ImagineNation:
The list is endless

I literally trekked from ojuelegba to yabatech this morning.. On my way back from shoprite, I trekked to doyin

What is the way forward my people?

How has the ban on keke and okada affected your movement in Lagos?

Lagos residents only..

I do get to work around 8:10 or so,but today 9:45��� Na Monday own I dey reason.... It so unfair...it this the government they voted for?

I never expect what you are saying ooo it like you don't read you just erite...can't you see that she is truly pregnant and her family is ok to fund the bills.
2.she makes demand to get a different apartment you aren't reading between lines at all...
3.lola sign an agreement do you think she is a gold digger ni...well that your opinion or you think the writer too is dense as to not know whether someone is pregnant for him or not....

feelzie:
firstly....bro u goofed up for falling so cheap for her blackmail.....when she said she was preg....did u ask for d test result... d u see it with ur two eyes?.....secondly... da girl n her crew are runz babes....thats what they do... d plot to blackmail n wreck u started the first day u took em into ur apartment n they sharply estimated ur worth n saw ur potentials as a young man that they can mine.gold..from....omo.gold diggers....the first indication was when she started making demands over d pregnancy....omo 150k....on abortion that costs prolly 5k to 10k...n she saw ur first sign of weakness n vulnerability of da skim when offered to pay 100k ....instead of u to maintain ur covert hardened silence over d pregnancy format or stunt she wanna tro at u....now what to u do..first don't tell ur gf jezz yet....stall for sometime.....n then do a privy investigation ursef over Lola claim...or find someone good at it to dig in....n if she continues with d black mail threaten to arrest she n her criminal crew...cos all I see is Lola n her crew n prolly her broke boyfriend trying to cash out on u....omo Yahoo girls... jezz don't give en any listening ears Infact deny ever knowing her only say u av agreed to it....maintain Ur hardness don't play soft ..u wud see how d drama wud turn out... change d game on dem....but las las open to Ur gf make sure is like close to Ur wedding make e hard for her to say noooo....or nor forgive u...cos if u tell her now....she wud av Apple time to see season not to forgive u n move on...but if its like a week or 1month to d wedding tell her d truth... omo ladies nor dey use marriage play o...husband scarce o

Jeffmonti:
About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help!

This might turn out to be a lengthy read, please bear with me. The bashing and insults will be unnecessary as i have already told myself hurtful things a thousand times over.

So i am 29 and have a girlfriend who’s 25 we are both graduates; she’s a nurse and i am a practicing engineer and we’ve been dating for 3+ years now and preparations are underway to tie the knot this year God willing. Something happened last year, she suggested i move to a bigger apartment so that we can start buying household items and everything necessary to start a home as we are looking to get married soon which we did; i got a bigger place, met her parents she met mine. In a nutshell everything seems to be going well, we even started a business together and set to take on the future together before the devil struck (i take blames for my actions as i am not overly religious)

Around June last year, i met a girl (very fine girl) in the new area i moved to, although i have been seeing the girl around but one day as i was driving in i saw her hiding somewhere close to my compound avoiding the rain with her friends so i took them in until the rain subsided we exchanged contacts and started texting on WhatsApp a few days later. And soon after we started having sex (protected sex), prior to that time i never cheated on my girlfriend.

The sex continued, up to 2 times a week sometimes 3 as it was relatively easy as she lived very close and my girlfriend only visits on the weekend and never sleeps out (she’s from a very good and wealthy family with proper moral upbringing). Most evenings when return from work conji just do me one kind i don cross street other times she calls until we became comfortable having unprotected sex

So late October 2019, the new girl (I’ll call her Lola) texted me that’s she’s not feeling too well and i asked her to visit the hospital to run a test to know what to treat. She came back with a pregnancy test result proving she’s already 3 weeks pregnant, i was sure it was mine but i didn’t panic as she had a bf and i have my gf we were just for the sex at least that’s what we told each other.

So i asked her to remove the pregnancy, but got the shocker when she said she’s never going to remove the pregnancy that she’s 27 and have no desire to marry me or stay with me but she’s going to have the child. Omo my heart flipped. I begged her for like 3 weeks until she got mad and stopped taking my calls, she even moved away from her apartment. So i texted her and arranged a meeting, we sat down and discussed at length but she was still bent on keeping it, i got furious and told her i am not ready to be part of the child’s life if she’s going through with it as i see no reason why she wants to have my child when she knows we are NEVER going to be together, that was when she said she had already told her family that i am not interested in the child and they support her to keep it and let the child bear their family name. I discussed the matter with two friends a boy and a girl and the asked me to let her have the child first.

One month passed fast forward to early December, Lola called 6 times i was so shocked. I couldn’t take her calls. She texted that she’s ready to terminate the pregnancy since i am wicked and unconcerned she rained all manner of derogatory words but i was only concern with her decision to let go. I called and we agreed to meet the following day, I skipped work that day and met with her and her elder sister and elder sister’s friend. The sister and her friend were so mean but i was unmoved; i don already fuckup and ready to take anything to let it all go away because the knowledge of things will destroy my girlfriend.

So Lola entered my vehicle and we drove out, on our way to the hospital for her to terminate the pregnancy plus treatment she’ll take afterwards and for the damages i have caused her. She’s going to need 150k from me, i was furious and told her i don’t have that kind of money talk less of handing it over to her for something like this (i sure don’t know what i cost but i know it’s not up to 50k). She said if i don’t give her what she want she’s going to have the baby and that i should be thankful that she’s coming up with this that if she had listen to her friends advices she would have moved to my house with all sort of troubles (she was right) but i didn’t give in just yet. I dropped her off and ask her to have the child that am not going to give her the money as i don’t have it (I get the money sha).

So two days passed, she called again and after many arguments we agreed at 100k, made her to sign a NDA not to bother me again and all, I transferred her the 100k that night, she confirmed receipt and promised to go with it the following morning and that was the last I have heard or seen or her since then, until 3 weeks ago when another of her sister called from Canada and was asking if i am Me, that she’s been seeking my contact for a while now that Lola friend had to steal the number Lola’s phone and pass it to her as Lola has been hiding my phone number from the rest of the family and she doesn’t know the arrangement i have had with her but i should know that she’s having the child, she just thought i should know that i have a child somewhere when the baby eventually drops.

Knowing fully well that i am a shitty person to have done something terrible to myself and my girlfriend and all our future plans because of cheap sex, but I’ll be a more terribly bad person to have knowledge of a child somewhere and not be in his/her life. I called Lola but she didn’t take i texted her about her sisters call she called back to know who called and was furious, she ended the call (I guess to call her sister back) and called back again in about 20mins and asked me not to ever call her line again. I replied her text she should tell her family not call me as well. I have dodged to her apartment building a coupe times but she’s not been around for weeks as i was made to believe.

So i bought a ring to engage my girl few weeks ago but had to hold first to see how things play out, i can’t go ahead and marry my girlfriend with this kind of secret untold; that will be wickedness from the pit of hell and i still don’t know how to break it to her, it will destroy her.

I jokingly painted a similar scenery to my girlfriend; her response was: she will not marry me because if she does she will kill me in my sleep. That everybody is expecting us to get married this year, she now have high respect from her family because of me and this kind of thing happens both of us will die. Omo fear catch me.

Fellow Nairalanders, this is my predicament please advice a stupid brother. Insults are welcome as I hope to pick a thing or two from your comments. MODs please push this up biko.

First of all.you shouldn't have try to abort.
2.you should have been carefull using profile means during sex for issues like this.
3.who am I to criticize you but you had a gf who you can bleep anything you want in the weekend.
4.if she abort that baby and things get complicated nko you should have think about that too..(I have a bro friend that does that and the lady almost died landing the guy in cell kos the lady family aren't joking about the issue thank God the lady is alive if not it life imprisonment...
5.please it will be hard I know very hard find people your gf respect so much few people and tell them if she loves you she will forgive you can't say my if she will still date you but for the sake of what she herself as suffered to go through for you money wise and bashing in the weekend.
6.if you can date the lady better do please I mean the pregnant lady kos of the life if the baby.maybe she is destined to bear one...may God help us .

Daumandu:
Can This Lead To The Downfall Of Someone?

I just moved in to a bigger city and a better and bigger apartment. I co-rented a flat with a middle aged man.

Now here is the problem, in my business at least in a week, I attend to nothing less than 20 clients but since one month I moved to this apartment I have not seen a single client.

Any day I do my digital marketing I am sure to see at least 10 to 20 enquires but since a month I moved to the apartment no body ever chatted me up for business.

Today I had to withdraw the last 5k in my account. The least amount I ever had in my account was 20k now I only have 500. I am someone that always enjoy the grace of God in my business but now its as if heaven has turned it's back against me. I am seriously thinking of leaving the apartment.

Any Advice?

Something is wrong somewhere check your self

BOYLOVABLE1:
A lady send me a friend request on facebook since early last year which I accepted, from there we started chatting.

According to her that she's from India and she will love to marry, we talked a lot. I asked her so many questions about her and she said so many things that she a single mother.

After two months she went off and I also moved on. Just last week Friday, she appears again telling me that her account was hacked.

She has been sending me pictures also request for mine which I did send, she send both nude pics.

On Friday she also wants me to send mine which I declined. After much persuasion, I sent her my nude, she insisted that she wants to see my full unclad pic.
To cut the story shorter, immediately I sent her my full unclad pic, the next thing I saw was:

"You dey craze, I resemble your mate?". I should better comply or else....
When she is through with me I will know my myself.

I just weak, immediately I blocked her on Facebook. I think she wants to use my unclad pic to scam me. She has been calling me but I refuse to pick the call.

Please what will i do?

Don't mind mind my English construction.

You be fool ooo you sent nude pics.s someone you haven't meet before...

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

I would love beauty but love good behavior
I would love money but love good luck
I would love being famous but love good manners
I would love the eye but love the mind, don't be deceived...

Long story short.....I have a friend who lives with his 13 yrs old daughter...... Recently a female friend who is a neighbor called me and told me the little girl confided in her that the father is harassing her sexually.

I was shocked but sometimes I stay in there home I used to notice some funny moves but I couldn't place my finger on it cos it all seems to me like Father and daughter love.

I couldn't ask the little girl cos I wanted to have a proof. Recently I came visiting and he started that rough play as usual but because I was already tipped as a result I was at Alert. I quickly told him I was going to the shop.....But I didn't go anywhere I came back immediately and went straight to the window. I saw him bouncing untop of her. The expression on her face broke my heart she is not happy.

I called that female neighbor and told her what I saw.....we told a friend we all questioned the little girl she confirmed it to be true.


Now what do we do? We planned to confront the father is this the best step to take?


I just want him to stop.

please report with immediate effect you can save another soul through that

Etinosa1234:
Should I Use And Dump This Girl Or Not?

PLS I have an issue bothering me.
There is this girl in my class that likes me.. but I don't like her one bit. Yes she's fine and all that but the feeling is not jus there.

At first I jus wanted to bang her and break up with her but. I don't want to break her heart...I don't want to be seen as the devil in my class..

Due to pressure from her friends...I jus lied to her that I had feelings for her. Now the thing is paining me badly...

I know that this relationship won't last

I can feel you bro,presently having the same issue with my girlfriend ,I love her but we are not spiritual incline,want to let her go but the feeling of being the one that break up still Hunt me...

[q1uote author=Jwonder post=79819578]This was all she wanted! Fame..
They already set up a website and asking for donations from the gullible ones..
A virgin that was raped in her father's house with her siblings at home, she did not scream or fight (not even because of the forceful penetration), and still sat down and waited for him to go to his car to bring Krest, for her to drink.
Same man still drove you to lonely part of the road, came down from the car, brought you out of the car, took you to the boot, bent you over and bleeped you, you still did not try to run, scream or even fight.

And in less than 48 hours they already coordinated a protest, printed placards and everything, so fast! Wow!

Aunty i hail you!!!!![/quote]
may her ordeal fall on you if it the truth she speaks...can you say amen

talk as if you are in her shoes
would you say amen to the prayer that may your children be rape as she has been... may you be save ooo

WiLdFLame:
You are out of the church already. You snitch. What if this is what the traducers wanted. How can people be off point and unreasonable like this. How could you all condemn a man without trial in the court of law. Everyone has a past. Yes pastor Biodun Had bleeped Bukola but it’s not rape . If it rape then sue him . God punish all of una

All you foolish men..a lady could wake up one day because you are not in good book and accuse you of RAPE..how would you feel if people subject you to so much attack like this? Enh..the world ain’t fair. I feel like having a machine gun and spraying those misplaced protesters .. wetin concern una ? Person wey dem duck sef no sue..why judge on one side of the coin. Pastor are easy targets of blackmail because the position they hold is delicate. Nobody holy now.
I don Bleep 16 years old girl wey get body of 30 years old woman . Come and protest against me too you foolish Nigerians

BakireBulmaker:
Ehya
Warriors indeed!
May God heal and preserve you all and the rest of us.

yes ooo