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Cultivate the habit of posting only romance related topics, in the romance section.

BigJoe19:
Stupid post. How does that relate to the topic?

As for Bill Gates, he was already the richest man in the world before getting married to Melinda, he didn't even need to get married in the first place, apart from reproduction I don't see the need for their marriage.

The topic was edited, dumbo.

As for Bill Gates, he doesn't need you to see the need for his marriage. If you must opine with regard to my post, read my first sentence again. Stop having opinions that are based on imagined slights.

So Nigerian boys can start allowing Nigerian girls to hear word...

Modified...
Topic's been edited. So if you must quote me to sound unreasonable, because of your confusion....Don't!

Abroad wife and abroad husband...

Una de try sha.

dairykidd:

I don't think its fair to include albinism with those other two. There's nothing wrong with albinos but the absence of pigment in the skin and hairs. On the other hand, those other two u mentioned are sick and twisted from their minds to their bodies and to me they're not different from paedophiles. Oyinbo just dey use laws as usual force the acceptance of those two. I even heard they're beginning to agitate considering paedophilia a sexual fetish, deviancy, orientation wtv but it still doesn't make it okay to me.

That is the colored glass, that they now invite the entire world to look through. Abnormal as a word, is fast becoming archaic, if not obsolete.

dairykidd:

Will u keep kwayet! Albinism is a disorder and its abnormal. Educate urself before typing trash.. abi u no do biology for secondary school?

Kaii..why nau? Listen, we grew up thinking that everything that deviates from a norm is abnormal. Now oyinbos, who are the inventors of that narrative and to whom we are eternally indebted, for repossesing our God-given ability to use our minds, have now instructed us to try an attitude of tolerance and inclusiveness in this life that we share.

So on cue, we have resorted to calling them different now. It doesn't necessarily alter a truth, but it at least, makes the truth bearable.

So...Albinism..homosexualism..transvestism...and a whole lot of isms, I'm sure, are now simply referred to as different.

So be calming down.

unmask:
I have always wondered if that is cheating. Being in a relationship that one is being denied sex, bit gets it elsewhere.

In the real sense, sex isn't part of the deal in the first place.

If she doesn't want to have sex with him and doesn't want him to have sex with someone else, then that is selfishness. She should break up

Lol. Well, it's cheating because one partner would be having physical and emotional intimacies beyond their relationship, unless of cos, such a thing was negotiated and agreed upon mutually, with respect to the needs of both partners. One person is going out, while the other is doing what they are within the relationship. So you can't accuse them of cheating with themself.

Sex anyways, is no surefire way to keep a romantic relationship healthy. It is only often equated with intimacy, but is certainly not the only way to be intimate with someone. Cuddling, kissing, massages and other kinds of affectionate touch, are great nonsexual ways to be intimate. Beyond sex, emotional intimacy like honest, vulnerable conversations — can also be important to many people, when it comes to relationships.

What’s really important is that you find a partner who understands your needs and desires, no matter what they are.

chatinent:
Rocktation,

hi, permit me interview you on Nairaland. Been running some interviews with Nairaland members.

You can check my topics.

Thanks, but I'll pass. Probably because I've been interviewed a couple of times in the past already and don't want to constantly update my story here or have people memorize it.

Chivalry is a lost art. It's such a shame.

Emmanueladvocate:
Most girls don't reason at all, you say you don't want to have sex till after marriage. Person like me I will agree after marriage when I eat you finish like 6 good month I will devoice you immediately so you know that it's not all about vergins..

So you are reasoning like this? You will do all the party and marry her finish, so you can eat her and devoice her in six months and you think you make sense. So na sex you find come life, as it's not all about vergins?

I feel like this is a good material for homepage. We'll see.

Muna4real:


Philippines is good but I don't want her to win. I prefer Australia, jamaica, thailand, USA, south africa, or even Cameron. The toxicity the philipinos spread have put them off in the heart of Pageant fans. This is one of the reasons so many of their contestants like do not smell the crown. The pride is too much. They will just hate a contestant for nothing.

The last Miss universe competition should have taught them a very good lesson. They overhyped their contestant gazini ganados. You can go to YouTube and watch the various videos on their top favorite contestants for 2019. South africa was shoved to the bottom. Nobody thought that she would win because she has short hair and is black. They called her ugly. They overhyped their contestants and others who they felt was beautiful. But lo and behold, south africa shocked them. You can watch the video. Philippines only ended in the top 20 on wild cards! But the underated zozibini won the crown.

I'm not saying that philippines will not win. She might win but I prefer other contestants.

Sure, you're entitled to your preferences. No pressure. I don't follow their back stories myself, neither do I even have the time to religiously watch the events, yearly. I'm just having an opinion based off that one picture you posted on page one, that's it. Lol. I might see her on TV and the way she walks, might be all it would take to piss me off again. Interestingly, a lot of Filipinos look weird in other talent shows, that they compete in...like singing. So it beats me really, that they can dig up these head turners for pageantry.

Muna4real:


Coronavirus

Maga isn't available to pay. Otherwise, contestants are still arriving as you say. Some senator's daughter can be sprung up from nowhere and onto a plane, like right now.

Muna4real:


There's no backyard in Miss universe. It's purely on merit. I don't blame you for having this mentality. It's the nigerian way. This is the reason why Nigeria is nowhere in the pageant industry. I think I would have to do a special thread on the importance of beauty pageants and the impact it has on a country.

I think he was joking. We all need to lighten up more often.

Then again, you can never say never.

Muna4real:


The contestants are still arriving. The activities for the show will start by next week.
I don't know what to say about Miss Canada. she's really confident that she will win.
Miss philippines is doing very well.

Atta gurl...If things continue correctly as they ought to, then we should see Miss Philippines in the last lap of the contest.

Canada's stratagem of cos, would require that she musters every ounce of confidence that she's got, to revert to selling her personality (as that is one of the event's chinks, thank heavens!). The sentiments surrounding Floyd's death cannot singularly deliver her to the finish line, as she banks on, sadly.

She does look good...and can really do better than Davido. Even with four children.

What's the update on this show self, muna4real?

Is the Canadian still hanging by a thread?

What about the Filipino entrant?

Seriously you need to change your view of Africans and yourself
Emancipate yourself from mental slavery
Beauty is not Caucasian
Beauty is beauty

We hate ourselves that's a major reason Africa is like this


Peace and love

Read what this one wrote - Beauty is Beauty. Beauty is not Caucasian...But you need it to stay African. Because your oxygen supply is connected to that rhetoric.

Africa is probably what you say of it, because of the racial prejudices and bigotry, people such as yourself project onto other people.

Allow yourselves to begin to crawl out from that sunken place of post traumatic slave syndrome...so you may attain a level from which you can really begin to advice anybody.

PNL to U2.

I'm glad you liked it.

Konquest:

Stimulating facts.

tosik:
op abeg why can't girls date without asking money....just curious to know ni??

There are girls that actually date without asking for money. Change the circle you roll with.

There are such men out there. I've known some. The big BUT is that they could secretly be cheating with someone else behind your back (not necessarily all would be like this, mind you...I always give benefits of doubt), especially the ones that see sex as snacks and if the relationship is long-term. But outside that, they'd do right by you and may really give up their wild ways, when it's time to wife you. So on your part, best be prepared mentally, 'cos you could be bound to notice certain shadiness and may need to start mastering the art of turning a blind eye.

Again, don't expect such a man to just let you be. He will keep asking and trying to get you to change your mind, touch you even, but that shouldn't warrant a breakup, unless you suspect he might use force somewhere down the line.

Incidentally, that kind of man may as well be the man you are with, right NOW.

There are only so many hair-plaiting men that have decent jobs in Nigeria. If you are not in entertainment or own your business, or do some other unskilled work, then you are generally perceived as unserious. Some will even still be wary of an unskilled laborer, with a mane of hair.

Now that you say you are broke, don't you have plans to land some job, anywhere in the near future? Establish your priorities.

Hmnnn...

pocohantas:


If you are staying with people, the least you can do is be useful.

Isn’t this the same reason some women prefer their family visiting, over their husband’s own? So why can’t the little girl fetch the damn water! She no dey fetch water for her papa house? She should fetch it without being told if she was properly raised. It is a daily routine like any other.

There are little things that wins the heart of your host. When next you are coming, they will look forward to having you.

Well, it's easy to stay on our little soap boxes and charge others to behave in a certain way we say is ideal. The conditions of the people you help must not be servile, to qualify them as having proper upbringing, sweets. Or aren't such the sad tales, most newbies in The Abroad tell? The story might be doctored, but not so much as to make us unsee that she wanted to cook. So why aren't people acknowledging that, at least?

NevetsIbot:



Here I am, disappointed in this comment and the fact that it came from you........... You call someone’s that has been staying with someone since January a guest?

She doesn’t fetch water in her own fathers house??

Well, what if she doesn't? She was going to cook. Have the decency to admit that that is no easy chore in itself. Cooking is a social construct and not hardwired to women's gene, so y'all better stop thinking it's a non issue. Unless clearly defined from the get-go, every help you render shouldn't involve a quid pro quo, anyways.

And you're disappointed in me? Awwww

donvoice:


You said a host not a slave. Does that mean if you visit someone, you can't help them out with anything?

Women and their shallow thinking

Why do some of you even quote people, when it's almost as though your brains can't process written words? How does what you said now, correlate with what I wrote?

But she clearly told you that she couldn't cook due to unavailability of water. You are the host and very likely the one with the muscles. I don't see how fetching water for your guest to prep your meal is a big deal. Unless, you want her to pay for the roof over her head, by doing all the house chores, I'm certainly not understanding what really prompted this fight.
There's probably more that you are not telling.

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