NairalandEFCC1:
I was wondering if there's any "scientific" proof of certain kinds of people being better off while single, as opposed to in a relationship?

I ask because I feel I am like that. When I am in a relationship I lose myself in my partner and when I am single, I feel alive and empowered! I value my independence above anything else. I realize being in a relationship doesn't necessarily mean you lose it, but it seems in my experience, I have... I don't feel as "free" as when I am single.

Is it just something that can be resolved with therapy/maturing or is it an actual state of mind?

What do you guys think?

I think your age has a huge influence on the way you feel about relationships. Come back in 20 years and tell us if you still feel the same.

Gigihabib:
March 29

Got the PM.

qester:

qester:

Good morning. I'd prefer those based in Lagos.

Hi,

I am a guy, working, in my 30's, tall, dark and seriously searching (not desperate).

If you are a lady, a graduate, a career person who lives around the Ajah environ, and also considering marriage send me a message. Let's see if we can be a match.


Thanks.

mysticgal:
Stop husband beating oh!!

Apologies but didn't know where else to post this after that awful thread by jboy was taken down.

First of, he is a BOY not a MAN so his post can be excused right?

Anyways, my curiosity peaked when I saw that thread and decided to go check the allegations out for myself...if we could call them that.

Didn't want to rely solely on your nairaland DP, so I went on FB to check you out (pardon me) but boy was I impressed with what I saw.

You are very beautiful. I had to restrain myself from sending a friend request but really, it is official...you are a beautiful young lady.

If I marry a lady who looks just like you, I'd be in the 'seventh heaven'.

Please o don't deactivate, that would mean he won.

Funny enough, I never knew you before the outrageous thread from jboy. Probably because I don't like the Romance section and I visit rarely as a guest.

Keep your chin up. Going to read your diary o pretty one.