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Romance / Re: Ladies Only!!!get In Here And Learn How To Be Financially Independent! by rinora(f): 2:15am On Apr 22, 2017 |
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Romance / Is this guy capable of domestic violence in future by rinora(f): 10:39am On Apr 21, 2017 |
Hello people,please i need your opinion on my friend's relationship.She has been dating this really good nice guy.They have so much chemistry and seem to have many things in common.As usual they were gisting one night and my friend asked the guy what he thinks of domestic violence.The guy condemned it bitterly but admitted that back in his university days,he once slapped his ex girlfriend friend after he discovered she has been lieing to him for two years that shes a virgin and he discovered she wasnt.The guy said that was the only incident in his life he had ever slapped a woman and its cos he was so dissapointed cos he showed her so much love.Now my friend is worried,even though the guy is the sweetest,a perfect gentleman and all that,even though she doesn't want to seem judgemental cos nobody is perfect.We all got flaws but shes scared that such guy has traits of a domestic violent guy.Please your advice is needed on if she should carry on with the relationship or quit.Thanks |
Romance / Re: How To Deal With An Emotionally Down Boyfriend by rinora(f): 6:26pm On Jan 19, 2016 |
Sugarhugs: Common,when I say very proud,I don't mean it literarilly,proud in the sense that I don't like to bug a guy with too many phone calls.Am a very down to earth person |
Romance / How To Deal With An Emotionally Down Boyfriend by rinora(f): 6:16pm On Jan 19, 2016 |
Hey guys,I just need advice on how to go about things,have been dating this guy for like one year now,he's a very good guy,he respects me so much and treats me like a lady,I really do care about him.He tries his best to help me financially even though he's not that wealthy.In the one year we have been dating,he calls me at least twice everyday except when he's busy.Recently he's been faced with so many problems particularly family problem.He's not married but he has a son out of wedlock.The child has been in the hospital and would be there for the next three month due to surgery he has to undergo.That has really weighed him down. Since the problems started,he has lessened communication with me,he doesn't call me like he used but I never nagged him about it.Some days back he called me out of his own will that if I noticed he has changed its not intentional and he was begging me that I should be understanding and of course am very understanding and try my best to support him with inspiring messages and quotes.The issue now is,it's getting a bit tiring because this days when I call him,he won't pick or return my calls,when I send watsapp messages he reads and doesn't reply.Its getting a bit tiring am a very proud person and sometimes I just want to ignore and not bother to call again or send messages but then again I remember how good this guy has been to me,how he has been there for me in my time of need,due to that I still try to call and send messages but no reply,its like he's gone into a Shell.The guy is a cancer and you know what they always say about cancer men being moody and withdrawing into their world when they have problems.Am tempted to give him space to sort himself and his problems out but then I feel I would seem like a wicked and uncaring girlfriend who ignored her boyfriend when the chips was down.Please how do I deal with this kind of man who shuts the world out when he has problems. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by rinora(f): 10:25pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
I hate the fact that am so quiet and shy and this has made me lose so many opportunities,honestly I envy extroverts and pray that in my next life God makes me one,recently I failed a job interview not because I didn't have the skills or wasn't qualified,instead my introvert characteristics overwhelmed me such that I was so nervous and lacked what to say,its really hard being an introvert in this world......... 7 Likes |
Romance / Re: What Method Can You Use To Get Your Money Back From Someone Who Owes You Money by rinora(f): 2:14am On Aug 08, 2015 |
[quote author=rinora post=36724742][/quote] Lmao,you no go kill person |
Romance / Re: What Method Can You Use To Get Your Money Back From Someone Who Owes You Money by rinora(f): 2:13am On Aug 08, 2015 |
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Romance / Re: What Method Can You Use To Get Your Money Back From Someone Who Owes You Money by rinora(f): 2:11am On Aug 08, 2015 |
SexyStrawberry: Very wise advice,I must say,wish I got this kind of advice before now,would have acted wiser,truth be told,I never imagined my friend could behave this way,but as u said money brings enimity and shows the true nature of people.I have really learnt my lesson the hard way,thanks for your advice |
Romance / Re: What Method Can You Use To Get Your Money Back From Someone Who Owes You Money by rinora(f): 1:54am On Aug 08, 2015 |
otabuko: Thanks,sounds like a good idea,guess that's what I would have to do |
Romance / What Method Can You Use To Get Your Money Back From Someone Who Owes You Money by rinora(f): 1:36am On Aug 08, 2015 |
please I need advice on how to get my back 60,000naira from this so called friend of mine who owes me,he borrowed the money with a promise to pay back in one week,its been four months now,am yet to get my money,am confused,he keeps telling me different stories,I don't know where he lives cos he moved,he has stopped picking my calls.I have sent him countless of insultive text messages,he wouldn't reply me.I only know his place of work This guy makes me regret being kind to him,now my heart is hardened towards helping people in need just because of his actions.Guys please I need tips on how I can get back my money back 1 Like |
Politics / Re: MASSOB Urges UN To Recognise State Of Biafra by rinora(f): 5:51pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
chrisbaba1: Brilliant |
Travel / Re: Xenophobia: View Of A Nigerian Living In SA by rinora(f): 11:05pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
ooshinibos: Ghana started it first with the alien compliance order in 1969 then Nigeria retaliated ,you can check it up on the internet 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Solution To The Igbo 'craze'! by rinora(f): 7:58pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Twistaray: What a very brilliant analyses 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by rinora(f): 4:59pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
My dear u did nothing wrong,in fact you acted like a responsible fellow 184 Likes 8 Shares |
Romance / Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by rinora(f): 2:33pm On Jan 12, 2015 |
[quote author=softandsweet post=29724856] Well when/if this happens it's normal to ask one or more of those questions... Emotions has no respect for ones achievement or social statues and neither does gender. it's not restricted to females alone. If an intimate relationship ends it creates an emotional imbalance. It just depends on how we handle it, and how close they both were. Saying it's low self esteem to ask your lost love those questions is something I totally don't agree with. Even if it's someone you were committed to for a week, one would ask some of those questions at least in their minds But guess what, the end of the race is always the beginning of a new one. And one which could be better than the last.... [/quote A million likes for this post |
Romance / Re: Olabomi Ojuade Reveals How Ex-boyfriend Posted Her Unclad Photos Online [video] by rinora(f): 9:25pm On Dec 11, 2014 |
lawanson44:c My dear,you need to take things easy and judge peope based on individuality,I can't begin to relate my various experiences with Igbo people,I am Yoruba but then inspite of my experiences,have met some very good Igbo people as well,in fact d most generous person to me in this life,has been an Igbo man,so learn to relate with humans based on their individual character,and stop ascribing the attitude of maybe one or two bad eggs you have met,on the general populace of Yoruba people |
Romance / Re: Olabomi Ojuade Reveals How Ex-boyfriend Posted Her Unclad Photos Online [video] by rinora(f): 7:17pm On Dec 11, 2014 |
lawanson44: Its because of myopic and narrow minded tribalists like you,that Nigeria would continue to be backward the way it is.People like you who cannot analyze or be objective without looking past tribe,you really need to widen your narrow ways of thinking.There is a lot more to life 1 Like |
Education / Re: Obafemi Awolowo University Ile-Ife In Pictures (Old/ Construction site Pix) by rinora(f): 6:01pm On Dec 12, 2013 |
imperiouxx: Whatever,na u sabi,na ur opinion be that,iwolomo..... |
Education / Re: Obafemi Awolowo University Ile-Ife In Pictures (Old/ Construction site Pix) by rinora(f): 5:58pm On Dec 12, 2013 |
eddieo: I did not just go to the senate,i actually went round a lot of places,as a ,matter,of fact,i stayed with a fellow corper.whose mum has been a lecturer,in that school,for over 20years.She practically grew up in the staff quarters,of the school and as well schooled in Abu,she took me around,most,of the exciting places,and we took lots of pictures.I was mesmerized,with the greenery and the landscapes.I even took pictures,in a place called which am not sure,of the name,but i think its called sculptors garden or so.There were so many wonderfully,beautifully carved sculptors there.At one point,we were harrassed by the school security,they claimed,we were not dressed appropriately,even though,we wore normal Jeans and top.They threatened to snap our pictures,and send them to our local government,where we were serving.After series of begging,they finally released.That incident,almost tainted my impression of the school,but i let it go,but in whole,its a very beautiful i must say,but its still not as beautiful,as my beloved alma matter...Great Ife,Greatest uni that ever liveth ,by the way,thanks for the picture gift |
Education / Re: Obafemi Awolowo University Ile-Ife In Pictures (Old/ Construction site Pix) by rinora(f): 5:43pm On Dec 12, 2013 |
imperiouxx: You know what ehn,mr i too know,that knows all the English language in the world,including the commas,and the full stops.You can say whatever,you want to say,I dont care,i already made my point about my school ..Shikena,am out of here |
Education / Re: Obafemi Awolowo University Ile-Ife In Pictures (Old/ Construction site Pix) by rinora(f): 5:12pm On Dec 12, 2013 |
I disagree with all the people,sayin ABU,is more beautiful than OAU,am not siding with Oau because,its my alma matter,OAU,is one of the most beautiful School In Nigeria,i had the opportunity,to visit ABU,while doing my service in Jos,my fellow corpers and i decided to visit kaduna,and we further proceeded to Zaria,where Abu is located,and i must say the school is really beautiful,what impressed me most was even the greenery,everwhere was sparkling with green and well maintained structures,my friends and i kept saying wow,thus i agree its a very beautiful school,however,its not more beautiful than OAU,cos OAU,has some really unique buildings,and architectural buildings,which cannot been found,in most comtemporary schools of today,and including Abu,places like spider building,Amphitheatre,Architectural department etc are phenomenal buildings,which leaves a long lasting impression,thus both schools are really beautiful,and the only advantage ABU,has over OAU,is the beautiful greenery and well sculptured landscapes.... |
Romance / Re: Describe The Worst Person You Ever Dated by rinora(f): 11:28am On May 24, 2013 |
my ex was the worse pretender,ever that i have dated in my life.He always acted like the cool and nice guy,that would not hurt a fly,and that made me fall easily in love with him,even though he told me some stories of his past and unpleasant things,he had done,he told me he is a changed man,and dos things were past,i believed him and gave him my heart,until i found out that my ex was having an affair with his uncle's girlfriend,an older woman,who happens to be like a big aunt to me,i was shocked to my marrow,cos i never believed,he had a strong heart,to do such a thing,that experience,to me is the worst,have ever experienced,in a relationship 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Ladies,how Do U Feel,when Ur Boo Misses Ur Call And Refuses To Call You Back.... by rinora(f): 2:47pm On Feb 19, 2013 |
timilehing: Has he called back? He still hasnt called me since yesterday,now i feel hes intentionally ignoring me |
Celebrities / Re: Kim Kardashian Interviewed By Gbemi Of Beat-FM by rinora(f): 1:41am On Feb 19, 2013 |
Hmnnnn,i got curious tonight and watched the Kim and Ray J sex video,honestly am shocked,now i understand why people call her a LovePeddler,gosh that video is belitlling,any guy that watches it can never take her serious.Kanye must be seriously in love wif her to overlook all this and the video is even very boring,was expecting more action,she just layed down dr and was shouting baby,am gonna come...ewwwwwwww |
Romance / Re: Ladies,how Do U Feel,when Ur Boo Misses Ur Call And Refuses To Call You Back.... by rinora(f): 11:43pm On Feb 18, 2013 |
zoete: I just had the same problem with my boyfriend. If he doesn't call you back today. Don't bother calling him back wait untill he does that. If he is busy he should have send you a sms or ping to let you know that he's busy Exactly sis Am so tempted to call him again,but i would control myself not to call him,men can be so annoying sometimes,especially when they realise,you already fallen so much in love wif them 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Ladies,how Do U Feel,when Ur Boo Misses Ur Call And Refuses To Call You Back.... by rinora(f): 11:34pm On Feb 18, 2013 |
NnekaGirl: Thank you very much sis,will just wait for him to call me |
Romance / Ladies,how Do U Feel,when Ur Boo Misses Ur Call And Refuses To Call You Back.... by rinora(f): 11:25pm On Feb 18, 2013 |
Hey,peeps,i just need ur opinion,on this,i called my boyfriend like two hours ago,three times,but he dint pick,and he hasnt called me back since then,now am so worried and have started feeling insecure,and thinking,things that he is probably with another woman,thats why he refused to call me,or he is probably tired and getting bored of me,cos when we just started dating,and whenever he misses my calls,he quickly calls me back immediately...Am worried and Mortified |
Romance / Re: Can A Relationship Between Two Introverted And Shy People Work? by rinora(f): 11:16am On Feb 11, 2013 |
[quote author=Coolval222]Sometimes making the first move doesn't really mean that you are wild.. Make him feel free with you, eg sit on his laps, pinch him sometimes, try to start the play first, i believe he will pick up from there cos we guys love fun, introvert or not....{i'm no expert, just a suggestion o Thanks so much,on that tip,i guess i would give it a try,and see if both of us would loosen up a bit.... |
Romance / Can A Relationship Between Two Introverted And Shy People Work? by rinora(f): 5:55pm On Feb 10, 2013 |
Hello people,i just need ur opinion on these,theres this guy,i met,a few months back,while i was babysitting.We dint get to talk the day,we met but we exchanged numbers,and since then,we started talking,on the phone.However my personality,is the shy type.I am a very shy and introverted person,most times,its easier for me to flow only with extroverted people,and when i realised this,i made up my mind to only date outspoken and extroverted guys,and thats what ve always done.However,in the process of knowing this guy,i got to find out,that we both have similar features,he is also very introverted and can also easily flow with only extroverted people.But the weird thing,is that since we both started talking,on the phone,we find it so easy to flow with each other.Sometimes we could talk for hours,over different issues,on the phone.After sometime i decided,to forget my rule of dating only extroverted guys and we started dating,but the issue now,is due to our shy nature,whenever we see each other physically,we both find it quite hard to express ourselves to each other,Sometimes we would just be staring at each other,but on the phone,we would talk non-stop.These issue of not being able to express ourselves physically,except when on the phone is kind making the relationship boring.I really like the guy so much cos hes good to me,nice and handsome,but i just feel bored,i like excitement and spontaneity,in relationships,but the shyness wont allow us,do u guys think i should just quit the relationship and move over to an extroverted guy,that would not be shy around me or should i stick to my introverted and shy boyfriend and continue being bored? |
Nairaland / General / Re: Signs That You Are A Nairaland Newbie by rinora(f): 9:43am On Aug 04, 2012 |
emmysenior: hehe |
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