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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Reliablejay: 10:06pm On Oct 16, 2018
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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Reliablejay: 2:48pm On Sep 14, 2018
mamaejima2boys:


my dear there is nothing wrong with you o, my best friend period was like that, she had concerns but she took in the same month she wedded, she has two kids know, she started having more flow after the first baby, now she is wanting her normal scanty period. chill please is nothing to worry about.
Thank you make.
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Reliablejay: 11:50am On Sep 14, 2018
My period is so scanty what can I use to increase it? It has always being so. I have a normal circle of 28days the first day is very scanty, second day will manage to full one pad for the whole day, third day is spotting. I can step out of the shower and not wear pad for 2 hours and not get stain. My Dr don't see anything wrong with it, but I am worried.
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Reliablejay: 10:31pm On Dec 15, 2017
MGeey:


Not really. But because hubby likes it so i drink once in a while. Apart from farmfresh, farm pride yogurt has probiotic cultures too.

Howdy Reliablejay, we haven't heard from you in a while. You're still in our prayers. Remain strong.
Thanks sis for checking on me. I have being off social media for some time now. I can't say things are fine, but I try to live with dh like nothing happened. Trying my best not to bring up the issue like some mamas suggested but in all it is not easy.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Reliablejay: 10:20pm On Nov 26, 2017
I thank God for the day I found this group. Mamas I con't mention you all but may God bless you. My ranting here and the surport I got took away 40%of my pain. For the first time in about 4wks I actually smiled and forgot my pain. Thank you all for you advice and prayers. The tension at home has gone down cos you all gave me a reason to stay, I know it won't be easy.
I called the elder sister whom he is very close to, to inform her and she did not believe me. I told her I was going to inform my dad of the situation on ground. i have also made up my mind to inform my dad but I know it won't go down well. Even if I find a place in my heart to forgive him my dad will never forgive him and might never step foot in our home again.
Mamas I can't thank you all enough, you are a life saver. Thank you for the love.

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Reliablejay: 4:46pm On Nov 25, 2017
Mamas I have to open this account for this purpose.

I can't tell my pain to anyone that is why I have come here to cry.
I have being married for 3yrs now and we are still looking to God for children. (I have fertility issues). Normally I don't go through dh phone because I trust him and no trace of cheating. But some weeks ago he was showing me something on his phone, and a Whatsapp msg dropped "us at 6 wks". He quickly cleared the screen, I pretended like I did not see anything, but I was worried what that phrase meant though my mind was pointing somewhere but I said to myself it is not possible. But I was not at peace, the next day I decided to snoop. And I got the greatest shock of my life that has ruin my life forever. He is expecting a child with a certain lady, I call her A. I was shattered and devastated. I confronted him, to cut long story he said I should give him 4 days that he would convince A to terminate the pregnancy and end the relationship. On the third day he told me that it over between them and he has give A Money to terminate it. I cried I wanted to die but I could not tell anybody because I did not want my dad to hear of it. And also could not tell a friend. Only told my sister that dh is cheating on me but could not tell her of A's pregnancy because she will tell my dad. I felt betrayed and was totally broken. I last my job last year have not been able to secure another one if not I could have move out of the house.
He apologised over and over said is was 1 big mistake. I tried to put it behind me and move on. I checked his phone one day and noticed he has put a password,immediately I knew something was wrong. on Thursday night I was ables to unlock the phone and saw A was still pregnant and they still keep in touch very well from his call log. He woke up and saw me crying and ask what the problem was I told him and he denied, I took a screen shot of their conversation so I show it to him. He started with another lie saying he is going to ask her to terminate for real and end it all, I said his cross but I am done with him, I can't deal with his betrayal. I have being crying all day I have little savings but it won't take me far. I have been leaving in a fools paradise for over 3yrs thinking I had the best husband. Note before the night I checked his phone our marriage has being hitch free. No quarrels just argument that will not last 2mins he is quick to say sorry whether he is right or wrong.
From their chat A told him a guy called her with an unknown number telling her if she thinks is all pregnancies you can give birth to and she heard a lady's voice on the background so she know it is me that she is scared. She lied against me because I didn't call her and have not discuss this with anybody. Since this morning I have started picking my important things I have no destination but I just want to live
Sorry for boring you people but I just need to let this out before I burst.

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