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Crime / Man Arrested For Disguising As Car Buyer And Stealing N55 Million Mercedes Benz by SayAsSeen: 7:43am On Jul 07, 2023
A 25-year-old man identified as Meshach Sinuphro has been apprehended in Benin City, Edo State by the CP-Decoy Squad of the Delta State Police Command. Sinuphro had disguised himself as an intending buyer of a Mercedes Benz Sports Utility Vehicle (SUV) valued at N55 million in Abuja but absconded with the vehicle.

Confirming the arrest in Asaba, the State Police Commissioner, Wale Abbas, stated that the suspect was tracked down in Benin City and subsequently brought back to Asaba for further interrogation.

Abbas, speaking through the Command's spokesperson, Bright Edafe, explained that the suspect had gone to Abuja with the intention of purchasing the car. However, during the negotiation process, he offered to test-drive the vehicle before finalizing the purchase. Taking advantage of this opportunity, the suspect fled with the car without settling the agreed price.

Following investigations, it was discovered that the suspect had abandoned the stolen vehicle in a bush along Oteri road in Ughelli North council, Delta State, before escaping to Benin City, where he was eventually arrested.

During the police parade, the suspect, who claimed to be a 300-level Business Administration student in Turkey, admitted his intention to purchase the car for N30 million. He explained that while negotiating with the dealer, they decided to test-drive the vehicle. However, after the dealer left the car momentarily to collect money from a Point of Sale (PoS) machine, the suspect took advantage of the situation and drove away.

Sinuphro clarified that his motive was not to sell the stolen vehicle but to use it for personal purposes. He expressed regret for his actions and stated that he felt hypnotized or influenced to carry out the theft.

The suspect is currently in custody and will face the legal consequences of his actions.

Politics / Re: APC Primaries: Okorocha Congratulates Tinubu by SayAsSeen: 9:18am On Jun 11, 2022
adenigga:
Former Imo Governor and All Progressives Congress, APC presidential aspirant Rochas Okorocha has reacted to Bola Tinubu’s emergence as the party’s flag bearer.

Some people had alleged that the former senator might dump the party after he polled zero votes at the primaries.
However, Okorocha has congratulated the APC chieftain in a statement made available to journalists by his Special Adviser (Media), Sam Onwuemeodo on Friday.



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Oga you are a menace to your state and the country at large!

https://www.globalnewsnig.com/how-hon-shina-peller-defrauded-his-friends-millions-of-naira-by-selling-fake-land-to-them/

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Crime / Re: Two LAWMA Workers Arrested For Faking Kidnap by SayAsSeen: 9:13am On Jun 11, 2022

Crime / Re: Marriage Is Not A Do Or Die Affair! (Viewer's Discretion Advised) by SayAsSeen: 9:08am On Jun 11, 2022
SweetOnugbo:
Run for your life.

Run away from domestic violence.

It's so sad that she's not even up to 30, and she has been sent out of this world in such a manner.

Wether husband or wife, run away from domestic violence.

Witnessed a patients death today in A&E( Accident and Emergency). A young Lady that died from hypovolemic shock due to traumatic brain injury as a result of assault (domestic violence). She had 4 cuts on her head with cutlass that caused tearing and bruising of brain tissue and blood vessels( especially middle meningeal artery) You could see the brain tissue, that means she had a skull fracture.

Please leave for your life in you're in an abusive relationship/marriage. No Dey form Jagaban abeg, say u sabi fight back (because they said she was with hammer). Save your life first.

The family of the victim has to support and encourage disengagement from a violent spouse. Most Africans and Christians will tell you to bear with it until you are dead and are a thread on Nairaland.

Have you seen this: https://www.globalnewsnig.com/how-hon-shina-peller-defrauded-his-friends-millions-of-naira-by-selling-fake-land-to-them/

Politics / Hon. Shina Peller Defrauded His Friends Of Millions Of Naira With Fake Land by SayAsSeen: 4:08pm On Jun 10, 2022
Hon. Shina Peller, who represents the federal seat of Iseyin/Kajola/Iwajowa in Abuja's lower chamber, is no stranger to scandal, particularly fraud. He was or is still functioning in the fast lane, according to reports, before becoming a member of the House of Representatives.

However, many people are unaware that he doesn't know who to defraud. A few years ago, he contacted some of his friends and asked them to join him in purchasing land in Banana Island Ikoyi, Lagos State, where they know he made a fortune as a businessman, particularly with his Quillos nite club, an upscale hangout joint for the so-called big boys and girls.

Presently Shina Peller is said to have deployed ways not to give his friends the land  nor the money he collected from them. Whenever  they asked him he always telll them to let him focus oh his campaign and unfortunately he lost his bid in the primaries in his quest to move to the red chamber in 2023.

Family / Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by SayAsSeen: 12:43pm On Dec 22, 2021
Favfables1:


Thank you Chief for the vote of confidence...

Honestly chief...
I would be offended by her actions...
Buh rather than ignore her and allow this to breed resentment, please talk to her and let her know exactly how you feel...

Communicate your feelings as clearly as you can, cause like elders would say "na small tin dey cause problem". . This issue if not properly handles could escalate into something else...

And as for her brother, how long has he been staying there with you? When is he intending to move out?

Honestly, I am against family members staying with married couples for extended periods of time.... So please politely separate yourself from that man...


Sir, my vote of confidence was rightly placed and your last question proofs that.

He has been here since I returned from my trip, let's say 8 days now. The first couple of days serving him first was cool, courteous and polite.

Then it became rude, I mean this dude isn't a guest anymore even if he still was; serving him first always is very annoying or offensive or so I think sir!

I am thinking of telling her to stop serving my food for the duration of his stay. It is beginning to seem disrespectful.


About confronting her sir, in real life-lol, I am not a man of many words. Besides I won't like to be seen as petty or immature as some may say. That's why I didn't ask older friends, my elder brother or my folks.


God bless you and meet you at the point of your needs sir!

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Family / Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by SayAsSeen: 12:37pm On Dec 22, 2021
cococandy:
All of you can eat together at the same time and it won’t be an issue

Wisdom. But not always applicable.


Thanks anyway!!

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Family / Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by SayAsSeen: 12:33pm On Dec 22, 2021
DICKstractor:
undecided


Why's everything becoming a problem to this new generation marriage


From the look of things, I don't think the next 5-10 generation can handle marriage


One day your wife go mess, you go say the mess smells so unfamiliar. That it is not from the kind of food you guys eat at home. Meaning, she's cheating

#spits

You spat on your foolhardiness bros!

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Family / Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by SayAsSeen: 12:30pm On Dec 22, 2021
Figger:
Seems you're too pompous, he's your guest for God's sake.

Read modified OP for better understanding, then kindly comment again. I'd like your take on this, you seem genuine and intelligent. Thanks!

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Family / Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by SayAsSeen: 12:29pm On Dec 22, 2021
ObaOfUyo:
The kind of things, grownup babies will allow to become problems in their homes, given the soaring rates of divorces over trivial issues, I'm beginning to understand.
This na issue wey we dey drag as we small with my brothers dem. We don grow now we dey face serious issues.

If you still dealing with insecurity and trust issues, why get married ?!? Grow up abeg.
Don't bring silly tales to NL


Receive peace.


Shut up please. Incoherent fool!

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Family / Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by SayAsSeen: 12:26pm On Dec 22, 2021
ibechris:
Calm down jor.

In my house,anytime my brother in law Comes into town,we serve him food like a king. In fact,I see him as my father in law.

And it does not remove anything from us...learn not to pokenose into everything.

He is just 5 years my senior yet,we cherished him as our senior.

Learn to behave brother...u too love food.


Quite the contrary, I hardly eat. They ate semo last night, I didn't. Please read modified OP for better understanding.


Thanks anyway bros!
Family / Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by SayAsSeen: 12:23pm On Dec 22, 2021
SayAsSeen:



Dear sir, seeing as you and the guy whose post you quoted are the ones who are genuinely concerned or can think rationally; permit me to tell you a bit more.

I worked all through the night and was famished by the time the day broke this morning. I gave her some dough and told her to prepare me noodles and sardine, emphasizing on the fact that I was very hungry.

NOTE: Her Brother was still asleep at this time.

She prepared the meal, split it into two. Woke up and served her brother first in my guest room before coming to my room to give her hungry husband his food.

I was so mad, I ignored the food, went out to smoke a cigarette. While I was doing that it occured to me ask for advice here, because I didn't want to ask anybody I knew personally.

I still don't know whether to be mad, or to just ignore it. What she did this morning was wrong, and to those that feel otherwise, when you experience that and marriage, let us know how you feel?


I appreciate your comment sir!


I am a strong believer of common sense and respect and her actions this morning lack both!

Is she told me she needed money for something and I put my younger sister's need over her's-no matter how tribal her's might be-i know how she'd react and the amount of making up I'd have to do.

I am trying to be very mature about this, that's why I keeping things anonymous?

Besides I'd like to know, I possibly can't be the only person who has experienced this sort of situation because they say there's nothing new under the sun. Please who has ever felt this way, I am very understanding and if something irks me, it would irk every body else too.


Wish I could explain better

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Family / Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by SayAsSeen: 12:12pm On Dec 22, 2021
Favfables1:


The most sensible comment I've seen so far...

Personally if it's just a one time thing, I won't be bothered buh it happening consistently is something that'll make me raise eyebrows...

OP talk to your wife and tell her exactly how this makes you feel...
She may be doing it without meaning to upset or disrespect you...

I know this may seem like something "not worth talking about", buh if it hurts you enough for you to open a thread on nairaland, then it's better you communicate with her rather than allow it grow into resentment...

And please leave all those folks up there insulting you for whatever reason, if you do your investigations they're probably not married and thus won't know *exactly* how it feels...

Good luck Chief...


Dear sir, seeing as you and the guy whose post you quoted are the ones who are genuinely concerned or can think rationally; permit me to tell you a bit more.

I worked all through the night and was famished by the time the day broke this morning. I gave her some dough and told her to prepare me noodles and sardine, emphasizing on the fact that I was very hungry.

NOTE: Her Brother was still asleep at this time.

She prepared the meal, split it into two. Woke up and served her brother first in my guest room before coming to my room to give her hungry husband his food.

I was so mad, I ignored the food, went out to smoke a cigarette. While I was doing that it occured to me ask for advice here, because I didn't want to ask anybody I knew personally.

I still don't know whether to be mad, or to just ignore it. What she did this morning was wrong, and to those that feel otherwise, when you experience that and marriage, let us know how you feel?


I appreciate your comment sir!

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Family / Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by SayAsSeen: 11:53am On Dec 22, 2021
Mariangeles:


If it matters that much to you, open up and tell your wife that she serves you first before her brother.
If it were a one time thing, it wouldn’t have mattered.
She should respect you in front of her brother because I doubt she’d like it if you constantly put your sister first before her.

Some feelings might seem irrational, but we can’t help but feel them.


Thank you
Family / Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by SayAsSeen: 11:53am On Dec 22, 2021
Favfables1:


The most sensible comment I've seen so far...

Personally if it's just a one time thing, I won't be bothered buh it happening consistently is something that'll make me raise eyebrows...

OP talk to your wife and tell her exactly how this makes you feel...
She may be doing it without meaning to upset or disrespect you...

I know this may seem like something "not worth talking about", buh if it hurts you enough for you to open a thread on nairaland, then it's better you communicate with her rather than allow it grow into resentment...

And please leave all those folks up there insulting you for whatever reason, if you do your investigations they're probably not married and thus won't know *exactly* how it feels...

Good luck Chief...


You are blessed my man!

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Family / Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by SayAsSeen: 11:38am On Dec 22, 2021
Olunmercy56:


That is why I always pray for a man that is sensible as a husband, not the one that can't think on his own

You will get one, amen.

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Family / Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by SayAsSeen: 10:11am On Dec 22, 2021
ahmthankgod:
Firstly, is this the second time?

This is the umpteenth time! Since he arrived

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Family / Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by SayAsSeen: 10:08am On Dec 22, 2021
Hello friends, I'd like to ask intelligent and older minds for advise about an issue before I react.

My wife's elder brother is visiting my house and my wife has been serving his food first before serving and bringing my good, in my own house.


Please I just want to ask if this is wrong or right or even just normal?

I worked all through the night and was famished by the time the day broke this morning. I gave her some dough and told her to prepare me noodles and sardine, emphasizing on the fact that I was very hungry.

NOTE: Her Brother was still asleep at this time.

She prepared the meal, split it into two. Woke up and served her brother first in my guest room before coming to my room to give her hungry husband his food.

I was so mad, I ignored the food, went out to smoke a cigarette. While I was doing that it occured to me ask for advice here, because I didn't want to ask anybody I knew personally.

I still don't know whether to be mad, or to just ignore it.

I am a strong believer of common sense and respect and her actions this morning lack both! It would have take her less than 30 seconds to give me my food then go wake and serve her brother!

Is she told me she needed money for something and I put my younger sister's need over her's-no matter how tribal her's might be-i know how she'd react and the amount of making up I'd have to do.

I am trying to be very mature about this, that's why I keeping things anonymous?

Besides I'd like to know, I possibly can't be the only person who has experienced this sort of situation because they say there's nothing new under the sun. Please who has ever felt this way, I am very understanding and if something irks me, it would irk every body else too.


Wish I could explain better

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Career / Re: Believe in yourself and don't let anyone bring you down! by SayAsSeen: 3:34pm On Apr 24, 2021
BabbanBura:


Very true,

Hi dear, I am trying to delete this thread. Could you kindly modify your comment
Career / Believe in yourself and don't let anyone bring you down! by SayAsSeen: 2:23am On Feb 28, 2021
And also learn multiple related Skills.
Career / Believe in yourself always and don't let anyone bring you down! by SayAsSeen: 6:27am On Jan 22, 2021
Do what's right always!!

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