Division of labour!

What do you think?

Savage! Lmaoo.

Ladies! Would You Dump Him?!?

What would you do if this happen to you?!?

What would you do?!?

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So I just got hold of this photo flying around on IG.

Note, no be me dey ask the question o. Lol

How true is it?!?

As they say, revenge is a dish best served cold.
What do you think? Immature or nah?

Ladies!! Which of these men would you rather date?!?

Ladies if you turned celibate for a year. Would your bills still get paid?

1. A 2011 study found that in half of the patients admitted to the hospital for fractured joysticks, they occurred during an affair. Researchers believe that a man may be extra excited during an affair and he may be having sex in awkward places.





2. Women tend to cheat for emotional satisfaction. Men cheat more from sexual motivation.




3. Infidelity is not the leading cause of divorce. While an affair can destroy a marriage, the main reason for divorce is 'Money'




4. There are certain red flags that signify a partner may be cheating, such as a sudden shift in behavior, either positive or negative. If a partner suddenly becomes super critical, he or she may be setting up the other person to be at fault for his or her affair.





5. Another sign is partners becoming unnecessarily generous, such as with gifts often they are doing it out of guilt.





6. Infidelity does not mean the marriage is over. Over 50% of marriages survive infidelity, although they may still break down from other underlying problems in the future.




7. If a partner is unfaithful, it is not the other spouse’s fault, no matter how terrible the spouse or the marriage may be. When a person cheats, he or she is making a conscious choice to do it.




8. A July 2011 study suggested that men who were easily aroused and men who suffered from performance anxiety were more likely to cheat. Women who felt sexually unsatisfied were more like to cheat.




9. Business trips are the most common settings for infidelity. More than one-third (36%) of men and 13% of women in one study reported that they gave in to temptation on a business trips. The temptation to cheat was especially high during the 6th – 9th years of marriage, when relationships are the most fragile anyway.




10. Nearly 1/3 (32%) of women who admitted to acting on sexual temptation said it was with an old boyfriend or crush, compared to 21% of men. For many people, old flames never dies.




11. In surveys that ask adulterers whether they want to leave their marriages, the majority says no.




12. Researchers note that infidelities have increased even when divorce has become available, accepted, and largely non stigmatized.




13. Approximately 9% of men and 14% of women said they had sex with someone else as revenge for their partner’s infidelity.



14. Boredom was the reason 71% of men in a national study cheated and 49% of women cheated. Even people who were very happy in their relationship admitted to curing their sexual boredom with someone else.



15. Cheating men rarely tell their wives they cheated. Without being asked, just 7% of men admitted to their wives that they cheated. Approximately 68% of men never admit to cheating or do so only after their wives have concrete evidence of the affairs.




16. Approximately 68% of men who cheat feel guilt during the affair. Though, obviously, guilt doesn’t seem to be enough to stop a man from cheating.





17. For ladies, it might be in the genes.




18. The risk of having a heart attack during sex is very low; however, research has found that when heart attacks do occur during sex, they’re more likely to happen to men when they’re cheating compared to when they’re having sex with a spouse.
Why? Some scientists have argued that cheating induces psychological distress (e.g., by creating feelings of guilt, anxiety, or stress) that, in turn, can have a negative effect on cardiovascular function.




19. There is some truth to the old saying “once a cheater, always a cheater,” because research has found that a majority people who admit to infidelity say they’ve done it more than once. However, this isn’t true across the board. Whether a cheater is likely to cheat again depends upon their reasons for cheating in the first place.

LADIES - Would you have sex with someone you wouldn't kiss?

What would you do?

In this world where almost everything is fake. this is possible. So what will you do?

How can you go on a first date and order something worth 32k for your friends. This is so wrong.

what do you think?

What will you do if this happened to you?

What do you think?

Oya Boys and men come and identify your position. lol. Which one are you?!

As seen on Twitter

What will you do?

For a free meal will you bring them both?

Being in the dating game, can be time consuming, especially if you are a busy person. Asking questions will help eliminate the unnecessary parties.



1. Why me? Do not be scared, it is not an insecurity question. You simply want to know and understand his reason for choosing/picking you. His reason can be interesting too, so go for it, ask.




2. What is your aim/purpose in dating? You want to know if he wants casual sex or something more serious like a permanent relationship. This helps with jumping in too deep into something that is not mutual.




3. When is sex appropriate? Will he expect to have access to your body like a husband would? Will it be worth it? It is an emotional matter for women, so it should not be taken lightly.



4. How is/was the relationship between his mother and father? You want to know what was modelled for him as a young child. His opinion about women might be revealed here.


5 .Do you have men in your life that you are accountable to? Every man should have other men in his life that he is accountable to. It does not necessarily have to be biological father, but someone they look up to and who keep them motivated and inspired.

The fear of loneliness makes many people force themselves date and marry someone they do not like. Girls give up on their dreams, feelings and desires just to be in relationships. They do not care whether he is a lazy drinker or an abuser. The only thing that matters is that they are not lonely. If you feel like you are with a wrong person, you may be forcing yourself to love him.




1. You find excuses to break plans with him
Be it a weekend gateway or a romantic dinner, you always have tons of excuses running through your head. You try to come up with the best one to stay home and watch your favorite show or spend the whole evening with your beloved pet. When you have no excuses, you force yourself to believe you are absolutely happy with him. Are you?




2. You keep convincing yourself you love him
As someone who had been dating a wrong guy for 2 years, I know how it is easy to trick yourself into thinking you love him. Every day you try to remind yourself of his best traits and every night you convince yourself you want him, and then end up crying in the bathroom and moaning about how unhappy you are. When you love someone, you do not look for reasons and good traits, you just love him the way he is.




3. You ignore his texts and calls
When he texts and calls you, you get irritated, and you either ignore or snap at him. Your excuse is that you are busy. Now take a few seconds to answer the question: “Can you be too busy for love?” When you love him, you want to hear his voice, and you are happy to receive his emails and texts.





4. You want him to break up with you
Often, you think you would be happy if he broke up with you. You do things that you think will make him hate you and run away from you. But instead, he starts loving you even more. You feel guilty and continue forcing yourself to stay with him.




5. Sleeping with him is like a punishment
Whether you live together or not, you stop enjoying nights because you know that you have to sleep with him every day or every now and then. You stay up late pretending you must accomplish a project, or you lie about your friend’s depression and that she needs you tonight. Sex is a crucial part of a relationship, if you avoid it, maybe you are with a wrong person.




6. You do not know him well
It is not because he tells you nothing about himself. It is because you are not interested in learning more about him. When your mom or friend asks you about him, all you can say is that he is great, cool or fun, and that’s it.





7. You see no future with him
You two have been together for a while and have probably discussed some future plans, yet when you think about your own future, you do not see him in it. ‘Fake it till you make it’ is your only hope right now.




8. You hate his gifts
Be it a diamond ring or a cheap book, you do not like to receive any gifts from him. You smile and shows how happy you are, but deep inside you feel guilty. He spends his hard-earned money on you, and you are so ungrateful. The worst thing is that you do not want to buy anything for him.





9. One moment you feel happy, the next moment you feel miserable
When you are fed up, you feel depressed and lost. But then you convince yourself that you have a partner so you have to feel happy because there are so many girls who are single and miserable. In reality, some single girls are a lot happier than you.
Rather than force yourself to love him, overcome your fear of loneliness, focus on yourself and keep searching your soulmate. You will never become happy with someone you do not like, no matter how good they are. Make happiness a priority. The last thing you want to regret in your 50s is spending your life with a wrong person. Think about it, if you relate to most of these signs.

Ladies! Do you agree?

I am quite at a loss for what to say...the heart broken lover boy poured out his heart to psychologist Joro Olumofin narrating the unbelievable reason why his beloved girlfriend wants to break up with him.

I think most of them are true.

Ladies!! Would You Stay?? Be Honest!

After reading the article title, you are probably screaming ‘no way’ in your head. Most men are not actually known for their understanding of fashion style, so unless you are dating a fashion guru, why not you let your boyfriend pick some clothes for you?



Despite your initial instinct, this idea can be very beneficial for both of you and your relationship. It may help your boyfriend develop a better understanding of your personality and give you two an opportunity to do something completely new together. As long as you are open-minded and relaxed about it, it can be an entertaining experience. So, without further ado, here are seven reasons to let your boyfriend dress you for a week.





1. You can have a stress-free week
You are probably used to stressing about what to wear to work or on a date. For a week, you will not have to. Accept that you have no control over these choices and instead of stressing about it, enjoy this newly found freedom. If anyone happens to have any complaints about your wardrobe choices, just blame your boyfriend.




2. Your boyfriend may finally start understanding why it takes you so long to get ready
For men, getting dressed is usually a simple process. They grab a clean shirt and a pair of jeans, and they are ready to go. Sometimes they will have to put on a suit, but that is about as complex as it gets. When your boyfriend realizes that you have to make your choices from numerous items of clothing and when he experiences first hand that pairing these items to look good is not that simple, he may change his perspective.




3. He may help you discover new combinations
While your boyfriend may not be a fashion guru, he has some idea of what he likes. The odds are, some of the combinations he picks will be to your liking, even though you would never pick them on your own. They might also involve certain items of clothing that you did not wear at all.







4. You will develop a better sense of his taste
Your boyfriend probably compliments your fashion style all the time. This does not mean he likes your every choice, but it might be hard for him to criticize you. This will give you an excellent opportunity to figure out what his likes and dislikes are, and what combinations he finds particularly sexy, cute and attractive.





5. You will spend time doing something together
Every moment in a relationship you spend doing something together is valuable. This especially is if it involves making decisions and discussing things. Plus, shopping together is a fun couple activity too.





6. You might have a free shopping tour
I will not say that this should be the number one reason, but who doesn’t like free shopping? Your boyfriend may struggle with finding good combinations in your existing inventory, or he may have certain secret desires that he has never mentioned before. Either way, this can lead to shopping for new clothes. Once you understand what he is looking to buy, you can help him with some constructive advice to make sure you do not end up with an item you will only wear once.






7. Challenge him
If you do this, he will have hard time turning you down when you ask him to do the same. Women often say they wished their men dressed better. Well, if you accept to do this, you can use it as a bargaining chip when you ask to dress him for a week. You will finally get a chance to see dress him the way you want and, hopefully, develop his fashion style sense in the process.




Not every girl is brave enough to let her boyfriend or husband dress her even for a day. However, this challenge has more pros than cons. Give it a try, but do not get angry when he chooses the wrong color combo. Have fun!


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In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.




When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore




when single will now be important.
When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.
When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incurred .



Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?
I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.



It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?
They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.

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I see them all the time in high brow restaurants in Lagos. Usually, they announce their presence in a group of four, three or two in some cases.



Guys reading this, you are part of the problem in Nigeria if you notice the first thirteen signs without approaching their table.
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1. They pick the most visible spot in the restaurant to seat.




2. Then study the menu like they are studying for JAMB.




3. It takes roughly thirty minutes to an hour for them to decide an item on the menu they want.




4. And when they do, it’s usually the cheapest. Malt, coke, cranberry juice or orange juice.




5. They take a lot of selfies while waiting for their order. A lot of selfies!




6. They laugh a lot to nothing in particular…and very loud to attract the attention of prospective boyfriends seated.




7. It is common to find them laughing loud one minute and sober the next minute when they feel a potential lead may never approach their table.




8. Their eye lashes looks like they are ready to fly. Heavy makeup is the costume. Pushup bra and waist trainer is the dress code. Add a strappy sandals & ombre wig to that.




9. They are usually with power banks cos they know it’s going to be long wait. And of course, that time can be spent in achieving the next level in Candy Crush.




10. They keep staring around anytime anyone walks in as though they are human drone cameras.




11. They make quick dashes to the rest room every fifteen minutes to remind candidates seated that they are still waiting.




12. And of course, to retouch their lipstick and rearrange the foam in their bra.




13. Accent fluctuates between American, British, and pidgin depending on who is walking past their table.




14. When it’s time to pay for their drinks using POS after an unsuccessful outing, they pull out up to four ATM cards and contribute in fractions like church offerings.