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Romance / How To Save A Relationship? 7 Things You Can Do Right Now To Stop A Breakup by RomanceAdvice: 12:46am On Sep 02, 2014
It is possible to save a relationship even if you seem to be the only one who is trying to fix it. That's because these 7 tips will make your partner ALSO want to stop the breakup from happening, and the best part is, you can do these things 7 things RIGHT NOW to save your relationship:

Suspend Your Emotions - When we are emotional we say rash things, make hasty decisions, and do things we later regret. The sooner you suspend your emotions, the sooner you gain control and the sooner your partner will calm down.

Talk Without Pointing Fingers - The breakup is happening, because you two can't ever have a discussion without the blame and judgment games happening. Suspend your criticisms, judgments, and comebacks and have a discussion that's void of all the negativity from your end.

ASK Your Partner What Is Going Wrong - The fights are happening, because your partner feels they aren't being heard; thus you can eliminate it by simply asking them what they think is going wrong. Hear them out, and listen, even when they criticize and judge you, because they simply just want you to listen for a change.

Admit That You Need To Change - You've spent a lot of your time denying that you need to change by never admitting your mistakes, and by justifying your poor actions. Be humble and recognize openly to your partner that you need to change and ask for their input.

Remove The Relationship Talks - Right now both of you are concentrating on everything that is going wrong with the relationship and it puts a lot of stress and strain on both of you, and on the relationship. Take some space and don't discuss the relationship, and instead discuss each other individually and your individual goals for instance.

Do A Check Up System - Give your partner a chance to tell you what to do, and let them tell you how they want you to do it. THEN, create a check up system wherein you check up with your partner to ensure that they are happy with your progress and that things are going the way they want finally. Giving your partner some control here will help them feel like it's a two way street, instead of just a one way, wherein only YOU make the decisions.

Tell Your Partner You Appreciate Them - He/she may feel like you don't appreciate them enough. They may think you take them for granted, are not thankful, and simply don't know everything that they sacrifice for you. Let them know that you appreciate them by telling them how and why you do, so that your partner can feel desired and useful again.

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Romance / How To Win A Girl Back? Tips You Must Know If You Want To Win Her Back by RomanceAdvice: 2:06am On Sep 01, 2014
So she left you, but you miss her like crazy and want her back. That is what most guys feel when they get dumped, but before you know it, it is the girl who always wants another chance if you handle the situation the right way. Remember you are the guy, so put your foot down first no matter whose mistake it is.

Here are some easy yet effective tricks which will show you how to get your girl back & get the desired results fast....

Avoid her for a while The more you chase her, the harder it is to catch her. In the beginning of the break-up, try overlooking her a bit. Pretend that you have moved on and you are happier without her.

Call her after sometime Girls hate being ignored. So let her know how things are with you and also find out casually what is happening in her life. It maybe a bit cliché to immediately tell her how much you miss her so never bring it up too soon.

Ask your friends to help you out One of the best ways to make a girl remember you, is to get your friends to run into her, so that when they start talking about you, your friends will blurt out things that she may want to know about. This will get her to start thinking about you.

When you bump into each other Act as if you are cool about the break up and look cheerful better than ever. These are things girls want to desperately not see in a guy they have dumped.

Talk about the problems In a month or maybe a few weeks, when things have settled down, sit down and communicate with her over the issue that led to the breakup. This is the time to apologize if you are in the wrong and forgive if she is.

Friends or more than that When you feel you have got everything straight, and you have hit the jack pot, go ahead and start flattering her about how pretty she looks, buy her gifts and make her feel special. Behave in a mature and calm manner, act as a gentleman, but try limiting your self because she still has not said "YES".

Relax and wait for her to give you the signal Your girl will certainly give you another chance if you've touched the perfect note. Just wait for those words "I'm sorry" because that is your signal.

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It Is Possible To Get an Ex Back
Romance / How To Get Your Ex Fiance Back - Secret Methods Revealed by RomanceAdvice: 7:47pm On Aug 30, 2014
If you just broke up, then I understand your feeling a ton of different emotions. It might even be hard to find a reason to get out of bed in the morning. Let's face it, love is the most important thing in life, not money, cars, or big fancy houses. So it's perfectly normal to feel a ton of emotions after a breakup. However, these emotions could also be what kills your chances of winning them back. The good news is there are many ways how to get your ex fiance back. At the same time, there are many mistakes you could make.

How To Get Your Ex Fiance Back - What NOT To Do

Constantly calling or texting to soon after the breakup
Tell them you will change for good this time
Convince them there the love of your life
Apologize for EVERYTHING
BEG for them to take you back


As you can see, none of these are very good ways how to win a fiance back but at the time, it might seem like the right thing to do. Some of these things you probably have already done. Don't worry though, you have not destroyed your chances of winning them back. However, if you continue to make these mistakes your going to make it harder and harder to get your ex fiance back.

A BIG mistake a lot of people make is they think "time will heal" or overtime things will "work themselves out". This is simply not true and is one of the biggest myths out there. The longer you wait, the more time you give them to find someone new or get over you. That is certainly NOT how to get your ex fiance back. My advice, is to use a proven plan. Having a well thought out strategy will lower the chances of you making mistakes.

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Text Messages to Never Send Your Ex
Romance / Is It Too Late To Get My Ex Back? Sure Fire Ways To Know If It's The Right Time by RomanceAdvice: 6:41pm On Aug 30, 2014
You are heartbroken because you have split; you try to adjust to the new life after the breakup, but no matter what you do, you end up thinking of your ex. Should you go after your ex? How would you know whether it is too late or not?

Here is a simple quiz that would guide you with this decision. These are 7 simple questions that would clarify your perceptions about the future of your relationship with your ex.

1. Is your ex happy without you? Be honest when you answer this question. Check with your friends; check with your ex' friends. Seek not the answer you would want to hear but the truth. If he/ she is happy without you, let him/ her go. This means you were not meant to be. However, if you find that your ex is as miserable as you, even if he/ she does not tell you anything directly, by all means pursue the plan to get your ex back.

2. Are you happy without your ex? Once again be honest with your answer. This is not about ego or habit. This is the time of truth. Even if you keep thinking about your ex, this does not mean that you are happy with him/ her; sometimes, it is just habit. If you find that you are relieved and happy without your ex, make efforts to outgrow the problem. If you are really unhappy about letting him/ her out from your life, then you go after him/ her.

3. Are you able to make a commitment to this relationship? It is something to have girlfriend/ boyfriend and something else to have a committed relationship. Are you ready for commitment?

4. Is your ex the person you see yourself secure and happy in times of trouble? Sometimes the chemistry is so powerful that you forget all else. However, life is not a bed of roses. Would you say that you can count on your ex support if you run into a bad patch in life?

5. Are you in love for all the right reasons? Wrong reasons would be sex, money, peer pressure, sheer chemistry, belongingness (to a particular group) and the like. Right reasons would be mental compatibility, love, same dreams, and emotional compatibility.

6. Can you live with your ex even if he/ she does not change a bit? It is possible for people to change; it happens all the time. However, this is hard to do; what if your ex does not want/ cannot to change? Can you still be happy with him/ her?

7. Are you financially compatible? Money is very important in any relationship. Are you really on the same page with your finances?

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How to Deal With Your Ex
Romance / Lines To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - Words To Say To Win Her Back by RomanceAdvice: 6:28pm On Aug 30, 2014
You're looking for lines to get your girlfriend back. It's understandable considering the fact that you have absolutely no idea what you should be saying to get her love you again. Every time you think you know how to approach her, you try it and it ends with her being more upset than she already is. You feel that you can't win and it's causing you a great deal of anxiety. You love her, you need her back and you have to find a way to make that happen. It's possible if you fully understand what you need to say to her to get her to open back up to you again.

One of the best lines to get your girlfriend back is "I'm sorry." That sounds too easy, doesn't it? You may think it's unnecessary especially if she was the one who dumped you. It's crucial though regardless of who caused the break up or who decided to call it quits. By apologizing to her you're showing her that you are mature enough to own up to your own mistakes. Most people aren't especially right after a break up. They'd rather point fingers and blame the other person for the failed relationship. Show her that you can recognize your shortcomings and that you're learning from them. Apologize to her and make it as sincere as you possibly can.

Another of the things to say to your ex girlfriend is "I accept the break up." Right now you're likely fighting with everything you have to try and get her back. That hasn't been working for you and unless you change that approach, you'll continue to fail in your attempts to get her back. By accepting the break up, you're taking control of your own position in the relationship. No longer will she determine what happens for the two of you. You'll be on more balanced ground. It also works to ensure she understands that your future happiness doesn't hinge on being with her. It may but you don't want her to know that. Let her see that you have accepted that things have changed and you're ready to move on.

"Take care of yourself," seems like such an innocent and cordial thing to say to your ex. It speaks volumes though and can actually light a fire beneath her to want you back. By telling her to take care of yourself you're giving her the impression that the two of you won't be talking for some time. That will make her miss you and also make her see that you're ready to detach yourself from her. That feeling within a woman is often enough to make her want her guy back. There's a sense of panic that sets in when you realize that you are on the cusp of losing your ex forever.

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Calling An Ex After A Break Up

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