Leilah, go on ahead and do the damn thing, girl. There's nothing wrong, or there should be nothing wrong, with wives/fiances/girlfriends drinking. Personally, I don't mind my fiance drinking. I'll drink right along with her. We enjoy getting our fade on together. I'll make her a drink, she'll make me a drink, what's the big deal. At parties we both drink. All our friends are the same way. She even goes out with her and drinks with her girlfriends. I don't understand why alot of men, not all men, but most men, feel as if they own their wives/fiances/girlfriends. That is such an old school way of thinking. My fiance and I even smoke weed together. This is 2008. Alot of you guys who think it is alright for you to drink but not your wife/fiance/girlfriend to do the same and think that they should be waiting on you hand and foot need to finally take that step into the new millenium. Ladies, be like Nike and "Just Do It."

Juv1, before any of us spill our beans about the craziest thing we've ever done, perhaps maybe you should enlighten the rest of us as to the craziest thing YOU'VE ever done first. One more thing, Dog, with all due respect, I have one daddy and you aint him.

Seun, men don't make women dress skimpily. A least not me. I do ENCOURAGE my fiance to dress in the skimpiest outfits possible. As I've said, she enjoys it and so do I. I'd be a hypocrite if I told her not to dress in all revealing clothing. I know when I see other women dressed this way that I do stare. Guys stare. Just as women, when they see a nice looking man, stare. So don't kid yourself, men. Also, if guys do approach my fiance and offer to buy her a drink, then please do so. That's just less money that I'll have to come out of pocket with.

I am in complete agreement with finemocha. I am a SoCal man born and raised. I appreciate a woman who is skimpily dressed. Or as finemcha put it, "slutacious." I am engaged to a beautiful black woman who is completely confident. Her and I DO go out together. I always encourage her to wear her sluttiest outfits whether she's out with me or her girlfriends. I enjoy watching other guys in the club stumbling all over themselves when they notice my baby. She is always showing a whole lot more than a little bit leaving nothing to the imagination. It excites the hell out of me as well as her. I don't worry about anything because I know that she's either going home with me when her and I go out together or coming home to me when she goes out with her girlfriends.

I love to see my fiance in next to nothing. Low cut , no bra and no panties. Leaving nothing to the imagination. Her and I went out two weeks ago and she had on a very low cut and very loose fitting top. As we were dancing the top kept falling open completely exposing her breasts. Every guy in the club had their eyes fixed on her. She loved the attention. Needless to say, so did I.

There's nothing at all wrong with clubbing with your wife or significant other. My fiance and I enjoy clubbing together. We do it quite frequently. Reference my other blogs on topic: "Men Like Women With Skimpy Dresses and Tight Trousers But Won't Marry Them" page 4. I love to take my fiance out with me. We have great times. I especially enjoy watching her dance with, flirt with and tease other men. It doesn't bother me in the least because I know she is going home with me or to the hotel room if we're out of town. Guys put their hands all over my fiance and her and I both enjoy it. It has made our sex life much more exciting.

Hey, Take That, ever heard the saying "Oh what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive."?  Sounds to me that you've weaved one hell of a tangled web.  You got exactly what you deserve.  I just hope ur man--oops!  I mean ex-man--realizes that u are nothing but a cheat.  You said that u were hoping that the guy u sent the message to was going to flow with it so u could see how far it would go.  The question here is, just how far were YOU going to take it?  Seems to me that you were going to take it pretty far, if not all the way.  You're not sorry for what u did, ur sorry that u got caught.  Women such as yourself are the very reason that men such as myself--GOOD  MEN--find it hard to trust women.  I just hope that ur man, ex-man, sticks to his guns and moves on with his life.  By the way, Take That, u still haven't come clean and divulged what was in the text mexxage.

Ebos, not all people will describe a woman by the way she dresses. I would say well over 90% of men would definitely describe a woman as "hot" or "sexy" if they saw a woman dressed in skimpy dresses. They would only start talking trash to the woman if she were to refuse their advances. Women on the other hand would say a woman dressed in such a manner is a "LovePeddler". Some out of disgust and others out of jealousy because these women would probably be getting most of the attention from the guys. It doesn't bother me one bit.

Tonte, whenever ur in Southern Cali, look me up and u, my fiance and I can hook up and do the club scene in Hollywood. She read ur reply and she has assured me that she would DEFINITELY make it a point to wear the SKIMPIEST dress she has ever worn and believe me she wears some very skimpy outfits. U WON'T BE DISAPPOINTED!!! Of course she'll be without any underwear for you.

I would definitely marry a girl who wears skimpy dresses and tight trousers. I encourage my fiance to wear skimpy clothing that leaves nothing to the imagination because we both love the attention she receives from other guys. She puts on a skimpy dress and some heels and that's it. I enjoy watching her get dressed when we go out. She will "accidentally" spread her legs to other guys to reveal the fact that she is not wearing any panties. She also allows her dresses to fall open so that her breasts are completely exposed.