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Mklancee:Do you know what 350k was 65 years ago |
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Mklancee:Note that she developed the property so its not just plain land |
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dalass:She isnt the one in the picture the writeup said she was wearing shorts and a T-shirt the person in the picture isnt |
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Kimcutie:Guys who can't do without blowjobs are gay as well following your logic 4 Likes 2 Shares |
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pryme:I agree with you and I choose to pay my own bills. |
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babasolution:Feminism does not destroy family values a woman can be a feminist and still respect her husband. What's wrong if man and wife discuss before coming to agreement instead of just going ahead with whatever the man wants? |
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BabbanBura:No true feminist would insist on a man paying all her bills. I am a feminist myself and personally I won't allow a man pay any of my bills at all because I have the means to provide for myself |
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I am really ashamed at the rate which Nigerians misunderstand the meaning of feminism. Okay so let me drop a very clear and concise explanation of feminism. Feminism is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social EQUALITY of the sexes. Please note the emphasis on EQUALITY meaning we're not saying we don't need you or can do without you(although some of us can) we want to be afforded the same opportunities the male sex have enjoyed for soooooo many years. We want to be treated with the same respect you expect from us. Feminists are not man haters dear Nairalanders we're simply women who are tired of been treated as second class citizens because of our gender. You want to be respected hunnay!!! You have to respect us as well this is the 21st century for Gods sake the world all over is evolving and I am utterly amazed that Nigerians men and women alike want to hold on to a culture were women are oppressed, treated as less than we are. We know our worth that's what we're bringing to table. You guys want to hold on so badly to the idea that women are weak, fragile,spine less, not strong enough to handle being in control.The truth is that we are the stronger sex show me a strong woman and i will show you the scars on her back that made her strong. Truth is most men are used to handouts almost everything you claim to "own" has been giving to youe.g that house you live in now is probably the house your parents willed to you passing over the first born because the first born is female. I can go on and on but what i am getting at is that whatever a woman has believe me she has worked her back off to get, even her dads firm shes ceo of she had to prove to her dad the board and the world that she can handle it.The world is changing and you better change along with lest you find yourself in a new world 5 years from now you have no idea of how to cope in because you were to scared to allow women a seat at the table. Lemme drop this before I sign off, there are Male feminists too you know. Ignorance is a disease that is fast eating into the heart of Nigerians I just hope its not too late for us. 3 Likes |
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NwaAmaikpe: I am sensing so much bitterness here 1 Like |
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RadicallyBlunt:When you're done tell me 2 Likes |
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Erhmm...I think you need to ask for a refund of everything you or your parents have spent on your education and just invest in cars.... RadicallyBlunt: 8 Likes |
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Breakfast is actually supposed to be the heaviest meal of the day. Its advisable to take fruits at night 1 Like |
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Breakfast us actually supposed to be the heaviest meal of the day its advisable to take fruits at night 1 Like |
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RadicallyBlunt:Wow your lack of sense amazes me,what's local about taking pride in our culture? How many white men wear traditional? They wear English because to them that is their tradition. And because of that you're calling me local. God help Nigeria 33 Likes 1 Share |
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RadicallyBlunt:So because he's wearing our traditional clothing he looks like an illiterate uncle clap for yourself. Try your words on before you vomit them 35 Likes 3 Shares |
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Pentools:Leave me to be express what am passionate about ![]() |
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All of you asking where is her baby the lady had a miscarriage ![]() ![]() ![]() Princeofnigeria: |
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All of you asking where is her baby the lady had a miscarriage ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Pentools:Being a feminist does not mean you don't respect your husband or you can't he in a happy relationship it simplay means that you know your worth you know what you're bringing to the table being a feminist is about the female species being tired of playing runner up to men we want to be treated as equal simple as that. Its not about been disrespectful its about being awarded the same respect and opportunities as the male species. This is a topic I am very passionate about and its obvious that men have gotten so used to women being referred to as the weaker sex that now we want to fight for a seat at the table they're are scared, plain and simple because they know what women are capable of when they set third minds to a goal.We're are tired of being oppressed and now we want a seat at the table you insult us you shame us you paint us with scarlet letters you deem us unfaithful,youve called us man haters, youve called us lesbians, youve called us bitter and husband killers because we are tired of holding you up because we have the effontery to want to be treated as we deserve to be its not going to work you guys have been permanent placeholders at the table and now we want ours and yes you are right to be scared you know why I have never seen anybody put her mind to achieve something the way a woman does so yes get ready we're about to own that damn table you feel you're entitled to because of your gender?. Hell no, this is an era of change things come when we all take a stand and women and men are picking theirs all over the world.Pick wisely. |
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Icon79: Uncle using her for what, if only you people would use the brains God gave you to think you have them for a reason so because she is advocating for women right she is a vessel of the illuminati. What has this world turned into |
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Fuckyoumod:Hunnay it's obvious you don't have access to a dictionary because if you did you would know what the feminist movement is about. Men all over the world have what is known as superiority complex. You guys expect women to be submissive when your are asking for stupid things, you expect women to be loyal when y'all are not you expect them to respect you when you don't offer them the same courtesy, do you know that in th e US a woman earns $0.75 for dollars for every $1 a man earns. Feminism is not about us thinking we're better then men it's about being afforded the same opportunities as men. How many people favor to send their male children to school over their female children. I thank God every day for my parents because the same thing my brother does we do them to and vice versa my brother knows how to cook, wash plates, his clothes clean the house and I wash my car myself change my lightbulbs myself I earny own money. What makes you think being a feminist will stop you from being a good mother or wife I honestly think the best gift a child can have is having a feminist as a mother because the same opportunities she's rallying for her male child she'll rally for her female child. The feminist system rose up because in a world where it is okay for a man to rape his wife even she said no we need women that will refuse to be punching bags to men and will fight for those who are. It pains me when I see men making fun of feminists you cannot judge us because you haven't walked in our shoes you haven't lived in our skin, you haven't lived our lives. In a country such as Nigeria that most of being Africa's giant this backward mentality is sad this is a country where it is okay to be used as a punching bag by a man who swore before God and man to love and protect you, we have become so used to this that police officers that such cases are reported to fail to take action, it is okay to teach a woman that her highest aspiration should be the role of a wife and you should be submissive yet this same country teaches men that's its okay to sleep around until they find the woman they want to settle with, we train boys to be outgoing and bold when he is such he is classified as a strong man but we teach girls to docile and meek and when she speaks out its either she is rude or she is being disrespectful or better still her mother did not train this one well. How do you expect "Africa's giant" to move forward if it will not let go of outdated and archaic school of thoughts. So yes if you're a feminist good for that's the best gift have given yourself. Hunnay no man has the right to treat as less than you are you are a Queen and if you want you can be the motherf*****g King.The sky is your stepping stone if you want the sun sweetie go for it don't let the barbaric ideas stop your shine. |
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nice talk. You talk like a real typical african woman with more or less western world exposure. My dear, this is africa mind you, you can't say and i quote 'I've done everything I can to avoid any vulnerable position to man, woman or soceity. I do what I want when I want' end of quote, its not done here in africa. Man provide food for the family and woman prepare food for the family, i wish you the very best in selecting your man and if you gotten one, all the best all the way. Your argument that because it's Africa a woman should be relegated to the kitchen is archaic that worked in the days of our forefathers(kudos to them). Most households in Nigeria are two income earning households I.e both the man and the woman bring in income. If the man wants his wife to be relegated to the kitchen and the woman is comfortable with that arrangement good for them but it should be noted that that man is providing for the home and his wife as well I.e he should give the wife money for her upkeep because she has no means of income, although some of the spouses I have observed with this arrangement start having problems when the man refuses to provide the money required for the wifes upkeep as well as that of the home. 3 Likes |
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What you said makes a lot of sense in a world that has changed so much that the role "breadwinner" is not restricted to the man why should the role of chef and personal maid be restricted to the woman. 2 Likes |
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Pedophiles are child abusers. And yes there are virgins in Africa hunnay just because all the girls you've slept with are not virgins doesn't mean there are no virgins some of us ladies actually believe its sacred. You sef that is looking for virgin are you a virgin? ![]() 1 Like |
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