Many times most people blame people in trouble because either they've not been through Silas issues or insincere. It's human to err, but divine to forgive. Women are demonic when they get the slightest opportunity to hijack control roles in marriages. Many times via finance, offence, or good nature of their hubbies. They often use children as their ultimate weapon of revenge. It's obvious this woman will not give up until she has fully messed up this man.
Solution
1. Seek amiable solution with her, let her understand the implications particularly on the children, if this fails
2. Move out of her life, seek to up your life remotely from her and the children
3. Try all your best to succeed b4 any contact with her and the children
4. Try to support the children, if they are willing, on your return, if not, be man enough to move on with your life, new wife, new family.
5. Women are mean and unforgiving, they easily forget your past good but never forgets your current mistakes. Moreover, they see children as their social service reward. They do everything possible to ensure that father's are deprived of that benefit possibly entirely. Check history.

That's democracy at work. Many people don't really understand the calculations by the democrats are not necessarily to move him out of govt now but reduce both his reelection chances and of the Republicans in d 2 houses come general election time. This is DEMOCRACY at work. Electorate are the masters.

Your writing skills is good for African comic. Very apt, interesting and educative.Develop on it. Kudos!

Democracy must have a balance and comes with respect for all organs of govt.Major Gen. Buharis regime is drifting disgracefully. Punch's action is welcomed, hope others follow suit, let's see if this regime and her junta can survive the world's condemnation in isolation. Ruthless action requires brutal reaction

The quality in the reasoning of the leadership of a people shows the IQ of such people. How can a leader reason this way? What a waste? Of all the problems facing Abians, this is what this guy could contribute as his own solution. Who did we offend in this nation?

Why do people refer to her as being unforgiving,, that sounds protective. She is delusional and a product of bad upbringing. She has not defined what the guy has done wrong, except through public deductions that he divorced her. Who wouldn't, when he's not a psychiatric doctor.

No one is trying to give excuses to justify the man. All we say is there's no smoke without fire. For man with 4 kids to live home has more to it than the victim story from the woman. The fact that the man bought a car for anot her side chic has simply made him wicked heeen. Did the woman tell you that the man never bought her a car also? Further, what room did the wife give the husband to access and take responsibility on her children. People like Tonto refused her ex access to his son, inspire of court orders and yet call him names, for example. How do u place that.

Did she care to tell the whole story from how she succeeded in sending thean out of the hse into another desperado woman. The fact that you already bore children for man should not grant her access into enslaving him. Let the man make himself happy and move away from all these demonized women. If she need the man to take care of his children, he should do it responsbly.

Women & victim mentality. It's time they use positive approach to mend their marriagea instead of seeking public sympathy. These days married women use blackmail to ruin their marriages, to turn the children minds against fathers, public against men and still expect to remain married using children sentiments, mitchew.

The protest by the Doctors must ve been borne out of many factors:
1. Care for other medical workers
2. The so called increment end up in govt pocket thrgh taxes and other percentile charges
The doctors know that it's more favorable for govt to spend on amenities than increase salaries.

In my view many things Paddy did in his revelations showed arrogance and lack of calculated risks. I also know he was also being economical with the truth.
1. It was careless to have jumped into negotiating such a big intl biz deal with such a myopic knowledge without his father involvement.
2. The Remi he mentioned as a senior friend was his father's personal friend and former CEO of his father's financial enterprise.
3. Arrogance and disregard for elders and experience is a killer, we all need to learn this.
4. No wonder, after he has squandered the little money he had, like a prodigal son, he returned back to both his father's biz and same Remi, he disregarded earlier.
5. He also almost did not mention how he later ridiculed the same Remi with his police body guard because of his silly arrogance.
6. He should learn humility, I'm not impressed by his colourfully decorated resume.[color=#000099][/color]

How come the Sultan suddenly declare his membership of Miyetti Allah, I think they all never showed open association with the body. What happens to ATIKU that threatened to sue Paul Nnongo for associating him as top financier of the body. If truth must be told, our leadership is built around deception, greed and wickedness to say the least.

So called Nigerian leaders will not stop to baffle me with their open bias. The Sultan of Sokoto is supposed to be the spiritual leader of the Muslims in Nigeria and should not qualify by the Presidency recent advise to CAN to face religious matter, he should face similar warning in fairness and equity.

It is pathetic how these politicians take common Nigerians for a ride consistently. Agreed that Kogi state governor has a case to answer on salary payment arrears but is Dino Melaye and his Co senators showing a better respect to the Kogi workers by donating rice? I think is more calling these workers fools than trying to assist. What is the percentage of the cost of the rice to their total allowances. Nigeria is doomed.

Pharmacy is a good career in Canada and with little experience you could earn much more easily than what you presently earn in Nigeria. Also, the job/career stability prospect, with age on your side, is higher in Canada. I advice you choose Canada if you have the schooling fund, the investment is worth it. I will however advice you choose professional certification in pharmacy in Canada rather than the degree instead. This may enhance your chances in Canada of settling in faster than a degree, since you already have one in Nigeria.[color=#000099][/color]
Best of luck.

I wonder y people expect good manners from most of these Nollywood ladies, moreso, Tonto Dike. Many of them are just advanced and educated prostitutes. The fact that they are knownot through movies also give them wrong impression of popularity and image. They are generally rude and do not know what it takes to be a celebrity they think they are. The bible says, you know fools by their many words. Even if she comes from where they've no respect for age, can't she respect her own public image; that's if it's positive anyways. Shameless lady.

The alleged rapist is now reported as a'Nigerian man' Meanwhile, he would ve been an American if it were for positive reasons. These people are mean and despotic. Rape and domestic abuses in the western world are mostly set up and women take advantage of it with little or no provocation. It costs them nothing to do it. They're not even required to pay any laywer. They're mere witness for the state or crown prosecutors. Let's be cautious in being judgemental guys. Hear the accused side and be shocked.

Who observe with me that the 2 armed guys on his sides are white skined. Perhaps that's why they covered their heads and faces even hands tightly. I think this guy is being kept away from the war front so as to use him as an object of continued relevance. The military intelligence should up her game by researching into his where about and should stop being ridiculous by claiming they take him out after each attack. They need to learn how the US use intelligence to take out Osama. This is more of intelligence work than visical battle. The military is in a hurry to end the war. It's an unconventional guerrilla battle, they must remember.

Islam as a religion of 'peace' This always reminds me of a saying by my principal in secondary school that "an English word does not have meaning until it's used in a sentence' The word peace to this religion means war. When they kill and maim that's when they are into Jihad to achieve peace.What a people. Any ideology that resist debate to me, is not based on truth. So I can't embrace it. Period.

Of course Gej and his Co looters needed to invest in some projects to shield their loots. Sometimes I find it hard to understand how some people blindly support criminality and failures. Regardless of where we come from in naija, objectivity should be pursued with some level of sanity.

Ekweremadu is using the best form of defence which is attack.if he can't expose the I'd of his source, he should go and sit down. As for me, even if the anti corruption crusade seems lopsided as its being painted by opposition, let the present crew sanitize to their best, another crew will come to check their cleanness too. That's why democracy is all about checks and balances. Deputy Senate President please relax if you're clean. Nnugo.

I wonder why so many of the guys on this forum are fond of cracking jokes with serious Nigerian issues. I think everyone has the right to suggest solutions to issues that crop up in the country and this can't exclude Baba Akande.The Political decisions of Tinubu and others is also their personal decisions. Let the youth rise up to become positively influential on our political landscape.