StateOfMind:

I'm still enjoying my dependence , but nice post all the same.

Happy independence to you too.

bebe2:


Its such a shame, dats d reason why most western girls have kids early.

we go dey claim virgin wen all our own dey toilet.


My age mates here all have 16 & 17 yr old. My first is 10 and I was d first of all my friends to have a baby.

kulyie: But nawa o.why cant private issues remain private again.why must they bring private issue to the world for people to start deliberating on.ehen if people dont know the kinds of news that shouldnt leave the door to their bedrooms ant the one that should go public,then they can as well start modelling their vajynas and phenees for us to see the biggest dcks,the widest puzzy aka well size or how bushy the pubic hair is.i just wonder what my buisness is with all this nonsense.infact the jist sef is even irritating me



okada,ngwanu,drive me to politics sectionet me read better news that is NEWS WORTH.I JUST WONDER WHAT I AM TO LEARN FROM ALL THIS EYE SORE.HIANNN

jidegirl12:


y'all just provoking the guy unnecessarily , he noticed an unladylike trend esp in house of God and expressed his peeve and y'all crucifying the poor dude. What happened to Democracy & freedom of speech ?

How's this different from : guys droopy pants revealing their boxers 'sagging', irritating constant bra strap adjustment, camel feet and butt cracks (gags) , and braless in a tee shirt , guys touching their croth constantly ... should I go on? ... They are all immoral and low social standing , that's it.

It gets more irritating when those women don't have appropriate undergarment on * butt cheeks jiggle wiggle*.. Ewww. smh. Rubbish.

Kanwulia: He is running out of time? Next time, he should ask his "GOD" to gifIm a toto, instead of a BLOKOS with 2 shriveled sacs full of TICKS!

Shiooooooor!

Ova to the "religious post-conception-JESUS-CHRIST-MURDERERS" please!

ileobatojo:

See me see this woman o! I thought you didn't have time? Leave me jare!

ileobatojo:

And yet, you've replied me every single time.



So tell me, how do your last 5 posts qualify as your opinion on the woman's book?

ileobatojo:

Now that it's proven that your comment was a complete falsehood you want to switch the goal post? I was going on and on?



Now we can have a conversation about ad hominems. But you're still wrong. It is not an ad hominem because I did not in any way use it to discredit her statements in her book. I was simply trying to figure out where I had heard that name and when I did, I posted it in line with the conversation at the time. I had already made my opinion about the article known a long time ago and the post you quoted was completely in line with my opinion.

Also, where in this post does it state that she was married 10 times? Perhaps you need to quote another poster for further discussions on logical fallacies.

ileobatojo:

Where in that post you quoted does it say anything about the writer being married ten times?

When someone mentioned the last name Schlessinger, there was something quite familiar about it but I couldn't quite remember, so I just looked it up and lo and behold, she was the conservative radio host on the news who repeatedly said 'nigger, nigger, nigger' like a million times to a black woman caller on her show even though the woman kept telling her it was offensive. She eventually quit the show after the outcry because she wanted to 'retain her first amendment rights' and be able to say anything she wants. Lol!

lady gogo: i dont even have the strength. I'm not used to it. Na people wey get two 'pint' they wash every morning.

ileobatojo:

How about you start by explaining how the post you quoted was an ad hominem?

ileobatojo:

A complete and utter falsehood.

ileobatojo:

Don't mind the yeye woman. The 3 A's are supposed to go both ways, but according to her, only one gender needs to perform them.

Lol @ original Afri guys, they are not smiling.

deor03:

Topic : (Brazilian Family Live With 7 Tigers In Their Home)
Story: Mentions Tigers
Picture: Shows Tigers

Yet, you still think they are Lions !

Equatornoni: which visitor are you talking about here?

Pennywise:

She is a hawt MILF.

Nashville: While it is good to teach these principles as it helps alot, sometimes, marriage is not that complicated. A guy and girl are dating, they are in love, they cant wait to see each other everyday, they spend hours of fun together and all of a sudden, they get married and things change. Within months, some people can barely stand the same partner they were madly in love with some months back. I think sometimes what changes is that they have unnecessary expectations that may have come from some rule book about marriage. And each person thinks the other isnt performing his/her roles.

Alot of times, we read books, manuals and manuscripts about marriage. Lots of the people who are genuinely happily married never read these books and some of them are not even religious at all. If you genuinely love your partner, no one needs to tell you what to do as that love will show. You might have some bad behaviour (which everyone does), but the simple truth is that the love will always show. Even the Bible says love covers a multitude of sin. With love comes understanding, love is not selfish nor self seeking.

Not all men are the same, a women need only to understand her man and no other man! Your write up is lovely, but frankly, more geared towards couples who are not madly in love but trying to understand and tolerate each other. I am not saying love is everything, but it is very important!

bukatyne:




You seem to have lost me somewhere

bukatyne:

You and I know that is not true.

Right from our youth, most girl children are trained to be wives. Our mothers might not have outlined it as 3 As or whatever but they taught what they knew. If it was working, our generation should have blissful marriages by now

My point is that men and women need to be taught on making marriage union work. Take a cue from the Bible: Everywhere that talked about marriage, the husband and wife was addressed. If God that created men 'simple' still felt the need to teach them, how much more a 'woman' who suddenly thinks she can read the minds of men.

P.S: What turns every man on is different. Find what turns yours on

tpia@:
I did not read the write up but i think nl has too many anti-marriage or anti-relationship threads.


The negativity is simply too much, one would think nigerians are terribly anti-everything.

Its even more amazing that nowadays so many young girls think showing their butts and breasts is all there is to life, and nothing else is important.

Is this an effect of nollywood?


And no, seun has not helped matters by obstinately sticking to his bachelorhood all this while.

Pennywise: With a wife looking like that, the guy must have been traumatized for real. He has my sympathy.

Pennywise:

Are these things usually written on the forehead?

bukatyne: This training and re-training of women only for men have proven over the years to be highy ineffective

In most churches/mosques, we only see teachings and seminars for women. Even on NL, we get more of 'how to be a good wife thread' than vice versa. If it was working, we would have seen improvements around us.

The Bible has stated both parts of the hubby and wifey; any other thing is a counterfeit.

I agree with her 3 As though

Joel.:
look this is not something that get to the shoe level. if you know what i mean. is like you are guilty of it. no problem though. only expressing my concern.

Amelian: But seriously , boyfriends still dey carry bukata?..... Arranging herself , means what? ...pls