I don't know why people are saying I'm lying. But I've been searching for real advice, and only received 2 intelligent replies. I met this person on a dating sight "Black People Meet." And he is not seeking a green card apparently because he already has one.

I've been dating a Nigerian guy for a few weeks. He said he has been through the introduction ceremony already before coming here and has a 2 year old son. Is the introduction a "done deal " as far as marriage? He says he already has a green card. And SUPPOSEDLY put a stop to everything claiming he isn't going through with the wedding. I just need input from someone that lives in Nigeria and knows well about the culture.