Fashion / Re: Who Wore It Better? Ramsey Nouah Or A Nairalander!! by realjennyTuz: 9:53pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Oluwolex2000: Please nairalanders I will really like you guys to tell who wore it better.....!! Thanks
[img]Custom.jpg[/img] chie...y una jst finish dis guy.. If person dy dream una no go wait mk e finish una go jst wake am up..nawaooo bros u look swaggalicious |
Business / Re: CBN Introduces New Charges On ATM Cards, Cheques by realjennyTuz: 7:52am On Mar 16, 2016 |
seunmsg:
What will Buhari benefit from ATM card charges?
Is the charges going into the coffers of government or the banks?
Just like I said on a thread earlier today, we apportion blames based on sentiments and emotions instead of common sense and pragmatism. Instead of calling out the greedy banks and their CBN collaborators, most of you are shouting Buhari. What has Buhari got to do with this? I won't call u a fool here to avoid beign barned.. But I actually knw ur typ..na ur typ go blame oga Jona for trailer wey fall for road..nw wey buhari don dy. F.up u go stil blame jona...buhari is d president and if things r getting dis hard for d people he is representing who is supposed to intervern? My late father abi? Shift abeg 1 Like |
Family / Re: When Did You Stop Bed Wetting? by realjennyTuz: 10:26pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
MrImole: When did you stop bed wetting? Please don't lie.
I stopped when I was in secondary school; (JSS), it was very shameful then but now, I just laugh anytime I remember and I do wonder if I can ever punish my kids for that, I don't think so. bed wetting? Stoped wen I wwz 17yrs old..u can imagine...my own wz more like a miracle |
Family / Re: When Your House-help Is Straight From The Village (hilarious Photo) by realjennyTuz: 8:43pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
WaffenSS: sexually abuse her, make her clean up, then send her right back. Quietly.
Better than the hell she'd experience at the hands of 'madam', who'd probably roast her alive over that charcoal. nawaooo u wicked |
Politics / Re: Umahi Distributes Made-In-Ebonyi Rice To Workers For Christmas (pics) by realjennyTuz: 12:04am On Dec 24, 2015 |
jazinogold: stony rice! [i][/i]its a lie my dear..distoning a bag of rice wil cost u less dan 100naira so dere is no way dt well packaged rice wil nt be distoned 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Paul Okoye's Message To Ladies Who Always Make Their Man Late For Events (Photo) by realjennyTuz: 12:56pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
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Romance / Re: When A Girl Is Dating A Guy Who Is Not Ready For Marriage by realjennyTuz: 12:53pm On Dec 12, 2015 |
ladycomfort: . Yes very cunny. You will ask them to take you to their parent. They will be telling you one story or the other. are you for real? U mean wen u date a guy for 3mnths and he is yet to intrduce you to his parents u wil personally tell him to do so? Abeg borrow me your morale I guess I need it. Also |
Sports / Re: Nigerians Expelled From Senegal Stadium For Displaying Biafra Flags by realjennyTuz: 4:07pm On Dec 06, 2015 |
nnadychuks: foolish fool. You want biafra you will get it say Amen aboki |
Sports / Re: Nigerians Expelled From Senegal Stadium For Displaying Biafra Flags by realjennyTuz: 4:02pm On Dec 06, 2015 |
madridguy: @ OP, they are not Nigerians cos no Nigerian will ever carry that useless flag. Always disgracing themselves, the Senegalese suppose stone them to death cos they are nothing but terrorist. Awon oniranu. dis guy r u mentally retarded |
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Politics / Re: Jonathan's Trekker Oladele In Otuoke As Election Observer(pic) by realjennyTuz: 4:35pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
bettercreature: The guy is a fraud! Maybe GEJ actually got him paid to walk for him wailers Are at it again..poverty mindset |
Events / Re: Pre-Wedding Photo Session Of Yours Truly. by realjennyTuz: 4:29pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
[quote author=sigiyaya post=40714443]Why Groom dey fine pass bride these days ![](/faces/huh.png) [/quote. Fine girls. R busy forming hard to get while d ugly 1s lik me wed everi saturday |
Events / Re: Pre-Wedding Photo Session Of Yours Truly. by realjennyTuz: 4:27pm On Dec 05, 2015 |
sigiyaya: Why Groom dey fine pass bride these days ![](/faces/huh.png) u get yesooo choi |
Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me And Even Told Me To My Face. by realjennyTuz: 8:53pm On Nov 21, 2015 |
kendoh2: I have been dating this girl for the past 4years, she later gained admission in to the University. I kept faith with her because I felt she is worth it. Her days in school, I realized her interest in talking to me kept dropping, inasmuch as I assisted her financialy, I really didn't care about the attitude until I travel to her school and invited her to the hotel I lodged, surprisingly she refuse to see me. I came back. Funny enough I have not had sex with her because I believed in our future. Recently she just came back from school and we went outing and I asked her if she had a guy in school, she admitted, yes. My entire system changed. I asked for sex she still refused me, then it became clearer to me that I mean nothing to her. I transport her to Lagos from school and even trying to buy her phone but my mind is made up on her. Is there any remedy you guys can put up for me on her? don't worry so much cos she will.cm bk to beg u afta service.. By den she wil realize wt she threw away 1 Like |
Politics / Re: 2015 Election: Jonathan Should Have Sacked Partisan Jega – Okupe by realjennyTuz: 10:02pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
demelza: I refuse to believe this man is a full fledged Yoruba. This type did not come out of the lineage of Oduduwa. His mum obviously did away match with a Togolese. op mind ur bizness# joblesnes is indeed a disease |
NYSC / Re: Ebonyi State Slashes Monthly Allowance Of Corper Doctors From N130k To N15k by realjennyTuz: 9:49am On Nov 08, 2015 |
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Romance / Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by realjennyTuz: 8:31am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Drfinn: Precisely, on 31st March, 2013 I asked my now ex to marry me. Not in some fancy restaurant, shopping mall or some heaven on earth theatrical setting. It was via a phone call. Surprisingly, we had never met in person! What madness!! Did she accept??
Love they say is like a butterfly, it perches wherever it wants. It's like a lion, it devours whoever that comes his way. How we fall in love at times is mysterious. We seldom have control in matters of the heart. This is how I felt the day I saw her picture carrying a child. Her little nephew. I love kids to a fault. In that split moment I told her how I wished it was our son she was carrying. That remark set aglow our hearts.
Initially, she doubted my sincerity. She had been hurt not once, twice but severally. Worse still she has a medical condition. A condition she erroneously thought will forever rob her of love. Hence her skepticism. Furthermore, my reputation with 'the ladies' on some social network we had met some years earlier was daunting. I had to prove my sincerity. I had to win her love.
As am typing this, my alarm just beeped! Its October 24th- the day I had slated for our introduction. Alas! It was never to be. Our love could not survive the divide. The 'hypocrisy' of the church has prevailed. I cannot believe am still hurting this bad. Maybe I was in a hurry to have ended it all. This is my story. Our story.
After the initial 'gragra' women exhibit we settled into a beautiful but distant relationship. She was based in Lagos, I in Port Harcourt. Days became weeks, and weeks months before our first physical encounter. I did first visit as a gent. We had wild fun!! Then came the moment of truth; a visit to her kit and kin to intimate them of my intention. Her brother-in law gave me his word. The only snag which was to destroy all we labored to build -the church! she is catholic, am protestant. She is Igbo am Ijaw.
True to his word, her brother-in law accompanied me to see her parents in her hometown- some community in Imo State. I was well received. Such a loving home. I made my intentions known with all seriousness. It's no child's play explaining while you consider a man's daughter worth more than other women to him. Thankfully, the son in-law gave me all the necessary support. However, convincing a retired teacher, a respected and unrepentant staunch catholic requires more than fancy words. I left that home with mixed feelings. Her father had plainly told me what mixed marriage entails. My wife and children will become 'properties of the catholic church'. It was non-negotiable.
I sought the advice of family members, and my pastor. All were of the opinion that her father's stance undermines my role as the head of our future family. Personally, I saw it as an 'indirect rule'. I enlisted one or two of her siblings, her mum inclusive to get her father to shift grounds. The old man wouldn't bulge. At my fiancee's suggestion I paid her uncle a scheduled visit. A Priest in some parish at Owerri. His stance was same as his elder brother's; convert to Catholicism or accept the terms of mixed marriage.
I was devastated. More so by my fiancee's shifting positions. Today she's all by my side, tomorrow she wants me to please her father. I saw it more as a character weakness than a woman drawn between love and the hands that fed her. Perhaps, it was a miscalculation on my part. She had her flaws. Mine was so glaring. But i found in her the woman of my dreams.
In the midst of this storm I had boldly gone ahead to fix today, October 24th my introduction day. I had called my Pastor to inform him, and a couple of family members. This decision was informed after my now ex had told me her siblings and other family members had prevailed on her father to soft pedal on his stance. He unbelievably agreed. So i thought. Until I made one more call!
The old man true to his principled nature remained unchanged. It was a blow too devastating to bear. I saw a relationship of over two years with countless sacrifices on both sides evaporate on the grounds of dogma. It hurts so bad to have met that special one only to realize you can not be with them for eternity. Should I have converted for love? That would have betrayed love itself. Love is without condition(s). Should I have settled for mixed marriage? Its unbearable! It's my responsible to provide both spiritual and physical nourishment for my future family.
So, it was only appropriate I let love go. If she finds her way back to me. I had be most fortunate not lucky. Fortune befriends the bold. A life of service to all humanity now beckons . It's a call I must answer. Who knows love maybe around the corner. Love knows no religious boundaries. Let's spread the glad tidings of ecumenism. we catholics be discriminating since time immemorial..and I used to think luv is blind 4 Likes |
Education / Re: Share The Crazy Funny Things That Happened While In Boarding School by realjennyTuz: 6:59am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Seculent: I never attended boarding schuool. ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) u really missed alot 2 Likes |