360command:
why would you all talk like this. The Israelites who kill,bomb and detain children for no reason, what faith of religion are they? The Israelites who forcefully collect Palestinian lands, what faith of religion are they? Why do you all try to bring up tribal or religious matters in nairaland. The way I see this life, nobody is holy . I will rather keep mute than write all these trash you wrote. Why dont you all act matured.

aljazeera......do some research before your conclusion, start from when the two states were created

jhubril:
CHRISTIAN TERRORIST invaded a mosque in Australia on a Friday and murdered innocent people months ago.

ISLAM has no place for terrorism . Period!

he is not a terrorist

quexhub:
I am Sarah from Ghana though my momsy is a Nigerian, please i want someone to help me because some people come to this place just to find who they will destroy there private life, but the person will stumble and fall, am not here to seek for attention am here for a serious matter my mother died when i was very young and i use to have this inmate problem i don't know if i will call it spiritual or physical i don't sleep at night any longer i have visited serials of churches but it is getting worse, i gets angry at any slightest provocation next year i will turn out twenty seven but i don't even have any affection for man, though i have had some friends but when it wants to turn out to a serious one i will change my contact, i don't know what to do any more is really given me a lot of worry. I use to think that changing location could help now am in my maternal side but nothing have changed. I can only sleep two to three hours in the night then the remaining hours i will be awake, and am afraid of death.

.......is likely there is something you need to speak out about something, like something is bothering you and you need to say it out or it need to be solved

welcome to Africa....

yes
Israel should build the settlements in the occuppied territories

bigl:
My observation is this:

Data plans with long term validity don't last long anymore.

Those with short term last longer but of course, it is what it is: short term and u have to come subscribe again!

MTN data and last long......word and opposite

sapoyoro:

so cheating has to do with a certain age abii...
didinrin poo ni nairaland yii shaa

"didinrin"....... nobody said cheating is associated with a particular age, I'm just trying to point out one the points the OP talked about........all your thinking maybe about make money, cars, etc but at the end of the day your society will always have effect on you directly or indirectly......

having different opinion about something should not lead to insult

Pele ooo

Sleevia:


See there is a girl I ended things with recently. Someone like her can easily trap the OP due to his way of reasoning. I will follow this thread until am I ready to spill the bean on here with my other handle.

She couldn't trap cos I know what's up. The OP is not so exposed in terms of women he is still holding on to biblical ways to judge people.

A young chap served with a girl who is forking homely, she is pretty, not promiscuous but hasn't married yet. She would easily pass as promiscuous based in what the OP stated.

His write-up is too flawed and shallow.

the write-up maybe flawed but the write-up is not shallow......this is what is happening in the society even if we are not ready to talk about it.....why do people cheat in marriage? Cheating on marriage is on rampant in Nigeria today.....

Sleevia:


Being entitled to your opinion does not mean you should speak as one with misplaced priorities.

Someone who still has bills to pay such as rent, feeding, taking care of his family (siblings if not yet married) will not have time for what the OP wrote or bother his brain with such.

It is very clear to see he is still under the roof of another.

People are called adults for a reason, which means it none of your business what they choose to do with their life.

The OP and his supporters are shallow.

When I was in school and while on phone with my sister, my elder sister said "I love you" and I respond "I love you too". My roommate heard it and queried me, asking whom I was telling "I love you" and I told him it was my sister, he tried to rebook me and sounded like I was immoral, as in over Righteousness was written all over his disposition that day.

When we finished that phase of life before he could return to further his education, same room mater impregnated a girl, and became a father fare earlier than we expected while me whom he was scolding didn't impregnate a girl within that same period.

Someone like the OP can easily be fooled and his writeup shows he is not exposed.

I asked him how old is he and is he still in school or out, he has not quoted me since then.

That says a lot.

there is nothing like misplaced priority, we all have different way of thinking.

You don't even know the OP before you make assumptions

The OP is talking about our morals not all the things you list (feeding, rent, fatherhood, transportation etc) according to you age is just a number, it does affect our thinking.....

Sleevia:
I have met a guy on this forum who is 23 and if I mention him here, he will laugh at the OP. Going through the 23 year Olds post on nairaland, you will think he is 45.


Life is more than these things you guys are disturbing your brain with.

We are at time when if care is not taken, you might be homeless in next 72 hours but you are not bothered about that, except for what others chose to make off their own life?

The kind of people I share a country with though.

because life is complicated does not mean we should not talk about some things

We cant base everything we do around money etc.....What about our morals?...….the op is just trying to discuss what is happening in the society that we all refuse to talk about......and we are all entitled to our own opinions....
And you are in a country with more than 170million people

Fisher007:


I am aware Oga. But at times you have to cut the disney world fantasies and bring brothers and sisters to the deep reality. The true deep ones no one wants to talk about.

most of the comments i think are from the age bracket you mentioned....what you are saying in most cases is the truth but according to the popular saying "the truth is bitter".......and try not to be aggressive to your reader, please

MJBOLT:

what a pile of horseshit.


Majority of you christians are terrible people,most of you do not feel remorseful about your sins because if you did,you wont be asking god to forgive you for that same sin everyweek

[s][/s]

thank you

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

This is a subject matter that most of us avoid because the truth of the whole matter is too bitter. It is like a big elephant no one talks about.
We all act calm and cold cause this matter brings out the rotten decay worms or spiders from our personal cupboards.

For ladies above 30:

Every wedding I attend, I observe the same thing which is the ladies are happy for the bride, knowing in most cases she as caught a slave, a big mumu to accept her despite her slutty past. But she has not been saved from her slutty behaviours. She is now off the sexual market place for the moment and have found security. Until the husband looses what he can provide in all aspects of life ( money, security, care, job, attention, sex, family etc). ( I didn't mention love cause it literally doesn't exist at this age). Then she will divorce him if he is lucky. If he is unlucky she will enter back into the sexual market place codedly with her exlovers, boyfriend, uncles etc. She might even cook meals with money collected from such men for her husband (marital curse don enter).

We all know women who have had more than 2-3 sexual partners can never bond with their husbands. In most cases the wife sexual partners and escapades are always more than the husband. She might just lie to rub on the man's ego. The bride body is a container for various sperms, which has been proven scientifically that the DNA of such men stay in her body till death. This is the reason why most women are emotionally unstable.

We know that most ladies have been sexually active and have had multiple sexual partners from age 16yr to 30yr and can never be satisfied with one. No matter how you lie to yourself. She has gone through the hoe phase and her bodycounts will digust you as a man if she really tells you the truth at age 30. She was used and enjoyed at her sexual peak. Her body starts given up from 30 above and that is why most mothers rush them to marry. Because they know the truth, they will say because of children but the truth is they know she will soon become an expired milk.


For men above 30:

The men are quite looking at the groom like only if we could tell you that you just caged yourself and turn yourself into a full time slave. In most cases some men at the venue have slept with your so called bride. Some uncles that sponsored too have used her inside out. Some former boyfriends imagining the amount of sex and abortions, they both committed and are saying you just saved a hoe.

The man's ex girlfriend too are present. All they see is the useless sex manaic, demented weak guy, abortion specialist is fooling himself and his getting married. Some see him as a prize they never had but are ready planning how they will cheat with him even next week or months to come. And that the wedding is just a show.

Most husbands hit their sexual peak just after wedding. That is why in most cases they can never stay committed. From age 35yrs to 60yrs is when most men are stable. They have attained wealth in some cases meaning younger ladies will flock them like bees. The wife will see this and know because she was once like those young ladies before chasing men with Money, looks and status.

So at the end all I always see is two damaged goods getting married. The bride who feels she needs to retire into her husband house. And the groom who is just about to fully start is sexual escapade and slavery because the wife will definitely never give him her best years.

most people will not be happy with you bro......

"acquired"......

hmmmmmm........ Africans

Annie001:
Somethings are just meant to be in this life
Imagine a dead man earning more than the leaving
Just the way you wont find any handsome guy on naira land but they are quite intelligent
Issokay

.......don't say that again

[quote author=gensteejay post=83421427]
Ode, if tomorrow, you see a quote made by an atheist or a Jew on my signature, what would you say?

Get lost! [/quote ]..............

gensteejay:
Pastor Adeboye used to be a Math lecturer, before he found his true calling — scamming.

quoting Rajneesh and calling adeboye a scamming..... funny

OndoFirstBorn:


[b]My friend, You'd be surprised how the people of Ondo State love Governor Akeredolu, especially for his people-oriented policies. They love him not because he shares kerosene like your Ikpeazu of Abia State. We are lucky to have Governor Akeredolu as our governor.


Within 2 years;
He's incompetent but paying salaries as and when due
He's ineffective but about five industries are about to begin operation in Ondo state
He's incompetent but he cleared all the arrears owed by the previous administration
He's Ineffective but Ondo State is one of the 9 states in Nigeria that recorded a reduction in unemployment rate
He's ineffective but Ondo State now has the highest IGR growth rate in Nigeria. Second year in a row. Ondo State was generating N750 million/Month when he came in but now generating over N1.5billion/Month
Over 500 public primary schools have been reconstructed across the 3 senatorial districts of the state
He's incompetent but he has constructed more roads withing 2years of his administration than in 8years of his administration.
I can continue till daybreak

If you call all these a trait of being incompetent and ineffective, then you need to take a vacation to Yaba left.[/b]

wetin you gain.....bad road nko, high standard of living etc

fuckerstard:
uhmm bloggers..

i like your signature

nuclear war

OYO

Africa my Africa

phelonrays:
try anal

Jesu!!!!!!!!

funmisticqueen:
expert of female circumcision matters, i hail you.

just saying...not an expert ma

funmisticqueen:
i also disagree, rich women marry for money more than poor women. The rich ladies you see marry poorer men most of the time are either desperate or naive

rich women don't marry for money, they marry because they don't won't to be lonely or children.....

funmisticqueen:
some of your dicks are smaller than the clitoris of a circumcised woman

l'm not sure but i don't think "Daddy" size matters when it comes circumcised women

funmisticqueen:
nope it is madam, "money and commitment for hand, my presence and company for ground" thank you sir.

with your comments I disagree ma....I think it is only guys with low self-esteem that need money to impress ladies....and ladies who are poor (financially and mentally) that date or sex for Money

grandstar:


She might be circumcised. Many circumcised women don't enjoy sex.

correct

funmisticqueen:
how can one enjoy sex with someone who cannot provide. you will just be thinking of bills when he is on top of you. sex with a poor man is akin to rape

madam "Moni for hand, back for ground" weldone ma