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In knowledge lies the key to the preservation of life. Our Families, society, and nation are in crisis today because men despised knowledge. We fight these battles daily, and it's like we are not winning because we have forsaken the golden rule that guides our daily living.


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In knowledge lies the key to the preservation of life. Our Families, society, and nation are in crisis today because men despised knowledge. We fight these battles daily, and it's like we are not winning because we have forsaken the golden rule that guides our daily living.

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It has been three years of consistency in the school of personal development. What a great trip!

Seven years ago, I was told going to school, and having good grades was important. However, no one told me that the key to joining the league of champions was not actually my academic certificate, but certifications from the school of life, gotten through personal development. It is a purely practical school.

Thus, in the light of this awesome reality, I have spent the last three years gaining skills that will enhance the quality of my life.

I graduated from school a year ago, after five years of hard-work studying architecture, the most outstanding course anyone can study. As a matter of fact, successful completion of a degree in architecture is a proof that you are a genius.

Did I just say genius? Yes, actually that is just the truth.

Here is the full gist!

Growth and wealth creation principles are not taught in schools. Rather, you are taught, theories, laws, and some sets of theoretical principles that practically fail.

If you are out of school carefully listen to me; if you’re still in school carefully learn from this and prepare ahead.

Life won’t enlist you as a candidate for greatness by luck but by work.

Your school certificate is only a proof of your presence in an academic environment for a period of years. It is not a proof of education.

YouTube videos and online training, coupled with top-selling soft skills have produced more millionaires than many institutions.

It is your skills that sell!

Within the past one year, I have learned more than I ever learned in the four corners of Nigerian institutions.

I have learned more, earned more, and built stronger authority in all I do. You must learn to skill up to scale up.

The key is personal development!

The world has transitioned from a certificate-driven economy to a skill-driven economy.

Those who are leading the line are those who have invested in personal development, mastered self, and are leveraging their strengths to produce useful results.

You can either join or you watch them do exploits right.

No organization employs you because of your certificate again; you become employable if you are skillful.

Dear Graduates,

If you have a good grade without a good skill, you will become stranded in the journey of life and your finances will suffer.

Work on yourself; develop soft skills that are unbeatable. Get professional certifications. Professional exams are purely practical as they test your personal development level, unlike your school exams. If you’re not good you’re not good.

If you have failed to develop yourself, you may fail in flying colours.

Organizations want your content to be topnotch, thus, if you fail to develop yourself, you will be offer-less, which will lead you to becoming cashless.

Undergraduates,

The earlier you realize that your investment in personal development is what gives a boost to the certificate you will be getting from your institution, the better. If you fail to realize this and take responsibility for your personal development, the reality will only become a nightmare.

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5 practical secrets to find love.
The love of your life. Your soulmate. Your life partner. That special someone.
Whether we admit it or not, many of us are trying to find our perfect complement.
We wish to have someone by our side who loves us through our moments of imperfection and shares the memories of our lives with us.
We've seen enough movies about it, so it must be possible, right?
Love is not a fairy tale, so you can stop looking for a perfect "10" that meets all the qualifications on your wishlist.
It is possible, however, to find someone to stand by you, fight the world's confusion, and help you experience life to its fullest potential.
How do you define the basis for attracting that kind of love into your life ? Here are 5 secrets to get you started:



1. Be authentic
“Originality always bear the test of time”
To find true love, you must first emphasize your true self.
If you want someone to love you through your moments of imperfection, you must first be willing to do it for someone else.
Be true to yourself, then you're ready for someone else's authenticity.
What really makes you happy? What do you really want from life? It's easy to get caught up in a pattern of pleasing others, and to do what seems popular or “normal” at the moment.
If you change your personality, passions, or purpose to please someone else, you are not being your true self. People are attracted to authenticity.
Know yourself, love yourself, and learn to act and speak authentically.
2. Be your best
Although opposites can attract, you must first understand that "like attracts like". You set the caliber for the individual you want to spend your life with.
You wouldn't look for a complaining and lethargic, greedy, petty, ketchup stain on your shirt, so identify ways to get in line first.
Do you want to spend your days with a healthy person who takes care of your body? So tie up your sneakers and go to the gym!
Do you want to surround yourself with a person who sees the best in people and situations? So stop complaining!
Do you want to find someone who strives to live each day with grace, joy, purpose, and integrity?
Did you get the idea …
Go and work on yourself!
3. Be confident
Be confident in yourself, in your decisions and in your ability to attract love into your life.
If you are being your best self, that confidence will radiate from you in a glow of self-esteem. You will attract someone who recognizes, values ​​and loves who you are.
People can see it, it’s what people can easily perceive.
Promote that confidence knowing that you are whole and complete just being you. Understand that it is good to have a soul mate, but it is not mandatory.
Find your place of personal acceptance!
You alone are enough.
4. Be open
If your desire is to meet someone, then you must be willing to connect and open up to the people around you.
Free yourself! Be willing to connect with people with an open mind.
If someone next to you in the office starts a conversation and calls you, be willing to get involved. Even if that person is not the love of your life, practice openness anyway.
Developing that open energy will help you facilitate iterations that can lead to long-lasting relationships.
5. Be happy
Perhaps the most important secret on this list is being happy. Everyone wants to be around happy people; happiness is magnetic.
So focus your energy on thinking and doing the things that make you happy.
Happiness is very essential to healthy living, don't tie your happiness to anything insignificant. Only God can keep your heart, mind, and soul together.
Find refuge in his alms, and live happily.
Your happiness as a single person is more essential because it tells of your happiness when you finally find love.

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Dear Self, you’ve been going through a lot, but you won’t stop pressing.

If there’s a key to personal development I had known, it’s in the power to deliberately, consciously, and passionately lookout for the better version of ourselves.

Life is said never to be a bed of roses, truth, but giving up because of tough days won’t yield a glorious return, you could still have a rosy bed to sleep on. Smile, but that’s just the fact.

“Choices make a difference,”

Are you comfortable with where you are?

By default, humans were created lazily. We love our comfort zones but growth never takes place in there.

If we must grow, we must step out, grow, and glow.

It is a new day, and a new week, carrying out personal evaluation how we’ve spent the past 8 months is needful.

Ask yourself….

Have I been acting busy or I’ve been actively busy?

Test how you’ve spent your time and money.

Ask yourself the WHY question on your engagements.

Visit your diary, see the things you had in mind to do but never did.

Review your values, principles, and thoughts you’ve been operating with.

Analyze those you’ve met in the past few months.

Who have you taught something new and who have you learned from?

How productive have you been in the workplace?

what has been your impacts?

How has been your relationship with God and family?

All these are essential to testing ourselves, measuring growth, and lapses.

Remember to celebrate your little wins, it gives you a groove to do more.

Remember, personal evaluation is the key to personal development.

Tell yourself, get set for a new month

Realign your goals

Truncate distraction and excuses

Say no to stagnancy.

braze up, get set to work hard and smart, then walk into a new month a winner and champion that you are.

A letter to myself

I hope you find these poor words of mine insightful.

Thanks for stopping by to read.

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They say that the jealous person does not suffer from what they see, but from what they imagine. You may be skewing reality out of fear of losing your partner, and your jealousy may be unjustified.

In that case, it is advisable to try to separate them as necessary. However, it is not always necessary to assume that jealousy must be taken away and forgotten.

Sometimes jealousy works as a kind of alarm because they warn that something is not working well between you (routine, disinterest, fatigue ...) and precisely for that reason, a third person is sneaking into your space.

Five things you should NOT do when you are jealous

In this other case, it is necessary that you determine together the steps to follow, whenever you want to save the relationship.

Whatever your situation, here are five things you shouldn't do when you're feeling jealous.

Be careful, it is very easy to fall into them!

1. Do not accuse your partner

Don't accuse her or take uncertain things for granted, or she'll get defensive. Jealousy is a subject that must be treated with delicacy and sweetness.

In addition, there are people who hate that their confidence is questioned and more if they feel that they are not giving reasons.

Clarify with your partner what reasons you have to feel jealous. Speak honestly, do not hide anything, no matter how absurd it may seem.

Saying it out loud will help you, too, to notice new nuances.

Communication is the key!



2. Do not prohibit

You do not want your partner to be with you out of obligation or to feel frustrated or limited by you. That will make him less and less want to be with you.

Nobody likes to have freedoms taken away from us. Everything is negotiable, and you can talk about it to reach an agreement.

Forbidding him something is a way of threatening to take away your love if he does: and that is blackmail!

3. Do not fall into the temptation to secretly look at his mobile phone, computer ...

If you do, you lose your reason.

The end does not justify the means. In any case, it is better that, eventually (do not do it custom), ask your partner to show you something you need to see to be calmer (a message, for example).

If you don't want to, it's your right, and that doesn't mean you have something to hide.

We all need our privacy (it is positive that you do not merge your spaces) and we feel uncomfortable if someone invades it.

Trust is the key!



4. Do not think badly or look for five feet to the cat

When in doubt, ask them openly. On the other hand, ask yourself: do you do things similar to those you reject in your partner? Do you consider yourself unfaithful for it?

Think that she is not alone in the world: it is normal for her to relate, and you do too.

Maybe if you do it, you don't give it importance and you see it as normal, but if it does, it bothers you.

Do unto others the way you want them to do back to you!



5. Do not act out of spite

Think twice before reacting by doing something like “revenge” to make your partner jealous, just like you.

At that point, you may feel relieved, but it can hurt you both in the long run.

In this way you only divert the focus of attention from the problem and enlarge it: instead of talking about it and maturing it, you cause more confusion and more reasons to distance yourself.

Think before you do or speak

In short, try to think before doing or speaking! Jealousy is totally emotional and irrational; it comes from our deepest and most instinctive part.

In reality, they are adaptive: they prevent infidelity from occurring, keeping the partner by our side, and ensuring the reproduction of our genes. But we no longer live in caves!

We have to try to put a bit of head and, even if we feel threatened, try to put aside the heat to be able to dialogue and act sensibly.

If you find this piece educative, do well to drop your comment below.



To your striving Relationship

The Relationship Preacher

Samuel Wheto.



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He was only a young boy when his unconscious self-got trapped in the world of creative thinking. As years pass by, he grew more creatively strong, yet undefined in the place of purpose.
Debating became his favorite, music became his passion. Yet we couldn’t figure out; what he really wanted.
He was only a boy.

Years later, he eventually completed a necessary phase of his academics. He sat for WAEC/NECO.
Uncertainty of direction increased, neither can we figure out what his choice was.
Here is a creative, enthusiastic and sound young soul. But what will he study?
What is the way forward?

He did show interest in agriculture, but no more.
He did say he will love to be a Doctor, but no more.
He’s now saying becoming an engineer will be good.
But will he?
We don’t know either, because he doesn’t know.

What will his result permit him to study? They ask.
Lo and behold!

His WAEC/NECO result was quite fantastic. With it he could study any of the aforementioned courses without stress.
The confusion increases.
He doesn’t appear set for these.
He is gifted.
He is creative.
He is enthusiastic, but he looks quite unserious; we’re not sure he’s really set to face this.
His un-seriousness became the subject of discussion.
With all these, will this guy ever go to school?
Ho! Yes, he can’t just stay in this house; let him go get a diploma in Biblical Studies.

Why?
Yes, he will have to; because it appears the only thing he’s serious about is the Bible.
Will he go?
It appears like he really doesn’t have a choice, he will have to go.
Yes! He did, two years of training and buildup.
He finally looks serious, now it’s seems he know what’s next.

Now purpose speaks.
Finally two years journey ended, he wrote jamb this time and decided to study Mechanical Engineering, but guess what? Architecture was given.
Will he study this course?
Will he have to consider change of course?
Will he have to wait another year?
These became subject of deliberation as he remained in silence.
Who will help us now?
God, you will have to solve this puzzle yourself, everyone is getting pissed up.
I will apply for change of course he finally responded.
He did, and follow up was given both in cash and kind.
Finally, the last admission was dropped and it must now be Mechanical engineering, he guessed.
Unfortunately, Architecture was given the second time.
It looked like our prayer has been answered. But will you study this course?
Will he even cope? Architecture is such a stressful course; they only admit few students yearly.
We are not ready to waste our resources they say.
After a while everywhere was clouded with silence.
I will take it, he responded. I will study Architecture, leave the stress, and leave its craziness.
I’ve always admire the course but I never felt I have what it takes to study it, now I have decided to, and I will give it my best.
Wow! That sounds quite interesting right? But is the puzzle solved?
Let’s see……

Architecture was what we signed up for; eventually Archi-torture was what the experience presented.”
The campus trip
It was such a bush and an underdeveloped town; access roads are inaccessible because of its bad condition. Pot holes make you experience a dancing movement as you approach the campus. Paracetamol could be your friend to ease your trip inflicted pains.
Actually, the trip took couple of hours but we finally landed here.
What a trip!
Ho! What a town!
Welcome on campus.
After the long trip, we’re finally on campus. The environment and it breeze sings, welcome to the jungle.
Right from registration point he started feeling the other side of the campus experience he wasn’t told.
Finally all registrations were done with, now he could call himself a student.

First day in studio
He was actually confused as he stepped into the studio, its looks really different from every other lecture halls.
Welcome to architectural department, giant of environmental studies they say.
Here they are fresh students. Little do they know that there is nothing like fresh architectural student; mindset was just to be a fresh guy, study well and finish strong.
He had planned how he will spend his cash; he wasn’t told he will have no money for new polys, shoes and to cut hair every two weeks.
He wasn’t told his feeding allowance will be spent doing assignments, while still in debt of materials.
Little did he know that he will only have an apartment outside school while his place of abode will be the studio? Oh! No!
No one informed him that he will have to sleep on studio desk several times if he will have to survive as an architectural student.
He wasn’t told that 24hours is enough for everyone but for architect it will looks so small, so, you will have to work day and night.
He wasn’t told he will have to sit in sun for 8-10 hours, working on life drawings, what a trap you’re in he said to himself. You will surely die here; this wasn’t what you signed up for.

Just third day on campus, he was told he was in debt of 3 sheets of drawing already, Oh! No, this people must be joking he said.
I have to face this reality, he said to himself. I hope i survived these.
For weeks, he spent nothing less than 6-8 hours in the sun drawing.
Drawing perspective from a very odd angle can be so stressful and annoying he said.
He wasn’t use to drawing like this, this isn’t Nigeria map, neither is it African map he was use to drawing back then in Secondary School.
Several drawings were shirked and disposed by lectures after so much effort has been put to it.
He wasn’t told he will be emotional broken down severally because he couldn’t appear good enough even when he had put in his best. He wasn’t told that his creativity will be criticized and rendered useless severally. He wasn’t told he will shed tears behind closed door.
He wasn’t told that it will get to a point he will almost walk away from this course.
Neither was he told that the survival capacity must be built consciously.
First years were technically war for him, he became thinning like a broom.
After several criticisms, he found hope in himself.

How and why? The more he was criticized, the more he realized that his incapacity to prove his creativity right is a problem. And somehow, he doesn’t know where the strength came from never to give up but he just never did.
He met several resourceful seniors that saw his creativity and are willing to be of help, but guess what; no help can be rendered in a simple way as far as architecture is concern, it has to be the hard way. It is either you give up or you die trying. The grind was real.
You must just go through the stress, you must make sacrifices. They did help him so much but guess what? He has to be a 13spanal for a whole year.
Finally, he was aware of what he has finally signed up for.
Now, he found joy and happiness in all architecture entails and he survived the five years trip of being an architectural student.
Five years of schooling without really having holidays, because we will always stay back on campus. Our session ends when others are returning from break and we must commence a new semester together.
Isn’t that tough? It is, but that was what he signed up for.

What a journey!
Here is the summary.
Throughout time, architecture has persisted as one of the most profoundly important reflections of culture, and also one of the reasons why people travel to different countries. Architecture also persists through our infrastructures from bridges to public spaces and even the very layout of cities.
Simply put, “our cities and homes are as beautiful as the creativity of architect that designs it”
Studying architecture is one of the best decisions i have ever made after much confusion, he said.
Though, it takes time, effort, discipline, parental guidance and prayers to come thus far. I am always grateful for that very choice he said with a smile.
Studying architecture takes a thousand cups of coffee, hundreds of sleepless nights, emotional and mental trauma which only few could survive; architecture takes all forms of pleasure and replaces it with music for you. It takes a lot of tears and huge sum of money for sure.
Architecture will scrutinize your creativity and your capacity for logical reasoning.
Studying architecture successfully simply means you must have study wide; the only course you cannot study successfully without knowing little about every other field is Architecture. I can say it rules the world of creative thinking.

He said, it was tough but we survived it.
Are we now there? No! But we will definitely.
There is still more beyond our first degree, we’re still pushing hard to get our seal and create a legacy that will outlive our years.
We found pleasure in doing this, we know it’s going to take more from us to get to our destination but we are so set for it. We know we will be called Architect all our lives and we must be set for it.
We love our growth and we share our stories that it might inspire someone never to give up today.
You may have gone through the same experience as that of his and might have survived like him, I celebrate your courage.
You may be going through the same now, don’t give up; find your hidden strength to get the best out of yourself. You have to take responsibility for your life and give it some meaning.
Finally, you don’t have to go through the same stress he underwent, you could avoid all of it, if you define what you really want out of life on time with readiness to give it your best.

He can be of help throughout the journey. He could provide you some encouragement and practical steps to take as you fight through it.
Have you also studied a course you were given without finding some sense of fulfillment in it? You can DM as well, If you don’t mind, He could be of help.
“Life’s meaning is hidden in purpose”

I was the boy.
I’m WHETO SAMUEL.

Thanks for reading.