A reputable credit management Institute is in urgent need of an Account.

The applicant must be VERSATILE with the following skills:

• Financial Statement Preparation, Reporting, Analysis, and Interpretation.
• Management Account Preparation and Reporting, Budgeting, and Variance Analysis.
• Advanced Knowledge in preparing required company accountants.
• Internal Controls, Auditing, Payroll Administration, and Strategic Financial Planning.
• Advance Microsoft Office Suite Knowledge, Business Planning, Tax Planning & Management, and Working Capital Management.
Other responsibilities of the Accountant will include the following:
• Daily imputation of financial entries into the accounting software
• Monthly Bank Reconciliation Statement, Reconciliation of Ledgers, and Resolving of differences.
• Banking transactions.
• Monitoring of Accounts Receivables and Payables.
• Administration duties.
• Petty cash management.
• Proper daily filing system in the accounting department.

The following are a MUST for the applicant:

• The applicant should have a minimum of 5 years experience.
• The applicant should be versatile in the usage of accounting packages especially Sage 50/Sage ERP/ Peach tree.
• The applicant should be available to resume immediately if successful.
• The applicant should be very skillful in the usage of Advanced Microsoft Excel.
• The applicant should have worked in a structured organization and is familiar with the smooth running of the Accounting Department and the organization as a whole.
• The applicant should be able to work independently or with little supervision.

The expected remuneration for this role is N120,000.00, subject to review based on productivity.
We expect applications and CVs to come from applicants living in any of these areas in Lagos: Ajah, Badore, Ado Road, Ogombo Town, Lagos Island, Victoria Island, Oniru Estate, Ikoyi, Lekki Phase 1 & 11.

Kindly NOTE that only shortlisted applicants will be invited for an interview
Send your Curriculum Vitae and Cover Letter to: registrar@icanigeria.net

POSITION: WEB/DATABASE MANAGEMENT ASSISTANT


An urgent Vacancy for the above-stated position now exists at the Institute of Credit Administration (ICA), Nigeria’s professional body for credit management (www.icanigeria.net).

Requirements:
- The applicant must be a holder of a good degree in computer science.
- Must have at least 2 years of work experience in website design, hosting, maintenance and updating, management of database, and programming, among others.
- Applicant must have a developers license ID or a developers certification ID
- Must have knowledge of computer applications both software and hardware
- Applicant must be extraordinarily versatile in setting up and maintenance of existing Webinar–based E-Learning Platform, coordinating and managing visual discussion platform for all ICA meetings and conferences with all its members, must be knowledgeable in relationship interface with Google, Mailchimp, Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, etc.
- And all matters relating to IT needs of the Institute.

The expected remuneration for this role is N120,000.00 subject to review based on productivity.

We expect applications and CVs to come from applicants living in any of these areas in Lagos: Ajah, Badore, Ado Road, Ogombo Town, and Lagos Island.
If you think you meet all of the above-stated requirements, please send your full application with your CV to this email: registrar@icanigeria.net
Only shortlisted candidates will be invited for an interview

VACANCY

Executive Legal Assistant

Job description

Executive Legal Assistant is a professional who ensures that his/her employer adheres to the law, give advice and monitor all applicable aspects of it, ensuring that their employer’s follows the proper procedure in every way possible.

Responsibilities include:
• Giving accurate and timely legal counsel to executives in a variety of legal topics
• Collaborating with management to devise efficient defense strategies
• Specifying internal governance policies and regularly monitor compliance

Job brief
We are looking for a highly qualified Executive Legal Assistant to oversee the legal aspects of our business. You will safeguard our reputation by guaranteeing that our organization strictly follows law guidelines and give legal advice to management about all relevant issues.
The successful candidate will effectively ensure legal conformity and minimize probability of exposure.
Responsibilities
• Give accurate and timely counsel to executives in a variety of legal topics or issues.
• Collaborate with management to devise efficient defense strategies
• Specify internal governance policies and regularly monitor compliance
• Research and evaluate different risk factors regarding business decisions and operations
• Apply effective risk management techniques and offer proactive advise on possible legal issues
• Communicate and negotiate with external parties (regulators, external counsel, public authority etc.), creating relations of trust
• Draft and solidify agreements, contracts and other legal documents to ensure the company’s full legal rights
• Deal with complex matters with multiple stakeholders and forces
• Provide clarification on legal language or specifications to everyone in the organization
• Conduct your work with integrity and responsibility
• Maintain current knowledge of alterations in legislation
• Deal with debt recovery matters and recovery of debts
• Take responsibility for all personnel matters in all its ramifications
• Get involved in all business driving of the organization.
• Be responsible for membership drive and services of the Institute.
• And any other responsibilities or duties that may be assigned from time to time

Requirements and skills
• Proven experience as an Executive Legal Assistant in business environment
• Excellent knowledge and understanding of corporate law and procedures
• Full comprehension of the influences of the external environment of an organization
• Demonstrated ability to create legal defensive or proactive strategies
• High degree of professional ethics and integrity
• Sound judgment and ability to analyse situations and information
• Outstanding communication skills
• BSc degree degree in Law with license to practice

Expected remuneration for this role is N200,000.00 subject to review based on productivity, loyalty, and professionalism.
We expect applications and CVs to come from applicants living in any of these areas in Lagos: Ajah, Badore, Ado Road, Ogombo Town, and Lagos Island.
If you think you meet all of the above stated requirements, please send your full application with CV to this email: registrar@icanigeria.net. Only shortlisted candidate will be invited for interview. Also you can send your CV to this Whatsapp number 08034030160

VACANCY – CONTRACT SECRETARY
(Please read the content before submitting your CV)

Application for this position is required urgently for the Nigerian London Business Forum’s country office in Lagos. The contract will be for six months.

REQUIREMENTS:
• High typing speed
• Use of Social media, preferably LinkedIn
• Must have the ability to write constructive business letters without supervision
• Age – 30yrs and above
• Sound experience in browsing the Internet
• Must be versatile in MS Word, PowerPoint, Excel
• Must be fluent, and very sound in English Language
• Must be truly hardworking with a great health condition

QUALIFICATION:
Secretarial Administration or Bachelor’s degree in Marketing
*Administrative experience will be an added advantage
The expected remuneration for this role is N80, 000.
The applicant should be available to resume immediately if successful.
The applicant must live within any of these areas: Ajah, Badore, Ado Road, Ogombo Town, Lagos Island, Victoria Island, Ikoyi, Oniru Estate, Lekki, etc.
If you do not have these requirements, please do not send your CV. Only shortlisted applicants will be invited for an interview.
If you think you meet the above-stated requirements, please send your resume to: london@nlbforum.co.uk, using the role as the subject of the mail.

URGENT VACANCY

POSITION: WEB/DATABASE MANAGEMENT ASSISTANT


An urgent Vacancy for the above-stated position now exists at the Institute of Credit Administration (ICA), Nigeria’s professional body for credit management (www.icanigeria.net).

Requirements:
- The applicant must be a holder of a good degree in computer science.
- Must have at least 2 years of work experience in website design, hosting, maintenance and updating, management of database, and programming, among others.
- Applicant must have a developers license ID or a developers certification ID
- Must have knowledge of computer applications both software and hardware
- Applicant must be extraordinarily versatile in setting up and maintenance of existing Webinar–based E-Learning Platform, coordinating and managing visual discussion platform for all ICA meetings and conferences with all its members, must be knowledgeable in relationship interface with Google, Mailchimp, Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, etc.
- And all matters relating to IT needs of the Institute.

The expected remuneration for this role is N120,000.00 subject to review based on productivity.

We expect applications and CVs to come from applicants living in any of these areas in Lagos: Ajah, Badore, Ado Road, Ogombo Town, and Lagos Island.
If you think you meet all of the above-stated requirements, please send your full application with your CV to this email: registrar@icanigeria.net
Only shortlisted candidates will be invited for an interview

An urgent Vacancy for the above-stated position now exists at the Institute of Credit Administration (ICA), Nigeria’s professional body for credit management (www.icanigeria.net).

Requirements:
- The applicant must be a holder of a good degree in computer science.
- Must have at least 2 years of work experience in website design, hosting, maintenance and updating, management of database, and programming, among others.
- Applicant must have a developers license ID or a developers certification ID
- Must have knowledge of computer applications both software and hardware
- Applicant must be extraordinarily versatile in setting up and maintenance of existing Webinar–based E-Learning Platform, coordinating and managing visual discussion platform for all ICA meetings and conferences with all its members, must be knowledgeable in relationship interface with Google, Mailchimp, Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, etc.
- And all matters relating to IT needs of the Institute.

The expected remuneration for this role is N120,000.00 subject to review based on productivity.
We expect applications and CVs to come from applicants living in any of these areas in Lagos: Ajah, Badore, Ado Road, Ogombo Town, and Lagos Island.
If you think you meet all of the above-stated requirements, please send your full application with your CV to this email: registrar@icanigeria.net. Only shortlisted candidates will be invited for an interview

(Please read the content before submitting your CV)

REQUIREMENTS:
• Conversant with Abuja Metropolis
• Must be able to market membership of the Institute of Credit Administration (ICA) to Directors, Managers, Supervisors, and Officers working in big organizations and establishments.
• Age – 30yrs and above
• He/she must love the job
• Must be fluent, and very sound in English Language
• Must be truly hardworking with great health condition

QUALIFICATION:
Bachelor’s degree in Marketing and related field
The expected remuneration for this role is N60, 000 - N80, 000 (Increment is tied to profound productivity)
The applicant should be available to resume immediately if successful.
The applicant must live in Abuja
If you do not have these requirements, please do not send your CV. Only shortlisted applicants will be invited for an interview.
If you think you meet the above-stated requirements, please send your resume to: registrar@icanigeria.net
using the role as the subject of the mail.

(Please read the content before submitting your CV)

REQUIREMENTS:
• Conversant with Abuja Metropolis
• Must be able to market membership of the Institute of Credit Administration (ICA) to Directors, Managers, Supervisors, and Officers working in big organizations and establishments.
• Age – 30yrs and above
• He/she must love the job
• Must be fluent, and very sound in English Language
• Must be truly hardworking with great health condition

QUALIFICATION:
Bachelor’s degree in Marketing and related field
The expected remuneration for this role is N60, 000 - N80, 000 (Increment is tied to profound productivity)
The applicant should be available to resume immediately if successful.
The applicant must live in Abuja
If you do not have these requirements, please do not send your CV. Only shortlisted applicants will be invited for an interview.
If you think you meet the above-stated requirements, please send your resume to: registrar@icanigeria.net
using the role as the subject of the mail.

VACANCY – ABUJA
CONTRACT MEMBERSHIP SERVICES EXECUTIVE
(Please read the content before submitting your CV)

REQUIREMENTS:
• Conversant with Abuja Metropolis
• Must be able to market membership of the Institute of Credit Administration (ICA) to Directors, Managers, Supervisors, and Officers working in big organizations and establishments.
• Age – 30yrs and above
• He/she must love the job
• Must be fluent, and very sound in English Language
• Must be truly hardworking with great health condition

QUALIFICATION:
Bachelor’s degree in Marketing and related field
The expected remuneration for this role is N60, 000 - N80, 000 (Increment is tied to profound productivity)
The applicant should be available to resume immediately if successful.
The applicant must live in Abuja
If you do not have these requirements, please do not send your CV. Only shortlisted applicants will be invited for an interview.
If you think you meet the above-stated requirements, please send your resume to- registrar@icanigeria.net
using the role as the subject of the mail.

VACANCY – ABUJA
CONTRACT MEMBERSHIP SERVICES EXECUTIVE
(Please read the content before submitting your CV)

REQUIREMENTS:
• Conversant with Abuja Metropolis
• Must be able to market membership of the Institute of Credit Administration (ICA) to Directors, Managers, Supervisors, and Officers working in big organizations and establishments.
• Age – 30yrs and above
• He/she must love the job
• Must be fluent, and very sound in English Language
• Must be truly hardworking with great health condition

QUALIFICATION:
Bachelor’s degree in Marketing and related field
The expected remuneration for this role is N60, 000 - N80, 000 (Increment is tied to profound productivity)
The applicant should be available to resume immediately if successful.
The applicant must live in Abuja
If you do not have these requirements, please do not send your CV. Only shortlisted applicants will be invited for an interview.
If you think you meet the above-stated requirements, please send your resume to- registrar@icanigeria.net
using the role as the subject of the mail.

(Please read content before submitting your CV)

Application for this position is required urgently for Nigerian London Business Forum’s country office in Lagos. The contract will be for six months.

REQUIREMENTS:
• High typing speed
• Use of Social media, preferably LinkedIn
• Must have ability to write constructive business letters without supervision
• Age – 30yrs and above
• Sound experience in browsing the Internet
• Must be versatile in MS Word, Power Point, Excel
• Must be fluent, very sound in English Language
• Must be truly hardworking with great health condition

QUALIFICATION:
Secretarial Administration or Bachelor’s degree in Marketing
*Administrative experience will be an added advantage
The expected remuneration for this role is N80, 000.
The applicant should be available to resume immediately if successful.
The applicant must live within any of these areas: Ajah, Badore, Ado Road, Ogombo Town, Lagos Island, Victoria Island, Ikoyi, Oniru Estate, Lekki, etc.
If you do not have these requirements, please do not send your CV. Only shortlisted applicants will be invited for interview.
If you think you meet the above stated requirements, please send your resume to: london@nlbforum.co.uk, using the role as the subject of the mail.

VACANCY – CONTRACT SECRETARY
(Please read the content before submitting your CV)

Application for this position is required urgently for Nigerian London Business Forum’s country office in Lagos. The contract will be for six months.

REQUIREMENTS:
• High typing speed
• Use of Social media, preferably LinkedIn
• Must have ability to write constructive business letters without supervision
• Age – 30yrs and above
• Sound experience in browsing the Internet
• Must be versatile in MS Word, Power Point, Excel
• Must be fluent, very sound in English Language
• Must be truly hardworking with great health condition
QUALIFICATION:
Secretarial Administration or Bachelor’s degree in Marketing
*Administrative experience will be an added advantage
The expected remuneration for this role is N80, 000.
The applicant should be available to resume immediately if successful.
The applicant must live within any of these areas: Ajah, Badore, Ado Road, Ogombo Town, Lagos Island, Victoria Island, Ikoyi, Oniru Estate, Lekki, etc.
If you do not have these requirements, please do not send your CV. Only shortlisted applicants will be invited for interview.
If you think you meet the above stated requirements, please send your resume to: london@nlbforum.co.uk, using the role as the subject of the mail.

Position: Executive Driver

The executive driver we are looking for must meet the following requirements:

1. Well experienced in driving in Lagos.
2. Must have been used to driving company director.
3. Must currently have and live with own family.
4. Must be a holder of SSCE or OND/ND.
5. Well vast in the knowledge of Lagos roads, super good in driving 4 Runner Toyota Jeep brand.
6. Must have a valid driver’s license.
7. Must be living within the axis of Ikoyi, Victoria Island, Ajah, or Ogombo Town. Lagos State.
8. Not below 30 years of age
9. Minimum of 5 years of driving experience
10. Workdays: Monday – Saturday
11. Salary – 70,000 Gross monthly (with mini accommodation at Ogombo Town)

If you meet these requirements, please send a copy of your CV to:
The Head of Administration,
Institute of Credit Administration
Email: registrar@icanigeria.net

VACANCY – SECRETARY IN CEO’s OFFICE
(Please read content before submitting your CV)

• A matured mind for office business operations
• Candidate we are looking for must have high typing speed – 120wpm
• Must be a graduate of HND/BSC in Secretarial Administration or office management with great experience.
• Must have ability to write constructive business letter without supervision; Age – 30yrs and above
• Must be versatile in MS Word, Power Point, Corel Draw, PageMaker, & Photoshop.
• Ability to generate minutes of meeting
• Must be fluent, very sound in English Language

• Must be truly hardworking with great health condition
Expected remuneration for this role is between N105,000 and N110,000, subject to review based on productivity, good conduct and super loyalty
The applicant should be available to resume immediately if successful.
The applicant must live within any of these areas: Ajah, Badore, Ado Road, Ogombo Town, Lagos Island, Victoria Island, Ikoyi, Oniru Estate, Lekki, etc.

If you do not have these requirements, please do not send your CV. Only shortlisted applicants will be invited for interview.
If you think you meet the above stated requirements, please send your resume to: registrar@icanigeria.net, using the post as subject of the mail. Also send your CV to this Whatsapp number - 08034030160

JOB VACANCY

Position: Executive Driver

The executive driver we are looking for must meet the following requirements:
1. Well experienced in driving in Lagos.
2. Must have been used to driving company directors.
3. Must currently have and living with own family.
4. Must be a holder of SSCE or OND/ND.
5. Well vast in the knowledge of Lagos roads, super good in driving a 4Runner Toyota Jeep.
6. Must have a valid driver’s license.
7. Candidate should be living within the axis of Ikoyi, Victoria Island, Ajah, or Ogombo Town. Lagos state.
8. Not below 30 years of age
9. Minimum of 5years of driving experience
10. Workdays: Monday – Saturday
11. Salary – 60,000 Gross Monthly (with accommodation at Ogombo Town)

If you meet these requirements, please send a copy of your CV to:
The Head of Administration,
Institute of Credit Administration
Email: registrar@icanigeria.net
Phone: 08127808900

Position: Executive Driver

The executive driver we are looking for must meet the following requirements:
1. Well experienced in driving in Lagos.
2. Must have been used to driving company directors.
3. Must currently have and living with own family.
4. Must be a holder of SSCE or OND/ND.
5. Well vast in the knowledge of Lagos roads, super good in driving a 4Runner Toyota Jeep.
6. Must have a valid driver’s license.
7. Candidate should be living within the axis of Ikoyi, Victoria Island, Ajah, or Ogombo Town. Lagos state.
8. Not below 30 years of age
9. Minimum of 5years of driving experience
10. Workdays: Monday – Saturday
11. Salary – 60,000 Gross Monthly (with accommodation at Ogombo Town)

If you meet these requirements, please send a copy of your CV to:
Institute of Credit Administration

The executive driver we are looking for must meet the following requirements:
1. Well experienced in driving in Lagos.
2. Must have been used to driving company directors.
3. Must currently have and living with own family.
4. Must be a holder of SSCE or OND/ND.
5. Well vast in the knowledge of Lagos roads, super good in driving a 4Runner Toyota Jeep.
6. Must have a valid driver’s license.
7. Candidate should be living within the axis of Ikoyi, Victoria Island, Ajah, or Ogombo Town. Lagos state.
8. Not below 30 years of age
9. Minimum of 5years of driving experience
10. Workdays: Monday – Saturday
11. Salary – 60,000 Gross Monthly (with accommodation at Ogombo Town)

If you meet these requirements, please send a copy of your CV to:
The Head of Administration,
Institute of Credit Administration
Email: registrar@icanigeria.net
Phone: 08127808900

The executive driver we are looking for must meet the following requirements:
1. Well experienced in driving in Lagos.
2. Must have been used to driving company directors.
3. Must currently have and living with own family.
4. Must be a holder of SSCE or OND/ND.
5. Well vast in the knowledge of Lagos roads, super good in driving a 4Runner Toyota Jeep.
6. Must have a valid driver’s license.
7. Candidate should be living within the axis of Ikoyi, Victoria Island, Ajah or Ogombo Town. Lagos state.
8. Not below 30 years of age
9. Minimum of 5years driving experience
10. Work days: Monday – Saturday
11. Salary – 60,000 Gross Monthly (with accommodation at Ogombo Town)


If you meet these requirements, please send a copy of your CV to:
The Head of Administration,
Institute of Credit Administration
Email: registrar@icanigeria.net
Phone: 08127808900

The executive driver we are looking for must meet the following requirements:
1. Well experienced in driving in Lagos.
2. Must have been used to driving company directors.
3. Must currently have and living with own family.
4. Must be a holder of SSCE or OND/ND.
5. Well vast in the knowledge of Lagos roads, super good in driving a 4Runner Toyota Jeep.
6. Must have a valid driver’s license.
7. Candidate should be living within the axis of Ikoyi, Victoria Island, Ajah or Ogombo Town. Lagos state.
8. Not below 30 years of age
9. Minimum of 5years driving experience
10. Work days: Monday – Saturday
11. Salary – 60,000 Gross Monthly (with accommodation at Ogombo Town)


If you meet these requirements, please send a copy of your CV to:
The Head of Administration,
Institute of Credit Administration
Email: registrar@icanigeria.net
Phone: 08127808900

The executive driver we are looking for must meet the following requirements:
1. Well experienced in driving in Lagos.
2. Must have been used to driving company directors.
3. Must currently have and living with own family.
4. Must be a holder of SSCE or OND/ND.
5. Well vast in the knowledge of Lagos roads, super good in driving a 4Runner Toyota Jeep.
6. Must have a valid driver’s license.
7. Candidate should be living within the axis of Ikoyi, Victoria Island, Ajah or Ogombo Town. Lagos state.
8. Not below 30 years of age
9. Minimum of 5years driving experience
10. Work days: Monday – Saturday
11. Salary – 60,000 Gross Monthly (with accommodation at Ogombo Town)


If you meet these requirements, please send a copy of your CV to:
The Head of Administration,
Institute of Credit Administration
Email: registrar@icanigeria.net
phone: 08127808900

Lets say the obvious; bad economy, economic crunch, economic depression, economic recession, economic doom, - whatever name we call it has been with us in Nigeria for years and we are still living in what we regard as a precarious economy.
The downturn times in our economy have contributed in no small measure to the fall of our country’s marital life. If you permit me, at the Centre for Marital Affairs (CMA) in collaboration with House of God Fellowship Church (HGF), we have classified marriages into nine (9) distinct categories, namely;
1. wife or husband of a business manager, business director, civil servant or politician – these are top level wives and top level husbands
2. wife or husband of a very busy man or woman entrepreneurs in business or in trade
3. a complete housewife who depends totally on her husband for everything
4. a working class housewife or husband who gets up early in the morning, go to work, and return in the evening
5. a housewife running a business of her own and her husband is working
6. a husband and wife managing business together or trading in business together
7. a wife of a jobless husband
8. a wife who is a student and her husband is working
9. single mother wife

Each of these classifications has its own unique characteristics and impact. When there is marital violence and relationship abuse, one marriage category or the other suffers most, even endures more than the other, or terribly crushed more than the other, etc. For example, husband and wife who are at the lowest ebb of life in terms of economic/financial power, poor educational background or no education at all will most inevitably suffer marital violence and abuse much more than marriages of educated and economically powerful categories.
In recent times, wives or husbands that are educated and have a bit of community influence and perhaps some sort of economic and financial power have been faced with marital violence and abuse. The outcry of the society has been high in condemnation with strong advice that the victim should walk out of the marriage. This walk out option may not be an ideal recommendation or advice to marriages that are at the lower ebb of economic/financial power, lacking in influence in the community where they live or could not attract sympathetic intervention from the community, as well as with poor or no educational background. The question that is begging for an answer is this:
The wives of artisans, wives of drivers, wives of construction workers, wives of factory workers, wives of security guards, wives of truck pushers, wives of carpenters, wives of motor park touts, etc who got married directly from their village of nativity with or without any form of educational background (perhaps with only primary six or secondary school certificate), who are suffering unprecedented marital distress, do we expect this class of husbands or wives to walk out of their marriages or advice them to call the police for their husbands or wives in cases of marital violence and abuse?.
So the solution actually lies in marital education before anyone takes on the journey of becoming a husband or a wife. We need to have a system whereby husband and wife (to be) would be thoroughly educated on issues of marital duties, marital responsibilities, marital obligations, marital rights, and marital privileges. And in my view, churches, and related NGOs together with the media can champion this course. Churches are close to the entire grass-root community of humans all over the world, so they are in a position to assist in this regard.
As for Center for Marital Affairs - CMA (www.centreformaritalaffairs.com) in collaboration with House of God Fellowship Church – HGF (www.hgflivingchurch.com), we pledge our commitment.


PS: For those who sent in emails or made phone calls to ask for direction to House of God Fellowship (HGF)………..the righteous living church where people worship God with peace of mind, here below is the direction to our location:
Enter a bus or arrive from anywhere to Ajah, move on to Abraham Adesanya roundabout, come down there or drive from there to Ogombo Town; or enter keke from Abraham Adesanya to Ogombo Town, drop at Redeemed bus stop, drive on or take okada straight to the end of the redeemed road, then ask of House of God Fellowship Church. Call this number if you need help – 08050880359.
You will be very happy to be part of the church. The church is indeed a home for the resolution of marital issues, the development and empowerment of young people, capacity building in business management and entrepreneurship, and righteous living doctrine, among others.

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Christabel - Centre for Marital Affairs

Lets say the obvious; bad economy, economic crunch, economic depression, economic recession, economic doom, - whatever name we call it has been with us in Nigeria for years and we are still living in what we regard as a precarious economy.
The downturn times in our economy have contributed in no small measure to the fall of our country’s marital life. If you permit me, at the Centre for Marital Affairs (CMA) in collaboration with House of God Fellowship Church (HGF), we have classified marriages into nine (9) distinct categories, namely;
1. wife or husband of a business manager, business director, civil servant or politician – these are top level wives and top level husbands
2. wife or husband of a very busy man or woman entrepreneurs in business or in trade
3. a complete housewife who depends totally on her husband for everything
4. a working class housewife or husband who gets up early in the morning, go to work, and return in the evening
5. a housewife running a business of her own and her husband is working
6. a husband and wife managing business together or trading in business together
7. a wife of a jobless husband
8. a wife who is a student and her husband is working
9. single mother wife

Each of these classifications has its own unique characteristics and impact. When there is marital violence and relationship abuse, one marriage category or the other suffers most, even endures more than the other, or terribly crushed more than the other, etc. For example, husband and wife who are at the lowest ebb of life in terms of economic/financial power, poor educational background or no education at all will most inevitably suffer marital violence and abuse much more than marriages of educated and economically powerful categories.
In recent times, wives or husbands that are educated and have a bit of community influence and perhaps some sort of economic and financial power have been faced with marital violence and abuse. The outcry of the society has been high in condemnation with strong advice that the victim should walk out of the marriage. This walk out option may not be an ideal recommendation or advice to marriages that are at the lower ebb of economic/financial power, lacking in influence in the community where they live or could not attract sympathetic intervention from the community, as well as with poor or no educational background. The question that is begging for an answer is this:
The wives of artisans, wives of drivers, wives of construction workers, wives of factory workers, wives of security guards, wives of truck pushers, wives of carpenters, wives of motor park touts, etc who got married directly from their village of nativity with or without any form of educational background (perhaps with only primary six or secondary school certificate), who are suffering unprecedented marital distress, do we expect this class of husbands or wives to walk out of their marriages or advice them to call the police for their husbands or wives in cases of marital violence and abuse?.
So the solution actually lies in marital education before anyone takes on the journey of becoming a husband or a wife. We need to have a system whereby husband and wife (to be) would be thoroughly educated on issues of marital duties, marital responsibilities, marital obligations, marital rights, and marital privileges. And in my view, churches, and related NGOs together with the media can champion this course. Churches are close to the entire grass-root community of humans all over the world, so they are in a position to assist in this regard.
As for Center for Marital Affairs - CMA (www.centreformaritalaffairs.com) in collaboration with House of God Fellowship Church – HGF (www.hgflivingchurch.com), we pledge our commitment.


PS: For those who sent in emails or made phone calls to ask for direction to House of God Fellowship (HGF)………..the righteous living church where people worship God with peace of mind, here below is the direction to our location:
Enter a bus or arrive from anywhere to Ajah, move on to Abraham Adesanya roundabout, come down there or drive from there to Ogombo Town; or enter keke from Abraham Adesanya to Ogombo Town, drop at Redeemed bus stop, drive on or take okada straight to the end of the redeemed road, then ask of House of God Fellowship Church. Call this number if you need help – 08050880359.
You will be very happy to be part of the church. The church is indeed a home for the resolution of marital issues, the development and empowerment of young people, capacity building in business management and entrepreneurship, and righteous living doctrine, among others.

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Christabel - Centre for Marital Affairs

No Lady goes out to canvass for husband. It is the sole responsibility of a man to go out and look for his wife and in any case he is entitled to one wife. From the beginning apart from the order of creation, man is channeled to be the one to go out and find a suitable partner for his life. And when his wife is found, he now sets his house in order, ready for production of children as successor(s) to his name.
But why is it difficult for today’s young men to go out and interestingly find their wives? And ironically, the same young men seem to be much interested in having casual relationship with ladies. Why? Why do you want to enter into a young lady’s body and you don’t want to live with her, why? Let me spot out some whys:
1. You as a guy don’t have financial power. Yes I agree that you don’t have a financial power because you are not ready to take risks, you are not ready to be adventurous, and you are not ready to commit yourself to a purposeful self and skills development. No young guy lives a life of mere wishes and become anything in life. By nature, women are to be cared for by men – that’s how God created it; if you are a Christian go and read your Bible from Genesis to Revelation, and if you are a Muslim, go and read your Quran from the beginning to the end. It’s just that things have deteriorated, things are in their state of disrepair, otherwise no matter how rich, how successful a lady is economically or financially, she is still subject to the care, to the love and to the nourishment of her husband. In return what she gives reciprocally is her body. However, modern economic and civilization pundits tends to myopically think that education has come to alter that expectation, meaning that a woman can now take all the responsibilities that are supposed to be taken by her husband.

2. When a young man is perceived to be lacking potentials for growth in future, it becomes difficult for ladies who are good assessors of the future of a young man to consent to such a young man’s request for marital union. Let me tell you, every woman is good at discerning what the future of the young man looks like. Maybe the way you talk, your conversation about the present and future life, maybe your idea as to what you wish to become (not necessarily talking and no action), or your passion to how you package yourself, etc. Ladies do easily appraise young men in this regard and the feedback to get to themselves by themselves is either you are seen as the serious type or you are not the serious type. As everyone ought to know, and of course everyone does know, to be a woman is a huge burden and responsibility. From the pain of child bearing to being a mother of a child or children leading the children to growth and maturity is definitely a task that will require financial, material and spiritual support from the man who is just a husband.
Apart from the scanty number of young men who are disposed to getting married at the early time of their life (unlike thousands who are due but not ready), ladies in their selection process tend to reject many unserious, unorganized and futureless young men. No woman would like to put her head under a man who will not care for the family. Becoming husband and wife is not a license to sexual access, but it is much more than that. If you marry a wife, you have signed on for the production of children, you have opened yourself up to the people of the lady as well as your own people, therefore if you don’t have money, and you cannot show or prove that you are on your way to making money in the nearest future, no young lady that knows her worth would be ready and willing to marry a directionless and futureless young man.

3. How do I know about all these points I have raised? For example, the numbers of young men and ladies who are looking for jobs today always have young ladies looking for the job more than the young men. During job interview, young ladies tend to be forthcoming in answering interview questions, arguing on interview points than their male counterparts. Young ladies are more eager to get job than their young men counterparts. In offices where young ladies and young men are employed, young ladies stay longer on the job and tends to be more rules and regulations compliant than their young men counterparts. Young men easily lose their jobs faster, quicker than their female counterparts. From these scenarios you could see that young men are more exposed to losing their occupational job very quickly than their female counterpart; a situation which depicts clearly those young men of today seems to be lacking the gut and grit to hold firmly together. If you cannot hold your job, if you cannot get along well with office matters, certainly you will not be able to govern a family. I will come again next time, enjoy what you read and let me hear from you.

PS: For those who sent in emails or made phone calls to ask for direction to House of God Fellowship (HGF)………..the righteous living church where people worship God with peace of mind, here below is the direction:
Enter a bus or arrive from anywhere to Ajah, move on to Abraham Adesanya roundabout, come down there or drive from there to Ogombo Town; or enter keke from Abraham Adesanya to Ogombo Town, drop at Redeemed bus stop, drive on or take okada straight to the end of the redeemed road, then ask of House of God Fellowship Church. Call this number if you need help – 08050880359.
You will be very happy to be part of this church. The church is indeed a home for the resolution of marital issues.

*Your comment is welcomed, please like and share with others*

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*Centre for Marital Affairs (CMA) is an incorporated non – governmental organization. Kindly send your heartfelt donation for our course.

Christabel
Centre for Marital Affairs

No Lady goes out to canvass for husband. It is the sole responsibility of a man to go out and look for his wife and in any case he is entitled to one wife. From the beginning apart from the order of creation, man is channeled to be the one to go out and find a suitable partner for his life. And when his wife is found, he now sets his house in order, ready for production of children as successor(s) to his name.
But why is it difficult for today’s young men to go out and interestingly find their wives? And ironically, the same young men seem to be much interested in having casual relationship with ladies. Why? Why do you want to enter into a young lady’s body and you don’t want to live with her, why? Let me spot out some whys:
1. You as a guy don’t have financial power. Yes I agree that you don’t have a financial power because you are not ready to take risks, you are not ready to be adventurous, and you are not ready to commit yourself to a purposeful self and skills development. No young guy lives a life of mere wishes and become anything in life. By nature, women are to be cared for by men – that’s how God created it; if you are a Christian go and read your Bible from Genesis to Revelation, and if you are a Muslim, go and read your Quran from the beginning to the end. It’s just that things have deteriorated, things are in their state of disrepair, otherwise no matter how rich, how successful a lady is economically or financially, she is still subject to the care, to the love and to the nourishment of her husband. In return what she gives reciprocally is her body. However, modern economic and civilization pundits tends to myopically think that education has come to alter that expectation, meaning that a woman can now take all the responsibilities that are supposed to be taken by her husband.

2. When a young man is perceived to be lacking potentials for growth in future, it becomes difficult for ladies who are good assessors of the future of a young man to consent to such a young man’s request for marital union. Let me tell you, every woman is good at discerning what the future of the young man looks like. Maybe the way you talk, your conversation about the present and future life, maybe your idea as to what you wish to become (not necessarily talking and no action), or your passion to how you package yourself, etc. Ladies do easily appraise young men in this regard and the feedback to get to themselves by themselves is either you are seen as the serious type or you are not the serious type. As everyone ought to know, and of course everyone does know, to be a woman is a huge burden and responsibility. From the pain of child bearing to being a mother of a child or children leading the children to growth and maturity is definitely a task that will require financial, material and spiritual support from the man who is just a husband.
Apart from the scanty number of young men who are disposed to getting married at the early time of their life (unlike thousands who are due but not ready), ladies in their selection process tend to reject many unserious, unorganized and futureless young men. No woman would like to put her head under a man who will not care for the family. Becoming husband and wife is not a license to sexual access, but it is much more than that. If you marry a wife, you have signed on for the production of children, you have opened yourself up to the people of the lady as well as your own people, therefore if you don’t have money, and you cannot show or prove that you are on your way to making money in the nearest future, no young lady that knows her worth would be ready and willing to marry a directionless and futureless young man.

3. How do I know about all these points I have raised? For example, the numbers of young men and ladies who are looking for jobs today always have young ladies looking for the job more than the young men. During job interview, young ladies tend to be forthcoming in answering interview questions, arguing on interview points than their male counterparts. Young ladies are more eager to get job than their young men counterparts. In offices where young ladies and young men are employed, young ladies stay longer on the job and tends to be more rules and regulations compliant than their young men counterparts. Young men easily lose their jobs faster, quicker than their female counterparts. From these scenarios you could see that young men are more exposed to losing their occupational job very quickly than their female counterpart; a situation which depicts clearly those young men of today seems to be lacking the gut and grit to hold firmly together. If you cannot hold your job, if you cannot get along well with office matters, certainly you will not be able to govern a family. I will come again next time, enjoy what you read and let me hear from you.

PS: For those who sent in emails or made phone calls to ask for direction to House of God Fellowship (HGF)………..the righteous living church where people worship God with peace of mind, here below is the direction:
Enter a bus or arrive from anywhere to Ajah, move on to Abraham Adesanya roundabout, come down there or drive from there to Ogombo Town; or enter keke from Abraham Adesanya to Ogombo Town, drop at Redeemed bus stop, drive on or take okada straight to the end of the redeemed road, then ask of House of God Fellowship Church. Call this number if you need help – 08050880359.
You will be very happy to be part of this church. The church is indeed a home for the resolution of marital issues.

*Your comment is welcomed, please like and share with others*

Kindly follow our Social Media accounts for more information
Instagram- @Cmaritalaffairs
Twitter - @Cmaritalaffairs
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Website- www.centreformaritalaffairs.com

*Centre for Marital Affairs (CMA) is an incorporated non – governmental organization. Kindly send your heartfelt donation for our course.

Christabel
Centre for Marital Affairs

Take These Steps to Know If He/ She Is the One to Marry You

Following my last piece on “why ladies find it very difficult to find husbands nowadays”, I like to come your way again with the above stated sub topic.
Marriage is not a buy and sell thing. Marriage is not a show business. Marriage is not an achievement either.
Marriage is a divine, spiritual institution built for males/females who will become husband/wife to cohabit, live together, raise children, train those children to become builders of community, society, and in turn build their own family from offspring to offspring.
The importance of this explanation points very quickly at character issue. A good character begets a good home, begets a good relationship, begets a joyful and happy living etc.
Character is what attracts strong and reliable relationship. But characters can be broken down into various components, for example, good sense of humor, good sense of respect for oneself and to another person, good sense of kindness and hospitality, good sense of romance and sex, good sense of prudence and accountability, good sense of tolerance and forgiveness, good sense of comfort and consideration, just to mention but a few.
In this case, if you are looking to get married, you must be careful to fix both your observatory eyes and good sense of reason on the following:
1) What is the family background of this girl or guy I intend to approach or is approaching me for marriage – his or her family condition is important. Is this guy’s or girl’s parents living together? What is the history of their marital life? How are they rated within their neighborhood – quarrelling, fighting, peaceful, or what? What is their reputation? Do you know why you must inquire about all these? - a child will always resemble his or her father or his or her mother or both. So, if you marry a girl or a guy you have subscribed to the lifestyle, attitude, and character of his or her parents. As you know, the issue of gene is always there and everybody have it.
2) Assess the guy or girl to know his or her potential for contributing to the future economy of the marriage. In order words, what is his or her skill? Does he or she have potentially feeling for the comfort and freedom of the family in future? What is he or she doing now? You can’t look for a wife or husband in particular when you don’t have a job; you don’t have a credible or feasible job that you are doing at the moment? And for ladies there is no space in the present world anymore for a husband to be liable for all the needs that a woman would need. Things have changed and so a girl looking to get married must have something you are doing. Do you have special apprenticeship skills or are you doing a white collar job? At least there must be something you are capable of doing in order to support your husband and children that will come eventually.
3) The “ Quality list” of the man or lady that should be your husband or wife which you already have in your mind, in your handbag, in your diary, or wherever you kept it – are you exactly what that list says? I leave you to answer this question. I will come your way again in my part three (3).


PS: For those who sent in emails or made phone calls to ask for direction to House of God Fellowship (HGF)………..the righteous living church where people worship God with peace of mind, here below is the direction:
Enter a bus or arrive from anywhere to Ajah, move on to Abraham Adesanya roundabout, come down there or drive from there to Ogombo Town; or enter keke from Abraham Adesanya to Ogombo Town,drop at Redeemed bus stop, drive on or take okada straight to the end of the redeemed road, then ask of House of God Fellowship Church. Call this number if you need help – 08050880359.
You will be very happy to be part of this church. The church is indeed a home for the resolution of marital issues.

*Your comment is welcomed, please like and share with others*



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Twitter - @Cmaritalaffairs
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Christabel
Centre for Marital Affairs

Take These Steps to Know If He/ She Is the One to Marry You

Following my last piece on “why ladies find it very difficult to find husbands nowadays”, I like to come your way again with the above stated sub-topic.
Marriage is not a buy and sell thing. Marriage is not a show business. Marriage is not an achievement either.
Marriage is a divine, spiritual institution built for males/females who will become husband/wife to cohabit, live together, raise children, train those children to become builders of community, society, and in turn build their own family from offspring to offspring.
The importance of this explanation points very quickly at character issue. A good character begets a good home, begets a good relationship, begets a joyful and happy living etc.
Character is what attracts strong and reliable relationship. But characters can be broken down into various components, for example, good sense of humor, good sense of respect for oneself and to another person, good sense of kindness and hospitality, good sense of romance and sex, good sense of prudence and accountability, good sense of tolerance and forgiveness, good sense of comfort and consideration, just to mention but a few.
In this case, if you are looking to get married, you must be careful to fix both your observatory eyes and good sense of reason on the following:
1) What is the family background of this girl/guy I intend to approach or is approaching me for marriage – his or family condition is important. Is this guy’s/ girl’s parents living together? What is the history of their marital life? How are they rated within their neighborhood – quarrelling, fighting, or what? What is their reputation? Do you know why you must inquire about all these? - a child will always resemble his/her father or his/her mother or both. So, if you marry a girl or a guy you have subscribed to the lifestyle, attitude, and character of his /her parents. As you know, the issue of gene is always there and everybody have it.
2) Assess the guy/girl to know his/her potential for contributing to the future economy of the marriage. In order words, what is his/her skill? Does he/she have potentially feeling for the comfort and freedom of the family in future? What is he/she doing now? You can’t look for a wife/husband in particular when you don’t have a job; you don’t have a credible or feasible job that you are doing at the moment. And for girls there is not space in the present world anymore for a husband to be liable for all the needs that a woman- wife would need. Things have changed and so a girl looking to get married must have something you are doing prior- either apprenticeship skill or white collar job, at least there must be something you are capable of doing in order to support the living together of you, your husband and children that will come eventually.
3) The “Quality list” of the man/lady that should be your husband/wife which you already have in your mind, in your handbag, in your diary or wherever you kept it – are you exactly what that list says? I leave you to answer this question. I will come your way again in my part three (3).


PS: For those who sent in emails or made phone calls to ask for direction to House of God Fellowship (HGF)………..the righteous living church where people worship God with peace of mind, here below is the direction:
Enter a bus or arrive from anywhere to Ajah, move on to Abraham Adesanya roundabout, come down there or drive from there to Ogombo Town; or enter keke from Abraham Adesanya to Ogombo Town,drop at Redeemed bus stop, drive on or take okada straight to the end of the redeemed road, then ask of House of God Fellowship Church. Call this number if you need help – 08050880359.
You will be very happy to be part of this church. The church is indeed a home for the resolution of marital issues.

*Your comment is welcomed, please like and share with others*



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Twitter - @Cmaritalaffairs
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Christabel
Centre for Marital Affairs

Nigeria is sick right now, the world is sick right now. The rate at which marriages are dying away is heartbreaking. Also, many of the children born into the country, and the world today are rather seen as liabilities than assets. Families are not together because husbands and wives have separated. We as a country are facing a grave danger but we seem not to know this.
While this allusion may be both objective and subjective, the fact remains that the market place for finding husbands is tough now than ever before. But, Centre for Marital Affairs (CMA) is concerned about why faith-based organizations, particularly churches seems not to deal with the real substance of the matter. Many churches today, unfortunately, are playing to the gallery. They are not teaching their members the obvious and definite realities that today have brought to bear on both young ladies and guys.
Marriage is not for boys, neither is it for little girls. Marriage is not a type of undertaking one can just wake up and jump into it. It requires a great deal of mind and mental training, refocusing with purposeful mission. Intensive effort and commitment is required for two people to get together to become husband and wife, essentially for the production of children for family, community, and the larger society. The hope, strength, and future of any nation lies in the family. A lady who is hoping to become a wife and a guy who is also hoping to become a husband with anticipation to be a father or mother definitely require a very strong preparation and mentorship. Whoever bakes a lady to become a good wife or a guy to become a good husband is truly a builder of nation.
It is with this in mind that Centre for Marital Affairs (CMA) is highly commending the House of God Fellowship Church (HGF). When CMA came across HGF it noted with gladness their self imposed tag which is “The righteous living church”. Curious! They must have something to offer in this age and time when majority of churches could hardly place their focus on “Righteous living” for fear of losing members, let alone “where people could worship God with peace of mind”. Definitely, HGF is a place to focus eyes on.
True to their claim, HGF church is super. There is no nonsense there. It is totally the truth of the bible you hear; prosperity messages are not a regular type, God flog and kill my enemies messages are not a regular type – every message is holistic. I think this is the kind of church Nigeria and indeed Africa need right now in order to repair the minds of millions of people that has been misled, perversed and damaged by the sermonic messages of getting it made without much struggle, and anyone that is against me should go off life etc. Very honestly speaking, churches seem to have misled so many couples who today are facing severe marital disharmony.
HGF which is located at No 3, Henry Udofia close, Newtown Estate, Ogombo Town, an axis of Ajah, Lagos, Mobile: 08050880359, Email: hgf@hgflivingchurch.com, Website: www.hgflivingchurch.com, is worth recommending to any truth seeking, mature- mind seeking person. It is indeed a place one can go for preparation to get married. A place where marital emphasis is on duties, responsibilities, obligations and privileges in marriage are thoroughly expounded, including types of relationship and moral charter that should exist between husband and wife to keep love alive.
I am happy with the head of the church in the person of Prof. Chris Onalo, who also doubles as Chief - Marital Affairs Officer of the church. He is an academic professor; no wonder therefore the church is standing on a very high moral and spiritual principles. His kinds are not many.
The purpose of this writeup is to drive genuine traffic to that church. The traffic of ladies who potentially are really and truly looking to become a good future wife, as well as young men who really and truly want to be prepared to become a responsible husband. As an NGO organization, CMA is committed to finding such a place for serious minded ladies and young men around town.
I trust Prof. Chris Onalo will prepare you to be completely at peace with your life and be on your way, confidently ready to discover your would-be husband or wife that will soon come. For the good of our community and nation, what every family need is a husband who will not break his wife’s heart, the husband who will not abandon his wife; a husband who will not brutalize his wife, a husband who will not insult and abuse his wife’s parents. Similarly, the wives that young men are looking to have are those character – beautiful ladies with perfect submission; they are not looking for a quarrelsome and contentious ladies; they are in search of ladies who will do them good.
I like to conclude by saying; distance cannot be a barrier to where good things are, go to House of God Fellowship (HGF) now – it makes sense!




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Christabel
Centre for Marital Affairs

Nigeria is sick right now, the world is sick right now. The rate at which marriages are dying away is heartbreaking. Also, many of the children born into the country, and the world today are rather seen as liabilities than assets. Families are not together because husbands and wives have separated. We as a country are facing a grave danger but we seem not to know this.
While this allusion may be both objective and subjective, the fact remains that the market place for finding husbands is tough now than ever before. But, Centre for Marital Affairs (CMA) is concerned about why faith-based organizations, particularly churches seems not to deal with the real substance of the matter. Many churches today, unfortunately, are playing to the gallery. They are not teaching their members the obvious and definite realities that today have brought to bear on both young ladies and guys.
Marriage is not for boys, neither is it for little girls. Marriage is not a type of undertaking one can just wake up and jump into it. It requires a great deal of mind and mental training, refocusing with purposeful mission. Intensive effort and commitment is required for two people to get together to become husband and wife, essentially for the production of children for family, community, and the larger society. The hope, strength, and future of any nation lies in the family. A lady who is hoping to become a wife and a guy who is also hoping to become a husband with anticipation to be a father or mother definitely require a very strong preparation and mentorship. Whoever bakes a lady to become a good wife or a guy to become a good husband is truly a builder of nation.
It is with this in mind that Centre for Marital Affairs (CMA) is highly commending the House of God Fellowship Church (HGF). When CMA came across HGF it noted with gladness their self imposed tag which is “The righteous living church”. Curious! They must have something to offer in this age and time when majority of churches could hardly place their focus on “Righteous living” for fear of losing members, let alone “where people could worship God with peace of mind”. Definitely, HGF is a place to focus eyes on.
True to their claim, HGF church is super. There is no nonsense there. It is totally the truth of the bible you hear; prosperity messages are not a regular type, God flog and kill my enemies messages are not a regular type – every message is holistic. I think this is the kind of church Nigeria and indeed Africa need right now in order to repair the minds of millions of people that has been misled, perversed and damaged by the sermonic messages of getting it made without much struggle, and anyone that is against me should go off life etc. Very honestly speaking, churches seem to have misled so many couples who today are facing severe marital disharmony.
HGF which is located at No 3, Henry Udofia close, Newtown Estate, Ogombo Town, an axis of Ajah, Lagos, Mobile: 08050880359, Email: hgf@hgflivingchurch.com, Website: www.hgflivingchurch.com, is worth recommending to any truth seeking, mature- mind seeking person. It is indeed a place one can go for preparation to get married. A place where marital emphasis is on duties, responsibilities, obligations and privileges in marriage are thoroughly expounded, including types of relationship and moral charter that should exist between husband and wife to keep love alive.
I am happy with the head of the church in the person of Prof. Chris Onalo, who also doubles as Chief - Marital Affairs Officer of the church. He is an academic professor; no wonder therefore the church is standing on a very high moral and spiritual principles. His kinds are not many.
The purpose of this writeup is to drive genuine traffic to that church. The traffic of ladies who potentially are really and truly looking to become a good future wife, as well as young men who really and truly want to be prepared to become a responsible husband. As an NGO organization, CMA is committed to finding such a place for serious minded ladies and young men around town.
I trust Prof. Chris Onalo will prepare you to be completely at peace with your life and be on your way, confidently ready to discover your would-be husband or wife that will soon come. For the good of our community and nation, what every family need is a husband who will not break his wife’s heart; the husband who will not abandon his wife; a husband who will not brutalize his wife, a husband who will not insult and abuse his wife’s parents. Similarly, the wives that young men are looking to have are those character – beautiful ladies with perfect submission; they are not looking for a quarrelsome and contentious ladies; they are in search of ladies who will do them good.
I like to conclude by saying; distance cannot be a barrier to where good things are, go to House of God Fellowship (HGF) now – it makes sense!

Christabel
Centre for Marital Affairs