Tudór:

Brein you wanna sleep with the girl?
Is that what pastor WF Kumuyi teaches you?

the guy attends deeper life? deeper life don suffer

ezeagu:

That makes no sense at all because we have linguistic ties with them, talk less of people in our backyard (no offence). PLus it was not our women that gave birth to all their kids.  But I'll leave this thread for Kalabari people.

we appreciate the fact that u will leave the thread for kalabari ppl, i am such there is an igbo thread some where begging for attention.

dinggle:

:oChei na true oh!, see as i dey shake.
Before i check my own, i will do 1 week fasting and prayer plus i will meet my pastor to pray seriously for me. Because no be me and Nigeria go die together GOD forbid. Nigeria leave me alone oh!, eheh. Give me my freedom release me make i go, make you go catch another person tie him luck down.

so ur pastor will pray for ur escape while he stays and die? he must really be a man of God

ezeagu:

Seunnowell, its not thats serious, but how can Kalabari people have no links with Igbo people?

the very same way igbo ppl dont have links with yorubas

ThoniaSlim:

I can't be bursting my ass out in Uni right now. . .to end up as a housewife. . .just one thing that ain't gonna happen. . .and any man I marry would have to understand and accept this or move on!

story!

Ezeágu:

Can you read, or was there another thread where I said Kalabari people are Igbo? How special are you that I would want to zip you into Igbo culture?

oh, very special and yes unlike u, I can read and comprehend

Ezeágu:

Excuse me, but

1. do we not share secret societies?

2. If the Kalabari people do a DNA test will it not trace back by a significant amount to the Igbo people, regardless of the Igbo women's allegiance to the Kalabari when married because of culture?

3. Are our homelands not in a close proximity?

4. How different are our cultures (taking into account the huge differences that are already in the man subgroups of the Igbo)?

If there was intermarrying (which equals links with genes), inter-trading, same secret societies for goodness sakes how then is there no link between us.

*btw I'm not claiming, an Ngwa man is an Ngwa man, an Enugu man is an Enugu man so there can't look at us as one homogenous nation trying to impose our homogenous culture on everyone, because were not

dude i understand u how important it is 4 u to zip us into the igbo culture but i say thanks but no thanks, i am not igbo, never was, never will be. [size=16pt]I AM A VERY PROUD KALABARI MAN, TRUE BREED! [/size]

oyinda.:

ok am back. seunnowell, i will give u a pikshur and u will use it as ur profile pic for 3mths if i win.

which kin pic bi that

oyinda.:

lol. seunnowell is ur ex?  

yes oo! nothing do me

oyinda.:

ok i'll get back at ya after i finish thinking abt what the bet wld be

lucky me, i am broke  

~Sissy~:

them neva release you since then

no ooo, no mind that jobless seun who is joblessly banning my jobless self on this jobless board  

oyinda.:

sissy who u referring to? lol

wanna bet?  

heck ya!

Ezeágu:

Some Igbo people have the surname Nwaubani (Nwa-Ubani = Child/son of Ubani) some have straight up Ubani,

Who has no link to the 'Igbo race'? It better not be any of those coastal communities your talking about or I'll kolo.

yes, i am talking abt my heritage, kalabari and we sure live by the coast

oyinda.:

she is in her 20s o. don't let her hear u

i beg to differ

no top, blue jeans

oyinda.:

lol topup ur so adorable. u look 16

really? i was thinking 12

topup:

I've been told that before, but I got annoyed because, who said a stranger was to start judging me. I could be unstable for all they know. It turned out that the guy only said it to shock me because he said that it was to catch my attention, since he knew all the other guys would feed my ego with compliments, he wanted to stand out.

u sure the guy wasn't tellin da truth? just kidding, checked your profile, u r alright

ow11:

@Kiwi

Iyimbre Ari siim. . .

I got it off that website and have heard this story from my uncle (although not like this). Pastor Dawari Braide owns that website and is a very popular Kalabari historian and publicist in PH. He also sells Kalabari-English dictionaries through some bookshops at Town market.

I think that is the story King TJT Princewill also carries but I do not think it is fixed and will like to think there's more to it especially why Igbo people say we are actually Igbos that settled in RV state.

I strongly disagree with the whole idea that we have any link to the Igbo race

michelin89:

So seun banned you, abi? Sorry!

yes o! Innocent me

michelin89:

I saw other posts from you. Even your username. Why did your mother bother to give birth to you?  Waste of oxygen.

same reason ur mother did, i guess we have something in common after all 

Romeo4real:

Well, i never knew "Garlic" was an "ascent". Gaelic, i know, but i guess u learn something every day!

michelin89:

I am not in the mood for jokes. Reply to the topic or Bleep off!

neither am i, the joke is on u

jules123:

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[b]Baby, you're the boom. You just hit my mind with the right words and plan. Thanks alot for your [size=16pt]senseable, reasonable,[/size] matured and [size=16pt]opinionated contributions [/size] i wish will have more people like you in NL with creative ideals and advice instead of shallow minded people who have nothing upstairs but insulting and abusive words which they call advice. More grease to your elbow. And to all those whom had contributed to this post senseably i wish u the best of everything. One More thing please, i also appreciate those whom had criticized this post but with one suggestion that they learn not to be insulting, but be constructive in their criticisms. Cheers!!!

grammar don suffer, "reasonable" and "opinionated" at the same time  talk about an oxymoron statement if ever i saw one 

@ post

no bi u say u and ur almost virgin wife will be getting married and she is in naija. and how did british woman fall into this pic now. more so what ever happened to "pros and cons" that u have 2 murder english with the "bads and goods" and u had the nerve to say u are a doctor? u get mind ooo

Hollysmile:

Dis irony stil gets me wonderin. It has become so obvious in our present day, dat ladies love it more hangin out and dating guys who tel em nothin but a whole bunch of lies, but on the long run (after kickin aside the Mr. Nice Guys), they go wishin, prayin and yearnin for a man who'll, in all honesty, love em and marry dem.
Can someone pls, help clear dis doubt of mine witout bein biased?. It really makes me wonder. Or is my inference wrong?

u are so right. i used to date this AA chic and one day we took a long walk by the lake enjoying the cool breeze and talking then having our picnic. she suddenly had a bright idea that the next weekend we should go some where special and i replied sure why not. i then asked her where she wanted to go, she said a flower show taking place down town, my face dropped. she wasn't very pleased that i wasn't thrilled about going to see flowers on my precious weekend. so to make her happy i had to say flowers are great(yeah right! ) and that it will be fun(i only had a week to come up with an excuse why i wont be able to make it) if i had pretended that i love flowers from the beginning she will think i am a great guy, me showing my true feelings about flowers made her think i am insensitive

michelin89:

How would you react if someone tells you: you are not so goodlooking but I'd really like to date you. I think you are cool and fun and we could make a good couple together.

Men and women, what would you say?

if the guy was referring to u then he has a point on the "not good looking" part, as per the wanting to date u, that is just the "jazz" working, the one that ur village babalawo gave u. don't let it bother u, it will soon wear off and the guy will see the light

Akin, UK:

I have a girl friend for five years and when we met, she told me she was a virgin. Her mother equally told me the same story that her two female children were not waywards and I believed and I told her that so I am and never known any girl up till now. We moved together for 3yrs b4 I left Naija and I kept her as I met her. Before I left Naija more than two years ago, we went privately (only the two of us) to the registry to register the wedding.

Today, she was asking me whether I want to marry her because she told me she was a virgin but I have never thought of that question because all the ladies that have have been my friends have always been virgins. The last was the one we did MSc together in UI in 2003. I have never asked any of them and neither did I tell them that I have not known any woman. The way I used to discover used to be when I attempt to act as if I wanted to make love with them and they would tell me they have never done it b4 and I tell them mine story as well.

Now this my fiancee (already registered as wife) is now telling me that she is not sure because when she was in secondary school at 17yr old, his boy friend attempted to finger her but she shouted when she felt the pain and when the guy wanted to insert her screw, she prevented him by shouting. Now she said she is feeling she is still a virgin because she did not see any blood during the incident and did not know how far the guy's finger penetrated. She came to visit me in UK and wanted us to have sex but I told her we are yet to get the Godly and moral licence from God thru church wedding which we both aim to do soon.

Can a lady be a virgin and not sure??

Ladies and gentlemen of Naira land, what do you think of her and how do you think I shud react?

nairaland! una too much i wan die of laughter, how una dey take generate this kin stories sef? long story short, she no bi virgin, but thanks for the tales by moon light story sha

Itohan123:

I'm not talking about the percentage of women who are prostitutes in Benin City, I'm talking about the percentage of Benin City women IN EUROPE that are prostitutes.

I have never met a Benin City woman in Europe that was not a prostitute or at least not affiliated with prostitution.


Discuss

well 105%, who is counting? 

@ post

it is just going to be one big "happy" family

acidrop:

gimme a min alone with my husband
honey wat happened, hw can u be gettingin trouble at this tym, yesterday nyt i was having pains infact i tot my water broke but there wa sno one ther to hold my hands, this is the most crucial period i need you

i am so sorry dear, i have been working hard trying to make more money to take care of u and the baby

*Hauwa*:

they have a term for it where i live


Stay at home mom

or

Home Engineer

Ejadamen:

@ iice, thanks. I just learned something new. Nice shoes!

@ topic, white t-shirt and grey shorts

does that mean our class is canceled?

joyblinks:

2face.

in this case, i think i have many names but i will chosse
Ann Macauley.

LMFAO!


I am Larry King

sir t:

Pple just dey talk luv as if say na moimoi wey u fit buy for market. If truly she loves him, why didn't she forgive him in the first place? My brother, run for your dear life., danger is looming!!!!!!!!

my broda, hin mumu-city no get part 2. dis get nothing 2 do with love or lust but plain stupidity by 2 ppl who are suppose to be adults. while one is trying to be a gold digger, the other is trying to play the gold digger for a fool, i only pity the children that will be dragged into this future drama. i hope they have their own reality TV for us to watch