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Crime / Re: The Soldier That Scammed Me by seelawd(m): 7:07am On Nov 20, 2019 |
oladoja1: Olatunji Sunday whose picture is attached to this thread is a scammer.
He scammed me of 305,000 (all evidence payments is available with me), through his UBA Account number 2120609428, promising that he will help me get job with NDLEA.
I got his contact from a friend who works with Nigeria Navy, who I trust. My friend told me Olatunji Sunday (he works with the Nigerian Army can help me get an NDLEA job)
On calling the Olatunji Sunday (getting his contact from my friend), he told me to send my details to him requesting for 5,000 registration form fee, which I paid. The same day (9th June, 2019) he requested for another 3,000 for signing of my forms, I also gave it to him.
On the 10th June, 2019 he called me again, telling me that I will buy some things I needed for the training and it will cost 34,500, which I also gave it to him. On that faithful day in the evening he told me everything is ready, that I should start parking my bag and luggage that training is starting on the 11th June, 2019 but one boss in NDLEA has not sign that he wants to collect 40,000. I also sent it to him but he told me he didn’t received alert. It was already late to go his bank to check if the money actually entered, I told him to wait that he will see the alert but he kept on pestering me to send another one that if I come to Lokoja we will go to bank together to rectify the Issue, that I should not forget that tomorrow is training. I made sure I waited till the next day and I went to UBA, I was the money was in his account but after calling him he insisted that nothing was in his account.
I discussed the situation with my Dad and my Dad told him to send another account number and he, Olatunji Sunday sent Ecobank account 1281044124 and my Dad sent 60,000 to the account. My dad told him to give the boss 40,000 and keep 20,000 for himself.
I thought I will be an NDLEA officer until on the 12thJune, 2019, when I was calling him that when will I resume training again, he told me that all forms are ready that it remains form of guarantors and Next of Kin that I will have to pay 5,500 for it, I also paid it into his UBA account. On the 13th June, 2019 immediately after the Democracy day celebration, I have started parking my bag for training until I was called by him that there is a problem and the problem was that they have changed the boss they have before and the new boss are planning to remove names and put their own people names.
He claimed they were demanding for 170,000, to cut the story short, I begged him to help me negotiate it 100,000 but they agreed to 150,000. I sent him 100,000 first and he was threatening me that will return my money if I don’t send the balance. I sent another 50,000 to him.
On 14th June, 2019 I was calling him to know update but he was hanging up on me, but he latter got back to me that my appointment letter was ready but I need to 100,000 again unless the boss won’t sign it.
Up till now he still calling me for the remaining balances. But i have reported his account and it has been restricted and just for him to bank to write an instruction for reversal, he has been posting me. I have his pictures with me. pray |
Crime / Re: Someone Please Help Me! by seelawd(m): 5:16pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
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Crime / Re: I Have Been Defrauded By This Man by seelawd(m): 6:38pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
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Phones / Re: Icloud Unlocking Solution by seelawd(m): 3:45am On Nov 15, 2019 |
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Phones / Re: Infinix Hot 7 Pro For Sale by seelawd(m): 5:48pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
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Phones / Re: Iphone 7 Panel Issue by seelawd(m): 1:18pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
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Crime / Re: How Can I Track My Stolen Phones And Electronics? by seelawd(m): 2:08am On Nov 06, 2019 |
contact 08037111012 he helped me track mine some time ago |
Crime / Re: Please Help A Sister Find Her Missing Son by seelawd(m): 9:17am On Nov 04, 2019 |
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Pets / Re: My Puppy Is Stooling Blood by seelawd(m): 7:07pm On Nov 02, 2019 |
[quote author=myvic70 post=61762591]Please house my puppy of two moths old is stooling blood. What medication should i apply. |
Crime / Re: Man Who Stole Rubber Slippers In Bayelsa Caught, Beaten & Paraded (Photos) by seelawd(m): 6:55pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
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Jokes Etc / Re: Super Eagles New Way Of Dressing After Defeat By Croatia by seelawd(m): 6:49pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Gerald620: After their defeat by Croatia, Nigeria Players were so ashamed of their failure that they decided to hide their identity so that they would not be recognized. Moses dressed like a monk. While walking on the streets of Kaliningrad in Russia, suddenly an old lady walked up to him and said,"Hi Moses!" Amazed and angry that an old lady had recognized him, he went back and dressed like a Muslim girl, covering his whole face leaving only the eyes. Again he bumped into the same old lady and she said, "Moses, nice meeting you again!" Confused and puzzled he asked,"But how did you recognize me ma'am?" The old lady laughed out loud and said,"Are you stupid or what? It's me Iwobi.. Sorry I had to reply u in a different forum in the case of that anayo that stole ur money contact 08037111012 he is a security agent he helped me when I had a similar problem .and u if u have the guy's GSM number be it switched off it would be of great use .Best of luck |
Crime / Re: Who knows this elderly scammer of a man?Grandpa proved crime has no age limit. by seelawd(m): 6:08pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Ekaeke:
Ok tnks pls who is he?? he is a security operative he would help u track him if u are interested |
Crime / Re: Who knows this elderly scammer of a man?Grandpa proved crime has no age limit. by seelawd(m): 11:58am On Oct 28, 2019 |
Ekaeke:
I'm telling,I wasn't suspicious because he didn't ask me or the other people that came for the interview for money,his interview they even served us malt and meat pie.��� contact 08037111012 tell him the full story he would help u |
Phones / Re: I Want To Swap My New 7plus For Xsmax Or Xr , Pls Read. by seelawd(m): 6:48pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
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Phones / Re: I Want To Swap My New 7plus For Xsmax Or Xr , Pls Read. by seelawd(m): 12:39pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
is far ooo but I have neat iphone x but u will have to add money to it |
Phones / Re: I Want To Swap My New 7plus For Xsmax Or Xr , Pls Read. by seelawd(m): 12:24pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
Cypher19: I have a new iphone 7 plus with carton receipt and charger, I want to swap with iphone Xsmax or XR, DM if u want to swap 08129305451. location? |
Phones / Re: Iphone Xmax For Quick Sale. by seelawd(m): 12:21pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
location? 7ok |
Celebrities / Re: Davido: I Would Go To Jail For Chioma. I Spent N16m Shopping For Her by seelawd(m): 5:39am On Oct 26, 2019 |
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Crime / Re: Wanted For Fraud:johnbosco ABUA. by seelawd(m): 9:21am On Oct 25, 2019 |
he would abandon the account |
Crime / Re: Boy Dies 24 Hours After Playfully Snapping Inside Corpse In Benue State (Photo) by seelawd(m): 4:54pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
rest in peace fool 1 Like 1 Share |
Crime / Re: Help! Should We Drop The Police Case Even Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by seelawd(m): 4:51pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
I don't support domestic violence at all but I would advice u people to be very careful with this matter |
Crime / Re: Help! Should We Drop The Police Case Even Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by seelawd(m): 3:31pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
try to get in contact with any member of her family and report the issue to them then withdraw from their matter |
Family / Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by seelawd(m): 9:45am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Hamachi: Are you married? yes for 5years now with kids 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by seelawd(m): 8:59am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Reptyle:
So sorry to hear what you are facing.
Speaking from experience, I would say hang in there...it will all work out eventually.
I have come to realise that for most couples, the first 3 years is very challenging...especially for the men. It is that period of transition where the man is still trying to adjust to the fact that he is no longer single and he has to stop living selfishly.
It is also the period where the woman is all caught up in the emotional roller coaster of having a man she can call her own and doing her best to assert herself as the first lady...the only woman in his life.
I got married quite young and if anyone had told me that my marriage would survive the first three years, I would have doubted it. During that period, my house was a constant battlefield.
In spite of all of the upheavals, one thing was clear to both of us...we loved each other so we determined never to give up on the marriage.
Thankfully we made it past those turbulent days. It has been 12 years and I am grateful for how far we have come. My wife and I look back on those days now and we make jokes about them.
A few nuggets for you:
1. Don't stop communicating. If you have to quarrel, do so. But don't stop talking.
2. Always try to resolve conflicts swiftly. The longer it stays, the more it festers. My wife and I used to keep malice to the point that we wouldn't even remember what started the fight ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png)
3. Never move out of the house. Except if there is a threat of physical abuse, please stay and work things out. Running away from conflict doesn't resolve an issue.
4. Never insist on your "right". I know this runs contrary to everything the world preaches these days. But it works, trust me. When you got married, you basically handed the controls of your life to your husband and you took control of his. It doesn't necessarily take 2 heads to build a home. It only takes one good head. It is a painful and sacrificial process and everyone is going to call you foolish for seemingly bending over backwards to accommodate your husband's shortcomings. But I don't think it is too much of a sacrifice to make for a lifetime of peace in your home.
5. As much as possible, avoid outward interference in your home. The issues in your home aren't peculiar. But you and your husband are going to need to figure out the peculiar solutions to the issues. What works for one home might not work for another. If you must get advise, please look for someone older...not your parents. Most parents react emotionally and sentimentally in situations like this and end up misdirecting their children. Perhaps you can consider your religious leader (pastor, imam, etc) or an uncle or aunt who can look at the issue objectively and have the courage to counsel you right.
6. Determine and resolve within yourself that divorce isn't an option. I came to realise that the moment I struck divorce off my list of possible options, I became more pragmatic and determined to work things out with my wife. When you create an escape door, the tendency is that you will use it in the midst of a conflict.
7. Keep your marriage fresh. Create opportunities for fun. Help your husband understand that he isn't "trapped" just because he married you. Take him out; go clubbing with him now and then; dress hot and have crazy sex now and then. Invite "the boys" over once in a while and play hostess. Don't push them away, pull them in.
8. Become friends with your in-laws....especially your mother-in-law. Win over her affections with gifts and attention. Her goodwill towards you will be indispensable. If your husband sends you out of the house and you decide to leave, don't go to your parent's house...go to his parent's house. Sounds crazy, but this was one of the ways my wife won my family's support against me. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png)
These are some of the general principles that worked (and still work) for me. Above all, be patient. It always works out in the end. Good luck! may almighty God bless u 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by seelawd(m): 8:53am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Hamachi: Am afraid your spouse is still a boy. His circle of friends also matters in this case as their ways and talks around him has great influence on how he treats you. I wouldn't advise you to leave though but under this circumstance, giving each other time apart is often the best. Go to your moms and spend time while he feels that emptiness and watch him come around but with him begging never to use such demeaning phrase again. bad advice u met not have a home to come back to it has happened to somebody I know she left her home for three months with her kids and the man went married another woman and disowned her kids for her plsss don't try it 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by seelawd(m): 8:50am On Oct 14, 2019 |
feminist una don gather instead of looking for a solution for the couples u people are trying to destroy the home my sister be careful non of these she devil's will help u take care of ur child if u destroy ur home. Ur hubby must have someone he respects even from his own family report him to them and this whole issue will be sorted out .And don't even think about looking outside be cos I guarantee u ,u will regret it years to come |
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Crime / Re: Stolen Hilux At Federal Secretariat Abuja by seelawd(m): 8:51pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
how was it stolen |
Crime / Re: A Friend Is Looking For This Guy by seelawd(m): 9:10am On Oct 11, 2019 |
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Technology Market / Re: Ways Of Unlocking Icloud Clean Or Unclean by seelawd(m): 4:28am On Oct 10, 2019 |
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Technology Market / Re: Xiaomi Redmi Note 4 by seelawd(m): 11:10am On Oct 09, 2019 |
dukeo:
He blocked me na... Plus he was asking me for N1500 MTN card that is how e does it he would first run a trace on the imei to know the area the phone is then get the number using the phone then he will ask for 10000 to contact network providers to pinpoint the location and the details of the person using d phone that was how he did my own |