I absolutely agree with what Lafile wrote and am glad he used himself as an example so that people in this kind of situation will know that it is possible to stay pure while dating. Most Christians pretend to stay pure where as deep within they cannot fight the urge of sexual sin, I think it is about time we spoke out and get the required help that we need, we shouldn’t be suffering in silence, a lot of us want to please God in our relationship but most of the time we allow our emotions to take charge of us but I want us to know there is a way out, with the help of God we can stand pure.

Getting married on time is good and I would love to add there is no point in getting into any relationship that is not focused on marriage cos u will only increase the length of temptation. I have just read a book called “Boy meet girl” by Joshua Harris (same guy that wrote I kissed dating goodbye) and I will like to recommend it to anyone out there that is passionate about keeping his/her relationship pure, I was highly blessed by this book and it has given me more confident to stay pure

I want to first lit a candle for my elder brother even though I did not grow up to know you but it hurts me to my bone anytime I remember what life could have being like with you around. I have always dedicated a lot of my success in life to you. Miss you Remi.

I want to lit my next candle for my younger brother deji, just like Remi I did not get to know you but I still miss the opportunity to be a biological big sister to someone but I know God knows why you both lived a short life.

Am litting a candle for my aunty that died on the 31st of November  from cancer, the space you left is too hard to feel and no night pass by without remembering how wonderful you were even to strangers, you had a way of making everyone feel comfortable in your presence. I can still remember seeing you in that coffin and wishing you could just wake up but I know God knows best, you were a fighter to the last minute and I guess God knows why he took you on your husbands birthday. I had to a lot of things I wanted you to teach me but I guess your time was up and you had to go. Sleep at the right hand of God till we meet to part no more.

It is really sad that someone trying to do our nation proud has being a target if am not mistaken i reckon this is the 3rd atempt on him what can i say am sure the guy will be so terrified to move around now, am wishing him speedy recovery and i hope he comes back stronger. Nice forum though just joined some weeks ago and have being glued to this site.

thanks fikzy, have being to the site already but its still not giving me all i need. thanks anyway for your quick reply.

I need help on Delphi and am hoping there will be people out here that can help. I will really appreciate it. Thanks

Hello Fellow Nairaland developers,
   Am relatively new to this site but have being so fascinated about this site, i really find it quite interesting to read different peoples comment on different issues. Am a learning developer and i just started working for this firm and basically the sofware they are using is Delphi, i dont know if there is anyone on this blog that is very familiar with that language I know its not like an everyday programming language but i will really appreciate it if there is anyone that will be of help to me. I hope i will get responses. Thank you

A friend of mine sent this page to me and i actually registered because of this story, i read the story online on www.nigeriaworld.com sometime last week but i actually did not know it was a girls only school, it makes my heart bleed, how can secondary school girls commit such an attrocity, this should not be swept under the carpet, a stop must be put to all this babaric incidents. this is so sad very sad