JONNYSPUTE:
.... If such is the case then they are wrong.
That your father is late does not make him stop being his father's son and besides he has a son too.

The procedure is that the properties should be shared equal among them and you take your late father's share.

The only place they won't share with your father is what we call ISI Obi in Igbo culture as the first son but apart from that,every other properties should be shared equal among you and your uncles.

Thank you for your input.
You sound well on the matter as Nwaafor Igbo.

I'm not kind of trouble maker. I love peace always. Unfortunately I have just found myself in such suitation.

chatinent:
1. Even if your father is the first son, it doesn't mean he'll inherit the whole propertynof your grandfather if he has brothers. Get it right. Being the first son gives you a privilege to choose first or have the bigger share.

2. If the property of your grandfather hasn't been shared rightfully to his sons and you dad says he inherited them, it is wrong. That's why they are back.


3. Go ahead and bury your father...that's if you understand the force in what I infer.

Yes, I understand. It could have better and easier if my father was able to share the properties but he couldn't.


Now, they are taking over those things now without allowing my father to get involved anymore. I'm not sure it's right too.

I wish it could be shared accordingly

They just want to take over everything as the man is late now. Not sure it's right.

Hi everyone,

My father happened to be the first son of my grandfather who automatically inherit his lands and other properties.

My father just died and since I'm the first son of my father. Which means I'm automatically inherit and in charge of those inheritance.

Now my uncles are all ganging up against me. These guys not allowing me to do the burial of my father who passed away for a while now.

They keep giving different excuses on why the burial will not hold.

They gang up and cancel the burial i fixed previously and I lost everything. All what I spent for the burial arrangements was wasted.

I really want to charge them for this.

They are using the influence that if they are not in support the burial will not hold.

These uncles has really fustrate me and I keep spending money and wasting my precious time traveling back to the village for series of meetings just to please them.

Yet they're not approving my burying my father. Not like they are giving me any money for the burial. I'm the one handling it yet they no gree.

They said i cannot inherit the grandfather and my father's properties..so I cannot do my father burial. And these are for their own selfish motives.

The Kingsman and the king supports me and has cautious the uncles to desease from such. But yet they still persist.

I have tried to make peace and peace with them as family concern but yet they are all still ganging up. And wow to fustrate me.

Now my patience has ruined out. I'm in mood for actions now.

I want to take matter higher than the community level with them now.

I'm thinking taking them to court now. But I don't know the process.

I'm seeking for the right direction i can take to solve such issue.

Thank you so much �

Kobojunkie:
Wait a second... you were OK dating her as a liability, and her poor family background didn't matter to you then. But all those are redflags now that you consider marriage?

You realize you wasted your own time, in addition to hers, in this?,

We are new in the relationship and We haven't date like 3 months. We are Just getting to know ourselves. Mind you, we haven't fck if that is the case.

I have a lady whom I want to settle down with. The lady is respectful and behavior well. But I'm being bordered by suitations surrendered her. I'm really rethinking the possiblity of proceeding with the marriage plan. And the reason is:

1. I'm being bordered because the lady doesn't really have a work or a skill. And she's not making an effort to empower herself. I told her to go learn work but she refused and keep giving excuses.

I don't really want to marry a liability who cannot assist the family.

2. Her family is very poor and broke. And I don't really have plans to take care of my wife and her entire family.

Please I need a mature advise on this.

Thank you.

Thanks you

Poanan:


seems your friend is greedy, see where his heart is, inheritance. It means he wants to take everything without giving his siblings anything.

Not really. He is the most cool guy I ever known. The guy no dey find trouble.

Just that he wants to know and be sure someone else is not tripping on his right.

He is having been discussing the issue personally with me. Although I had limited knowledge on the matter. That is why I came here to ask. Thanks

Thank you for the advice

Okay thanks for the update