Kingosytex:
As I be the only child wey my mama get, I go come marry and the agree with my wife not to have kids.
My ancestors will never forgive me.

but it’s your choice. Others might have a different view

Purvan:
Anyone that choose not to have kids has already been brain washed totally by western co'it and feminist values .


I see senseless men now going for vasectomy and young women removing their wombs and adopting stray puppies and kittens.

but isn’t it their choice?

Adachizzy:
OP, jokes apart, you can never have a happy marriage. Your head and mind is so messed up hence you can never believe anything a woman tells you, now or later. I pity whoever you’ll be with, now or later.
I hope you don’t have a woman too, cos if you do, you are no different from the girl you’re banging.
Also, going down with someone you just entered her room and mistakenly touched, you are so cheap!

shuuu. The woman no get control?

Urchman27:
Trusting Nigeria girl lol.
I was banging one on Sunday and she was swearing asking me not to share her with another girl that she will never Bleep another guy.guess what on Monday night she went and bang another nigga

giv us gist na. Y u go Dey hoard am

Battlefield2:
I have this neighbour,she lives opposite my Flat.....she is an average girl,jovial and all that

She has a fiance that is very insecure, I mean this guy calls her like 15times in a day, pleading the girl not to cheat on her and the girl keeps assuring the guy he won't

The reason I said you should never trust any lady is that I fvck this girl almost every time.
The first time was when I entered her room and I touched her,she told me she loves my hand that its so soft, and she pleaded with me to touch her again....ever since then,its bang, bang, bang.

She will call me,strip herself naked,plead with me to massage her body, I touch every part of her, I mean EVERY part, even places I know her fiance may not have touched and after that,its bang bang......then after we clean up,she calls her man, and they both do their lovey lovey stuff and then off to bed and I crash in my own apartment


Yesterday night was no different, the guy requested for a video call,they did their thing and bid eachoda goodnight and she begged me for the "touch" again....After that,I fvcked her and littered her bed with plenty cvm before picking my shirt and heading to my flat to sleep

This early morning,the guy has called again and they are busy doing their lovey lovey stuff again

Do not trust ladies......If you do, you are setting yourself up for immature death....I swear, MOST of them are hoes.

abeg anonymously text the guy. Save the guy. Or if you can’t just get the number and give me. You just act surprised. These girls won’t learn if we don’t teach them. Na so my own do me. I go Dey call weyre, after call she go collect dick. It took my 3 years to find out

TinubuShet:

The thing be say I do not want to give her the phone sef cos this girl never post me once and she Dey post other Guys and her argument be say , good boyfriend scarce make her friend no come snatch me that’s y she Dey hide me , imagine

hahhaha na scam oooo

Naijapolitics03:
Hi everyone. I'm a popular moniker on the Politics section, however, I am currently going through some turmoil in my marriage. I cant use my main moniker because of politics ish...

Few years ago (about 4 years now), I moved to Canada with an F1 Visa. At that point, I was only 28 and married with the woman I loved. We had a daughter. However, While I was in school doing my MSc, my wife came in the second year as a dependant, together with our baby. A little over a year, she started complainning about the mundane and boring lifestyle we were living in Canada. I convinced our stay in Canada is not forever, as I equally planned to move back home once I saved enough and had a child while we stay so the baby can be a citizen. Figured she could no longer cope, and perhaps the Winter wasnt really helping matter. Because of her, I wasnt staying in a Shared appartment and was paying heavily for rent, bought a decent TV so she could occupied herself with that while I am in school. Despite her mum's and family pleas, she turned deaf ears decided to move back to Nigeria, a situation I didnt find so comforting because I became terribly lonely after she left. I started working shortly after my program and made plan with her family to set her up in business in Nigeria.

Early this year, my guys back home started telling me how they often see her in club royale partying with friends. I didnt take this serious untill I started to noticed some strange whenever I called her. She stopped doing video call with me without reasons, and there are times when we would have plan to have some sexy talks on phone during the night and she would dissapoint. I asked her about the party things and she excused that with loneliness. I planned to go visit Naija by December because I missed my daughter and wife too, but tbh, I dont know the situation of things as I am scared my wife has probably been cheating on me. And I have not inform her yet of my coming home.

dont inform her of your coming. Surprise her, once you see her, just go through her phone. If she refuses to give you her fone, just know it’s a red flag

Nonsense product

humility101:
I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.

I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.

But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.

Advice me please.

let me advise u. When coming back, surprise her, dnt let her know you are coming back. Once you see her, check her phone then you will know if she is only for you. If she says her phone is private and doesn’t give you, just knack am den free am, Cus shez for us

sihamey:
Don’t blame them, UK system is designed in such a way you must be stingy and selfish to survive in UK.
The reason is that, they don’t really have much savings, they spend as they earn over there.
This UK stinginess didn’t start today, I started hearing it when I was small and since then I got discouraged about UK. All my relatives in UK are like that when compared with those living in US and Europe.
Op you will soon join them, the spirits of UK stinginess never hit you

a stingy person is a stingy person. No be country cause am. I understand when u charge for drop at work, na normal but that one wey the person wey pick am for tea station charge am na craze

DCmaverick:

yh

funny. Well, it’s your own reasoning. Just keep am to your self

Fedrick100:
Why would you stop greeting your mum.No matter what she’s still your mum

Buy that stuff you know she likes and go apologize to her, You still needs her blessings.

Mum prayers keep us going

una dey piss me off. So even if your mom wan kill you, u go still say no matter what she is still your mom

Milesbillions:
I was recently given an appointment letter to work as a sales officer ( Cashier) and mall attendant at a supermarket in Lagos. The starting salary is a little above 40k.

Ps: completed my Nysc february 2022.
And graduated with strong 2:1 from department of Zoology and Environmental Biology.

This offer that I was given entails standing for 13 to 14hrs from Monday to Sunday...the only time you are permitted to sit down is when you are selling ( Cashier).

Please I need your advice. Should I go on with the Job or continue looking for other opportunities.

God will help you. 2.1 graduate, little above 40k, 7 days a week. It is well

Jii95:
First, Karma is real.
Second, they will do same to your lady, be it wife or girlfriend.
Lastly, you're a dirty guy, sleeping with a loose girl without protection.

bro leave dat karma shit. Weda u do or you no do, dem go still knack all of us babe or wife

Tinubumustfail:
Earlier this year I met this beautiful damsel in one of the shopping mall as a cashier. I do come to the shopping mall every week because I have a business relationship with the MD and his Son managing the mall.

Fast forward, I collected the girl number and we keep talking and she told me plain that she is in a serious relationship and can't go into another one. But my goal is just to have and move away.

Fast forward, after few day, I invited her over, she refuse for several days. Later she open up and told me her ex stays in same compound with me. The compound is a twin four story building flat and I stay in the second building. She eventually visit me and we make out the rest is history. Now this lady sleeps in my house every week when she is on night shift. The mall closes by 10pm and where she stays is far. So from my house to the mall is N50, so she comes every week. But the funny thing is that, each time the boyfriend called her, she will tell him she's in the girlfriend place or at home.

This same act goes on for 4months until she finally got admission to continue her HND. Each time she visit me from school during weekend, she will still branch to see the ex to say hello. The ex have ask her who she knows in the compound and she lied her girlfriend they both work together. Wetin concern me, my own na to collect. At a point I start feeling for the main guy. She opens up that she has done all manner of crazy things with men. Infact she took in for me and hang it on his guy neck when I told her to keep it. What actually happen is that, she visited the main guy on Friday from school, they both make love, on Saturday she came to my place we make love and I come on her. Two weeks later she missed her period and visited me from school to tell me. I told her to keep it but she refuse. On Sunday she went to see the main guy and told him same thing that she is pregnant. The guy man was shock that he did not come on her how come. They both calculate when he met her, and it tally. Guy man abort the baby (God forgive me). And this is not the first time she is carrying out abortion she told me.


This girl has been visiting me often from school weekend and sometimes ordinary days and go back next day. She visit the ex too. She really love her guy so much I can attest to that, but if she do, how come she sleeps around with other guys?

Just yesterday, she told me she will be visiting her ex living in the same compound with me on weekend, that next week she will visit me. I was angry at her and ask her why is she still visiting her ex? Note they broke up due to Genotype. They are both AS. I started feeling for the real guy. Her boyfriend always provide for her, make her feel comfortable, send her money. I only give her food and transport each time she comes from school 3k. I have seat her down and let her know that even though am benefitting from it, is not good to sleep around. I have advice her but she won't listen. Mind you am only talking about the one I know, what about other guys she visit I don't know?

My conscience is not at peace. Should I tell the real guy, or should I let go of her and not communicate to her again, or should I just let her be. I just want to avoid her and have peace..

Criticism and advise is welcome.

anonymously text d guy

DannyG8:
Good morning ladies and gentlemen
I need your advice please no insult

I met a girl early this year we became friends after sometimes we started dating everything was going well we are both in love until till last week she told me that someone went to her uncle telling the uncle that he wants to marry her outside her own knowledge she then her uncle has been pestering her to stick to the guy

She told me about it according to her she done love the guy but her uncle was the one who train her because she lost her parents at a very young age so he (uncle) told her if she done get alone with the guy she should forget about her school

For me I done really know what to do because I am just in middle

The uncle is even forcing her to spend weekend with the guy and even visit him

What should I do

let her go

JOACHINpedro:
Na ₦3600 I spent . It was her birthday (Sunday). Took her to the museum bought her meat pie and Smoov, proposed relationship and kissed her when leaving the resort. Boom! Dating don start. This is our 4th day in relatinship

where is the museum located

VictorUSA:
Can you imagine?


I don't think money should matter in a relationship. What matters is the love a guy and a lady feels for each other. A lady shouldn't expect money from her guy and wait for him to pay for things for her. A relationship that money matters is a business and shouldn't be considered a relationship.



Victor Jalingo

Relationship sweet when you have money

Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

y will I marry her when I can find someone hu can read and write and still give me peace of mind

richeeyo:
As low as $73,100 that's offensive to me for calling that low

i tire ioo

How do people even give birth to 5 kids in recent times. It’s annoying

balaclava:

Life is unfair to you because you are destined for greatness.

Don't give up. Your time will come.

Believe.

i didn’t give up. I am now doing way way better than when I made this post. Thanks for this advice. It was just a low point in my life

Obavoh:
My wife put to bed 2 weeks ago.

My mother usually takes care of her but her aunty decided to come this time.

I usually have sex with my wife 2 weeks after she puts to bed. It pains her a little but I am very gentle with her. She knows I am not a cheating husband that is why.

Last night as I tried to make love to her, she was crying as usual. Before you know it, her aunty started banging the door and was shouting that I want to kill my wife.

I felt so embarrassed and went tried to explain to her that it’s not so. She said if I try it again she will carry my wife and children back to the village and will return her bride price.

She asked me to wait for at least 4 months before I touch my wife again which I promised her I will as I did not want her to report to my wife’s family.

What can I do? I don’t want to cheat on my wife and I don’t want to disrespect my Inlaw by sending her away. She is a nice woman but she is making me uncomfortable in my own home.

you sef fear God. Two weeks? You wan kill am?

shumoh:
A live in house help is currently needed in port Harcourt
Feeding is provided.

Salary is 15k, slightly negotiable.

Interested person can call or Whatsapp 08063730843

15k? Can you imagine.

You wan pay your fellow human 15k

northbird:


Yes, pick up at the parking lot and Not ARRIVAL.

Arrivals is monopolized by the airport taxis.

thank you

My cousin is coming into Nigeria soon and has no one to pick them up. Can Uber come into the airport and pick them?