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micklplus:

I will advice you based on my personal experience alone.

I didn't get my maid until my wife was heavily pregnant. She couldn't do much again and I had to help her out. By the time she put to bed, our maid has already known the rules.

For now, you can get a walk in maid. I.e laundryman, cook or temporary maid that won't sleep in! No family members for now. They could be trouble. Both your own and his.

Since you are just going to get married, trust me, you'll need/want/desire/crave and infact, kill to have your privacy and have your boo boo to yourself. Its not really wrong but, u'll need the bonding !!!

Once you are heavily pregnant, get a maid!!! U don't want to die before your baby arrives. Set the rules very early and trust me, you'll be fine.

As per your husband being promiscuous with your maid well, you'll have to trust your boo boo ooo. Atleast, I don't f^ck my maid and she's been around for a while so, your husband should be sensible enough not to engage in such a calamity! Lol. That doesn't rule out the fact that, some men are promiscuous and randy by nature but then, levels dey nah! Okpekes don finish for town? Anyman that would engage the house maid in sex.ual rumble,apart from being seen as classless, rass, low life, opportunist, insecure, blocked head, stupid, unfaithful, wimp and agbaya husband, should also be tied to the national power grid and his balls fed to the dogs!!!!!!

Lmao @ the bolded

2mch: No househelp is coming into my house. . I dont like the idea of strangers in my house. People are becoming desperate and dangerous these days. The world has really changed.

So even when u av like 4 kids,u would prefer ur wife do all d house chores+work to contribute financially to the family+create time for d kids+great sex life+every oda responsibility without anyone helping her out just because you do not like strangers in ur home.now isn't dat selfish? Or are u gonna be helping her out?

MLS12:

Wasn't talkn of cheatn,as in most of dem steal valuable's,nurse wicked agenda's,no mata hw Gud u re 2 dem.I was only sayn becarefl in aspects of not discussing everytin abt ur plans in front of her and all dat.because dey could expose u 2 outsiders.

ok.i get it now.point taken and noted.
Thanks for d advice

MLS12: U can get anytime u need,I personally dnt like a woman wrking her ass off all in d name of house chores.buh u got to be careful wit dem O,because dese househelp re d most ungrateful pple unda d sun,u hardly get a good one.and neva give dem access into ur Bedroom.u jst be careful

Thanks sis for ur advice.what i can deduce from ur advice is dat i should be careful lest my husby ends up in bed with my maid.hmnnnn.
Well i do not see my fiance as d type to cheat and even if he wants to,what happened to all d babes in town? I think a man dat would cheat on his wife with a maid will cheat with anything in skirt anyways so y bother my head?
Saying i shouldn't get a maid to prevent him from cheating on me is like saying i should lock him up in d house to prevent him from going out so dat he won't spot other ladies that he can cheat with.
My point is dat a man dat will cheat will cheat anyway whether with the maid at home or d secretary in d office.
I might be wrong though.dats y i came for advice.i'm quite new in all dis marital thingy

akinreals: Please don't try it.

I shouldn't.y?

I'm getting married soon and i've engaged the services of a firm that specializes in helping people get house-helps. Of course i discussed it with my fiance and he has no problem with it.Though he initially suggested we get someone that's family from any of the families(mine or his)but i kicked against it cos i would love to avoid any family drama or anything that may bring tension in the family.
But the issue is this;i discussed it with my friends and they were all trying to discourage me.saying it's wrong for a newly wedded couple to have a maid or house-help.They said since i don't have kids yet and i'm not pregnant either,i should be able to do all the house chores myself.
while growing up and even as a spinster,i have this mindset of "why stress myself when i can get people to help me out and pay them off"?
i see ladies struggling to do all the houework themselves and run all d errands even with kids.some barely have time to sleep.the first thing that runs through my mind is "what are u trying to prove?That you are mrs macho or wat?"
I believe stress makes you grow older faster and at the end of the day you become less attractive to the man you are trying so hard to please with your machoism.
i'm not the lazy type and i can NEVER allow anybody to cook my husbands meals or wash his undies or clean our room.but apart from these,i believe i should be able to delegate simple chores and not kill myself by coming back late at night from work and instead of eating and spending good time communicating and making love to my hubby,the next thing i'm thinking of is how to wash this and tidy that.and i cannot spend weekends dat is meant for resting and socializing doing house chores.
Pls i need advice cos i don't want to start out on a wrong footing.i've never been a people pleaser.i av always done things my own way no matter wat anyone thinks but i understand dat in marriage,u can't always have your way.
So pls,abeg make una advice me.is it bad to have a maid or househelp at the early stages of marriage? and if it is wrong,why is it wrong?

mtscheeew

wat the f/u/c/k is wrong with marrying a 16 year old??
but come oh!! it somehow doesn't sound right .
can u wait till she is 18 at least?
if u love her as much as u claim,waiting for 2 years shouldn't be too big a deal.

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Anonymous11 vs sexkillz

@onnari:thanks for ur help.it means a lot to me.
Yea i stay in nigeria.Ibadan oyo state to be precise.

Pls ladies,i need to learn how to make ready-to-wear clothes like tops,jackets,dresses etc.
Can anyone here direct me to a place where i can learn on a weekend basis(i don't stay in Lagos).
How long is it going to take and how much is is gonna cost me?
I need tips pls.thanks and GOD bless.

Please can anybody direct me to a place where i can learn how to make and mix skin soaps and creams for clearing black spots,stretch marks,skin toning and for general skin maintenance.
I would also love to learn how to make traditional black african soap known as ose dudu.
I would really appreciate ur help.thanks

Exportation of agricultural products like bitter kola,sesame seeds,cassava chips etc.u won't regret it.

Missy darling or any oda person dat has d E-book already,could u pls forward it to me via dis e-mail address-:
reinedamsel@yahoo.com

isale_gan2: It is such nonsense. Spiritual husband ko, spirited-away husband ni. Usually believed in by the sort of "bible-believing christians" who also believe in Abiku and child-witches. Weirdoes!

I hear you

@op it's a pleasure but I'm a lady not a man @op it's a pleasure but I'm a lady not a man

jennykadry:

Come on now

Our GOD is a merciful GOD. Even if they have been fornicating,as they start praying together,they might eventually realise the need to stop. pls lets encourage them.

mrkels:
Silly

Btw mastu.bation attracts spiritual husband?

Yes it does!!!
m.a.s.t.u.r.b.a.t.i.o.n, s/e/x/u/a/l fantasies when unmarried and fornication are the major causes of spiritual affairs.

blank: I find it such a paradox. They are fornicating and you ask them to wake up and pray. hmmm. Okay.

I can't find anywhere in d post where d op stated dat they were already having s/e/.x

i can relate with what you just said.she needs serious deliverance prayers oooo.spiritual husband can be very stubborn but she can be delivered.You need to act fast too because spiritual husbands are jealous beings and they always try to attack the earthly husband that tries to "steal" the lady from him.
I use to have a friend then in my university days,in the night, she screams and make sounds, wriggles her body like she is making love and she bed wets too. she later confided in me and told me that every guy she has ever dated always ran into problems after having intimacy with her.i even witnessed two of her "boyfriend running down" experiences too. One was an upcoming musician and the other was a business man.Their finances plunged so fast,car engines knocked,businesses going down and several experiences.I swear i was scared.
Please do not take this issue with levity.both of you need to go spiritual.serious fasting and prayer sessions and get a deliverance minister. visit this website too-: www.deliveranceplace.com. you will learn a lot.
Another thing that works is getting up in the midnight within the hours of 12:00-3:00am to pray fervently. you should join her too. She is not on her own in this,in fact you are more at risk than she is cos u r the one she is "cheating" with.so pls do not leave her but join her in the fight. both of you will conquer in Christ's name.
Again, if she is the type that m.a.s.t.u.r.b.a.t.e.s tell her to stop it henceforth cos that is one of the easiest ways to attract spiritual husband.
It is well with you and yours.

Wow congrats man! It's called "morning sickness" and it's normal for pregnant women especially in d first 3 months.visit the health section for tips.I think there's a thread for pregnant women.
Best of luck

The car is neat and in good working condition.I'll post pictures later. You can come for inspection or call me on 08165254112(serious buyers only pls).it's a personal car,thanks.

Can a guy with 3rd class in mathematics from Unilorin apply for the job opening.he is resident in Ibadan.

@OP I think ur hubby was actually suspecting u of infidelity and I think he just wanted to be sure dat u passed d night in d house hence d insistence on speaking to ur friend dat night.
I think ur hubby is insecure.I pray God touches his heart soon enough so dat he can at least pick up ur calls then u guys can now start discussing wat happened dat night.
Just keep praying.he'll come around

How many years rent pls?

wow!!!!! so chaircover you are IB based and you own dat shop in ance along d road to martha"s kitchen.wowww!!!!!!! I've actually been admiring you on nairaland(I'm female). i draw wisdom from every of your post.i'm IB based too and i promise to start patronizing u. can't even wait to meet you in person .Pls do you do wedding planning too? won't mind you being my wedding planner.