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Ikengawo: Wonderful private development! This is the way forwardyes! may it continue like this. Nigeria will be a better place to be. |
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What a Tragedy! may God help this family to bear this loss. |
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may his soul rest in peace. |
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while waiting, start singing chorus as if u are about to open a church there and then, when the song disturbs him ,he will quickly come out and settle u, so that u go ur own way and he have rest of mind in his stupid way. |
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very interesting thank u and God bless |
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[quote author=magabyte]The increment in school fees has caused a great problem in the life of students and also the calender of the school curriculum as usual.we are forced to pay a a fee ranging from 80,000 to 120,000 for second year to final year student and the first year students are to pay above this sum ie 120,000 and above. Yesterday,security operatives were sent into the exam halls to send students away,this was against the wish of the lecturers but it was believed that the authority was from the state government. The final year students whom are writing their degree exams could not take this as they began to destroy some school properties which attracted the attention of security operatives(army). Exams were stopped as the riot continued and today,students are burning tires,no one was actually injured,security operatives seems to understand the students better this time and left them to continue,the school gate has been shut and students in the hostels were given till 6pm to vacate the hostels as well. please Nairalanders and my good people of this nation,is this government doing the right thing?please intervene on our behalf. God bless you[/quote] |
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May their soul rest in perfect peace. oh God! help us in this Country. Amen. 1 Like |
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Happy birthday to one of my best actor in nollywood. God bless him. |
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if women rule this world it will be a better place. |
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May God help Nigeria |
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[quote author=obongproff]I was wondering... were our fore-fathers "forced" or coaxed to pay such gigantic, extravagant, "community-service-size" of bride price that guys are forced to pay these days? Were they asked to bring like a 100 or 300 tubers of yam or more? Did they have to buy things like they were feeding a village or some form of community service or philanthropic donation? Did they have to pay for a reception hall? Did they have to spend up to half a million(in their own currency as at then) or more becos they wanted to get married? Were they usually given a long list which usually included kinsmen that the girl's parents don't even have an acquaintance with? And if they eventually brought all these(without having to borrow), what did they have left to feed their new family? Looking at today's wedding running costs, it's not just making any economic sense. What is the rationale behind spending over half a million on a two days event, that definitely won't bring back any financial dividends? Can't a dude get married with a maximum of 300,000 naira in this country, I mean including the total cost of traditional, court and white wedding? Am very sure that in the developed world, wedding is not that expensive? Or is it because of our under-developed or poverty-inclined thinking? Isn't it time we questioned this pocket-sucking-dumb-tradition of ours? I go to church and the pastors do encourage the youths to marry early, especially in order to avoid fornication. But the so-called tradition is not encouraging us to do so. An average guy has to save and eventually waste over half a million in order to have a "standard" wedding. I mean, what is even the definition of a "standard" wedding in the Nigerian context? Can't a man have a sub-standard wedding, depending on his pocket size? What happened to the old saying "Cut your coat according to your cloth", or is it not applicable to this case? Isn't it high-time this tradition of spending too much on wedding be reviewed and updated? Or is it a indirect means of encouraging late marriages? Sorry I had to pop out many questions, but these have been my thoughts lately? And I would really appreciate some meaningful contribution to this, cos this thing is quite annoying? [/quote] |
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