just passing by and I would like to drop a message....
I can only say the way the op put things is not okay but she was absolutely right.
communicating with a girl on phone call,whatsapp,bbm and the likes should be interestingly fun and not boring, the way some guys ask question is like your interviewing the girl which is annoying,yes...annoying.
eg..
guy: hi
girl hello
Guy: how are you
girl: am fine
guy :How was your day
girl: it was fine
guy: have you eaten
girl:yes
guy:what do you eat
girl: so so so
you can see sense of boredom in the conversation.. ask yourself,instead of asking have you eaten and what do you eat at the same time, why don't you just jump to what did you eat...
another example
guy: hi baby
Girl: yeah hello
guy: how was your today like?
girl:it was kinda fine
guy:yeah fine,i can see that already
girl:oh really? how did you
guy: like your voice said it all.
girl:oh thanks thou
guy:sound a lot like you are having fun already,what did you take for dinner
girl: fun?phcn already got my mood killes,thou I prepare something to eat when I return
guy:you do cook? I bet it's indomie *toungue out..
girl: your funny,so u mean I cannot cook
guy: bla bla bla
... it may not come as I type but it's just an example and you can see the second convo line that it move from monologue to dialogue unlike the first one.......guys should at least carry 70% of convo while girl will automatically filled the gap...well, I have my ebook on dating .. it's all about dating and having girl to wanna go down with you, feel free to holla....peace