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bebe2:Do people actually flush babies down the toilet. |
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This is an issue that could be sorted out if you love her and you are patient. Sometimes you think you are talking to her but all you are actually doing is nagging. When talking to her about her behaviour, make it a point never to use the word 'Always' as that would only make her act worse. Don't say 'You are always walking out on me', instead treat each new case like that's the first time such a thing has ever happened. Most times people walk out on you cuz they believe they've heard it all before, and you are just repeating annoying stuff you said a week ago, and most times they are right. Also when talking to her, try asking more questions, so she actually does more of the talking. That way you would hear her admitting to herself, that its wrong to walk out on a person. Thirdly, since you admitted you are a great fan of communication, I admit you go running to talk things over whenever there's an issue. But sometimes, timeouts are good with those kinda people. Give her a day to mule over what she has done and probably realise she's wrong, before going in to talk about it. |
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If you have a husband who controls you and uses you as a punching bag, make a conscious decision to get independence today. If you have a boss who like most other bosses is a pain in an unmentionable part of the If you are unemployed and jobless, get independent and become self employed. If you are a student of a public university and ASUU hasn't let you go to school in 3months, get independent, go to a private school or go to ghana ![]() If you are an unhappily married husband whose wife nags like hell, get independent, get your own room and install If you are a working mother, whose kids are at that age where they play like rascals, get independence, ship them off to boarding school ![]() Whoever you are, and whatever gives you stress in your life, key into Nigeria's independence day and get your own independence from it. No use living like a slave in an independent country. Happy Independence Day everyone!!! 4 Likes |
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kulyie: But nawa o.why cant private issues remain private again.why must they bring private issue to the world for people to start deliberating on.ehen if people dont know the kinds of news that shouldnt leave the door to their bedrooms ant the one that should go public,then they can as well start modelling their vajynas and phenees for us to see the biggest dcks,the widest puzzy aka well size or how bushy the pubic hair is.i just wonder what my buisness is with all this nonsense.infact the jist sef is even irritating me Please leave a space after you punctuate, makes your posts much easier to read. Thanks. @Symphony: Guess the man should maintain a safe distance in there. |
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jidegirl12: I think the OP should change to a white garment church. No matter how much the women there pull up their overflowing gowns, it's still gonna be too big to hug their arrss |
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Kanwulia: He is running out of time? Lmao, literally laughing my asrs off. Ticks? |
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ileobatojo: Lol, you've been left ![]() |
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ileobatojo:I read the article and gave my opinion on my first post. Stayed around to read more and all I saw was argumentum ad hominem ![]() |
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ileobatojo: No one has time for your typical NL round about arguments. When I say 'ten' I put it in quotes for a reason. I don't need to quote anything else, you can scroll up and read what you both wrote. My point is, the OP asked for your opinions on the woman's book, not her life history or mistakes. So... |
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ileobatojo:Oh please, is that the best you can do. You know clearly its not just about the quoted post. You guys were already going on and on and I just quoted your last post before I dropped a comment. What do you have to say for this then. When someone mentioned the last name Schlessinger, there was something quite familiar about it but I couldn't quite remember, so I just looked it up and lo and behold, she was the conservative radio host on the news who repeatedly said 'nigger, nigger, nigger' like a million times to a black woman caller on her show even though the woman kept telling her it was offensive. She eventually quit the show after the outcry because she wanted to 'retain her first amendment rights' and be able to say anything she wants. Lol! |
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lady gogo: i dont even have the strength. I'm not used to it. Na people wey get two 'pint' they wash every morning. Liar liar pants on fire. Oh wait, no pants, they are all dirty. But seriously, washing panties everyday is habit, nothing more ![]() |
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ileobatojo: Cuz all I see here is you guys ignoring the issue at hand and attacking the writer. Basically, the article talks about The Three A's": appreciation, approval and affection. What has the fact that she's been married 'ten' times got to do with it. |
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ileobatojo:How is that? |
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Please unless anyone of these 'don't run' advisors are ready to provide you connections that can tide you over with the Nigerian police. Then please run run and never look back. You could lose many years of your life just trying to prove your innocence with the Nigerian police, especially if you don't know anyone in high places. The travel section would be a better forum for this thread. 1 Like |
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ileobatojo:Argumentum ad hominem |
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deor03: Funny how people who did not read the post are busy accusing another poster of not reading the post. If y'all read the post, you would see where it was mentioned that the family also keeps other animals, lion inclusive. |
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Equatornoni: which visitor are you talking about here? Duh, menstruation is the visitor. Assuming your little story about the teenager is true, then this post does nothing to solve that problem. It's full of jargon, and even I, a regular host for menstruation, can't read it talk more try to understand it. If you really wanna help, forget the textbook English and just simply talk about menstruation the way a mother would a daughter. But ooops, you are a man. |
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Pennywise:Lmao, well so she's hawt and you'd love to go there, so why won't the husband. |
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Nashville: While it is good to teach these principles as it helps alot, sometimes, marriage is not that complicated. A guy and girl are dating, they are in love, they cant wait to see each other everyday, they spend hours of fun together and all of a sudden, they get married and things change. Within months, some people can barely stand the same partner they were madly in love with some months back. I think sometimes what changes is that they have unnecessary expectations that may have come from some rule book about marriage. And each person thinks the other isnt performing his/her roles. This is the problem with Nigeria. People would rather write a long post, than read a long post. 2 Likes |
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Selfish. Didn't she have any real advice or what? |
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bukatyne:Oh, wait there then, I'd come find you some day...when I have time. 1 Like |
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bukatyne: Well to me, writing a book entitled 'the proper care and feeding of men' is insulting and kinda derogatory for the menfolk. It almost sounds like you are talking about a child or a household pet and not a full grown adult. Though the contents of the book seem nice, if I were a man, I'd find that title offensive. So I can only be glad people are not writing such things about women. 2 Likes |
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tpia@:Seriously ![]() |
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Pennywise: With a wife looking like that, the guy must have been traumatized for real. He has my sympathy.I thought she was pretty |
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Pennywise:She means he doesn't look nerdy... I guess |
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Not all men are the same. Some men really can stay off sex without 'shinning congo' anywhere else. It obviously took him more time to get over the experience than it takes some other men. I think I'd like to go into the labour room with my husband sha whoever he may be, whether he finds it traumatic or not, he should be able to finish what he started. 1 Like |
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bukatyne: This training and re-training of women only for men have proven over the years to be highy ineffective I think the point is, men are very simple and if women could get this then both men and women would be happy ![]() ![]() @Topic, I'm just hearing of Dr. Laura for the first time and I'd google her now but from the above article, I'd say she's good. I do not have a husband but I do have an almost-husband ![]() 2 Likes |
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Joel.:Did you just say the gowns do not get to shoe level, obviously you are too busy looking at the arse to notice the real length of the gown. Fyi, a maxi dress has to reach the floor to be a maxi dress, and except a lady wants to take one step a minute, she has to pull it up to walk. Some men are just animals. A lady puts on a short revealing dress, she's inviting r&pe cuz she's showing her boobs and thighs, she puts on a long covering one, she's inviting r&pe, cuz she's pulling it up and showing the shape of her arse, she even puts on a hijab and she's still inviting r&pe cuz you can't handle the mystery behind the hijab. Let's face you, a rapist is a rapist, it has nothing to do with what the woman wears. Men forks indeed 2 Likes |
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Amelian: But seriously , boyfriends still dey carry bukata?..... Arranging herself , means what? ...plsWhat's bukata? Bebe, u want her to do ashawo work? |
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