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Health / Re: Kenyan Man Commits Suicide After Lover Cheated On Him (photos) by Realme111: 1:15pm On Apr 01
Bro you're a bad boy uote author=PussyOdour post=129212104] shocked


A fool he was and fool was he till his mortal eviction and a fool will he remain in the other side till the end of the world.

Commit suicide because another brother helped you to drill a smelly hole that vomits blood every damn month. Fóolish man.

Perish in hell [/quote]
Health / Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Realme111: 2:26pm On Mar 09
Too much of porn kills sexual abilities in men uote author=Draslo post=128839542]I will try to be as brief as possible.

Watching porn and masturbation goes together like peas in a pod. Masturbation is the most reliable instant gratification a person can achieve almost free of charge.

Has it ever occurred to you why porn is so goddamn free and accessible? Have you wondered why countries hardly ever blocked porn sites? How many people do you know that watch porn with VPN? The answer is a resounding 0! Even in the most religious Arab country, porn is free to access.

These days, on social media and almost every thread has a porn star or wannabe that will pollute the thread with their nudity, both men and women. The world just goes on like kids don't have access to this but you see that activity that brings life, the power to which we as humans don't fully understand, is being corrupted for the sole reason of making men weak. You sef think am now!

Men are now at their weakest. The elite are ensuring mean are weak sexually and mentally, two things the structurally define a man. You can imagine heading to apps like Bigo Live or Buzzcast only to find your average innocent next door girl live streaming her nudity and teasing men who in turn gift her money for visual gratification. I hear every day, more and more young girls are into this and weak men are financing this madness. It is impossible to be a registered member of these sites and connect your wallet or bank account to fund it to gift women money for flashing sensitive body parts without being a porn addict firstly. Same with Onlyfans and Allaccessfans for those abroad.

A lot of us are porn addicts but prefer to deny it or ignore the fact and be like "I watch porn, so? I go still dey watch am dey go". It is better to get your dopamine from other sources than masturbation. Every time a man orgasms, the energy release is 5 times stronger than a woman's. I'm not talking about flesh pleasures but pure energy. There's a good reason a woman can orgasm 5 times in one hour for the next 6 hours if she has a stallion guy or a sex machine. Women can masturbate for 3 hours if they're home alone. No man can try this. They will move his corpse out if he tries it.

Everything must be done in moderation with the application of wisdom. You might come online to call men simps but you yourself are a simp and you know it deep down. You're getting weaker daily and porn is ruining your cognitive function, your relationships, in fact, your whole life.

Tell me one reasonable purpose of porn if you can think of one.[/quote]
Business / Re: Family Releases Burial Rites For Wigwe, Wife, Son Who Died In Air Crash by Realme111: 12:42pm On Feb 28
Family / Re: Can A Woman Love Her Husband And Not Love His Family? by Realme111: 10:34am On Feb 11
You're right bro,I'm too weak for her,but I've learnt my lesson now, reasons why I'm doing that for her before was that I've not pay her dowries,and you understand how Ibos do go with kids,when you didn't pay bride price,But to God be the glory,I've done everything this January,so my kids are mine now,ive told her this mor me that her mom can't come to us here.and i dont even wait for her reply.

My advice is simple. You were too weak and allowed your wife dictate terms in your home on issues you should have put your foot down. Now, concerning her mother, I am also saying NEVER LET HER MOTHER STAY WITH YOU. Remind her of what your own mother did and put your foot down.

N.B: Your mom was from my state. The fact that your wife can treat your mom like that and you didn't make her regret such was so bad and sad. Ekiti men had balls. Where did you come from bro? How can you be so weak that your wife is now dictating terms of how, when and how long her own mom will stay in your own house and you are coming to ask us for advice? You disappoint me if this story is true.

I have said it before. The day you allow a woman to disrespect you and get away with it is the day you lose your value. It always goes downhill from there.[/quote]
Family / Re: Can A Woman Love Her Husband And Not Love His Family? by Realme111: 6:35am On Feb 10
MisterBanny:
I always kept wondering about this. I have seen many homes break as a result of marrying a woman who despises her In-laws, and treats them with levity and disdain, yet claims to love her husband genuinely.
A once happy family could be in total disarray immediately some women get into that family.
Personally, I think if u love your husband, such love should be extended to every member of his nuclear and extended family members and same goes to the Man. I believe that genuine LOVE is infectious and contagious. I have seen a lot happening In today's marriages that I'm already scared of getting married. People can pretend throughout the dating and courting period, but immediately after the wedding, the beast and monster in them begin to Manifest. It's scary.

Almost all married woman are guilty of this. But the men almost do not have any issue with Loving their wive's families.
It even gets to the ugly point that, the wife makes a decree that no member of the man's family must ever visit them to stay for more than a day or two.
please everyone i need your advice, I'm facing this right now.
There was a time my mom was complaining about feeding and how dad family are maltreating her in our home town,and I discussed with my wife,we both have 4kids together,so she agreed that My mom should come over,we're living in room and parlour then,and i brought mom home,this happened in 2020.
All of a sudden my woman started issue with mom,to the extent that mom I'll report her to me that she's not greeting her,as in early morning greeting from a well trained woman, but I will beg mom, because sometimes i also notice such character from my wife.
This issue continue like that,until one day.
Mom don't eat Eba,Cuz my mom is from Ekiti,so either pounded yam,semolina or Fufu,and by God grace I manage to get some at home,just to satisfy mom,One very evening like that,i went to watch Chelsea match, immediately i returned home,i see mom outside, and I asked her if she have eaten,but she replied No,and i asked why, she said that My wife make EBA for her and she can't eat it .
Immediately I went to the kitchen and asked my woman,why did you prepare Eba for Mama, Instead of her regular food,my wife replied that,she didn't make EBA for mom,but Semo.
And I asked her to show me the semo,to my surprise,My wife is showing me Eba,and she's claiming that its Semo,I was very angry,cuz as I was asking her,that what's the meaning of this,she keep telling me that is Semo,i get mad at her and slapped her,I never knew that she intentionally planned it, she knows that I'll be mad at her ,she wanted everything to scatter,cuz she knows that I don't joke with my mom,mom started begging me that night,and her brother have to show up and settle it for us,and i later I went ahead to get Fufu for mom.
Two days later,.mom told me she's going ,though she didn't said is because of my woman,but i understand,to my surprise,mom is going back with her load and with what i get for her, almost, 4 bags, altogether,i carried 2, while mom also carried 2,my wife just looking at us as we re going, nothing like her to see mama off,or even said Bye Mama .fast forward to 2021,mom died and we went for the burial.
After some years,maybe 2 years ago,her own mom came to Lagos,after leaving her brother's place,she stayed In our house for 4 to 5 months,which I take good care of her very well,even she keep telling other siblings that I'm the best.
This is the main point now,This same my mother inlaw now had stroke,she's down with stroke, Though we had a meeting together, that her mom I'll stayed in their elders brothers place for a month,and come to live in my house,(mini flat with 4 kids)for a month also, and will from their go to another siblings house, after a month.i once asked my wife that which mattress her mom going to use when she get here,and she said,our own mattress,this hurt me,cuz i can't immagine, sleeping on the same bed, maybe after she leave.
Please who can tell me what to do,as for me,I'm not happy about this,cuz anytime I remembered how she treated my mom,this saddened me,and i also don't want my kids to be affected thru this sickness........ please I need everyone's advice .

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Politics / Re: How Pramod Mittal Got A $500 Million Bailout In Nigeria by Realme111: 6:09am On Nov 22, 2023
spirul77:
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Foreign Affairs / Re: Burkina Faso's 34-Year-Old Leader Traore Is Most Handsome President In The World by Realme111: 2:06pm On Aug 17, 2023
Taylor90:
You dey whine my handsome amiable president?

Is my T-Boy a joke to you?

My Economy Squanderer president wey dey use white substance brush teeth every morning

The only human wey him dentition dey spoil teeth whitening machine

My president that refused to patronize toothpaste rather opted for Nigerian made charcoal to boost Naira
you're ba bad boy
Romance / Re: Married Woman Dies During Sex Romp With Bishop In Abia by Realme111: 12:03pm On Aug 17, 2023
Illegal1:
omoh........table dn finally turn,dis time nah man knack woman to death...no be only women go dey kill our comrade with knacking..
you're a BAD boy
Politics / Re: Updates On The NLC Protests Nationwide by Realme111: 1:39pm On Aug 02, 2023
IconicR:
They should stop all these please, it's too early. Asiwaju should just increase minimum wage and distribute palliatives. He should not fail me please because I will have no option than to leave Nairaland after all I've said here 😂 , my enemies will not let me rest here over Asiwaju especially that craddock boy.
you're funny bro
Family / Re: I'm Tired, My Husband Is Mentally Challenged by Realme111: 7:45pm On Jul 30, 2023
jeromestarks Your response is too harsh bro
May God forgive you
post=124751459:

Handle your problem alone.
You rejected good men who approached you when you were younger and beautiful to marry this mentally retardant.
You chose your destiny. You should suffer it alone.

Never pity a woman who is suffering in her home. Good men came for her but she rejected them saying "he's too short, he doesn't have money, he's to tall, he doesn't have a car etc" and settled for a guy who used suya to bribe her.

Many women wished the men they rejected came back. But guess what, none will come back.

Career / Re: MURIC Director, Prof. Akintola Retires From LASU by Realme111: 6:02pm On Jul 12, 2023
Family / Re: How To Cope When Your Spouse Doesn't Listen: Seeking Advice by Realme111: 1:36am On Jul 10, 2023
Reminderz:
if your wife doesn't listen to you, then she doesn't respect you... if your wife goes against your orders, then she doesn't regard you...

then what should you do especially when kids are involved? the solution is simple, if you don't want to divorce her due to the fact that kids are already involved, then get a second wife... if she doesn't change the way she acts after several attempts and warnings from you to get her back on track, if she doesn't do her responsibilities as your wife, then cease your responsibilities on her also and pay her less attention...

get a second wife and shift your focus.. your life is already filled with struggles as a man, do not let a woman whom you're feeding, clothing and sheltering give you HBP...

besides, you said she lost her parents at a young age, so maybe she has become "masculine" by trying to survive the situation she was in, so she doesn't see you as man enough to take orders from, it's either she sees you as weak or someone inferior to her to be respected... this is one of the issues a woman who wasn't raised in a stable environment or raised by a single parent mostly face.. you might not be able to change it... if you act weak and not masculine enough for her, she won't see you as someone worthy to be followed or respected...
you're right bro,the same thing in facing,my woman didn't respect me ,despite all my trying and been responsible
Family / Re: Bride’s Relative Steals Dowry In Kano by Realme111: 6:21pm On Jun 28, 2023
Sincerely she's a loving woman to me to the best if my knowledge,though there might be some misunderstanding,which is normal,yes her response when I challenged her was that,she do that because of her kids, because she knows that I do carry girls,and unfortunately if one get pregnant for me,I might decided that I'll marry two wives or maybe I decided to bring in another woman tomorrow and she'll be maltreating our kids .she said that she don't wanted to labour in vain, because she also advices me to buy land then when I have money with me ,but I didn't listened to her,though she lemme to know about this land when I have financial issue,so she confessed to me that she have a land and we should sell it,so I can use it to start a business.but now as things getting better,she still introduce me to another land,we going to pay for that within 12 months,we both just started paying for it,but my. Question now is that since she know that I'm now a changed person,that I'm no more womanizing,why did she still continue to buy the second land in her father's name and not my own surname ?

Does her father have a personal house?
Did she previously ask you to build a house for her parents and you refused?
Do you have issues of money with her?
Is trust missing in your marriage?
What kind of company does she keep?
Is your family harsh to her?
Does she feel insecure in the marriage?

Ask very valid questions to ascertain her reason. Check your conscience too

If she has no value reason, then know that your wife has horrible ideas.[/quote]
Family / Re: Bride’s Relative Steals Dowry In Kano by Realme111: 5:59pm On Jun 28, 2023
Please I need help on this issue.
My wife that we've been together for 13 years with 4 kids bought a landed property in her father's name,though I know that she achieved this thru all the money she saved from me .
Is it right or not,please wise people I needed someone to shed light on this .

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