James289:
Do what makes you happy. Your not living your life for your dad or your mom. Only you.

I'm also 25 and my boyfriend of a year and a half is 46.
Best decision I could have ever made.

yours is normal na

Ebenman:
I meant a lady, and we got talking. After we talked, she began to show interest in me, but she wasn't my standard, so I wasn't feeling the same way.

My standard is:
1. At least a graduate
2. Self-sufficient (earning something reasonable)
3. At most 5-6 age difference
4. Cool and understandable
5. Not short

This lady, in particular, is an NCE holder working as a teacher, earning little because of her level of education. She is just in her early 20s, almost 8 years age different from me. She is from a poor background and has 2 other younger siblings. She is also not tall and looks like an average girl.

She is very decent (a virgin) and loyal to me. I have told her severally that she is not my standard and I wasn't interested in her, but she refused to listen and felt very insecure. Maybe because I earn well and she knows I will soon get married.

She now comes to my house almost every weekend because I am very accommodating. Recently she has been telling me to delete the pictures of other females friends, in which I asked her on what grounds I should do that.

Note: I don't want to invest in a lady that is not my wife, and I am afraid her family will see me as a rich guy from which her other siblings can benefit if I proceed with her.

Should I block every contact with her, or should I forget about standards and risk and look at the good side?

Please advice

they won’t lower their standard for you. Do lower yours

StrongAlphMale:
And so I decided to go to the market tonight to get some food stuffs.

On my way towards approaching the market, a young girl in her mid 20s walked up to me and started requesting for Money that she hasn't eaten since morning. Of course I asked her where she was coming (normally e no concern me because I no Send) the girl then replied and said "she was coming from a program and that she hasn't eaten that she can make an order while I pay for it". I was shocked!! You wan order based on say na your papa wan pay bills?

When she saw I wasn't interested nor buying her ideas she went back and stood in the same spot waiting for another maga!

Nigeria girls Abeg what is wrong with you? Why the entitlement mentality?

she only talked about placing the order so you won’t think she wants d moni. Na d food she need. Bro, if you had, you for just place an

Trustedapparel:
Sorry nairalands this thing have been bothering me since,my cousin sister that came for holiday due to the ongoing ASUU strike have been masturbating all the time in our family house ,,,,fast forward to yesterday everybody left home , remaining only her ,,,,so I went to work the flood was excess it nearly cover our factory in bonsaac Asaba,so my boss recommend everybody to go home ,till further notice,,so I came back home ,only to see my cousin sister masturbating with Coca-Cola bottle ,,,,as she saw me she was very shock.....she has been begging me not to tell anybody.....she said she will do anything I want her to do for me.....I am confuse ..... does masturbation has any spiritual effect on person house ?or those it hinder any progress?mature mind please

wetin concern you. It’s not your business. Pretend like nothing happened

Fainom:
Good day everyone,My Name is Faithful pls I need help,I stay in Port Harcourt,but recently I am under a lot of pressure,I need to change environment to Lagos but I don't have accommodation,pls can someone help me�� let me stay for sometime ,I promise am a good lady,am not lazy am kind hearted,pls I need urgent help ���

you funny. Make person wey no know you from anywer carry you out for house. Just like that

Blessedmercy8:


Lol.. see your standard, prostitute. SMH.

I'm out!

lol funny
You no get talk. I don humble you for this debate. Many of girls today no be coded ashawo dem dey do?

Blessedmercy8:


Lower what standard?
Which standard una get?

One thing you should know is, women can do without men but you men can not do without women.

haha

If I hire a prostitute. A maid, a cook, and I have a child outside. What do I need a wife a gf for?

Una funny, sex is d only thing that makes women think we need dem. If men can learn to control their urges, they learn that they deserve more

Festus30:
I and this girl have been dating over a year. I took her serious, I've sacrifice a lot for her and it made me so heart broken when I noticed she cheated on me reason I almost took her life.

My girlfriend and I live in the same city (Mowe) but I traveled out of the city 2 months ago for work things (ibadan), so around last month she called me that her phone screen (Samsung) is broken, that she's just managing her phone and to fix it is 35k but she already have 15k so she's in need of 20k to complete it. So I sent her 21k.

Fast forward to Friday when I came back to mowe, I went to see her, I saw her holding iphone Xmax. I was like who gave you iPhone? She was just telling me lies upon lies. At first she said she swapped it, then I was like why didn't you tell me you bought iPhone and who gave you money to swap it becus you'll need over 190k to swap. To cut the long story short..

I later found out that a guy bought the phone for her. The 21k I sent to repair her phone, she repaired it and gave it to her younger sis.

I was so heartbroken. For a guy to buy her iphone that means she have been dating and having sex with the guy secretly without me knowing. She has been begging me, calling & texting since Friday but i didn't reply.

She texted me she was coming to my house yesterday. The only word I said to her since on Friday was to me in a uncompleted building close to my house yesterday, I have this machanic slege hammer, it's one of my tools I use for working, so I held it while waiting for her.

My plan was the moment she enter the building, just a powerful whiplash on her head and she's dead, I felt so cold inside of me, I also shaking while holding the hammer and feeling so heartbroken. Then I heard a deep voice inside of me saying "YOU WILL REGRET YOUR ACTIONS" (twice)

Then she called me that she's there, I already sighted her through the window, I came out and I told her to run away and never come back to anywhere around me again. She was still begging that she's sorry. And I said if only you know what I'm about to do, you will run.

She left, I just sat on the floor feeling so heartbroken.

you for just ruin your life because of one nonsense person. Bro, I have been in your shoes but this is life. E hard for girls to just dey wit one guy. As you see me so, if e happen again I won’t be surprised. I will just move to another person

Blessedmercy8:


What will make it end in disaster? Because she didn't complete her secondary education? Very lame.

For your info, its the highly educated ones that can't keep their marriages these days cos they are either forming too woke to submit to a man or have become too wild to be satisfied by one man. So you using her educational background as a yardstick for a bad and non-lasting marriage is warped and very wrong.

They will make a perfect home.

if the reverse was d case, will she marry him? See, men tend to lower their standards for women, but women won’t even give it a second thought.

Littlerabbit:
Hello Nairalanders I need a loan of 5k to support myself here I moved to new location few weeks ago no job yet
I have problems feeding myself and am losing weight due to
I can send my details on a dead thread if needed

tot they have loan apps

godofgidi:
Hello people,

Travelling to Canada by weekend via PR. Any ideas if covid test is required for boarding? Travelling with children, both adults fully vaccinated.

Thanks

I think they ended that stuff october 1st

na just time. Dem go still knack behind you

NaturalKinzzy:
Just like the topic implies, what's it?

playstation games. Now I don’t

Stephen2324:
Almost every guy has slept with someone’s serious girlfriend before let’s not pretend.

As you dey cheat on your babe with someone’s serious girlfriend, na so dem dey pipe your own babe too.

You’ll think you’re sleek but these girls are made of slime.

the one wey we no cheat on , dem still dey pipe am

Knows12:
Good morning bosses,
I saw the message below on my fiancee Whatsapp and she claimed the text is not for her and the sender also apologize after she she confront the man. although I don't believe her but the man who sent the message also sent her money when she was sick last week...
Note: I have not caught her cheating or having affairs with any guy..
I need advice.
Modified: The apologies comes after I confronted her and she have to message the man in my presence.. the man was sorry but I'm thinking it's plan work cus my gf is finishing her night duty truly on Friday..
But I'm confused because have tested her loyalty before, I even offered her over 100k with my fake Facebook and Whatsapp account..
She said she can't double dating cus she love her boyfriend.
Mynd44

i can bet my last card so dem dey straff

Sweetvie:
I love my privacy, i mean stay away from my phone
Am not hiding anything I just don't like been intrude. But if the husband is thinking something else i will gladly hand over the phone for him to check.
Husband can keep his phone i don't need to know what he is doing with it... Don't poke into mine and I will not poke into yours. But if you're married i think we should be free or be open minded abt it so as not to cause a misunderstanding

i really don’t understand this privacy thing with your husband ooo. Once a girl tells me her fone is private, automatically I go dey dat relationship dey find serious babe

BrightTips:
I have A Freind Who was part of the Institution student Union, He was into Fraudulent Activity while holding the post, after graduation the School was Aware of this Action, Can his/her degree be revoked?

lol na you, and yes, it can be if they want

kingthreat:
Today. I love my parents

we hate our parents

stastra:



7 seater leather furniture 95000
Four seater dining table 95000
2.8kva elepac generator 60000
home theater with woofer and 4 speakers 55000
center table 20000
4by4 bed with mouka mattress 55000
2center rugs 18000 each
5000 watts Century stabilizer 30000
Tv stand 25k
And more

Contact 09169168991 on whatsapp for more pictures

let me see a picture of the leather furniture

Chai, we dey suffer for Nigeria oo. So na 2006 car you wan sell for 2.4

Survivor2020:
My 17 years old brought shame to me last year she got pregnant, I have disowned her and sent her packing. She is staying with her boyfriend in his family home.
She gave birth 5 months ago she has been sick ever since she had the baby and the boyfriend doesn't have any money to take care of her. Plus the living condition is not suitable for her in her condition.
I have forgiven her and I want to take her back home so I can take her to the hospital for treatment but I don't want her to come with her baby . Please note there is only me and my 7 years old son at home. I work and my son goes to school till 5pm.
I don't have time to babysit the baby.
I want the father to take care of his child while I take care of mine.
I hope my decision is not bad?

better take the two of them.

bluefacealtima:


Sorry o! My wife was busier than the devil, yet she cheated or is cheating

be like you dey condone am

Messi1:
Nigerian men are always concerned and obsessed with women's virginity.


In other parts of the world like USA and UK, women's virginity is not a matter of concern, hence my question.

y are nigerian women concerned about finances

Candycrushy:
A guy is traveling abroad and is promising his gf that he will come back and take her along, marriage and all that…does it truly work??
I just need opinions…

why you still dey ask. You will cheat. You just wan wyne us

Bossmanmoves:
For a while now, I've been hearing people condemn the act of masturbating and linking it to problems that they face in their life ( I consider it to be funny ).

There's nothing wrong with you masturbating, it's a healthy habit. If you are the RELIGIOUS TYPE, you have problems with it because of your beliefs and the guilt that results within is as a result of YOU THINKING YOU'VE DONE WRONG!!!

Try to practice healthy masturbation as there are no negative sides to it ( The only negative part to it are the ones you create).

If you have something to do with your life ( something useful) I don't see how masturbating would be an issue.

I do it three times a week and it doesn't affect my work. It makes me even sleep better at night and even in the afternoon. I drink lots of water when I'm done and I feel so relaxed afterwards. It is a nice way to let go of that sexual tension.

I'm not your TYPICAL CHRISTIAN but I'm happy with the way my life is. I pursue meaningful things that add value to myself and masturbating has never been in my way.

My advice is if you are in a tough place in your life and you are masturbating, don't think it's the reason you are there just look for the real problem and address it. Stop blaming poor ol masturbation.

addiction is in stages. I was once like this,

Good. I support you

Ronaldo723:


That girl fresh sweet pussy wey I miss disvirgin they pain me die

dem no dey save toto ooo, scatter and Cus once she leaves, d next guy dey uproot am

Ronaldo723:
I have come to discover that almost 9 in every 10 Nigerian girls is a h*e or a potential h*e..


There was this virgin girl I was dating I didn't really care to straff her we were just dating, the day I wanted to straff her, her tom tom was too tight so had to leave it...

Fast-forward to a month now we haven't seen only for me to see this girl yesterday after a brief romance I fingered her and my 2 fingers went in smoothly I was shocked I'm yet to taste the coochie but I know deep down that the choochie has been smashed ...


Must all Nigerian girls be hoes? you reading this as a Nigerian girl have some dignity on yourself that was a girl I wanted to take serious,I'm even regretting I didn't disvirgin her when I had the chance but guess what now I will just take my share and move on

u dey pity toto

Weyre it will benefit you

laluski:


How can you tell her to go on what he marriage, what kind of stupid answer is that...a guy is digging the grave of your sister and you're helping him to pack the sand...seems your brain is paining you, akamu

digging grave how? Una sef ehhh

There are many options
1) Choose not to have kids
2)adoption
3) Test the embryo before putting them back in
4) during pregnancy, test for the genotype of the child, if it’s ss you know what you’ll do

Now tell me how they are digging her grave

Robb4b:
Hello guys!!
Yesterday my ex came to visit me. She was looking somehow sober. Though, initially she didn't want to tell me the reason why she wasn't in a cheerful mood.

After many talks and persuasion. She finally opened up that her boyfriend stopped talking to her because he found condom in her bag. She said the condom was for protection against pregnancy, and it's for incase her guy doesn't have cd, so she can give him.

I asked her why didn't she tell the guy from the start that she always walk around with cd in her bag, she said she forgot to tell him.

So guys, if you were in the boyfriend shoes, will you break up with her or you just react and forgive her??

PS: She also came with cd yesterday to visit me.

i sure say as u see am too you collect your share. Bad guy