dan9ice:
Op I like them your gramma
Learnt something today

Na who they do relationship get cry
No be person like us wey don go two terms without it..

Thanks bro

kals4luv990:
my girl knw say na my weakness..bt one day i go shock am

Waiting for your testimony

Dicedpineappple:
I made one nigga cry like one year...

In the middle of settling an issue,oga start to dey cry
In my mind I was like "What's this nonsense" ,I tried to join the chorus make the issue for settle fast fast,for where ,tears no gree come...

Oga later broke up with me sake of say, I no cry, say him dey date person wey no get conscience...

Still funny to me till date...
I used to hate my crying, buy now, I love it , show u and be manly and less manly sometimes

You must really be tough

tooth4tooth:
Yes oo,countless times. Sometimes I might be going too far and become uncontrollable. The moment she bursts,I sheath my sword.

Remember she is the weaker vessel

marveangel:
I don't like anyone crying around me, I find it quite irritating

You don't want to co habit with a stone hearted woman

luwiizy:
Please don't cry, you are more likely to harden my heart

They cry when you threaten them with a break up

lomprico:
yes o, plenty times. na my weakness

Guess you need to learn how to ignore her tears and embrace logic

Emotional, exaggerated and saccharine disposition best describes the female gender at times. A tool many have successfully deployed to manipulate the men in their lives.
Intrinsically, men hardly give in to scurillous tales lacking verifiability and authenticity.
Paradoxically, most men fall victim of the female gender's tact and sagacity to win with tears.
As a man, have you been bought over by your lover's tears or you stick to your guns of logic and reasoning?
As a woman, how has calculated tears paid off in your life's oddyssey.

Psalms 18:26
[26]With the pure thou wilt shew thyself pure; and with the froward thou wilt shew thyself froward.

She got what she deserved.

Teenager years, it was beans all the way.
Young Adult life so far, eaten bread to an outrageous degree.

This thread is actually for married folks who literally miss their days as singles.

Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn, being single is bae....no surprised billing at alllllllllll

, I can relate

If there was an opportunity to return to single life would you jump at it? Do you literally miss your days as a bachelor / spinster? Or are you indifferent about it?
What's your take?

Hathor5:


And yet you are asking us which is the best for the man and not the kids.

I wish you the best with whatever choice you make.

The kids can have a good life in either of the 2 scenarios , it all depends on the actors.

Hathor5:


You have a choice to get married or not. And I have no problem if you choose not to. All I am saying is that when children are involved, it's no longer only about you.

Life is far from perfect and I surely can't die because I want my kids to live in a "perfect" environment.
Besides, that "ideal" atmosphere is a myth.
Giving my best to my kids is my priority with or without a woman.

frozen70:
I don't know why you men are scared of marriage yet you want to be sleeping with a woman

Women are the most loving humans to be with

You can only see them displaying when you men trigger their emotions

Yeah right , the most loving humans to be with and equally the most dangerous people on earth.
The death of several men is traceable to their wives directly or indirectly.

Hathor5:


It's not about the institution.

Ask yourself:

Would I rather grow up with my mother and father loving each other and living under one roof?

Or would I rather grow up with my parents separated not being with one of them on a daily basis?



Never said anything else.



There is a HUGE difference between shit happening and making poor choices.



Someone who asks what is better for him without even considering the kids' interest in all of it is not fit to be a father. I stand by it.

The ideal scenario you're pushing is no longer the barometer by which good fathers or children are rated.

A child can grow under any circumstance and turn out well in life and because life doesn't give people choices of what environment to grow, it shouldn't matter the environment we find ourselves. What matters is what we make of it.

And there are no poor choices in this matter, it's a matter of perspectives.

You still can't postulate who should or shouldn't be a father. I know you're not suggesting that attempting to raise a kid as a man makes him unfit to be a father.

Hathor5:
If you think that baby mama brings no drama you are in it for a BIG surprise.

And before you ask which is better for the man, ask which is better for the children.

If you don't ask this question first, you are not fit to be a father.

No need to overrate the marital institution

There are kids raised by single parents who are better of those raised by both

Shit happens in life, a married person today can become single tomorrow for many reasons

Lastly, don't be hasty to conclude that a man is not fit to be a father.

The demands of living with a woman are too numerous to count. Virtually all the functions of a wife can be improvised in today's world. Perhaps that explains why some men prefer to have kids without necessarily tieing the knot with any woman.
Which of these 2 options is best for a man to live long?

BirtherOfKings:
I don't have courage to hawk bread
Sun will finish me and cos me to run back inside

Read again, Hawking and distributing are not the same

Someone plans to remove the roof of a bungalow to deck it. Can the removed roofing materials be reused after the new structure is placed on the decking?

It has never been an easy feeling the times I had none to give Awkward and odd was the feeling ,to say the least. It should always be a thing of joy to be able to give cheerfully to the God who gave us all things. I love to always give to the Lord.

ArticleBeast:

Very ungrateful bastard

How dare you call him a bastard?

tiswell:
Hustle o make you no go dey wait for inheritance

You miss the point. Hustle or no hustle, a good parent leaves an inheritance for his children's children. Inheritance is your right as a child in a family and it's meant to augument your life.

HenryDion:


Old enough!!!

Folks old enough don't consider sex time as the best time of their lives.

Oesophagus99:
he's only 4!

do you have a problem with that?

Thought as much, this thread is for mature minds not babies

HenryDion:
Sex is not overrated, as lack of it can make your life miserable even if you have billions in your account.

Having sex, with someone who means the world to you can help manage depression, anxiety and improve your overall mode thanks to the love chemicals.

Just get your rock and die, and have the best time of your life. Trying to discourage people from sex is one of the traits of an incel.

Don't do that!

How old are you?

OgThanos:
Yes. Sex was once overrated, but certainly not any more..
You can now get sex at your fingertips
But bro,, make I no lie, sex sweet o, just do it with the right person at the right time. Ciao

Sure it's sweet but outright marriage, it's too costly.

If you still run after sex like it's food, you need to grow and get busy with life. There is a lot more to life than sex. Trading a beautiful future for momentary benefit is not logical. At this stage, life should have taught you enough lessons to make you control your libido. If you're not learning your lessons, too bad.
Besides procreation,Is sex really worth the cost? Check out the profile of sex outside marriage
A. Terminates life abruptly
B Causes Unwanted pregnancies
C. Turns married men to polygamous men
D. Drains people of their hard earned income
E. Opens the window for multiple spiritual battles
F Can make you a victim of Thunderbolt(Magun)
G. Brings shame and disgrace when you're caught in the act.
F Wastes your time and resources. Imagine travelling from Lagos to P/H just to have sex
G. Can shatter your dreams suddenly.

Sex ain't all that, there are deeper causes of existence.

DoggoneDogg:
Your made men - bank MDs, CEOs, Ministers, Heads of big public parastatals, Permanent secretaries etc - are all working for salary till 65 but some ignorant itunes gift card low budget yahoo boy in your friend's list will tell you he can never work for salary & he is his own boss yen yen yen.

Yet in his life, he may never reach the heights of those men I highlighted above while you can if you know your onions.

Okay.

but you know salary jobs just don't work for some people. They keep having issues and changing jobs till they get tired of it all

At what point can a man quit salary jobs
1. After attaining financial strength
2. After establishing a profitable business
3. After years of job hunting without success

Just thinking out loud

petra1:


haba . many Nigerian ministers have been ministrying all over the world. pastor chris ministers with benny hinn.
arch bishop idahosa syarted ministrying in America since the 80s

At what ratio?