kkash:
Wait oo, she said she has someone dat wants to marry her but still went ahead to date u, and u went ahead to date her knowing she has a man that wants to marry her......and no one sees anything wrong with this.....truely ' it is finished'...

how can i buy u a bottle of origin and l
agos finnest suya? u smart

iPrevail:


I get your point. The whole thing about principles and distrust.. Honestly, I get it.
But my point was/is, we did not have to know about it! To me, it's immature. What does he want us to do? Convince him to cancel the wedding?
This should be a personal decision thing. Fine, you've got philosophies and laid out principles, make decisions according to those principles and stop constituting public nuisance. (humor intended).

out of over 30 comments u are the only One getting me wrong. dont always claim to be smart. delibrate on my topic not what isnt there.

met her 4yrs ago and wedding is close. got the shocker of my life shez 4yrs older than what she told me. i am considering backing out as a result. coz if she cn do this to me i wonder whatelse she could be hidding. worse part is its her mum who told me. the girl in question has no idea i know. am so shocked.any help on what to do in regatds this latest discovery?

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dairykidd:

bruv i rather not say cos am trying to forget her not remembering but it seem like she had a hold on me, no matter what she did i would just quickly forgive and forget once she shows remorse even right now i am having this strong urge to call her n am thinking i made a wrong decision too soon by dropping her..but am moving on this time

they are good showing remourse. yet very manipulative if yours is pretty just like mine then we in deep shit. my mum warned me.

dairykidd:
just broke up with one this morning (i can't say if she is ogbanje or not)after trying time without number to correct her.she's an amazing girl but for her recent shady attitude i had to let go even if its hurting me right now...i know i will get past it. Fvck d Love n save urself bro

can u share some of ur poblem of her with ne let me see if it matches mine.

LordIsaac:
Obviously O.P., you love her. The unfortunate thing is, you'll never love another as much as you love....partly because you've idealized her already in your psyche. Now, there is hope. However, it requires time. But before I tell you how you should go about keeping her and loving her the right way, I need to ask...deep down your heart, do you think she really loves you...as in honestly?

despite her negetives she has been the one ive loved the best out of all ive ever loved in the past. i am sure she loves me but God knows best. i do love her but i really want to go

Shez very pretty n calm. She is very manipulative, hugely materialistic,has anger issues but i tot she was just a normal modern day girl. Her exs warned me but i tot they were just jealous. Not knowing am the next victim... ive tried to break up with her many times but soon after i find myself missing her and as soon as she begs for forgiveness i forgive and we continue. I have noticed her unwholesone attitude and i tot it was ordinary but guy it more than that...i have spent more than i have earbed on her yet no appreciation ok i aggree i be mugu but she doesnt want to let me go even in my dream.