry old men like him so we can move ahead in this country.

FYNESTBOI GOT MY VOTE





CC : NLJEGA


Thank You

nairaman66:


You mean "Bitc* Dont Kill My Vibe"- Kendrick Lamar? Joking..

Wished you were there, you would have ran mad! The girl looked decent but she is just a plethora of baggage! Sorry about my language!

No offence taken... I understand your sentiments perfectly

thesuave10:
Pweetyphola stop viewing and comment joor

Just saw your comment sef

nairaman66:


Mine is;

I met a girl I happened to fancy at Shoprite yesterday. She was actually ahead of me with some few meters, before I could meet up with her because she was rather walking too fast, she had driven off!

I followed her and managed to get her notice and we talked for about 5 mins while i was standing outside with her inside her vehicle. She wounded her car window that I could barely hear her, but was able to talk to her and convince her we hang out.

She agreed but on a premise that I buy her fuel as her vehicle is running low on it. I agreed! We drove back to Shoprite as agreed. Shockingly the first thing she asked before pleasantries was the money for fuel, that if I don't give her there won't be any point for us talking.

I was really taken aback and I told her outrightly that the money wasn't the problem but her unethical methods. I said I wasn't going to fall for that and I drove off!!

I was really going to give her that money for the fuel but somehow felt embarrassed by her methods!!

Lol Girls are not smiling bro. Just wish they stop killing the rest of us vibes..

agabaI23:
Yesterday I finished a work out routine and was having a break when I saw a lady spotting a low cut which I find really attractive on girls.
Had a little discussion and collected her number and promised to call her later. I had genuine intentions.

Because I saw her in a fitness arena, I felt she might be interested in swimming. So when I was going to swim in the evening, I asked her if she wanted to come along and swim with me. She said yea, I should pick her up somewhere opposite a supermarket.

I got there and waited a while before she appeared. She was now wearing a wig and I was like hmmmm?

Immediately after exchanging greetings, she said she wanted to shop. Wanted to buy so so perfumes and stuff and was looking at me to give her money. I looked at her and studied her as her value crashed and the interest plummeted. I asked her how much? She said 2-3K.

I gave her 3K and she added that she doesn't even have a bikini and bla bla.
I waited for her to finish her shoppin. When she came out, I did not care about what she bought. When she stepped into the car, I told her that I wanted to go alone since she had no bikini to swim with. She was like huh?? I said yea. Deleted her number immediately she stepped out.

Why do some ladies think that every guy that show interest is after their kitten and they start from the word go to extort as much as they can?

Obviously she was at the arena to scout. Not everyone you meet at a particular place is there for the purpose of the place itself. You shouldn't have given her a dime and i really hope she didn't go with your number tho you deleted hers. She might call you and come back with a sob story for you tomorrow that might end up taking more cash from you

TooNoisy:
Inferiority complex is Uche's problem and that of other feminists.

The Olori said women are not equal to men. She never said men are superior, she never said women should be slaves to any man. All she said was that both men and women have major roles to play. What is wrong in that?

She does not support the gender equality bill because she does not see the need for it. Men and women were created differently; it does not mean women are inferior!

Uche is trying hard to be relevant!

Touche!!! You can't see me i know but i really did clap for you

obiorathesubtle:
aren't you too old for this?

correct but...chop knucle.

obiorathesubtle:
aren't you too old for this?

correct but...chop knucle.

POWEROFPEACE:
My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.

I'm really sorry you had to go thru that experience and I pray God gives you the heart to bear it. I will only put in my two cents and hope God leads you aright as pertaining your perculiar situation. I want to talk from a personal experience and it will help if you can understand the angle I am comming from. I have read most comments that says either you should forgive or forget the marriage and I need you to watch out. First of all inform your friends and family of prosponment cause obviously there is a break of trust. this is to make decision wherever this break is repairable or not. the problem must have been she tot she could get away with it not necesaarry lack of love on her part. I once cheated virtually (not physically)and my guy got to know and it hurt him immensely. infact I tot that was the end I the relationship being that he is a straight forward guy and had told me the consequence of such right from the begining. But the fact he loves me so much made him give me chances upon chances and I had to come clean with all my dealing with any other guy and I, with his guidance and patience, I can say I'm proud of who I am now. we have had our ups and downs but I can say they made us stronger knowing our very weak points to stay clear of. so please, try and see if she can work out things out with you concerning any oda person she could be with. let her understand that you will not be made and option and the prosponment will drive home the message that if she messes up, loosing you will be what she will have to contend with. This can only happen if u truly love, forgive and you can look past her former waywardness to a better future. But know this can only also work if she is willing to let it work.