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Education / Re: . by realistica23: 8:34am On Mar 14, 2017
Kee yourself!!!!!!
Wtf were you thinking?

Pls brother could you help me delete the quoted for security reasons, thanks

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Education / . by realistica23: 8:09am On Mar 14, 2017
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Romance / Re: UPDATED. Pls Help!! What Are The Legal Implications Of Getting A Woman Pregnant by realistica23: 8:33pm On Dec 09, 2016
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Romance / Re: UPDATED. Pls Help!! What Are The Legal Implications Of Getting A Woman Pregnant by realistica23: 12:21pm On Dec 09, 2016
Analysiscorner:
How old is Jenny?

24 or there about. She has never told me her real age, her younger sister is 22
Romance / UPDATED. Pls Help!! What Are The Legal Implications Of Getting A Woman Pregnant by realistica23: 11:14am On Dec 09, 2016
I got involved with Jenny (not real name) an undergraduate student couple of months ago after my 3 year old relationship with my girlfriend crashed. Jenny and I had consentual unprotected intercourse (wasn't intended) before she went home for the semester holiday. Had a missed period and the test she did from home confirm that she was pregnant.

The girl in question though has her positive sides for example, she has lend me money before and fed me when I didnt cook but she is got serious attitude issues. Attitudes she has exhibited to me a number of times. for instance she once spat on my face while we were on bed. Insulted me that her Ex's joystick is huge and way bigger than mine. (my dick isn't big). She has also on certain occasion made derogatory remarks regarding my financial status. That am broke and can't take care of a woman. (I am self employed, currently pursuing my 2nd degree and am not doing too bad for myself) She talks disrespectfully to me and had mentioned before that she still loves her ex BF and doesn't love me.

Her younger sister called me from home after she found out about the pregnancy and abused the hell out of my life for getting her sister pregnant. That I am a dog, that she feels sorry for her sister for getting involved with a good for nothing looser like me. Jenny's sister is equally as foul mouthed as she is. Jenny informed me that she intend keeping the baby and doesn't want to hear anything else from me. At a point she stopped picking my calls while at home during the holiday. She resumed school last month and briefly saw me at a neutral spot, we talked for a while and she got angry and left when we got into a heated discussion.

Jenny is someone I am certain that I don't want for a wife. I prefer a woman who gives me peace of mind. We have nothing in common. I regret getting myself in this messed up situation. I am not ready and not financially capable of bringing a child into this world. My academic pursuit and living expenses is draining all my resources and the present economic recession isn't helping matters at all.

Jenny's mum called me an hour ago threatening to personally deal with me if I don't do something about her daughter. Her request is that I should register Jenny at a hospital or i will get what is coming to me. I should also pay the debt I owe her daughter that Jenny's brother already want to come after me but she is just calming them down.


Please I need advice, I haven't told anyone about the situation I am in. What type of legal action can the mother (she recently returned to Nigeria from oversea) take up against me besides sending her boys to beat me up?


(she said she has boys at the University where I study who she is withholding from pounding on me for what I am doing to her daughter, I fear for my safety now )

Am I mandated by Law to provide and cater for the pregnant girl? Will the Law sanction me if I am unable to provide for the expectant mother? One of the mother's demands is that she hears from my parents. (I am in my late 20's and I believe my parents should not be dragged into this. I am a man and should be able to make my own decisions).

What happens if I refuse to get my parents into this matter?

I feel this girl got her wishes by getting pregnant by me because I sense she hopes we will get married if she conceives.

Mature advice needed please because everything I have worked so hard for is in total jeopardy. My family will be disappointed and heartbroken. I don't want someone like Jenny into my family.


UPDATE.
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I have received more than four phone call from her mother . Jenny told her mum lies about me,, that I am forcing her to abort the pregnancy, threatening her, which isn't true. I have not called her or made effort to see her after my short futile meet up with her last week Saturday because of her foul mouth. She is the type of individual I wanna stay very far from, the type that can raise your anxiety level in less than five minutes.

Her mum informed me yesterday during our phone conversation that she is coming to the Institution where I study soon. I anticipate she would be here today or latest Wednesday. and she will see me when she comes. That I should be ready. My response was that I am gonna be here, I am going no where.


My question now is :, SHOULD I BE SCARED??

DO I GO OUT OF TOWN FOR A WHILE?

To my knowledge I haven't done anything contrary to the Law yet. CAN SHE FRAME ME WITH ME UP OR CHARGE ME FOR VIOLATION OR ANYTHING?


I intend seeing a family friend who practices Law this evening, confiding in some close peeps, alot is already running through my mind. Pls guys I need all the advices I could get.
Thanks

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Family / Pls Help!! What Are The Legal Implications Of Getting A Woman Pregnant by realistica23: 10:59am On Dec 09, 2016

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