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Crime / Re: Nigerians Dares Armed Pakistani Police To Shoot Them, As Fights Breaks Out by Shancca: 3:37am On Sep 11, 2023
Supremos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBV_0FI2iRQ?si=jGr2srN6Nkk8W2Dh




What are you doing in Pakistan for goodness sake? What? What? You dare them to shoot. Kai!

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Family / Re: Should Marital Advice Be Taken From An Unmarried(single) Person by Shancca: 5:31pm On Sep 05, 2023
TimT:
I am single... I have a friend who is married. We always hangout at least every weekend... But last weekend, he didn't come around I called but he didn't give me a tangible reason...
So yesterday, he came around my place, I noticed his mood isn't as cheerful as it used to be... I asked, what was wrong?. He said "You Neva marry you no go understand".
He wanted to say more, but I said no need, he shouldn't say anything.. till he left I kept quiet.. I didn't say anything...
So I want to ask o, if na only married person fit give advice to who don marry...

Just forget it, you cannot.

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Career / Re: Passion VS Money - I Need Your Advice by Shancca: 5:01pm On Sep 04, 2023
rottable:
Good Day Niairalanders,

I am caught in a dilemma currently. I am currently working for a top telecom agency as a sales agent. The job is extremely demanding (monday-sunday). Although the salary is not much, I have been able to sustain my family with it because of some tips I get there.

I recently secured another job in tech which is what I have passion for and less demanding with future hope of something better but with a lower salary

Should I forfeit a known for unknown which I don't know the outcome yet or just continue with the job I have less interest in?

I am confused now because Nigeria's economy is not smiling. I need help please 🙏🙏🙏

My brother, go for passion. It’s quite dumb to ask this question but I can understand our background as Nigerians. We don’t really know what passion means. All we care about is money and money. Passion makes you live a fulfilled life without fear. Passion will take you places you never imagine. My brother, don’t make that mistake.
Family / Re: My Husband Has Been Doing Me Yahoo Yahoo! by Shancca: 8:18pm On Sep 03, 2023
TyroneP:
You know all those stories you read online and you say, ‘eiyahh, stories that touch.” Hmm, my sister, that is my story, o!

This man, yes, I will refer to him as this man. When I met him years back, I was already working and driving a small car, you know those Picantos that flooded Lagos in those days? Yes, I was one of those who owned one. I was lucky to have landed a good job but aside from that, na sharp Ibo babe I be na, I know how to do market well.
I started a shuttle bus business on the side; for a church. I got my younger brother to run it for me. After about two years, we got another one; at this time, my husband and I had begun to court, he was doing business in Dubai then.
Then Dubai was a very hot destination for Nigerians and I honestly thought his business was doing good.

What was he doing? Buying and selling na? What else? All kinds of stuff; computer parts, female wears…stuff, sha!
Ok, when the matter got to the point of Marriage, he went to know my people in the village. They met with his, you know the rest how these things are, we had our Igba kwu and church. A few years later the kids began to come, we have five children!
Along the line, his business just began to crumble and this happens when you are fraudulent; you cannot sustain good business on fraud, you just can’t!

To be honest, I began to suspect he wasn’t doing genuine business shortly after we got married. He was dodgy about certain things, certain monies coming in, you know, I would ask him for certain papers and he was quite dodgy about them. I decided to mind my own business, after all he had been doing his thing before we met, so which one be my own?
I also knew I had to separate my business from him. I continued to use my maiden name in all my transactions on my own business.

Then he ran into customs wahala in Dubai, his goods were seized and that marked the end of things for him. Naturally as his wife, I encouraged him to be positive, I told him he had to get the right papers, organize his business in such a way that he would not raise red flags every time he passes through customs.
At that time, my job and businesses were thriving, I had five buses in my fleet, I had two schools and the church as clients; also, I had already bought a land from doing cooperative in my office.

Now, that land was bought with the mind that at least, I would be able to give my sons something to inherit. Land is a surer investment; transport business is good but buses always run down, break down, need fixing with you spending money…you get?
So, I first got a piece of land which I bought in my maiden name. That one became wahala for oga at home. He hala me tire, we had long quarrels. He wanted me to put his name on the papers for the land, me kwa, I refused, instead I put the name of my first son; we have three boys and two girls.

I then purchased a second land, again I used my second son’s name….I was just doing business as per say, e dey my blood and this job may not last. I wanted something to retire to as well; I am not the type of woman who waits for a man to provide everything for her and in a way, yes, I wanted to support my husband’s hustle, if he was unable to provide for us, would I fold my arms but no bi say make I kuku carry the load of provision for my head.

But even before the wahala of his business, I was paying school fees, rent, fueling our gen, paying house helps, lesson teacher, driver…Nne, I was Mrs Man in the house o!
Things got bad and my husband just became a degenerate!
You know, he would faff around and go to the club in the evening and come back at past 3am! Biko which kind wahala be dis?
So, I decided to help out, na, isn’t that what a good wife should do?
I swear, I regret it to date!

What did I do? I asked my brother, who I run the businesses with, I mean the one who manages the fleet of buses and over sees the new business we began, to allow my husband to join him, so at least he would have a sense of responsibility, instead of him parading night clubs like a male prostitute!
Abi? As he goes to clubs, no bi my money e dey go spend there?

Husband joined my brother and after a few weeks, na so so complain e dey complain; my brother did this, my brother did that, wahala every day… ol Gehl, I had to ask my brother to leave!
Because the quarrels were everyday and for my peace of mind, I just begged my brother, biko move to the other things we are doing; I asked him to focus fully on the nylon business we had just begun because all I heard every day was my husband complaining and my brother calling to tell me to tell my husband to back off!

Hummn. My sister like I told you, I still had my job and I had five children to raise, so my mind was most times not on the bus business or nylon business.
Then under my husband, who claimed he was helping me save cost that my brother was squandering, the buses would develop fault more often than before; yes, during my brother’s time, the buses too had problems, so it wasn’t a new thing for me.

The difference was that the cost of maintenance skyrocketed! My husband fired the old drivers and hired new ones then he would bring mechanics and his new drivers to me and they would complain about this and that and ask me to bring huge sums of money. At first, I would just sign the cheques for payment of these parts but after like six months, I began to document the things being repaired.
It was just on a hunch; I discovered I was being fleeced by the drivers and mechanics…they were fixing the same things they claimed had been fixed earlier.

Na every six months dem dey repair fuel pump? Gear box? Shocks?
I vexed, one day, I accused one of them of being a thief and cursed him and told him because of this thing he did to me God would punish him. Do you know what the man told me? He said, ‘Madam, na your husband dey do am, na hin tell us to increase price then he will pocket it!’
Nne, I shock but to be sincere, I no too shock because my brother had said the same thing months back.
The driver dropped the bus key and stopped working for us.
So, I had to call my brother, I told him and he told me some of the drivers had called him to tell him the same thing but that he didn’t want to ruin my marriage so he kept quiet after the first time he told me.

Chineke! I said which marriage? Marriage that I had been the one managing since the day we got married. I paid the rents, paid the hospital bills for delivery of all five children, paid the maids, the drivers, bought the land and…and yet he squanders what he gets on ashis at clubs! Abi you think I don’t know that he meets with ashis? Or is he meeting his aunties at the club?
Biko shift o!

I told my brother, enough is enough!
So, I am telling you the same, I no do again… to your tent o Israel!

Nigeria Series written and edited by Peju Akande and based on true stories

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/07/chai-my-husband-has-been-doing-me-yahoo-yahoo/


I hate lazy men. I no need to hear second story from the man. For the fact say your Dubai business crash and you no get savings, nwanne you are stupid to the core.
Romance / Re: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by Shancca: 5:13pm On Aug 24, 2023
addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

My brother, if you are Catholic, please see the marriage tribunal office immediately. Do not stop your complaint at sex, make sure to point out all the contempt treatment you have received from her. Your wife was badly raised probably. Any married woman who values her work more her family is not a wife but a spinster.

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Crime / Re: Ehi Nosakhale Ese: I Was Raped In My Anus, I Can’t Sit Down Normally by Shancca: 1:19am On Aug 07, 2023
Islie:
•Seeks Diaspora Commission’s help to recover property seized from her



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/08/i-was-raped-in-my-anus-now-i-cant-sit-down-normally-france-based-nigerian-woman/


This is really sad! I don’t even know what to say; is it the trauma or the lost of hope? But one thing, those guys who testified that you trafficked them to Europe, if your hands are clean, they will never know no peace. May God help you recover what was stolen from you and give you the fortitude to bear the bodily harm done to you.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Putin Gifts Zimbabwe President Mnangagwa A New Helicopter (Photos) by Shancca: 5:18am On Jul 28, 2023
WriterNig:


🇷🇺 Russia's President Vladimir Putin has gifted his Zimbabwe counterpart a Mil-38 presidential helicopter, according to 🇿🇼 Zimbabwe's ministry of information.

The gift will be delivered soon, the statement posted on social media said.

President Emmerson Mnangagwa is attending the Russia-Africa Summit in St Petersburg along with other African leaders.

Russia also pledged to provide free grain to Zimbabwe and five other African countries.

Zimbabwe has long-standing ties to Russia dating back to the war of liberation against white-minority rule.

It is among the African countries that has maintained a neutral stance in the war in Ukraine, refusing to condemn Russia for the invasion.



Zim, the only country without a currency but has a central bank.
Travel / Re: Visa Denied by Shancca: 7:52pm On Jul 21, 2023
Pheleecity13:
Visa denied today 21st of July, 2023

Vo:Good morning
Me:Good morning

Vo:Have you ever been to the US?
Me:No, I never had a reason to until now

Vo:Do you have a family there?
Me:No, I don't

Vo:Do you know anybody in the US?
Me:Yes, I have my family friend there?

Vo:what does she do there?
Me:she is a student

Vo:who is sponsoring you?
Me:My dad, he is..... (Cuts off)

Vo: what does he do
Me:He is a successful business man, he's the CEO of bleep global services, he deals with the importation of cars and cars spare parts and the exportation of agricultural products, he's also into real estate, he earns 50m annually

Vo:what are your postgraduate plan?
Me: I will be coming back to Nigeria for the compulsory national youth services, after which I will seek employment in top food companies and hotels, I will do that for a while because I will love to start up my own baking shop and culinary school where I can impact knowledge in those that are interested in culinary world.

Typed for a while and passed me the blue paper.

Please what could be wrong?

If you don’t have a job in academia or federal ministry, traveling to the US for postgraduate studies with your own funds is like passing through the eye of needle. Very rarely they issue visa because you have no home ties. But with packaging, one can land the visa without issues.
Health / Re: Anambra Man & His Family Found Lifeless First Night After Moving Into New House by Shancca: 11:06pm On Jul 20, 2023
post=124539878:
A Middle-Aged Man, his wife and two children died after reportedly inhaling poisonous fumes from generating set at their residence in Nkwele Ezunaka, near Onitsha, Anambra State, Reports.

gathered Ifeanyi from Enugu state, a trader at Onitsha Bridge Head Market, had planned a surprise package of moving into a new apartment for his wife who put to bed few days ago.

A family source said it was same night they moved into the apartment to celebrate both the new born baby and the mansion together that the incident occurred.

The source said: “The entire members of the family were enjoying themselves when suddenly there was a power outage. The man had to put on the generating set stationed at the veranda close to the bedroom.

“The celebration continued into the night before they all slept off and didn’t remember to put off the generating set.

“The next morning, a friend who supposed to join them in the celebration but was unable went to felicitate with them only to discover that the doors were locked with the generating set still on.

“After knocking continuously without response, he alerted other neighbours who forced the door open and saw the lifeless bodies.”

further learnt that the wife and one of the daughters were still unconscious when they were rushed to Borromeo hospital but later died after efforts to resuscitate them, including fixing them on oxygen failed.

“It was only the 4-day old baby survived without any crisis which raised more curiosity on the circumstances of the death of others,” the source added.

Manager of St. Charles Borromeo Hospital, Onistha, Rev. Fr. Izunna Okonkwo confirmed that only the new born baby was in stable condition when they reached the hospital, while other four had already died before arrival to the facility.

Also confirming the report, Police spokesperson, Tochukwu Ikenga, described it as unfortunate, saying circumstances surrounding their death were still unknown.

“Yes, the unfortunate incident happen and we are yet unravel the circumstances surrounding their death.

“The Commissioner of Police directed the Divisional Police Officer in the area to find out what happened.

“The information he gathered shows it happened and the particular house has been identified while the inquiry is still ongoing.”

https://twitter.com/Ikayben/status/1681311025050824706?s=20

Very terrible news.
Family / Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Shancca: 9:31pm On Jul 13, 2023
questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on

You have seen something bad, you have to act before it gets bad. Please admonish her before no one.
Celebrities / Re: Actress Cynthia Okereke Is Dead by Shancca: 12:04am On Jul 13, 2023
owukpa:


https://idomavoice.com/breaking-actress-cynthia-okereke-is-dead/

My God! Ojeli nwangwu! Kai. May her soul rest in peace.😭
Romance / Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Shancca: 3:22pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:
I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible


Quit masturbation and focus on what makes you happy when you are around her. You won't remain a boy forever. If you skip this advice, time shall tell.

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Celebrities / Re: "Davido Keeps Getting Chioma’s US Visa Denied On Purpose" - Anita Brown by Shancca: 8:46pm On Jun 30, 2023
TemplarLandry:
If the low-key wedding they had wasn't a sham, she's already elegible to apply for American citizenship and start carrying the Blue Passport. Davido's American citizenship is probably why she's always playing “mumu”. And unfortunately, her bag-Ifeanyi is no more.


Like the blue passport comes in handy as you said? It will first get her a green card before the passport if their marriage was legit
Business / Re: CBN Sets N50,000 As Daily Limit On Contactless Payments by Shancca: 12:32am On Jun 29, 2023
PHIPEX:
I noticed this nonsense today on my account. This is another policy somersault. This people are only interested in frustrating Nigerians.

How do you peg my daily transfer to 50k meaning we should all return to queuing in the banking hall? Why are we returning to 1990 Banking system instead of going forward?



Seriously, with your comment, it just confirmed to me that Nigerians have problem. Haha! 50k is even too much for contactless transactions. This is to protect you from theft in case you lost your card. UK's is ÂŁ30. Beyond ÂŁ30, you cannot use that card for contactless transaction. You have to opt for cash or some other means. To be honest, we might not see change in this country while we wait tirelessly for it. Damn!

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Science/Technology / Re: Helen Ugoeze Okereke Develops Electronics Controlled With Speech (Video) by Shancca: 9:25am On Jun 27, 2023
benjackugo:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AP7TG7dPCEg

19 Year-Old Enugu Lady Develops Electronics Controlled With Speech (Photos, Video)




American Eagle is calling, Tinubu and his cohorts are sleeping and snoring.
Travel / Re: Why Our Govt Banned Dependents Visa For Nigerian Students – British High Comm. by Shancca: 11:52pm On Jun 21, 2023
Zupay:
This September/October UK school resumption, is the "last bus" for those coming with dependants.

A friend of mine who came as dependant showed me a WhatsApp group he belonged to, it has over 450 members.... all former staff of a particular commercial bank in Nigeria, who all don japa come UK as students or dependants.

What got me laughing was how they introduce themselves when they newly joined the group....I am (name), (branch), (last position held), (UK town or city presently in).....I don show, make una show me the way!😆😆😆😆

Visas to dependents even this September will be stringent. You can't be smarter than the British. If you doubt am try. They will give you study visa but not dependent visa to take your family along.

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Agriculture / Re: Some Success Stories; My Chilli Pepper And Tomato Farming by Shancca: 7:25pm On Jun 20, 2023
Interesting conversations. I hardly read threads on Nairaland but this right here is very informative and educative. I am a core believer in food security and climate actionable research. As a result, I am doing my PhD research modeling the impacts of future climate risk on crop productivity.

Btw, my first degree was Ag Engineering and couldn't be more proud!

To whoever that is farming, please keep up your good works. In a fluttering economy like Nigeria, only those with means of supply survive better.

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Science/Technology / Re: Man Mistook This Deadly Viper For A Python, Nearly Killed by Shancca: 2:33am On Jun 13, 2023
ArchiLimited:
In Igbo this snake is known as "echi eteka". Tomorrow is too far

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Son of the soil
Education / Re: Breakdown Of The Student Loan Bill by Shancca: 1:55am On Jun 13, 2023
Ezigboune:
This is a wrong move from the president

Give your reason fellow
Travel / Re: Two Passenger Trains Derail In Eastern India. 280 Dead, 900 Injured by Shancca: 12:01am On Jun 04, 2023
HonNL:


SOURCE


@Narendra Modi, India PM



SOURCE

Ashwini Vaishnaw, India’s railway minister, said a high-level probe would be carried out, as the political opposition criticized the government and called for Vaishnaw to resign.

@Ashwini Vaishnaw


SOURCE



SOURCE

Disturbing Videos: https://twitter.com/CitizenFreePres/status/1664742541982572544?t=SqiVrYSC23DcTNSCoFp-8Q&s=19

https://twitter.com/BBCIndia/status/1664894417734443013?t=Q1Sc5I_BNzA_T-joGvnlTw&s=19

This is too much. May grant fortitude to the bereaved families. India is well positioned to handle situation like this and the news communication showed their commitment to rescue the victims.
Celebrities / Re: Ooni, Pete Edochie And Kanayo Handshake Sparks Controversy Online (Video) by Shancca: 11:22pm On May 25, 2023
Naijalarry:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=im0cHn2jXGc



Source- https://punchng.com/ooni-pete-edochie-handshake-stirs-controversy-on-social-media/

We should be careful how we bias what should be and spew rubbish without context. Nigeria is simply a geographical expression and so different ethnic group have their culture and traditions. If the eastern Nigeria were to be a different country, how will anyone from the west juxtapose or dictate how people from other extraction should greet their kings? Kings are made to be respected by his people and not people outside his clan. Respect is admiration. If Pete Edochie feels the need to show that respect, he would have gone ahead to do so, but then Pete is even a strong titled Chief in Eastern Nigeria and so command his own respect. Please Nigerians, let us respect and enjoy the British contraception called Nigeria in peace. We can build a lot economically together.

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Education / Re: My Younger Brother Is Having Serious Issues In The University by Shancca: 8:38pm On May 21, 2023
PaNnamdi:
My younger brother studying biochemistry at the University of Benin have had about 5 carry overs. Now he is in his third year, and he is seriously depressed. I have seriously reprimanded him and also consoled him but I don't want him to spill and based on the fact that when am in school I never had issues like this, I decided to bring this online.

Is it possible for him to drop some of the mandatory courses in his department(note not core courses o,but mandatory courses) to accommodate for the carry over courses he had.

Please I need legit answers from those who are experienced in issues like this.

Mod u can place or more this to the rightful thread, Some might still be passing through this situation too in silent.

Problems like this are meant to be discussed with his lecturers. But you see Nigerian students, they are the worst set of students on Earth. They always frustrate the hard works of Nigerian lecturers and even in some cases, try to rub shoulders with them. Your brother probably has an academic advisor whom he can always meet for academic advice; easy peasy. Tell him to have a one on one with his HOD or Dean of his faculty. I was in his shoes 10 years but I wasn't shy to approach my lecturers.

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Romance / Re: Curvy Albino In Viral Dance Video by Shancca: 4:56am On May 13, 2023
BrightAhiah:
Albino is albino, no rate of hyping will EVER change it, if I'm lying then give her any script to read in broad daylight.

Like if you agree, share if you disagree

Let's see who wins


What kind of hopeless comment is this? So albino no be human being?
Politics / Re: Ekweremadus: Those people can kill me, I want to remain in the UK - Nwamini by Shancca: 5:49am On May 07, 2023
Mitchy49:
After you have caused them pains, agony and troubles?.
Bro, you're on a long thing. I really pity Ekweramadu and his family, especially his sick daughter. I pray God to heal her. I'm willing to Donate my Kidney to ensure that she is fine. Of this is the only thing I can do for humanity and wipe her tears, I will do. Let someone tell Sonia that I am ready to give out my kidney to her. I wouldn't take a dime. I wouldn't. God be with the Ekweremadus family.
Nairaland, pls allow God to touch your hearts to help me. Ulcer has reduced me to nothing. And Hunger has escalated it. Things are just so bad with work. Pls help me with anything u can pls

I cringe reading this. I wish he is your brother. That's
my word. Deal with him being your brother.
Politics / Re: I’ll Go All Ways To Get Back My Mandate – Peter Obi by Shancca: 11:35pm On May 01, 2023
Thekaghan:
Who is encouraging this man? I guess he wants to stay relevant.

I guess we black people are not use to perseverance which is why it is foreign to you that someone is persevering in your very before for the first time. It explains a lot our space in science and technology. We never knew that it took Michael Faraday 10 years to get electricity experiment concluded, making it possible for you to actually your phone.
Politics / Re: South-East Has Highest Number Of Poor People Per Square Miles - StatiSense by Shancca: 2:25am On Apr 22, 2023
FuglyGurl:


https://twitter.com/StatiSense/status/1649412439958495233?t=vuwzQ53fjy2fvynMert9gQ&s=19

Which probably make sense. We fought a war that killed over 5 million people, crashed investments and then the fed gave us ÂŁ20 postwar. If we recorded a few numbers above SW, and North, it probably mean that these regions have been sleeping all their lives.
Education / Re: My First Semester Result Without Any Expo (pics) by Shancca: 2:17am On Apr 22, 2023
TradingGod:
now that you mention US

I have realized that it is this same certificate people that believe only japa is the way out of poverty because they couldn't find a job here in nigeria


If only they know that it is their skill that will provide the job for them and not certificate

No wonder many of them japa to US and start washing plates and working as a security guard
And these are people that spent millions of naira plus 5+ years in the university getting a degree in nigeria

And if you try to correct them to focus on the skill the certificate brings, they will act as if they know more than you

You have made correct assertions but I will still add that we have a failed institution as a country. Skill acquisition starts from any level of education in developed countries. Children is kindergarten start building complex castles as take home and in-school projects. Then on getting to colleges, their minds are already sharpen to adapt in any skill-getting terrain.

In Nigeria, the teaching design focus on grades which in no way measures intelligence but we are made to believe so much in it. Our system need total overhaul but then Nigerians should know that priding in certificate without skill makes one unemployable. Infact, expect to predict your future without skill. There is no village people to blame.

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Education / Re: My First Semester Result Without Any Expo (pics) by Shancca: 2:37am On Apr 21, 2023
TradingGod:


Thank you very much

if you Look closely you will see that the people shouting no jobs in nigeria are the same people that depend on their certificate for their survival

Can a very good plumber shout no job?

Can a very good programmer shout no job?



These certificates people will refuse to listen that certificate jobs is no longer lucrative in this 21st century

What matters now is what you can do and not what you graduated with

No way! Even in the US. You must have a skill to survive

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Education / Re: My First Semester Result Without Any Expo (pics) by Shancca: 11:31pm On Apr 20, 2023
TradingGod:


Congratulations but don't put all your hope in that useless thing called certificate because that useless thing called certificate has made alot of youth to be absolutely useless to the society undecided

Best reply. Get a skill. If I had known!

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Travel / Re: Reasons I No Longer Have Interest To Relocate To America by Shancca: 2:50am On Apr 07, 2023
irumole1975:
Lol. Pls dollars should not come down o. Imagine getting #250k instead of #800k when we send $1000 home to buy cement to build our houses

This is poorly crafted and thought out. If dollar goes down, it means the currency is ubiquitous and people can actually access it without paying through their nose. This will balance economy and production cost, reversing the old prices of commodities to match fair purchasing power.
Politics / Re: Why Labour Party Can’t Prove Election Malpractices In Lagos – Robert Clark by Shancca: 2:39pm On Apr 05, 2023
YorubaNiBaba:
Obidaft ruling this country is a no no, even if he contests for 2000 times, he will never smell aso rock...... Sai Jagaban till 2031, wailing wailers go wail for another 16 yrs


Don't cry when they agitate for Biafra. Shey if I visit your house, I can still go to my own house in peace? That's the situation of Igbos in Nigeria. They are visitors invited by the Brits. They will soon go back to their house.
Politics / Re: I Have Been Doing Odd Jobs So I Can Invest Into My Music Career - Ozonna Soludo by Shancca: 6:10am On Apr 05, 2023
MICHEALADEX:
Lol... another lie machine from Anambra son of a former CBN governor and state governor doing odd job.

Lol... That was how one came and said he's been wearing 1 wrist watch for 17 years

And his bingos believed it

You and your likes bestow corruption on government officials. What were you expecting? If he do odd jobs to kickstart his music career, believe him and do not bend his current status thinking that him being the son of the governor is a no brainier for him to be commanding millions of public funds.

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