Misturaomolayo:
Dear Nairaland, Kindly push this to the front page for clarification.

Pls kindly advise appropriately if you are in my shoes , which will you opt for.

I currently work with a manufacturing company which are into production of distilleries product as an Account Officer 60,000(Entry level) with no benefits attached but job security and yearly salary review is guaranteed and now Stanbic Ibtc Bank has offered
me a contract job as a Bank Teller at their V.I office at Idejo and is a 2 years contract, subject to renewal base on performance and need for service.

Pls kindly lend you voice with respect to what i should do.

Should i continue the formal or opt for the later?

Best regards.

Like someone said that if you’re in your mid-twenties, there’s an opportunity for full-time conversion in Stanbic before or after two years. Note that this depends on your KPI. However, if you’re more than 30, Op reject the offer and continues with your manufacturing job. There is a great prospect in the manufacturing industry. May God help you to make the right decision.

Racoon:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2021/06/buhari-has-done-what-no-nigerian-president-has-ever-done-lai-mohammed/amp/

Yes, he's done what no Nigerian President has ever done by maiming the economy. Nonsensical talk.

Klass99:
Izito, this is not your personal story nah, why copy and paste it as if it is? This same tale has been posted by other users, at least they wrote at the beginning that "shared as seen"! You want to bamboozle us by carrying on as if it's your saga.

@ Sisisioge, this is not a Nigerian tale o! It is Ghanian, when I first saw this tale the currency was in cedis. I don't understand the OP's intentions in changing it from cedi to naira and making it look like this whole story is about him (a Nigerian couple and about a
Nigerian woman)

Don't mind the guy.
Below is the true story.

*My Wife’s Salary Was a Mystery Until I discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth.*


In 2016 she told me her salary was GHC950. And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only Ghc350 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. GHC4,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine. 

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.” 

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?”  He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”


My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions. 
What will you do if you are the man or woman

Your relationship is still new, so I can say whether she has an ulterior motive. My wife used to do that when we are singles. Just give her some time, but if she keeps telling you, it means you found yourself one of the loyal girls in Nigeria.

Hmmm, the hunger is real

Deathisfree:
Hi I’m going through a very difficult face at the mm.

I own a 3bed room bungalow, my friend own one too but few plots away. We bought the land together about 8 years ago and we’ve been a very good Neighbor.

When my house got to roofing, this my friend gave me some money to complete it. Infact he’s my alpha and omega, we’ve been a very good friend from secondary school.

I don’t mind if he’s seeing this ,I really adore and appreciate our friendship but at the same time. I don’t want his marriage ruined becomes of me.

December 2018, my friend got a visa and travelled to the U.S.A, when he was leaving, I drove him to the airport, he told me to please take care of his wife and I should watch over her like my own wife but unfortunately, the lady has been giving me lots of altitude so I decided not to go check her any more when ever I am around.

To shorten the long story. I work in a company, I did go home mostly Monday’s to Wednesday, my works was mostly weekends but last week i was shifted to weekdays so I go home weekend now, I have been observing a young man and my friend’s wife sneaking in and out of their house.

A woman sells provisions in our street, she told me about the guy few weeks ago, she said he always comes buy Hollandia yoghurt at night also said the first day the young man came to her shop, he came to buy a condom she has been wondering who the guy was.

Yesterday one of my co worker came around 7:30pm and I was in his tinted hilux, I saw the guy smooched my friend’s wife ass,she quickly removed his hands and they went inside ,the young man drove my friend’s car and they went inside

With everything happening now it’s obvious the lady doesn’t care again. Because I don’t see a reason why she has to be fornicating and knowing we stay in the same street.
I am so heartbroken, my friend doesn’t deserve such wickedness. Right at the moment I don’t know what to do. I believe telling my friend isn’t the solution. Please I need advice And I’m available for any question and advice.

OP get your facts right with PROOFS and tell your friend before someone else tells him. Your friend may have suspected his wife before, maybe that's why he told you categorically to take care of his wife. From your write-up, it is evident that you guys are great friends. Please do the needful asap.

You're disrespectful for saying that to your potential mother-in-law. You better apologize to her and your boyfriend, or else your relationship is on the verge of collapse.

marlow1962:
Truth be told, if not for the sake of children eh
Marriage is a total waste of time

My brother, marriage is not a total waste. We still have good girls here in Nigeria. Just pray and be faithful to God, yours will surely locate you. I'm a living witness.

I don't think these miscreants will ever stop. Their rate of extortion is alarming. I remember when we wanted to repair the borehole in my house. These people came to disrupt the project. They insisted that we must give them something otherwise they will destroy all the materials for the repair. We gave them the sum of eight thousand naira before they left.

hellomosquito:
If you know me and my husband, you would had known that we are always happy and excited to give especially knowledge to others, because we ourselves are the product of help. I am also aware that all the people that are made in this world were helped, either by information help or monetry help.

Here today till the ending of this year. I will be in charge of the giveaways. I will list what the give away will be on here. Nairaland had been a source of inspiration and 90% here are Nigerians, therefore i will be indirectly gifting my brothers and sisters.

There will be 3 gifts from which you can choose from and i will state them, but please do not drop any email or phone number, because i would not want this post banned (i am used to the bans though) but what you will do is simple.. put your contact on your signature and i will use that to contact you as i will be in the comment reading.

On a daily basis, i will edit in total how many each that had been chosen, till this year runs over by Gods grace.

GIFT 1
1. FREE KNOWLEDGE FREE EBOOKS FREE TUTORIAL (topics covered)
*Digital marketing
*Social media marketing
*Start an online business
*Make sure customers find you online
*Expand a business to other countries
*career development
*data tech
*make customers find you online
*Promote your businesses free
*How to leverage on youtube for business success
*Promote your business with content
*Whatsapp marketing
*Understand customer needs and online behavior
*Affiliate marketing for begineers
*New niched Amazon kindle publishing
*Freelancing for freebies
*Land your next job

Understand the basics of code and so on......You can also tell me what you want to learn and i will see if i have the ebook, i have 1057 ebooks written by me as we speak.

GIFT 2...
There is a daily give away of 1g data on African Giants youtube channel. (you can win daily just by learning money making online there.. you can check that out by searching on youtube (make money online african giants)
But on here i will be giving 5g daily (1g per person till 30th of this month)

GIFT 3
Get recharged... This i will be handing out to people who are willing to join my whatsapp class which is free with all ebooks free as well. If you choose this then i and hubby will be tutor you till you are an African giant with heavy pockets.


Like i said if you make known your choice i will message you. and please i will be showing proofs on here as we go on and if you win as well please deem it nice to come here to say it. because i have been on Nairaland since 2008 and i know the mentality here, please no spoil my husband name or my own small name biko.

Our dream is to impact and train 100,000 Nigerians for free and now we are just around 8,000.
If you are thinking what is in this for us, setting a dream and hitting it is our priority which you can help us achieve while people are getting blessed with knowledge and finance as we proceed on the journey. You can help share this post so that a lot of people will see it.

Cheers and happy Christmas and New year in advance

EDITED: TODAY 22ND DECEMBER, 2020 IS THE FIRST BATCH OF THE GIVEAWAY. PLEASE REMEMBER TO REMARK ON THIS PAGE WHEN YOU GET THE ORDERED GIFT. AND PLEASE LET US DELETE NUMBERS TO THOSE THAT SENT IT ON THE THREAD, I WOULD BE SO UNHAPPY IF THIS THREAD IS TAMPERED WITH.

SUMMARY
GIFT 1: 1
GIFT 2: 3
GIFT 3: 16

EDITED TODAY 24TH DECEMBER,2020.
SUMMARY
GIFT 1: 3
GIFT 2: 3
GIFT 3: 15

EDITED TODAY 29th DECEMBER 2020
1. There was a skip because i was barred from commenting, i really do not know why but i am so happy i am here to finish up the process.
2. SUMMARY
GIFT 1: 3
GIFT 2: 0
GIFT 3: 12

REMEMBER THE 30TH DECEMBER (TOMMOROW THIS GIVEAWAY WILL END BY 12 NOON SO WE CAN GIVE OUT AND ALSO PREPARE FOR THE NEW YEAR.
GOD BLESS ALL YOUR HUSTLE

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Voy:

Samsung:-
S6 ---- N00000
S8 ----N90,000
S9 ----N105,000
S8+ ----N105,000
S9+ ----N135,000
S10 ----N180000 (512GB N175,000)
S10e ----N155,000 (256Gb 175k)
S10+ ----N210,000 128GB (512Gb 230k, 1TB 250k)

Note 5 ---- N00,000
Note 4 ---- N00,000
Note 8 ---- N105,000
Note 9 ---- N145,000 (512Gb 165,000)
Note 10+ ---- N290,000 (512Gb)
Note 10 ---- N210,000 (512Gb 210,000)

S7 Edge ---- N65,000

APPLE iPHONES:-
iPhone 5s ---- N00000

iPhone 6 ----N58,000 (16Gb)
iPhone 6 ---- N00,000 (32gb)
iPhone 6 ----N68,000 (64Gb)

iPhone 6+ ----N65000 (16Gb)
iPhone 6+ ----N75000 (64Gb)
iPhone 6+ ----N00000 (128Gb)

iPhone 6s ----N60000 (16GB)
iPhone 6s ----N68000 (32GB)
iPhone 6s ----N75000 (64GB)
iPhone 6s ----N85000 (128GB)

iPhone 6s+ ---- N80,000 (16gb)
iPhone 6s+ ---- N85,000 (32gb)
iPhone 6s+ ----N90,000 (64gb)
iPhone 6s+ ----N95,000 (128gb)

iPhone 7 —— N75,000 (32Gb)
iPhone 7 —— N90,000 (128Gb)
iPhone 7 —— N100,000 (256Gb)

iPhone 7+ ----N125,000 (32gb)
iPhone 7+ ----N135,000 (128gb)
iPhone 7+ ----N148,000 (256gb)

iPhone 8 ---- N125,000 (64gb)
iPhone 8 ---- N135,000 (256gb)

iPhone 8+ ---- N190,000 (256gb)
iPhone 8+ ---- N170,000 (64gb)

iPhone X ---- N220,000 (64Gb)
iPhone X ---- N230,000 (256Gb)

iPhone XS ---- N230,000 (64Gb)
iPhone XS ---- N250,000 (256Gb)

iPhone XR ---- N220,000 (64Gb) all colors
iPhone XR ----N 235,000 (128Gb)
iPhone XR ---- N000,000 (256Gb)

iPhone XS Max —— N295,000 (64Gb)
iPhone XS Max -—- N320,000 (256Gb)
iPhone XS Max —-- N335,000 (512Gb)


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Series 2 42mm 00k
Series 3 42mm LTE+GPS 00k
Series 4 44mm LTE+GPS 000k

iwatches brand new
Series 4 40mm GPS 000k
Series 5 44mm GPS 160k

Last updated 22nd May 2020

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Can dat iPhone 7 go for 70k? Am interested!

Kvngfrosh:
Gm.....
Chuksbaby see my money on prolific
Thanks for everything

Please I need your WhatsApp no. The no on your signature is not on WhatsApp.

ChaseVibes:

Thanks alot for the review bro

If your account is on hold, ask Chasevibes to help you out. He just did mine now!

mythy70:


Baba, we are in this together. I'm not getting any survey either for like 7days now. Looking up to port to Canada, opened about 5 accounts, all on hold.

Please send the screenshot of your "about me " to me. adesegunasunmo@gmail.com

mythy70:


Sent! Check your mail

Bro. abeg help your brother. I haven't gotten any survey since my prolific account has been active. asunmoadesegun@gmail.com. Thanks!

Op, you've said it all and you're still waiting for us to advise you.
From all indications, this so-called man will kill you if you eventually get married to him. He's insecure and possessive. You need someone who will love you for who you are. You better call it quit rather than entering into a relationship full of regret. As they say, " A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage". Be focused, the right man will come in due course.

Hello Op, you need to answer these questions before you jump into the conclusion.
(1) Does she love you the way you love her?
(2) Can she trade her religion for yours even if eventually you get married?
(3) Does her parent accept your relationship with her?
(4) Can she stand it if you finally open up to her about your health conditions?
If these can be answered, then go ahead and tell her about your plans and health issues. From your write up, you're not yet ready for marriage, I don't think is advisable to tell her anything. Just play along and see what the future holds.

adesegunabayomi@gmail.com

Zabiboy:
good day nairalanders...
i came across this app that you can make a little money...you dont need to deposit money and they give welcome bonus....
i wont say much here tho...if u r interested, jzt drop
ur email...then i'll send you d link and if u have any problem jzt let me know...
since you dont need to deposit money, i guess its worth trying..the only thing u need is patience...
drop ur mail if interested

adesegunabayomi@gmail.com

Op,have been in your shoes before. I took a drastic decision and left the school...I didn't even tell the proprietress that I was leaving. The following week, the woman called me severally but I ignored her calls. She sent staffs that know my house to come to beg me, but I declined and told me why I left.
I cried my eyes out and determined I was never going back to that school. My brother we all have stories jare...
My advice for you is to follow your mind and do what you thinks is best for you...
keep your head up high, things will get better.

Pls i need somewhere I can go for IT training in Lagos or Abuja am a computer science student. Somebody help me out here.
thanks in anticipation.

Try Computer Warehouse Group. Registration is #160.Also, they link you up for jobs after the training. You can google to learn more about them. Thanks!

Good morning @ computer boy!Please,have been trying to update my windows 10 enterprise edition using various methods.Have used d method u stated below,it didn't work.what other options do I have before my system go crashing.Thanks!

Wifi

Good evening everyone,
Please have been trying to connect to the internet using explorer ,Mozilla Firefox, google crome but couldn't connect.Not only that,have been trying to update my window 8.1 pro but receiving an "error 8024402c".What could be the cause and what can I do?
Thanks for your quick response!

He is d son of God and without Him,we are nothing before God.

Congrats my brother!pls,i want to learn d shoe biz.Do u knw any expertise in shoe making?If yes,add me on whatsapp 07060428273 or 09071490666.Thanks!

Hi NLs,Have been having problem downloading music with my iPhone.i have various downloading applications like idownloader,cloud music etc. but each time I try using these links,I end up downloading nothing.please,I need your response asap.Thanks!

Congrats 2 d Angel who rocks my world as she's passing out 2day.