Workch:
He posted today in his Facebook page

All this irrelevant topic making front page...

thesicilian:
Technically we as strangers should have no say in how your home is run, that should be between you and your husband. You alone should decide whether you want to maintain your family unit and move with him to the village, or risk the possibility of a separation between husband and wife, father and children by refusing to go with him. Either one you choose will have its own advantages and consequences so think about it carefully.
A third option might be to help him look for any job that can persuade him to stay in the city

That your 3rd option is out of it., can you give such a man job?, someone that is not responsible., i would rather help the woman than the so called yeye man..

Madam., don't go with him, get a Job and take care of your kids., Na there type go show face for future to reap where they did not sow.,if possible stay away from that man forever.

Pierohandsome:
I think there must be a blood sucking demon along rail lines. Because I do not believe that somebody in his right frame of mind will see a train coming and will decide to cross the rail at the same time

There is nothing like block sucking demon on the rail track., we Nigerian's no dey listen., even common man wey dey use leg sef no go gree use pedestrian bridge not to talk of someone on bike or driving cars,bus or whatever.

The man wan try fast and furious on rail track., he can't say he no hear the loud sound from the train horn.

If na normal bus driver now, soldier's go don put the innocent man for gaurd room and panel beat him life...

A little patience goes a long way in all we do.,his death is actually avoidable.., but if it is time to go, who i'm i to question God?

May his soul rest in peace..

Lutherblaq:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tlp5PZPAP8E

The presidential candidate of the Labour Party, LP, during the February 25 presidential election, Mr Peter Obi has raised alarm on plots made against his life.



https://twitter.com/PeterObi/status/1662963604461682688?t=Y9zfLe7ZMjUkgu-DcgdyKA&s=19

Make this man go rest jare., na only him be presidential candidate wey lose election., seeking unnecessary relevance, he is not displaying the necessary maturity.
Atiku focus on tribunal we no hear any noise.
He is even distance third dey cry for mandate wey no loss., if the court will rule in any one's favour, it will be in Atiku's.
Make he rest...Abeg.

Afodot0022:
Top of the day to you naira landers,

I know some of you will criticize me here for always bringing my marital issues here.

Well i believe we got lots of married responsible people here that might have gone through what i am facing through and may have one or two advice for me on how to navigate through my issues.

Some of you are unaware of my stories, i will urge you to read through my stories under my profile name and have better understanding about how it unfolded.

Now i am still struggling emotionally base on the problem am having with my wife, the disloyal, cheating and dishonesty from her ever since she got the job and get an accommodation in the barrack.

She has been a complete different person entirely and still surprise how she turned to be who she is now. well i have decided to divorce her and sent her away because she had caused me enough pains emotionally which am yet to heal from, my peace of mind and mental health is at stake and dont want to run mad because of a woman. I dont think i deserve that. .

My advice to single men and women planning to settle down soon should be very careful with the person they want to marry and know the person very well cos people do change alot when circumstances struck.

That man or woman you are so in love with now might turn out to be a beast when you later end up getting married. Marriage is a very difficult journey.

Now i and my wife are separated living apart but my two daughters are still leaving with me and with the help of my aged mom and sister, they are taking care of them and doing well.

Now am kinda confuse whether i should let the kids go stay with their mother or they should stay with me. Though she is not dragging custody with me but I realize the kids staying with me for now gives me that emotional strength and doesn't make me feel lonely, but if i take them to their mom, i might start missing them and loneliness and depression may strike being that i will be living alone.

I just want to get advice from divorced or separated men or women and even married and single here how they handle the custody part of their kids when their marriage ended, is it easy as a man to raise two girls age 5 and 6yrs and what are the issues relating to these.

As i said, i have a mom and aunt that can look after them very well and all i have to do is provide for them all they will be needing physically and financially, but i just what to be sure if am taking the right decision and wont regret taking their full custody.

pls anyone with useful advice should drop here cos am in a dilemma right now and want to get solution to my issues.

Pls sorry for the typo errors, am writing this with emotions scattered.

If you have the financial capacity., i will advice you to relocate far from her., make she no con use military threaten you in the future.

When she ask of you from your family, make dem tell her say.., you don travel out.

That travelling go happen by God's grace.., nothing is as good as having one's peace of mind.

The worst mistake a man can make is marrying a wrong woman.

She left 5 & 6yrs old kids...." has finish., na Iya Omo remain"

HardMirror:
I will keep this short and no one should send me any message.

So last year I decided to revisit freelancing because I am a gifted writer and been writing for many years so why not use it to make money?

So I registered on a freelancing site and the journey began.

Making money is never the problem if you are a freelancer, the problem is how much time can you give to the job.
The job was just too much that i had to employ many nairalanders to work for me.
At a point I was earning $900 per week (i could earn much more than this but where is the time to do more work?) but the work was just too much. So much that i moved to an hotel for several months just so that i can focus and have the hotel staff attend to all my needs so I dont have to do any work except my writing job.

This is a job that would make you want to go mad. You will work mornimg and night as if you have no life. Forget social life, all you will be after is to meet deadlines.

People will think you are a yahoo boy because you dont go to an office and you are always on your laptop. They also see that you dont have problem with money. To make it worse you are always going to bank to collect dollars and take to aboki.

I shake my head when i see nigerians complaining that there is no work. There is work but most people cannot work. That is just the truth.

If you know you can make these sacrifices then you should consider freelancing so far you have the skills for the jobs you want to apply for.

I love writing but i need training.,books or mentor, who can put me through the process..to perfect the the skill and focus on a niche...
Mind you, my writing ability, comes when i least expected... if decide to write stuff, it just come natural. Can you help me?

CuriousMind2022:
It's a known fact that most Nigerian girls marry who they consider ready for marriage and not necessarily who they love. I am exactly in that dilemma and the question I am asking myself is whether I should continue in this loveless marriage or slowly drift and walk away.

My marriage is barely 2 years and a few months, but it has been a rough journey for me. Things I never envisaged I would experience in my marriage, I have suffered, from utmost disrespect to verbal abuse.

I came to the conclusion that she doesn't love or care about me based on what happened yesterday. I was recently transferred from my base to a new location and because of that, I would only be able to visit weekends or twice a month. Prior to that, we barely had sex once a week.

We had already had sex the normal once we usually had it (Saturday morning), but I wanted more because I will only be coming back after two weeks. I initiated a move on Sunday morning, she declined because she was thinking of preparing food for our baby before we leave for church. We went to church and came back, and as usual, my wife was in her undies (just panties and bra) in the sitting room (This was what she wore throughout that Sunday).

I watched her walk around the house in that and that even turned me on the more. I am a practicing Christian, and I try not to look after other women lustfully, but common this is my wife, even God sanctions that. After being turned on throughout the day, I went to my wife in the night, (note she slept in the sitting room with our baby leaving me alone in the room) to enjoy my conjugal rights with her, but she gave me excuses that she is upset and not in the mood.

I left and went back, seriously konjified, I managed to sleep. The next morning, I woke up with my urges and went to the sitting room to have my morning devotion, but I could barely concentrate because I was still very Hot. I explained to her that so really wants me to go to my new station like this knowing fully well I will not be coming back until 2 weeks time. This woman did not care!

I took my bath, prepared myself, and set out for my office. I was not happy with her but I kept my cool and left for work. She had demanded that I dropped some money for her before leaving and despite the fact that I was not happy with her, I dropped the money in a conspicuous place where I know she will see it before leaving. This was my own way of saying I am not happy with what you did, but I still cared.

I try to do things I usually do for my wife even when I am angry with her. This is my own way of saying I may be angry with you, but I still cared about you and I am open to a resolution. On the other hand, my wife doesn't care what happens to me when she is upset. She immediately stops cooking for me ad any other thing she does for me when she is upset. It is obvious to me now that to my wife I don't really matter in the grand scheme of things. She is only caring and concerned, when she is not angry (when we are good and we don't have any issues). I believe that when you love somebody, you treat them right and show genuine love and care for them even when you're upset with them. This is what I have constantly shown to my wife in our 2+ years of marriage.

Back to my story of what happened weekend/Monday. My wife never bothered to call me to check if I arrived safely since I left the house yesterday. I even called her once (primarily to check on my daughter), but she didn't pick up and she didn't call back, and up till now, we have not spoken.

She obviously does not care whether I arrived safely in my station or not. In this country of insecurities, a family member of yours will travel and you do not care whether he/she arrived safely, that is the height for me, and in the actual sense, I should be the one upset here because she left me high and dry, despite knowing fully well I am very Hot.

I am a family-oriented person, I have always dreamt of having a peaceful, loving, and Godly home but unfortunately, the reverse is the case for my wife. I began to understand why family background is very important in a person's life, after getting married. My wife is from a family where they place little or no value on marriage. Her mother had children with 2 men, and my wife is obviously working very hard to follow that same path. She shows little or no enthusiasm in making our marriage work. I am always the one to initiate moves to resolve issues when we quarrel, whether I am right or wrong, I do not care, my focus is just on making my marriage work and my home peaceful.

This last episode shook me very hard, and I have been asking myself whether I want to continue in this loveless marriage or opt out. Working and living in a different city will even make it easier for me.

I needed to let my thoughts out and thanks to Nairaland, I have done so.

No need to dey think am...
Just get place at your current work location and have your peace of mind.

She's not ready for Marriage...

Felabrity:
So the arimbaba and other members were suspended in 2022 for antiparty activities. The apapa guy who was the oyo zonal chairman and probably contesting for senate lost his election in 2023, he never claimed to be the authentic LP chairman before the election, just on a low.

All they have been doing then was stepping down for the party with the highest bidder during the election period, that's how they generate income for the party

The arimbaba and other suspended members connived with apapa, met with apc after the election so they can disrupt the court process and with the backing of apc, they got a judge that sacked abure, making apapa the party leader so he can reinstate the other members that were suspended earlier.

Are you present there when they held meeting with the APC..?, no let your emotions becloud your sense of judgement and reasoning.

As far as i'm concern, na Peter Obi scatter that party.

Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

Any she wan conceive instead of her to care for that little girl..
She came to you when you are weak., when your brain dey down due to the loss of your wife and you think say you don see a very caring wife..that stood by you.

You must have been eyeing the woman sef when your wife dey alive 2020, married her 2021...just imagine

I pity you, na warm up she still dey do for you., by the time she finish with you., you'll regret marrying her.

You better send her away., good women are suppose to be motherly and caring not wicked and evil personified.

Kabirudeen25:
Bunch of foolish idiots. Imagine a whole "rapid response team" instead of looking out for lagosians who might be in imidiate danger, or raising alarm about threats to their lives on Twitter, they are busy following Hundeyin up and down like mosquito. Is that the work of the "rapid response" team?
Imagine the nonsense Tinubu is turning the country into.
What business does a Twitter handler have with tracing a journalist that is just doing his job?
Is RRS or their Twitter handler a detective agency?
even if they're what crime did Hundeyin commit?
.We are in trouble!!

Oga calm down jare., has it been or have you confirmed it was the real RRS handle or a fake account., you just dey blow hot like say na you dem they attack.., you better no give yourself hypertension ontop matter wey no concern you.

BrighterThanDay:
As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.

After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.

Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.

After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.

Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.

I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.

My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.

I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.

She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family members were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.

For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.

Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.

Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.

Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.


When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking terms now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.

My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.

I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them.

Madam brace yourself up., if i were your brother, or father right now.

My advice to you will be to get a good job, and leave that marriage. One thing i hate most is family interfering in people's marital life, the utterances from your husband's family are so shocking and very repulsive to the ear.

They don't want a third party which is you., they only want their son to serve them and enjoy his wealth.

Wo, aunty you never see husband O!, if care is not taking, they will find a wife for their son who will dance to their tune and be their puppet. If every member of the family can sleep and face the same direction., madam you never see inlaw.

As for your husband, he's a p*ssy and a sisi with empty balls. He should have stood up for you and stand his grounds more.., how dare his sister...with all the insult.?
God knows i can shut out my family for such actions, wetin Omolomo do una wey una go just dey hate and treat her bad...I so much hate cheating.

If i were your brother just like i said., na me go con carry you comot that house... Get a good job just like i said., before you go open leg for the second child...that's if you can cope with the radarada family., if not run for your life before they drain you mentally...Ire O!✌🏼

Never!
I will not allow her Mum new my house., she should go and take care of her mum and come back when her she's done.

She can't eat her cake and have it...Rubbish!

Court order on Feb. 2nd 2023., after Inec don print ballot paper..😂

Neweramify:
MY EXPERIENCE AS INEC AD-HOC STAFF IN ENUGU NORTH LGA

I'm currently a Corp member (NYSC) serving in Enugu North LGA, we were used for the 2023 presidential election at Enugu North LGA. We had three days training before the election date. During the training, we were told provision would be made for our transportation and feeding, but we are yet to receive anything.

We were told to be present at INEC office a day before the election and that we will be sleeping at our collation center which didn't happen. We all ended up sleeping at the INEC office.

We never knew we will be sleeping in an open air, without a roof over our head and on a MAT.

Neither did we know we will be visited by a Snake, BIG rats, spiders, BIG black ants, etc while sleeping. We almost got bitten by a snake but God safed us.

it all happened without any medical personal on ground.

Provision wasn't made for food, not even a sachet water. we went through all this without getting 5 naira from INEC.

On the day of the presidential election, there wasn't enough vehicles to convey us to our polling unit. Some of us got to our polling unit by 1pm, 2pm etc and almost got beaten by the angry voters who had waited for so long to cast their vote, thank God for the Reverend father who intervened on our behalf.
I'm grateful to God for a peaceful conduct in my polling unit.

After election, our buses came to pick us back to INEC office for submission of election materials.

Arriving INEC office, The INEC officials refused to collect the election materials from us. We were asked to spend another night in their office (without food and water). Some of my colleagues disagreed with them, begged them to get the materials so that they can go back to their destination which they refused.

A Corp member said to one of the officials,

i quote "please sir, why is INEC treating us like animals"

How did they expect us to return from our polling unit, with all the stress we went through at the polling unit, standing all day without food & water yet expect us to spend another night here without making any provisions for us. Not even the training/feeding allowance was given to us.

We had no option than to sleep just to secure the materials given to us since the INEC officials refused to collect the election materials that night.

I told God, if I survive this night, I will never do INEC work again. I was so hungry, tired and stressed out, I had just 200 naira with me which was supposed to be my transport (remember it's hard to get cash in Nigeria).
How I survived till morning being Sunday 26 February 2023 is still a miracle. This incident made me conclude that hunger doesn't kill.

As early as 5am on the 26 February, INEC officials started collecting the election materials while checking if everything was complete in the BVAS box given to us.

In conclusion, I want to appeal to you all to help us beg INEC officials in Enugu North LGA, Enugu, to please pay the Corp members they used to carry out the election and all the INEC AD-HOC STAFF here in Enugu North.

Let it be known that we the Corp members at Enugu North LGA are not going to participate in the Governorship election if we don't receive our allowances for the presidential election.
Thank You.


The president
Corp members affair (NYSC)
ENUGU NORTH LGA.
13/03/2023

Mobs Please help move this to front page

Had Same experience during my service year 2019 elections in Abia state... If una no strike or tell them una go boycott the governorship election, dem no go pay you.

Stupid, Greedy set of people

BeardedmeatR:
They are burning Igbo owned shops already.

Shops that will spring back to life in space of six months, bigger and better, while the arsonists and their supporters will continue to swell the population of people living under the bridges.

Get your facts right before you display your gullibility on social platform., don't let your hatred becloud your sense of reasoning.

Politician are feasting on your minds, this is election season anything is possible in nigerian polity to attract smypathy and sway people.
I'm not saying whoever you think did it can't be a culprit, those who you think are saint can also employ people to carry out such act my brother..this is politics bro, anything is possible in this space. No be today now.

Who are the people burning igbo shop?
Are you there when the shops were set on fire?

If i ask you know., you'll say APC, you will say yoruba's... I knew it when i saw the news yesterday morning, that it will lead to this tribal believes because of the political atmosphere we are in right now.

Is it only Igbo's that have shops in that area.?
Is it only their shops that got burnt?

I need proof from you, we can't just be following the crowd all because of our emotions.

Get your facts right and stop spreading fake news up and down...Stop heating the polity!

I think the relative peace people are enjoying in this state is not enough, until it turns out like southeast and Northeast that's when you will be ok. This is going beyond our mandate., there is a sinester going on here., we must call ourselves to other and not be a tool in the hands of this politicians.

Heaven go fall nii, no be ontop one person., na all of us go suffer am.

All the politicians have plan B, if any gbege happen., they are out of the country.
Wetin be your own plan my brother.?

The earlier you think with your head and not let any politician swindle you of your emotions and energy. Your noise and shout wey you dey shout no pass this platform, why the stress?

Abeg make una think twice!

DispatcherLagos:
We shall reclaim our mandate sir

Dey there dey whine yourself, "Our Mandate" or "His Mandate".
How all of una see messiah in this guy, still dey baffle me.

All of them,from Tinubu to Atiku to Obi...they are all scammers feasting on gullible minds.

If una like make una no make life for una sef, dey shout for politicians that are already made., whose family no dey online to dey drag pple and shouting our mandate up and down.

Where are Obi children in all the chant and rants on social media.?

My brother Ja'funra e (Fight for yourself) Obi does not know you or your lineage. He is only fighting for his pocket.

If any politian in this country says He is fighting for the citizen...Na scam.

Make una think twice.

2mercy:


https://fij.ng/article/revealed-apcs-new-way-of-wooing-voters-in-lagos/

Where is APC or lagos state government in the credit alert.., i don't understand why some pple will just be playing with gullible minds., for crying out loud., this going beyond hands.

If care is not taken., we are all heading for doom.
Same way Influencers are being paid millions to change the narrative of every political parties and spread lies.

Nigerian youth, a lot is at stake here, your life, your future, your family are all on the line. If any kasala happen today, what's your plan B or Plan C if at all you have any.?

Nigerian politicians are not worth the stress or your blood and sweat..., Most of them are dual citizens, with investment in foreign countries., their families won't engage in cyber bully or attack., they are outside the country chilling, na when food done dem go show face for naija.

The stolen mandate they are figthing for it's for there personal enrichment., every nigerian citizens have the right to the said mandate.

How much or how closely do you know the politians you want to die for., Tinubu is not a Saint, Atiku is not a Saviour, neither is Obi the Messiah.

Think twice my people.., don't instigate tribal war., respect the people of the lands wherever you reside.
A lot is at stake here...think twice!👌

ShaqFu:
... How are we sure this is not the doings of mischief makers.

Like someone will bribe you days before the gubernatorial election telling you to vote APC? When the person doesn't even know if you're a registered voter or if you even have a PVC. Hmmm.

This looks like it was staged I must say. In this present day when anybody can say anything on social media and get away with it, I find this story too good to believe.

Those who have the means should track the reference number attached to that credit alert to know if this claim is legit.

You just spoke my mind., the way people just jump on any news and believe whatever is dished out still amazes me.

Where is the proof that it was APC., the fact that we are clamouring for change doesn't mean we should allow our sense of reasoning to be tweak.

As far as i'm concern., i no see any saint among all the 3 top candidates for presidential and all governorship candidates as well.

The earlier you realise, that it is all game plan of the political elite to cause division and instigate another round of anarch and disaster the better.

This is now beyond youthful uprising and clamour for change, it is becoming a tribal war, religious war, ethnic war, bitterness, potential attack at any opportunity and looming disaster if care is not taken.

Those who started this won't find means to quel there supporters...until things goes out of hand.
It is only those who are alive that can live to tell the stories., those who lost their lives during one protest or uprising their families are still battling with the loss.

This is not a country where sacrifices are appreciated., even our past heroes sef are not honored as expected.

If any kasala happen today for this country., the Tinubu, Atiku and Obi's..., will leave you all behind, they all have their plan B in place.

So ask yourself, what plan do you I have for myself and your family, are this guys worth the fighting, tribal bigotry, attack?

A lot of you will lose friends and destiny helpers during this period and years to come due to the hatred you have towards one another., when the dust finally settle's, then reality will dawn on you because the internet never forget

#Makeunathinktwice
#Nopoliticianisworththestress

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

I need decent one that can add value to my life..., incase you see, kindly notify me

StrongAlphMale:
ASUU was on strike for 8 months, El Rufia no bother.
Southern Kaduna christians were killed, El Rufia no send.
But e reach new currency Matter, the terrorist midget Carry am for head. Don't worry obi will deal with this terrorist and would also rearrange this country when he has been sworn in. Obi really has a lot of work to do

All of una just spewing rubbish from your dirty mouth...
Wetin concern us with AssU or all the rubbish you are spewing outside...?

How can they withhold and ration peoples money for them, are you all mad.?

The fact that you have means to survive, is it the same with every other person?

What about the common food seller., that makes food everyday running at lose because she can't sell her food due to rejection of old notes and unavailability of new notes., what about the people that don't have bank accounts or people that get paid daily., how will dey survive...?

Who gives a Bleep about ASSU and whatever happened before...that's how the story has been in this country before., shae na the naira swap go amend all the rubbish you typed up there..?

Most of you no get sense at all., just blinded by sentiment and bigotry., i don't give a damn about any politician I work for my money and i deserve access to it anytime i need it.

Because of Curbing vote buying, they put over 200million people in dilemma..., it is total rubbish... We joke alot in this country O!
There is no single human feelings in many of Us. If your govt. are behaving like animals must you also be one?

This is note the first time currency have been redesigned and swapped in this country.., why must this be different.,?
I don't care about any stupid elections or whomever una dey support.

My survival is my personal problem not on your stupid government.

Everyone of you supporting this stupid policy., God will punish all of you., together with that Emefiele..

ChangetheChange:


https://gazettengr.com/despite-supreme-court-order-stanbic-ibtc-union-bank-others-insist-on-rejecting-old-naira-notes/

Make una leave them., dem just dey play.
This is an opener for Nigerians.., Banks is worthless we can do better without dem.. Let's all boycott this useless banks

EcoBrick:


https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/581070-exclusive-naira-crisis-emefiele-discloses-why-currency-redesign-policy-is-failing.html

This one is just saying rubbish upandan., he allow himself to be use as tool to add more to the suffering of nigeria.

Posterity will judge all of you...eediot

toneroforever:
Buhari has made up his mind to frustrate the vote buying plans of Tinubu & there's nothing anybody can do about it.
Buhari doesn't care about what the courts say.
The SW should understand that causing unrest in their region because of Buhari's decision to tackle vote buying, won't be in their best interest.
Tinubu is seriously sabotaging the efforts of the CBN to implement the policy and majority of Nigerians support the CBN but want improved cash supply.
Tinubu's & his cohorts antics is a clear case of corruption fighting back.

I don't know how alot of pple think on this platform., make una get small sense like this na lie.
Any small thing Tinubu buying votes, sabotaging CBN policy or whatever.
Do you think all this politician care about you., do you think they don't have billion s of the new notes in their coffer's?

You that you're are shouting upandan, going with your favorite candidate, whoever that mayb how much of the new notes do you have or were you able to withdraw from you account.?

People are suffering., as much as the intention of the policy was good., it is bitting hard on people. You can't tell me to deposit my hard earned money (old notes) and you con dey ration my money give me, are they mad.?

How can you say because you want to punish one person and put 199million citizens into hardship. Person wey get connections, shares for banks.

Where you think say all the money wey CBN say dem print dey go..?

We can't be all blinded and lack reasoning just because of the support you have for your prefer candidate., you can't tell me lack of accessing your money too doesn't affect you as others.

So guy., humanity first., any person wey you dey support no know you., abi obi na your uncle, tinubu na your brother or atiku na your father.?

I'm not affiliated with any party, neither will i vote for anyone., if they are telling you your vote will make a difference, bro na scam.

When the result of your shouting finally comes out after the elections., you sef go shock say it is not worth the stress.

Just calm down and try reason.😎

Must we contact you before you give us details about the Job...?

..all this contact me no dey genuine..

Sheistoopretty:
Who do u expect to read dis?


Meanwhile,


Nigerian men are Useless..... All of them

Expect as how., agreement is an agreement., if she wasn't down with it., she shouldn't have go ahead with.

Fine emotions, come into play when she end up falling in love., she should have speak up., and let the guy know she has develop a feeling for him. Probably it wouldn't have end this way. Her silence cause her this pain not the guy.

To your last sentence., so far you get brothers and a father..., it's a case of "T'aba nii ka s'oko s'oja.....?

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I'm in a situation currently.,and it is getting me mentally stressed, help or advice needed here.

I wanted to go into tech., i really desire it.
I'm a novice though., i was looking for an organization where i can learn and grow.

I got an offer for a management training, in a software based tech company., like training from the basic for 6month, in which i'll be fully staffed after undergoing the training with increased pay/salary. current pay 80k

I got another offer as a safety office at an oil depot at apapa in which the application and interview still remains a mystery till now.,
Also, i received the appointment offer for the two jobs the same day.

But, i already started safety job this week..with higher pay than the tech.

I am expected to resume nxt week for the tech., and i can't deny it's all my heart ever wanted.
I don't really feel settled at the safety job because my heart is somewhere else.
I can't sleep., mentally stressed just because i can't make a decision.

Have been bombarded with calls and mails from the tech company to fill some document., which i am yet to do or reply.

I only have today and sunday to make up my mind.
I'm just lost.

All advice will be really appreciated.

Kindly help me push to the front page

PerfectMatchNG:
Which would you prefer?
An organisation where you are a bit relaxed and performs the same routine everyday for a salary of N80,000 naira.

OR

An organisation with a lousy boss where your work routine changes from time to time for a take home salary of N200,000

I'm in same situation but different circumstances

segtech68:
I'm in a very serious relationship which will likely lead to marriage before the middle of this year. she's a good lady, very decent, God fearing and has a good Job. We both love each other so there's no point waiting than to marry her. We've talked about it and she loves the idea. Also , i've met her family and her parent treated me kindly.

The issue is, we are both planning to relocate after marriage to any of the western countries, we are both credible financially and i'm very sure we won't get denied but the stories i've heard about women changing after getting abroad makes me want to think twice about the court marriage. I would love to do every other marital right except court marriage.

How do i tell her politely without losing her? please i'll appreciate your advise.

Thank you.

Except your mouth no dey function., Try sign language maybe she go understand.

advanceDNA:
Nobody fit tell me say this guy no be omààlę


Wait...u want them to skip first born male and give u his younger brother, the throne??
Be like say Jacob behavior no dey finish every generation...

Meghan! Meghan! How many times i call u...no let overambitiousness kii you... u go just let ur husband bcome suspect if anything happens to Williams

Let them consult IFA O!., e fit be the chosen One.

I no trust that williams sef.

all4zionlover:
Honestly I'm going through so much here. I'm losing it. I feel depressed, so much fear, unhappy and lonely. My husband's gambling habit has removed love and affection from our home.
He quickly finishes any money that comes to him. Either salary and anything in bet nija and concentrate on asking me for money. I'm have no job, I'm buy little things and resell. My capital is not even stable because all the financial expenses is on me. Yet he doesn't care. He keeps malice with me for not giving him money and not coming home to meet food.
This year, I have decided not to keep food for him so long as he can not bring money for feeding, for the children he claim he love and upkeep.
I've endure for too long and I'm getting fade up.

All my actions and his behaviour really makes me sad.
I have no love, respect for him.
I excessively worry for upkeep, school fees, bills, things we don't have at home. Everything is on me.
I'm so stressed and lonely. I feel I need a shoulder to rest on maybe to cry.
I'm so sad because our two sons are too attached to their father and I'm scared of their feelings if I decided to divorce their father

My first son wouldn't even go to bed until his father return back from work.

Have you been in this kind of situation?
What did you do? How do people survive this kind of situations?

Some people go get good woman and use thier hands to push her away.

I wish i can lend you my shoulder to lean On and a hug for the strength you find in all this situation before you.

May the Lord continue to strengthen you.
Pele dear