sexiestharam:

If it went successfully, a pop-up should have appeared saying it was successful. That's what happened yesterday.

You didn't receive a pop up that you were successful?

I did receive a pop up though, which stated: "submitted successfully".

sexiestharam:

I am in the same shoes as you. I wrote mine 8pm and when I relogged into the portal,it shows I can still write again. I can't log in again. But NDLEA, we die here! na me and you till 6am this morning or anytime I can rewrite the exam.

Why do you want to rewrite the test when you have already written it and submitted?

Do you want to get yourself disqualified?

DrLivzy:
Who is using phone that have successfully written?

I wrote the test with my phone.

TSoul:
I have not been able to login again since after then o, the thing dey annoy me sef

Try again now. It's working. It might take a while before loading, but it will eventually take you to the exam page.

Was able to finally write my test, after so many trials.

justlove91:

Wait till around 2am

Ah. This is serious.

DrLivzy:
Which magic una take write na? This thing is not just moving

Same here. I have tried every means, but not connecting.

Please, has anyone been able to access the test link.

It's still not connecting. Please, what's the best time for its stability?

Please, has anyone been able to log in? It keeps rolling without connection.

I can't log in to write the test, for more than an hour.

AborMist:


Received the one you sent to my email. Thanks a lot.

Please, forward the past questions to akinwoleawe@gmail.com

Harkinholar18:
pls send for me as well akinolaibukun182@gmail.com

please, send past questions akinwoleawe@gmail.com

1lovetruth:
Omo the kind email I send today for pass q enh. I dey feel like say Gmail go flag my mails as spams. Anyways, if you've not gotten the pass q yet, kindly drop your email. We move.

Please, help send the past questions to akinwoleawe@gmail.com

Davoneskay:


I have sent it already na

Please, boss, send the past questions to me via akinwoleawe@gmail.com.

sapien:
Guys, I have a challenge with my Redmi 9t. I tried updating the phone after I saw an update to version 12.6.8 or whatever.


I updated and rebooted afterwards, as instructed.

I have been stuck on the MIUI page ever since after a 115mb update.

It's over 40 minutes, and my phone is still not coming up. What can I do about it?

Please, help. I can't afford to get another phone at the moment. I use the phone for work daily, too.

Please, guys, I need help.

Guys, I have a challenge with my Redmi 9t. I tried updating the phone after I saw an update to version 12.6.8 or whatever.


I updated and rebooted afterwards, as instructed.

I have been stuck on the MIUI page ever since after a 115mb update.

It's over 40 minutes, and my phone is still not coming up. What can I do about it?

Please, help. I can't afford to get another phone at the moment. I use the phone for work daily, too.

BRATISLAVA:


She was never demanding, you say. You think all that red pill, starve her of money bullsh*t you see online is reality? You think that by calling her wife material, that she would continue to keep up with your unreasonable demands from her?

Until we hear her side of the story, fear men and the lies they bring against women.
Too many lies have been busted on this forum and men are behind them mostly.


Everyday men have one story or the other against women, and nobody is asking for the other side. Something must be wrong with men if they are as victimized as they claim to be online.

See how entitled you are to a call. If only you had called the girls that wanted you instead of rejecting them, and feeling you're too desirable. Now see what has happened to the one you were chasing, ignoring upcoming girls with vision and futures. Settle for a girl and build her up, no, you want a ready made woman. Instead you say she's not productive because you are a gold digger looking for her finances. You should first apologize to her.

Anyway, above would be used if genders were switched.

Ordinarily, I shouldn't be dignifying you with a response because I know you on this forum to be an incorrigible misandrist and man-hating troll, but I just needed to put you in your place.

Get a life, would you? You shouldn't turn every post on romance section into a gender war.

No one forced you to believe anything. You might as well have walked past the thread without prying or commenting. You have a penchant for commenting nonsense on every thread you perceive as belittling women which, most times, isn't so.

EndRape2:
After the launch you have not seen her, lol, maybe you are too much that day, or you lack table manners, or you ate without even giving the mother cash when going to say thank you, did you even give her younger ones money for biscuit after finishing their food? Nairaland boys will deceive you without telling you your fault, your new relationship might crash if you do not work on your faults







uote author=sapien post=98882906] Lol. You reply cracked me up.

I am a completely loyal guy. While I don't condone cheating, I don't cheat as well in a relationship.

She didn't give me any reason to cheat on her, hence my dedication.

Now, I know better.

And regarding her mother, she was the one who invited me for lunch. Her daughter gave her my number and she called me herself and told me to come over, that she would like to see me. Since then, the woman decided to take interest me. I haven't seen her since then.

It seems you have mouth diarrhoea. You have decided to turn this thread into a gender war with your misandry and man-hating nonsense.

You don't know me from Adam, yet you have a shallow opinion of me already.

How did you know I don't have table manners, and I went to her place without giving the mum and her siblings something?

EndRape2:
U have not seen her for more than four months, and you can not go to her place and see her one on one , to discuss, u are only calling her on phone, can you see you are at fault here, allow nairaland boys to be fooling you, with she is with another guy, move on, a relationship of four years ,you calling she is calm or not picking , you know her house and you can not check on her, let me tell you women test guys in different ways







uote author=sapien post=98847409] Nasty? Nah. I won't. That's why I have decided not to visit her place, otherwise I could have stormed her place, especially after her last episode.

Please, learn to read before jumping the gun, next time.

Go through my first post and subsequent comments again; the reply you seek regarding my refusal to go visit her is there. I don't visit anyone without a prior notification.

How do you expect me to visit someone who isn't picking my calls?

franchasng:
I never met my wife's parents nor siblings until the day I went to pay her dowry. She pleaded with me many times to come to her place, I never showed up.


Quality men are not usually easy to get so when a lady finds a quality man, she handles him with care. You belittled yourself before her in so many ways.


Why are Nigerian guys always in a hurry to meet the family members of their girlfriends Its a turn off.


Now listen and listen well, that girl is seeing another guy she considers far better than you and seeing you or picking your calls irritates her, ladies don't usually handle such things well unlike guys that can manage a community of ladies and all the ladies will be happy and fulfilled lol.


Stop believing that good ladies are scarce, they are not, in fact, I wished I could marry more wives cos I keep seeing super hot and good mannered ladies that deserve to be wife's, so I wonder why you single guys cling unto one girl thinking she is the only mother Theresa on earth.



Forget the nonsense that she used to help you, that's by gone and thank God she is the one playing herself not you, so forget the past memories and go find a better chick and don't ever accept her back because another guy have fu*cked her and only after that guy dumps her that she would come back to her senses. Unless she is a confirmed virgin with visible hymen, and she comes back with the hymen in tact and you use torchlight to confirm the hymen, don't ever accept her back, she doesn't love you, she doesn't respect you, she doesn't regard you.


Don't ever marry a girl that doesn't respect and regard you. Forget Love, respect, loyalty and submission from a woman is vital for any marriage to work.

Before I married my wife, she calls me more than 5 times a day and when I complain she would apologise and before you know it, she has called again despite having a very tight work schedule owing to the nature of her career. Now that she is my wife, she calls me more than 5 times everyday. Sometimes just to gist me or tell me irrelevant story that happened in her workplace or something like that which makes me laugh lol. Once a woman is in love, she wanna talk to you always, she will tell you every damn thing she does daily even when you don't ask.


Forget that babe completely, she doesn't worth the hype jareh .


And lastly as a single guy who is not yet married, you are not supposed to be dating just one girl. You are supposed to have at least 3 qualified wife materials and maybe 3 other parole. How can you tie yourself to one girl as a single guy that's looking for a wife Are you Pastor Kumuyi

Lol. Your reply cracked me up.

I am a completely loyal guy. While I don't condone cheating from a partner, I don't cheat as well in a relationship.

She didn't give me any reason to cheat on her, hence my dedication.

Now, I know better.

And regarding her mother, she was the one who invited me for lunch. Her daughter gave her my number and she called me herself and told me to come over, that she would like to see me. Since then, the woman decided to take interest me. I haven't seen her since then.

Sixfeetbelle:


The essence of "failed relationships" is so that you can learn from it before getting into another. What has Op learnt from this one?

As it stands, he doesn't know why she's not communicating with him and he needs that information, so how can he know to avoid whatever it was that made this lady change towards him when he enters a new relationship.

You don't seem to understand. Go through my previous replies.

I spoke to her through her mum's phone, since she wasn't picking her phone. I asked her what the problem was, she said there is nothing happening to her. I asked if she was seeing another man, she said she wasn't that type of chick, that she does not have time for such. I also asked if I offended her or she caught me with any other woman, she said no. She was repeating "No Problem" as if her life depended on that phrase. I finally asked her if she was still interested in the relationship, she said yes. I called her the next day, she didn't pick again, despite giving her several missed calls.

It would smack of inferiority complex if I went to her place and saw her. I have tried my possible best to make it work but, apparently, she wouldn't give the relationship a chance any longer.

I have moved on. Even if she calls me back later, I don't see myself picking her calls ever again.

And she wouldn't even dare visit me without notifying me first.

I believe once communication collapses in a relationship, the relationship is as good as dead. I don't need to visit her before she communicates with me if she is sensible.

Sixfeetbelle:


I need clearance on a few bugging issues concerning your story.

You guys haven't seen each other since September yet you live in the same state. Why?

Since September, have you guys been communicating? When did this 'not picking your calls' start?

All the times you were communicating with the mom, did you ever go there physically to talk to the woman?

Her mum and I do talk on phone. She calls me most times and even drops motivational messages for me on WhatsApp. I have gone to her place only once. She did say she wanted to meet her daughter's man back then which was made me to go see her. She liked me afterwards and said she had taken me as a son.

Regarding her daughter, we have been communicating everyday since that September, even though we weren't seeing each other. Her levels of calling reduced in late December. By the third week of January, she wasn't picking my calls again.

She usually gave me series of excuses why she couldn't see me or I couldn't see her every weekend. It's either she's going to the market with her mum, attending to her sister's kids because of her busy schedule or she has cramps or Endsars protest or she was going to meet her project supervisor or whatever excuses she could come up with every weekend. Before we knew it, 3 months had passed.

The day before she stopped picking my calls, I called her, and she agreed to come and see me over the weekend. A day later, I called her to remind her of her visit, then she stopped picking my calls since then. I was shellshocked.

That was what prompted me to call her mum. Until then, her mum never knew we hadn't seen each other for months. I never reported her to her mum since we were always in good terms.

karkinase:

How can you be dating someone for that long..4yrs cmon' the relationship gonna be boring...I dont blame the babe ooo...Add four years to her age n see. Someone somewhere is taking the bulls by the horn to wife her Asap. For women its talk n do, else they move on.

Lol. She wanted to leave school before getting married, actually.

We started dating after her Ordinary National Diploma programme. She got admission into the university through a direct entry. She hasn't even gone for NYSC yet.

The four-year relationship wasn't deliberate on my path. She knew about the wedding plans.

I wanted her to round up or almost rounding up her NYSC before making it official, which would have been later this year before she screwed up.

SpicyMimi:

Don’t call her again. She might not be a bad person but not your God ordained spouse and this is usually the signs especially when your God ordained spouse is somewhere praying that God separates her hubby from the other woman so he can locate her. These were my prayers too and it worked!

Let God’s will be done, trust me His Will is the best and you’d forget this lady totally if she isn’t yours.

This is the same thing my dad told me. He said she's not my God-ordained wife, that he has been praying for all his children that if it remains few months for any of us to make a marital mistake, the relationship should be dissolved either by hook or crook.

Thanks for the beautiful piece.

zealousayo:


Shouldn't he lady have come out straight to him if at all she has what's bothering? The lady is ready to throw the relationship away as the situation. The guy has even involved her mother, so what else do you want the guy to do? According to the op, he had been calling her and she was ignoring the calls. Was that a proper way to show a plight? Relationship should be mutual, once it becomes one sided, each party should go their individual way. If she doesn't have someone she's seeing, she won't be behaving like. She doesn't like him anymore. Even if the relationship is 10 years, it still can be dissolve once one of them is tired. A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. The op has tried his best. If I was in his shoes, she would be a goner.

You are blessed beyond measures. This is a wonderful piece.

Bola146:



It means he doesn't love the lady if he can find time to talk to her one on one, 4 years relationship to be thrown away just like that Haba now, so he know she resides or works? He can't just find time to check what is happening Maybe the lady warned him about lack of good communication and this guy didn't listen, now he has her time, Love is a sacrifice and total commitment! If you can't, it's a total madness. It doesn't mean they are not meant to be.

How do you even suggest I should go and visit her at home and have a one-on-one conversation with her? Someone who is not even picking my calls?

How do I know I would even find her at home?

Moreover, I don't visit anyone without prior notification, talk more of someone I am not even in good terms with.

valentineuwakwe:
@sapien....I will call you two times, make you call yourself the third time!


you live in the same city and since September till now you have seen your woman, something is not right here! The truth is that she is seeing someone else and don't know how to tell you..she is playing to the gallery if the new guy will propose to her first before you do n if not she will come begging in tears to forgive her. ...
make out time on a Sunday evening to go see her...just go to her place n talk things straight..if she is still unchanged let her be..immediately call her mum for the last time n tell her its over.....don't call the woman again or pick her calls.no be the mama you dey marry!

It maybe hard for you to let go after 4years but its better things are happening this way...focus now n set out, better ladies are waiting for you now so Make the move n make yourself happy again!

cheers

Thanks a bunch for the piece of advice, sir.

However, I wouldn't deign to visit her at home; this would smack of low self esteem. A girl that couldn't pick my calls to tell me what the problem is with her doesn't deserve visitation from me.

Dreyton36:
Guy I understand this kinda situation you're in

Listen carefully if you like ooo

You see that girl ehn , forget about her abs hustle ,cmake money bro
There is someone out there who's better and she's waiting for you

I can swear with my gbola that girl is hanging out with another guy

And she's got a female friend who she looks up to , and it's that female friend who's making her act this way

Love is sweet o , when there's money the love is sweeter

You don't wanna spend the rest of your life with a woman who isn't truthful, and the mum don't walk around with her to know if she's following men or not

Observe closely , even her mother will listen more to the girl than you

Stop calling the mother and see if she will call you , I bet she won't lol

Guy forget about relationship for now , and hey don't even try to engage yourself I any relationship for now , that's not how to move on bruh
You'll only keep having issues with ur new girl cuz you've not moved on, you'll have trust issues with her

The goal is to double up ur hustle bruh

Las Las girls like that na yeye men Dem dey fall for and not the ones that love them, later on na their crew of useless idiots they say " all men are the same"

E go shock u say that ur girl sef go like her mama pass her papa well we'll , do ur observation

Or you can give her social media details to any cute guy who's got little cash in your area and tell him to woo her , E go shock you say that babe wey no they pick ur call naim go they disturb the guy with calls all day


Lights up my kpoli in peace

I have really learnt a lot from this piece.

Thanks a bunch.

Olakunleyakub:
You have low self esteem.

A lady of 4 years is not willing to talk to you for the past 4months despite living in the same city and you are still asking for advice.

Follow this my rules and have peace of mind
Rule1
Never love any woman to the extent of loosing your self or self worth except your mother not even your legally married wife
Rule2
Be honest, kind, loyal, trust, respect and be patient with your woman but always be ready to leave when the relationship has no positive direction again
Rule 3
In marriage or relationship your sanity and peace of mind comes first above love or any other things
Rule4
Never compromise in whatever you do till the end of the time.

Dump the lady assap and work more on yourself...if she truly loves she will comes back and if not that means she is not the right partner for you.

Cheers!!

We have been talking everyday prior to when she started misbehaving about two to three weeks ago. I never said we stopped talking four months ago.

Thanks for the advice, anyways.

Michelle55:
Move on.. If she still desires the relationship she will come back to you but until then refrain from chasing her.
It might be a hard decision due to the 4years you guys have spent together but you just have to enter airplane mode for your sanity sake.

I no dey do pass myself, if I see that a relationship ain't working out anymore I take a long walk no matter the number of years I might have been with the person, my sanity and peace of mind over anything first, I hate drama and I certainly can't condole one.

You might see my approach as being selfish and hard hearted but that's how I've trained my heart to be. If it's not working out, bro/sis it's not. Let go!!

If truly you are meant to be, you will definitely end up together as one so don't fret over it.

Don't try finding someone who doesn't want to be found!!!

Thank you.

mibrims:

I had a similar experience back in 2018
Been dating her since 2014 and in 2018 during our nysc in same state everything changed
Bro jst move on already, even if she makes a U turn as u pray. Don’t take her back
A broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage. Be a man and delete everything about her. U will thank me later
All the best bro

I already did delete everything about her.

arsenal444:
but please, don't do anything nasty ooo

Nasty? Nah. I won't. That's why I have decided not to visit her place, otherwise I could have stormed her place, especially after her last episode.

Fixey:
Be open minded. Consider it broken, bit don't force the call. Don't call her. Act like she just traveled. If she doesn't reconnect herself, let her go. But give it some time

Okay. Thanks, boss. I have made up my mind that if she doesn't call, I am never calling her back. I was forced to delete her contacts on my phone.