This question comes out because many people, i knew this days hardly bring their woman to their mother as wife. Unless they mistakely preginat the woman, meaning if the woman wasnt pregiant the man would had go into quick marriage.   I dont know either i have make sense here.  But one thing i know is that why many people find it dificuit to get their real wife was because of lust. Many man hardly love a woman. But they have lust for every woman. Pls i need help here.