lefulefu:
u can just have a casual relationship with her if u know u don't have the financial strengtht to take care of her.meanwhile be focused in whatever u doing be it business or schooling and feel free around ladies.

This country is finished. I can't believe the comments I am reading on this thread.

Hmmmm so 9ja babes are now commodities that can only be acquired with money. It's aiit

Reedahgado:
If I were u op, I would just concentrate on making it big rather than chasing girls upandan.



Advice from a concern friend

Wow.

If I must make it big b4 I can attract a 9ja babe, then why are broke 9ja babes dating, even though they don't have a kobo in their accounts.

Let's not destroy this world for the upcoming generations......

olasesi:
Because I have not found.
It is necessary that I find love before I become successful because I won't be felt truly loved if I become a success before it. I am one huge potential that will thrill and wow you. But the ladies I have met still didn't take a chance even as they were wowed too. It's like not taking a chance of 9/10. Few however has stuck around waiting for me to get the final mark before I can get a YES!!!. But by then, it would be too late for them. Everyone wants to be genuinely loved.

... My story

Boss are u my twin !! because we both share a similar story.

Me thinks the reason most 9ja dudes are single is because they don't have money to purchase and care for a girlfriend. 9ja girls are only loyal to d mulla....

www.nairaland.com/4342589/relationships-now-employment-opportunities#64993132

pocohantas:
You see one problem I have with hustling guys, they play victim a lot. They are paranoid, insecure and can cause juvenile hypertension.

Date a hustling guy and break up with him, he'll tell the whole world it's because he is broke, he'll never look inwards to correct his flaws or work on other desirable traits.

This is not to say there are no girls always looking for ATM, there are so many of them. So so many, but there are more hustling guys than rich guys in Nigeria, yet majority of these guys have some girl dying for their matter. These hustling guys are even getting married every Saturday. So, why do you keep attracting parasitic girls? Are you just unlucky or undiscerning?

U see, na exactly my point be dis.

Them babes must find a reason to blame the hustling guys. Now this aunty is already blaming me.... LOL

lefulefu:
ok oo let d comments flow

Lol
Badt guy...

Do u know that because I don't have a job yet, no girl wants to be in a relationship with me !!! They give reasons that don't make any sense, instead of coming clean that they want an ATM.

I mean when has money become the no. 1 factor 4 a girl to say yes to u. They give irrelevant excuses just to reject a broke responsible dude, but ironically start making up excuses 4 dating a spoilt rich kid, Yahoo boys, rich married men, etc.

It's not as if we are docile and doing nothing to improve our lots. We are actually doing all we can legitimately to make dis money, but the country is really hard. It is even harder than ever right now.

It is sickening to realize that no girl wants to be with a hustling guy. Even below average looking girls are looking for an ATM that will secure their future. And to think that only 1 out of every 100 ladies is not broke...

Who else is experiencing or have experienced same ?

drnoel:


Still the paradox there is what I am against as regards what Hardone ia saying and that is the that there is a manual on how to handle women and that being nice to them is wrong as hardone states.
To handle women and keep appealing to their sense of reasoning one has to be different from the last guys she met, one has to out think her next move, one has to be an enigma that she cant phantom. One can keeping being all these and still be nice to them. Thats my point.

True though....

@drnoel but u didn't pay for her food na when u guys did lunch together.

That in itself my friend is the bad guy's paroz. That's exactly how bad guyz roll.

And also ur approach was totally different. It is exactly what HARDDON and others have repeated said from the very first page of this thread. U didn't ask her out but yet u were able to shine her Congo repeatedly.

U my friend is the baddest guy in town, who sees himself as a nice guy....

drnoel:


Ur own opinion. Won't go listing all the girls I got down with cos its too childish. But will say this, in school I was called "little angel" by most of the girls. I got the nickname cos I was the shoulder they cried on whenever they broke up with their boyfriends. Believe me, they didn't only cry on my shoulder.
There was one that told me and I quote "my friends tell me u are better at it tha their boyfriends and I have been hoping fate will give me an opportunity to try it out".
Another one that played hard to get then in school and refused to allow me 4k her so I allowed her go. After she broke up with her cult boyfriend she lied to the guy that I had been 4king her. It made me a target then in school till I had to sort it out with those boys. Anyway, met her years ago, she was now working in one bank. She was so surprised to see me. I asked her what it was she eas playing at then and she said and I quote "u stauchly refused to pursue me so I wanted to ginger u up to the chase but u just settled it with those guys". I asked her, "are u married or engaged now and she answered she was not so I told her I would bed her now since I missed it then and I did. Being a nice guy rocks.

Nice guys stinks

They are slow and repulsive

They always finish last (that explains why u later got a pussy that has been demolished over time)

In fact nice guys always end up with overly used kitty cats...